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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
Hello Gentlemen.

As far as I know, this is my first post.

I've decided to come to THIS thread specifically out of all the incredible wealth of discussion on this site because of what happened yesterday.

I hadn't had sex in a YEAR. I was cranking it sometimes up to 3 times a day. I'm 37...I thought that was supposed to slow down?

Long story short, I had what should have been the most amazing sex of my life yesterday. Got a girl to come over to my place and she was hands down the nastiest, kinkiest girl I've ever been with. Just unbelievable.

And.....I couldn't cum. I felt like an absolute dumbass. Here it was, everything I'd been dreaming of and lusting over for god knows how long....this girl sucking my dick and screaming as I fingered the wettest pussy I've ever felt....and I couldn't even blow my load. Fucking hell.

Not sure if I'll ever get another chance with her. Probably not. I'm trying to not get all hung up on it, but goddamnit, it stings. It'd be like offering a starving guy a steak but he already filled up on boiled cabbage. UGH.

I can only assume my problems are my daily wank sessions. Well, I don't want to ever miss an opportunity like that again, so I guess this is where I start right?
03-09-2015 06:57 AM
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I've been doing this since late December. I've noticed the past few weeks that I don't get many of those 'random' boners during the day.

In fact, sometimes I go a whole day without a boner, unless I'm seeing a chick.

Now, I'm pretty much busy all day. School 8 to 18, gym hour and a half, then home to eat, read, play guitar. Rinse repeat.

But I'm getting a bit worried... I'm 23 and spontaneous insta-boners should still be a pretty regular thing right? Or have I approached the dreaded flatline?
03-09-2015 02:51 PM
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(03-09-2015 02:51 PM)DarianFrey Wrote:  I've been doing this since late December. I've noticed the past few weeks that I don't get many of those 'random' boners during the day.

In fact, sometimes I go a whole day without a boner, unless I'm seeing a chick.

Now, I'm pretty much busy all day. School 8 to 18, gym hour and a half, then home to eat, read, play guitar. Rinse repeat.

But I'm getting a bit worried... I'm 23 and spontaneous insta-boners should still be a pretty regular thing right? Or have I approached the dreaded flatline?

You're levelling out but you're levels are still high and strong. a decrease in the random ones is normal unless

I started seeing a strong drop off at 27, did a cycle of test for gym gains and also raising my test level, which got up to 3500 range according to my bloodwork, normal range is like 200-600-1000 on the high end. After my post cycle therapy was over I've had a way easier time getting and maintaining - but I still wouldn't be able to go like 3 times a night everynight like the early days.

Its all part of the aging process. You're still in the glory days for a few more years though. Get some sleep, healthy diet, do some excercise, and no more pr0n
03-10-2015 12:49 PM
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Starting day 1 again
03-11-2015 01:37 AM
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(03-11-2015 01:37 AM)Erasmus Wrote:  Starting day 1 again

Same here. I need to be careful, even when browsing RVF. I saw the thread about the Oregon State University babe and it was all over.
03-11-2015 12:19 PM
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Damn,I feel like I am there as well!

I get boners in the morning to be honest, but outside of that it's pretty flat. I think it's still there generally but I don't seem as horny as I used to be.

Although that's not necessarily a bad thing. Less time spent focusing on pussy and more on other things.
03-11-2015 04:02 PM
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I've restarted several times since my last post in this thread. My willpower disappears at day 7 every time. any advice on how to break through that seventh day? Or is this why Roosh said limit to once a week?

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03-12-2015 05:04 PM
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Day 1

I went back to fap and I felt the symptoms come back.
03-12-2015 11:55 PM
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I'm still going for the Lent NoFap but goddamn I came close last week.
I was away celebrating my birthday and the couple in the room next to mine went at it all night. Of course I could hear everything through the plaster walls.
Part of me wanted to bang the wall like a sonofabitch but the other part of me didn't want to fuck with another guy's mojo during. Eventually I rolled over and just went back to sleep.
   
03-14-2015 10:58 AM
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Day 1 of this NoFap shit. I'm going the straight ninety days or I'm a pussified omega with no willpower.
03-25-2015 12:53 PM
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I've reached a new assessment of no fap and how it affects me.

No fap makes me perform better in life. This includes game, sports, corporate meetings etc. I have more of that fire.

No fap makes me perform worse in bed. Yeah I get titanium boners, but its like a loaded gun with a hair trigger. Its like im too excited. I bust extremely quickly and find it hard to get to my usual rhythm, and I wake up the next morning even hornier and slightly frustrated. If I fap maybe two days prior to the sex I'm nowhere near as ancy and perform much better. However I don't have that same life "fire" that a week or more without will do to you.
03-25-2015 03:24 PM
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Hoping tonight makes it Day 2
03-25-2015 03:46 PM
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(03-09-2015 02:51 PM)DarianFrey Wrote:  Now, I'm pretty much busy all day. School 8 to 18, gym hour and a half, then home to eat, read, play guitar. Rinse repeat.

Gym hurts me the most with this with all of the eye candy. Thinking about not renewing my contract at my local gym so I can save $$$$ and some sperm cells and just going to my gym at the military base (which is about 75% male and the rest made up of average-at-best girls).
03-27-2015 11:56 AM
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Day three and feeling strong.
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03-27-2015 01:28 PM
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(03-27-2015 11:56 AM)MdWanderer Wrote:  
(03-09-2015 02:51 PM)DarianFrey Wrote:  Now, I'm pretty much busy all day. School 8 to 18, gym hour and a half, then home to eat, read, play guitar. Rinse repeat.

Gym hurts me the most with this with all of the eye candy. Thinking about not renewing my contract at my local gym so I can save $$$$ and some sperm cells and just going to my gym at the military base (which is about 75% male and the rest made up of average-at-best girls).

