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Porn is destroying men?
http://yourbrainonporn.com/

Apparently, there's a lot of dudes out there with a porn addiction, or ED that's porn related. All these guys on this website talk about quitting porn and jerking it and finding out that their libidos literally explode.

I sorta think that the reason why there's so many women out there for the alpha type dudes to pick up is because there's a shortage of sexually available/easy beta providers. Society is definitely fucking those dudes.

Apparently porn addiction can also be cured through quitting porn entirely and "rebooting". There's a huge number of withdrawal symptoms and lots of benefits to quitting.
I have resolved to quit both masturbation and porn until I notice a difference, which they say can take weeks.
03-30-2012 01:54 PM
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RE: Porn is destroying men?
My withdrawal symptom is finding women attractive again.

When you're jerking every day, or multiple times a day, women still look good but you don't have this deep biological urge to impregnate them.

When its been 4-5 days since I looked at any porn or wanked, it goes into overload. I couldn't help but keep kissing this great looking chick last night. I just keep staring into her eyes. She definitely was digging me.

Its always been my opinion that quitting porn will either help you or hurt you. It really depends on the person. If you've got your shit together, but you just lack a strong urge to approach, do kino, or close, quitting entirely or only doing it once a week should pay heavy dividends. If you're nervous/awkward already around women, don't have problems with initiative i.e you're a poor sap who wants to get laid badly but doesn't have much looks/game/style, I think quitting porn would be a horrible idea.

I've only gone at most 5-6 days. Its clear that things change a lot, as looking at porn when you finally do, its 100x hotter. Its amazing how much can change in just a few days.
03-30-2012 03:32 PM
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RE: Porn is destroying men?
(03-30-2012 03:32 PM)_DC_ Wrote:  My withdrawal symptom is finding women attractive again.
This is the only withdrawal symptom I've experienced.

I go from can't be bothered with women to being quite willing to bang a 5 (but only if it's strange).
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(03-30-2012 03:32 PM)_DC_ Wrote:  When you're jerking every day, or multiple times a day, women still look good but you don't have this deep biological urge to impregnate them.

Odd. I don't have this problem.

I jerk off regularly once or twice a day. When I come into contact with an actual girl I'm attracted to, however, I have absolutely no problem maintaining my (rather primordial) urge to impregnate them. That urge is strong enough that I wrote about it here. Porn hasn't really raised my standards either-if anything, I'm a bit more likely to lower them while viewing porn so long as a few other factors are present.

I feel for guys who derive these issues from porn, but I can't understand where they're coming from. Perhaps I'm unique, but it just hasn't caused the same issues for me as it has for them.
Then again, I don't watch a lot of mainstream American porn (read: produced in LA, hot but fake contract models, big cameras/sets/etc). That could make a difference.

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RE: Porn is destroying men?
I will add that there is one definite downside: you WILL come quickly.

For me personally its not a big deal. Sometimes I literally have zero refractory period. If the girl is hot and you haven't jerked it in 6 days, I have no problem pumping away.

Another possible way around this would be to quickly rub one out in the bathroom once the chick is at your place.
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(03-30-2012 04:28 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  
(03-30-2012 03:32 PM)_DC_ Wrote:  When you're jerking every day, or multiple times a day, women still look good but you don't have this deep biological urge to impregnate them.

Odd. I don't have this problem.

I jerk off regularly once or twice a day. When I come into contact with an actual girl I'm attracted to, however, I have absolutely no problem maintaining my (rather primordial) urge to impregnate them.
Lemme guess. Early 20s?

Give us an update when you're in your 30s how jerking off 1-2x/day affects things.
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(03-30-2012 04:28 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  
(03-30-2012 03:32 PM)_DC_ Wrote:  When you're jerking every day, or multiple times a day, women still look good but you don't have this deep biological urge to impregnate them.

Odd. I don't have this problem.

