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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
Fell.

My problem isn't porn anymore which is great.

If I fap it is only to plates I haven't banged yet which is also great because they are the goal.

My biggest hurdle is sleep I can't sleep all night after a few days of no fap no sex. It can ruin my entire next day. I'll wake up in the middle of the night with a raging boner. Least it means my T levels are probly high...

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01-30-2015 12:53 AM
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(01-30-2015 12:53 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  Fell.

My problem isn't porn anymore which is great.

If I fap it is only to plates I haven't banged yet which is also great because they are the goal.

My biggest hurdle is sleep I can't sleep all night after a few days of no fap no sex. It can ruin my entire next day. I'll wake up in the middle of the night with a raging boner. Least it means my T levels are probly high...


Are you sure that's the reason?

It seems to be a bold statement blaming no fap/sex as the reason you can't sleep and that your days get ruined..

Right now I am not fapping, I'm just banging rotation girls so perhaps I can't understand how that feels. But I know I've been 3-5 days before without a bang and I don't notice any sleep disruption.
01-30-2015 02:18 AM
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Jerked off again after 11 days, bah, do it to my heart's content, will do it again tomorrow.

At least I lasted 4 more days this time.

It's all about dopamine and adrenaline,
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01-30-2015 06:02 AM
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A lizard turned out to be a dead end; wandered into the Black Hotness thread once more.

Back to Day 1.

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(01-24-2015 07:57 PM)The Reactionary Tree Wrote:  So, when doing NoFap for several days, whenever I take a big poo, a little jizz leaks out of me. I'm assuming it has to do with pressure from the bowel movement being applied to the prostate when I go.

Has anyone else have this happened to them (that they are willing to admit Laugh )?

Ever heard about milking the prostate? You can massage most of the jizz out without actually cumming through your anus (the big piece of poo could do the trick). The funny thing is, you won't be able to cum after them for some time before some extra jizz is produced.

Does massaging a jizz out of your system without cumming count as a fap?
01-31-2015 06:07 AM
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(01-31-2015 06:07 AM)CaptainCrazy Wrote:  
(01-24-2015 07:57 PM)The Reactionary Tree Wrote:  So, when doing NoFap for several days, whenever I take a big poo, a little jizz leaks out of me. I'm assuming it has to do with pressure from the bowel movement being applied to the prostate when I go.

Has anyone else have this happened to them (that they are willing to admit Laugh )?

Ever heard about milking the prostate? You can massage most of the jizz out without actually cumming through your anus (the big piece of poo could do the trick). The funny thing is, you won't be able to cum after them for some time before some extra jizz is produced.

Does massaging a jizz out of your system without cumming count as a fap?

Oh I am aware of milking the prostate. I was wondering if anyone else here experienced a similar thing.
01-31-2015 10:30 PM
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Lanky...

I literally have never had a girl I can sleep peacefully next to. I usually bang her 2 or 3 times randomly when I wake up horny... knowing pussy there does it to me.

Yes it is real for me.

I am actually thinking when I want to get more work done or improve my skills at hobbies I am better off fapping. No fap destroys my quality of sleep as I am in and out of lucid sex dreams constantly and during the day I am extremely frustrated if I am not free to go out and approach near constantly.

My father is 72 and I catch him watching softcore Showtime porn once in awhile.

My uncle is even older and makes dirty remarks about 20yo girls...

On an average night to get good sleep I fap once before sleep and once in the middle of the night again when I wake up. Best sleep I get on those nights with crazy vivid dreams esp. when I take ZMA.

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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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This post is my commitment to completely quit porn. It does nothing but make me weak.
02-02-2015 02:16 AM
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Do not be weak be strong like tiger.

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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
02-02-2015 02:17 AM
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I fapped yesterday, approached some girls at the supermarket, got rejected I still don't give a fuck

So I think I will put no porn and no fap on hold until I'm done with the drinking wagon, one thing at a time.

It's all about dopamine and adrenaline,
everything in life is about drugs.
02-02-2015 06:51 AM
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After pretty much doing this for the past few months (going for a week or two without porn/fap and then caving), I have come to the conclusion that it is ultimately the porn that is really bad for you. I fapped the other day but did not feel like a broken dog. The difference was this time I did not use porn. I have not had porn in probably 3 weeks or so. I notice that even if I do masturbate, I don't feel that shame. I think that I ultimately feel better when I have not masturbated for a few days. I feel drained for a day or two after masturbation.

While I have not completely abstained from the fap portion. Though, I have abstained from the porn portion for a few weeks now & I feel pretty good about that. I have greatly lessened the frequency at which I fap (no more than 2-4 times a month). That is great considering in the past, there would be times where I would do it twice a day, sometimes more.

Even though I still masturbate every now and then, I feel pretty good about the progress I have made and how I feel overall.
02-02-2015 07:41 AM
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(02-02-2015 07:41 AM)The Reactionary Tree Wrote:  After pretty much doing this for the past few months (going for a week or two without porn/fap and then caving), I have come to the conclusion that it is ultimately the porn that is really bad for you.

Agreed. I first tried no fap/no porn about two years ago and came to the same conclusion. Jerking off to porn left me feeling weak, empty, and apathetic-and these effects carried over to the next day or two-while jerking off to memories of bangs past generally only made me sleepy, and I'd feel fine the next day.

