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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
So I completed No Nut November without porn or masturbation but I did have sex 2 times with a girl I have been seeing. I guess you wouldn't consider it completely 'No Nut'. I am conflicted because I want to turn my life over to God and rejoin the Catholic Church but that would also require me to give up pre-marital sex with this girl. It will be hard to explain to her my Come to Jesus moment and that I need to abstain from sex after I have been banging her regularly this past year. Hopefully, I will figure that out.

Other than the sex, the no porn/no fap has been great in that I feel my energy levels increasing, but the urge is insane. I get constant sexual fantasies of chicks I see passing me by. I realize my lustful thoughts are a product of watching porn for the past 17 years, which has caused serious programming to my brain. Each day that goes by without porn/masturbation, I feel like I am detoxing my mind and returning to a normal healthier state.
12-01-2019 05:33 AM
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(12-01-2019 05:33 AM)Mortay Wrote:  I get constant sexual fantasies of chicks I see passing me by. I realize my lustful thoughts are a product of watching porn for the past 17 years, which has caused serious programming to my brain. Each day that goes by without porn/masturbation, I feel like I am detoxing my mind and returning to a normal healthier state.

I feel you on this one. It's frustrating to see women dressing so immodestly. Yoga pants are somehow now acceptable to wear virtually anywhere. It's very tough for me not to visualize or fantasize when you can see every curve front or back.. Makes me feel like a perv but they're the ones wearing them. Oh I forgot it's because they're so "comfortable" as opposed to sweat pants or a skirt/dress. I wonder if they dress like hookers so that a "chad" will pick them up for a quick fling? Or maybe its just a slutty arms race they feel obligated to compete in..?

Guess I have to train my attention and willpower. Feels like hardmode but what can a guy do. Especially at the gym.

Maybe its a west coast thing but girls have no class anymore.
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12-01-2019 10:43 PM
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
(12-01-2019 10:43 PM)forestdweller Wrote:  
(12-01-2019 05:33 AM)Mortay Wrote:  I get constant sexual fantasies of chicks I see passing me by. I realize my lustful thoughts are a product of watching porn for the past 17 years, which has caused serious programming to my brain. Each day that goes by without porn/masturbation, I feel like I am detoxing my mind and returning to a normal healthier state.

Guess I have to train my attention and willpower. Feels like hardmode but what can a guy do. Especially at the gym.

Ya, the gym is the worst. True testament of will power.
12-02-2019 02:22 AM
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(12-01-2019 05:33 AM)Mortay Wrote:  So I completed No Nut November without porn or masturbation but I did have sex 2 times with a girl I have been seeing. I guess you wouldn't consider it completely 'No Nut'. I am conflicted because I want to turn my life over to God and rejoin the Catholic Church but that would also require me to give up pre-marital sex with this girl. It will be hard to explain to her my Come to Jesus moment and that I need to abstain from sex after I have been banging her regularly this past year. Hopefully, I will figure that out.

Other than the sex, the no porn/no fap has been great in that I feel my energy levels increasing, but the urge is insane. I get constant sexual fantasies of chicks I see passing me by. I realize my lustful thoughts are a product of watching porn for the past 17 years, which has caused serious programming to my brain. Each day that goes by without porn/masturbation, I feel like I am detoxing my mind and returning to a normal healthier state.

If she's wired the kind of way that makes her good LTR material and you have strong enough frame game to be the kind of person women want to follow it will work and that's best. Otherwise she won't and that is also what is best.
12-02-2019 11:51 AM
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They want to hack your family tree into decline, with no chance of ever saying good bye.

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Don't be the end of your family line.
12-03-2019 01:39 AM
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12-03-2019 07:59 AM
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in the spirit of transparency....I relapsed (porn) the past two days. The reason for my relapse is that I did not have a plan in place for the situation.

The trigger: Alone, feelings of sadness/boredom

Next time I feel an urge. I will do 15 pushups and prey for strength. I will write.

Porn is here to weaken us. It is conditioning us to find pleasure in watching another man achieve our biological prerogative. It activates the same brain pathways as coke. It's so obvious to me that this is a habit that leaks into all other areas of life.

Bleeding your dopamine receptors one day at a time.

Keep picking back up when you fail.
12-04-2019 10:22 PM
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Anyone experienced a loss of sexual desire? I'm a month into nofap/no porn. I was expecting an increased sex drive due to lack of release but the complete opposite has occurred. I simply have an extremely low sex drive.

Is this common?
12-05-2019 12:22 AM
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I believe porn is a major attributing factor for the rise of homosexuality, trannyism and pedophilia. Watching another man's dick (who's smv would likely be higher than the porn addict) enter a woman's vageen or more and more these days, anus, can't be healthy.
Also, as the statistics say; watching porn frequently means your body becomes more and more used to the dopamine rushes so the porn has to become more and more extreme to achieve the same high, hence the step to gay porn and ultimately, child porn.

It is pure unadulterated evil which is illegal in Israel.
12-05-2019 03:56 AM
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(12-04-2019 10:22 PM)Mikeyd03 Wrote:  The trigger: Alone, feelings of sadness/boredom

One thing I'm learning is that when we relapse, the reason is rarely that "we're horny." There's always bigger causes. Hungry, angry, lonely, tired (HALT)...there's usually a negative emotion you're dealing with that leads you down to porn.

For many (myself included) we use porn as a pain reliever. As a way to numb out from the pain of daily life.

It then becomes clear that to avoid porn, we should become stewards of our mind and avoid negative emotions altogether. Or, at least recognize when they're coming so we can find other ways to fight back.
12-05-2019 07:41 AM
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(12-05-2019 12:22 AM)Snag87 Wrote:  Anyone experienced a loss of sexual desire? I'm a month into nofap/no porn. I was expecting an increased sex drive due to lack of release but the complete opposite has occurred. I simply have an extremely low sex drive.

Is this common?

I am about 5 weeks now. First few weeks, my sex drive was running wild. In the last two weeks, I've noticed a major dip. It's almost like I have forgotten that sex is even a thing. I don't think about it much nor do I get horny. I attribute it to staying busy with work and gym, exhausting myself out so when I get home I can just go to sleep really fast. It's been great using my energy on productive things and not wasting it on sexual fantasies.

The only issue is when a girl appears in my presence. I still get the split-second sexual fantasy or the head jerk body scan when she walks by. She doesn't even have to be a 7. The good news is that I'm starting to catch myself and I can consciously make the decision to not react whereas before it a was automatic thought.
12-07-2019 02:48 PM
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Yup. It's as though I'm slowly becoming asexual. Quite empowering when interacting with women. Their beauty has no emotional sway
12-07-2019 07:31 PM
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Yes loss of libido is normal. Don’t listen to whatever the media tells you. There’s this often cited statistic that if you don’t jack off you’ll get prostate cancer. I highly doubt that. They just want an excuse to keep you chained to your lust. If you’re meant to cum, you’ll have a wet dream. Trust God.
12-07-2019 08:02 PM
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