I jerk off regularly once or twice a day. When I come into contact with an actual girl I'm attracted to, however, I have absolutely no problem maintaining my (rather primordial) urge to impregnate them. That urge is strong enough that I wrote about it here. Porn hasn't really raised my standards either-if anything, I'm a bit more likely to lower them while viewing porn so long as a few other factors are present.

I feel for guys who derive these issues from porn, but I can't understand where they're coming from. Perhaps I'm unique, but it just hasn't caused the same issues for me as it has for them.
Then again, I don't watch a lot of mainstream American porn (read: produced in LA, hot but fake contract models, big cameras/sets/etc). That could make a difference.

How old are you? That could make a difference, as it never was a problem in college for me.

I'm in my upper 20s now. And yes, I watch the fake stuff with the perfect 10s!
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I argue abstaining from porn is only healthy if you already have some sort of rotation. It takes whatever level you're at and can make you a little more aggressive. You're more sexual aware (in regards to yourself and women).

To those guys who think it'll "cure" AA, they are largely mistaken.
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(03-30-2012 04:40 PM)Docter Wrote:  I argue abstaining from porn is only healthy if you already have some sort of rotation. It takes whatever level you're at and can make you a little more aggressive. You're more sexual aware (in regards to yourself and women).

To those guys who think it'll "cure" AA, they are largely mistaken.

Agreed. Its definitely no magic pill.

I don't have any severe form of AA, but I do have a severe form of apathy if I'm regularly jerking it.
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(03-30-2012 04:31 PM)_DC_ Wrote:  How old are you? That could make a difference, as it never was a problem in college for me.

I'm in my upper 20s now. And yes, I watch the fake stuff with the perfect 10s!

In college right now.

While age is obviously going to be a factor, moving away from the less organic mainstream productions should help you to. This doesn't mean go watch BBW porn, but it does mean check out some more amateur/semi-pro stuff. It is a lot easier to get it up for the average non-plastic, cute but not perfect/super-freaky 6-8 walking down the street when they're all you watch most of the time anyway.

It'll also help with some of the unrealistic dick size expectations guys get from porn. Watch enough foreign/amateur stuff, and you'll never get the impression that a) 7+ inches of dick is the norm and b) you need at least that much (preferably more) to please a girl.

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RE: Porn is destroying men?
I think influence of porn is good because you learn a lot which you would likely not learn alone girls can imagine your desires and you get in state of increased horniness which can be sometimes beneficial for pick up(although the post coitus state is in my opinion the best for pick up because you have the release of power and power in full with a paralell above view of women situation.I mean it is the difference of approaching food while being hungry and while being satiet full in second case you do it with more class.
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I'm porn jaded. I'm literally bored at 95% of porn now. Watching a girl give head on camera? ZZZzzzz.....I now only look at tasteful stuff like kindgirls.com. In fact that's the only site I even look at anymore because I just like to see pictures of natural and very beautiful women.

I sometimes go to efukt.com just for shits and giggles but that's more of a shock site than a porn site.
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(03-30-2012 05:09 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  I now only look at tasteful stuff like kindgirls.com. In fact that's the only site I even look at anymore because I just like to see pictures of natural and very beautiful women.
Wut?? No ATM or cumfarts? How is a man supposed to get off to this.
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(03-30-2012 05:09 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  I'm porn jaded. I'm literally bored at 95% of porn now. Watching a girl give head on camera? ZZZzzzz.....I now only look at tasteful stuff like kindgirls.com. In fact that's the only site I even look at anymore because I just like to see pictures of natural and very beautiful women.

I sometimes go to efukt.com just for shits and giggles but that's more of a shock site than a porn site.

Same I like it natural and raw. The more sex I have the more I like the amateur stuff.

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Frankly, I've never really cared for the more extreme stuff - the gagging, the cum farting, the ATM, or even chicks licking nut up off the floor, etc. I get that there has to be different niches of porn, and I guess there is an audience that really NEEDS that kind of thing to get off, but I don't think most guys are really turned on by it. It's a curiousity, but they wouldn't necessarily want to do those thing to or with a chick.