I'm all about saving money, but why not use the opportunity for a little gym day gaming?
03-27-2015 04:57 PM
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I'm going to join this too. Not suggesting my willpower is not great but set up a ton of web filters. There is a feature on chrome where you can toggle whether or not the filter works incognito... I haven't found away of permanently disabling that yet... One of the filters requires a password in order to change the settings. The password is completely random so I can't remember it. I haven't found away to disable incognito yet. Even if I did find it it won't matter as I use Safari anyway..

Enough rambling from me. This is definitely a goal to do.
03-27-2015 05:27 PM
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As part of Victor Pride's 30 Days of Discipline, it's been 8 days since I jerked off or looked at porn. This is pretty significant for a guy who has had access to internet porn since adolescence.

I've noticed that I can be more "present" when talking with people.

Eye contact is also easier to make and maintain with confidence. Jerking off to porn in the darkness of your room every night, alone, kind of makes you feel like an anti-social troll. Breaking free of that has felt like a relief.

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03-27-2015 08:01 PM
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I've failed all over the place trying to limit myself to once a week. I've recently lost motivation, and I think it's the porn, which I couldn't limit to once weekly, it became much more than that. Been without for 3 days, and I'm getting frustrated at my lack of motivation. Quickly looked at some porn without doing anything, felt my boner grow, and motivation return.

Being stimulated by a digital medium is fucked up. For a moment I was debating wanking, even though I know that it would totally kill my desire to go out tonight and hit on some chicks in a challenging environment. Part of me wants to turn back the clock 20 years, before such a thing was commonplace, and just game like mad all the time.

03-28-2015 07:43 PM
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I'm on day 7 and my desire to game have decreased this week.
03-29-2015 02:27 AM
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I need to stop randomly touching my dick. Still going strong, but I seem to do it for no reason and it brings up a lot of temptation.
03-29-2015 03:37 PM
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(03-25-2015 03:24 PM)HonantheBarbarian Wrote:  I've reached a new assessment of no fap and how it affects me.

No fap makes me perform better in life. This includes game, sports, corporate meetings etc. I have more of that fire.

No fap makes me perform worse in bed. Yeah I get titanium boners, but its like a loaded gun with a hair trigger. Its like im too excited. I bust extremely quickly and find it hard to get to my usual rhythm, and I wake up the next morning even hornier and slightly frustrated. If I fap maybe two days prior to the sex I'm nowhere near as ancy and perform much better. However I don't have that same life "fire" that a week or more without will do to you.

This is my problem. I have been researching taoist sex practices and unfortunately the only way around this is to quick build and nofap one day prior instead of no fapping for 3 days. It is a technique where you deliberately edge yourself to arousal but you don't ejaculate. You do this repeatedly until you feel a somewhat full (but not bloated or congested) feeling in your pelvis. You are priming the pump and triggering your seminal vessicle to fill up more quickly and produce more semen.

I have not tried this in a while as it takes an obviously large amount of willpower. But you can simulate a 3 day no-fap successfully if you get good enough at it. And it also trains you not to explode during sex. So you are getting the benefits of fapping without the sacrifice of the energy lost during ejaculation.
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Fell off the wagon last week after finding this czech casting porn series, made hundreds of links and bookmarks and probably masturbated more in one week than I had the past year. Big mistake, had a date sunday night and the sex was good(I take viagra thank god) but could not climax, the babe was satisfied but said she felt like she wasn't doing her job.

This just underscores the importance of no fap. Actually, I think it is important to not fap to excess, or do anything to excess. It can really throw you off.

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03-30-2015 02:53 AM
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Here's something to take into account for those that do watch porn-

Those are some of the most thirsty people/guys in existence. Look at the comments section and try not to be disgusted with yourself.
03-30-2015 06:23 AM
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(03-29-2015 07:15 PM)GlockTrigga Wrote:  
(03-25-2015 03:24 PM)HonantheBarbarian Wrote:  I've reached a new assessment of no fap and how it affects me.

No fap makes me perform better in life. This includes game, sports, corporate meetings etc. I have more of that fire.

No fap makes me perform worse in bed. Yeah I get titanium boners, but its like a loaded gun with a hair trigger. Its like im too excited. I bust extremely quickly and find it hard to get to my usual rhythm, and I wake up the next morning even hornier and slightly frustrated. If I fap maybe two days prior to the sex I'm nowhere near as ancy and perform much better. However I don't have that same life "fire" that a week or more without will do to you.

This is my problem. I have been researching taoist sex practices and unfortunately the only way around this is to quick build and nofap one day prior instead of no fapping for 3 days. It is a technique where you deliberately edge yourself to arousal but you don't ejaculate. You do this repeatedly until you feel a somewhat full (but not bloated or congested) feeling in your pelvis. You are priming the pump and triggering your seminal vessicle to fill up more quickly and produce more semen.

I have not tried this in a while as it takes an obviously large amount of willpower. But you can simulate a 3 day no-fap successfully if you get good enough at it. And it also trains you not to explode during sex. So you are getting the benefits of fapping without the sacrifice of the energy lost during ejaculation.

What about if you were having enough regular sex? Surely then it would not be an issue.

If its like a random one night stand less then every month then its going to be an issue, but i would imagine if you were banging one chick even if it was just a link up a few times a month, it shouldn't be a problem.
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Started the no porn diet and now I'm on day 24...I know that because I found the big thing that helped me that I wanted to share was before bed (when I used to get to it), I mark my calendar with "Day X" on the next day. Helps reinforce the progress, and got me through those moments of weakness.

So tonight for example, I'll add an event for tomorrow called "Day 25" just before getting into bed (totally abstract in case anyone gets a look at my cal at work, in meetings, etc.).

Hope that helps, and good luck gents!
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