I'm apt to believe sites like YourBrainOnPorn when they emphasize how similar watching porn is to doing cocaine:

Both habits stimulate a huge release of dopamine into the brain, and the brain's neurons respond by lowering the number of dopamine receptors (a type of regulatory feedback intended to maintain healthy levels of neurotransmitters in the system). After a few rounds of this, the addict finds it progressively more difficult to achieve the same "high," needing more and more stimulation each time. Eventually, the brain pares off so many dopamine receptors that it's difficult for the individual to even get back to a baseline feeling of normalcy.

Porn is surely as much of a super stimulus as cocaine, so it makes sense that the brain would adjust over time. And while jerking off to mental stimuli likely provides its own dopamine boost, I'd venture that it's a much weaker response, one that doesn't seem to result in the same feelings of lethargy and depression as watching porn.

After much experimentation (and several relapses), I've found my personal sweet spot to be once-a-week masturbation without any external stimuli. If I'm getting laid that week I'll even abstain from that. This is just enough to prevent my horniness from running rampant, allowing me to focus on my work and reducing the risk of a relapse. I feel much healthier (and enjoy sex more) now that I've eliminated pornography, and I've found like masturbation-like many things in life-is best used in moderation.
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Fell off the wagon.

I guess it was cabin fever/bordem from being snowed in for the last week.

Whatever, I made it almost 60 days. I've done this several times before, I know I can stop doing it...I just always stop being disciplined after a while. That's what needs to change.

Thankfully, Im about to launch a new project that's going to keep me busy for the next few months. I'll dusty off my copy of Think and Grow Rich! and refresh on how to harness that pent up energy and direct it towards the project.

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02-02-2015 06:26 PM
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I've been screwing up this whole month. At least once a week. I haven't looked into getting a porn block for Internet Explorer which is where I have been going since I can easily block chrome and firefox. When you start up again the release is painful afterwards, not sure why.
02-02-2015 11:06 PM
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Fell off the wagon on Day 12, Fuck! Starting another 30 Day goal today. Deleted all the porn off my computer this time.
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How do you guys manage blue balls? i mean, when you go out to clubs or date some girls that are conservative and they let you kiss or grope them, but don't get you get far away.

I had endure it, when i'm busier with other stuff and not getting so much action, but this days i'm on vacation, dating a couple of girls who didn't want to put it up. I had to masturbate at day 10, the pain was real, even the orgasm didn't feel good.
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fuck it I'm starting no fap!!!

I've been jerking it way too much lately. No motivation to approach or even go on Ok Cupid in forever. I'm barely finding the desire to go fuck my girl (honestly, I could do way better than her, but I can rawdog pussy and drink free beer whenever I want).

I want to become a lot more consistent in my game life, right now I get motivated for a few weeks, line up some pussy, and coast on the 1 or 2 fuck buddies I can keep around, once they get stagnant I start looking again. This is mostly online game which I want to change. Work is going to be very busy in a few months so I'm going to try and work on getting consistent (not necessarily numerous) fast lays and doing night/day game when im out.

Hardest part will be managing sexual energy and not jerking it due to routine.

That being said 1 final fap before I begin. I'm aiming for a few months with no jerking it and maybe investing in a sex toy like a fleshlight or a tenga egg down the line -- and avoiding porn -- because whenever I jerk off now it makes me last forever when I'm with a real girl.
02-03-2015 10:54 PM
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(02-03-2015 10:54 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  That being said 1 final fap before I begin.

The first time is the hardest to resist, don't do it! I was tempted earlier and didn't. Wound up going out and feeling great, getting a couple approaches in. Know from experience that fapping would've set me back days in approach drive.

True story, for me at least - the times when I said, "This one time will be the last time" it never was. The times when I said "Fuck that, I'm not jerking off today or the rest of this month" it was.
02-04-2015 02:14 AM
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I'm back, and I'm not falling off the wagon this time. Literally, Doctor's Orders.

I've been struggling with ED (only for new girls ...) for a little while now and it's become debilitating. Confidence was shot, it's all in my head. Doctor's given me a few doses of Cialis and if I ever go back to porn I'm basically asking for ED to come back.

I'm in my late-twenties and feeling like my dick doesn't work (even when I'm with a hot new girl) has been the most deflating experience of my entire life.
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(01-30-2015 09:04 PM)Impulse Wrote:  A lizard turned out to be a dead end; wandered into the Black Hotness thread once more.

Back to Day 1.

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LMAO the dreaded Black Hotness thread again!!
02-06-2015 05:47 PM
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2 week mark
02-07-2015 11:36 AM
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I fapped to porn twice last week, first time after seeing this really hot picture about a girl and second time to get some sleep. However, I haven't fapped during this week at all and I only have a slight urge to watch porn again. Beware not to fap to porn, especially twice in a row, since it becomes really tempting to do it again and again.
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Was going strong for 10 days but fucking blew it this weekend. Back to day 1.
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Was reading that ROK article about some UK feminist bullshit which had a chick who killed herself over a false rape accusation. Her tits were amazing so set my mind into a porn seeking mode. Gave in.
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Day one.

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