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(03-30-2012 06:39 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  Frankly, I've never really cared for the more extreme stuff - the gagging, the cum farting, the ATM, or even chicks licking nut up off the floor, etc. I get that there has to be different niches of porn, and I guess there is an audience that really NEEDS that kind of thing to get off, but I don't think most guys are really turned on by it. It's a curiousity, but they wouldn't necessarily want to do those thing to or with a chick.
I once saw a porn in which all the scenes involved women putting whipped cream or ice cream into each other's asses and eating it out of there.

Not gonna lie - I fapped to it. redface But never watched it again.
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(03-30-2012 06:48 PM)assman Wrote:  
(03-30-2012 06:39 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  Frankly, I've never really cared for the more extreme stuff - the gagging, the cum farting, the ATM, or even chicks licking nut up off the floor, etc. I get that there has to be different niches of porn, and I guess there is an audience that really NEEDS that kind of thing to get off, but I don't think most guys are really turned on by it. It's a curiousity, but they wouldn't necessarily want to do those thing to or with a chick.
I once saw a porn in which all the scenes involved women putting whipped cream or ice cream into each other's asses and eating it out of there.

Not gonna lie - I fapped to it. redface But never watched it again.

If you haven't already seen it, one of the HOTTEST chick-on-chick scenes I've ever seen is in "Caligula." It's the scene where these two chicks are spying on Caligula though a little hole in the wall while he's fucking with his wife and sister, and they get inspired and go at it. It's a truly erotic scene.

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I`ve been beating it to this vid on the regular for a good 3 years now: http://www.cakefarts.com/

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Quote: Agreed. Its definitely no magic pill.

I don't have any severe form of AA, but I do have a severe form of apathy if I'm regularly jerking it.

+1

I have found the website mentioned by the OP to be a good starting point though. It is definitely an issue for men of the 21st century and a reason why skinny leg jeans are becoming increasingly popular.
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(03-30-2012 08:19 PM)scotian Wrote:  I`ve been beating it to this vid on the regular for a good 3 years now: http://www.cakefarts.com/

*fap fap fap fap*

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(03-30-2012 08:19 PM)scotian Wrote:  I`ve been beating it to this vid on the regular for a good 3 years now: http://www.cakefarts.com/

Maybe it's me but seeing a puckering asshole expelling flatulence does not get me aroused.
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(03-30-2012 01:54 PM)Hades Wrote:  Apparently porn addiction can also be cured through quitting porn entirely and "rebooting". There's a huge number of withdrawal symptoms and lots of benefits to quitting.

The main problem with addiction is that some people are destined to have an addiction. Their brain is just wired this way. This is why the majority of people cannot cure an addiction by simply getting rid of it, they need another addiction instead, hopefully less harmless. And porn is pretty harmless addiction, with calluses being the worst consequence.
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(03-30-2012 08:19 PM)scotian Wrote:  I`ve been beating it to this vid on the regular for a good 3 years now: http://www.cakefarts.com/

uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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(03-31-2012 01:19 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  
(03-30-2012 08:19 PM)scotian Wrote:  I`ve been beating it to this vid on the regular for a good 3 years now: http://www.cakefarts.com/

uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

hahaha, guys it was a joke, but for anyone who is actually interested in seeing hot chicks fart on food, there's also this site: http://www.meatloaffarts.com/

I remember when I first saw this with a bunch of guys at work, we couldn't stop laughing!

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(03-31-2012 01:35 AM)scotian Wrote:  hahaha, guys it was a joke, but for anyone who is actually interested in seeing hot chicks fart on food, there's also this site:

I remember when I first saw this with a bunch of guys at work, we couldn't stop laughing!

I think I just vomited a little inside my mouth
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