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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
@Day 23

The good:

- Banged the 2nd new girl since I started this experiment (first two weeks I had visitors so couldn't game or bang). The sex wasn't as amazing as I imagined although she was really cute. Felt like more of a relief than anything. Got more dates planned for the weekend.

- Getting spontaneous boners here and there when I see hot girls. Haven't had these since I was like 21. This is pretty cool!

- I already had a deep voice to begin with but it's even deeper now.

- Feel powerful and taller than before when I enter a room.

- Generally noticing attractive girls more and really appreciating their good points. Was marveling to a friend how our waitress had such a nice bust compared to her thin arms. Before I'd barely register the waitress at times.

The bad:

- I almost got in a fight last night. Long story but let's just say that a drunk kid tried to steal my jacket in a bar. I completely lost it with him and went outside to clock him but eventually calmed down enough to control myself. In the end, I just berated him and told him to do one. For the record, I was still completely sober. I am not a fighting guy at all so this was very out of character. It's as if some beast inside of me has woken up and it's not all that pretty.

- I definitely feel more angst and stress than before. I'm hoping this will fade in time but it sucks at times.

- To be honest, my sets went worse than usual last night. Maybe just an off night, but no magical effect to be honest. I got blown out quite a lot although I did a lot of approaches but let's not make judgements based on one night. Will update on how things go in the next few weeks.

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I haven't been counting the days, but it must be over three weeks now
The temptation is pretty huge especially as I don't have regular tail to tap just at the moment
And at times I'm very unproductive as I have sex on the brain not quite 24/7, but not far off it either!
But there's other times, when I'm very lucid and alert and focussed, and no question about it, I am definitely getting attention from chicks I wasn't before
From chicks in my workplace giving me the eye, or randomly chatting to me out of the blue (this never happens!), to being out and about, am getting more attention from women, and have noticed am chatting to women much more easily in my daily interactions and have got a few leads I can follow up on
Was away at the weekend and closed in effortlessly on the cutest girl in the club, the SNL didn't materialise as logistics got the better of me in the end, but didn't bother me too much, was really struck by how something I used to find so difficult, came so easy to me (could be due to the No Fap thing, or could just be due to me being more confident these days)
Either way, the results are positive, so am doing my best to hold out for as long as possible, and see how far I can take this
11-18-2013 02:16 PM
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@Day 28

The good:

- Laid the 3rd new girl since I started this experiment. Admittedly not the hottest (maybe a 6) but she is extremely keen and hitting me up to meet again. She is already talking about the kinky outfit she wants to wear for me next time...it's as if she is in disbelief I'm even interested.
- One of my regulars blew me and it was absolutely epic. Definitely one of the best BJs I've had in a long long time. Funny because it wasn't the first she has given so I know it's got something do with NP/NF.
- During sex I feel more able to just enjoy the moment and sensations with the girl in front of me. Previously I often had to think about something else (such as porn or a hot ex) to get off.
- Apart from the one threesome where I only lasted 5 seconds (long story lol), my endurance has been just right. Not too short but not long either. It's as if I have more control now whereas before it took me forever to finish banging a girl.

The bad:

- Had a really lame date last night with a girl I'd cut contact with for 6 months (she is cute but I was just being lazy). I got friendzoned despite having already banged her. Go figure. Stupid me thought it would be an easy repeat lay. I should just focus on new prospects instead of dead leads like these.
- Sleep isn't good and I'm tired as fuck from all these dates. I hope this improves soon.
- Because of the lack of sleep, I am literally forcing myself to hit the gym. Had the most horrible workout the other day and was in pain days later.
- Having to restrain the instinct to be needy with my regulars. I am usually quite aloof but now want to see them more often and I'm concerned this could be a turn-off. Note to self: get more regulars.
- Just really really tired right now.

All in all, it's no magic pill to success with picking up but I'm definitely enjoying sex more than I was. I'm going to stick with this.

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11-20-2013 12:53 AM
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I should get back on this.

There are a couple issues that come to mind:
- I don't have a main girl at the moment
- I'm taking zinc and magnesium oil daily

Sure you could say it would increase my motivation to go out more and make more of an effort to approach and pull. But at the same time if I don't pull those two nights I go out that week I am going to go nuts. When I did this early in the year and went for 80 something days, I wasn't yet taking zinc and magnesium oil. My sex drive is insane.

Any ideas?

Edit: Also just remembered I started juicing over the past week or so. Prior to that I had virtually no fruits/veggies in my diet. Now I have all these vitamins and minerals coming in that might be having a factor as well.
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11-26-2013 09:20 AM
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So boys. I have a story.

I started taking magnesium supplementation to help with my asthma, which it worked miracuosly well for, and after those noted benefits, I upped the magnesium dosage and started cycling my creatine again.

Well, the combo (maybe it was just the magnesium being upped?), made lifting feel awesome, made me feel a lot more motivated, and made me feel horny as fuck. I'm talking the most horny I have ever felt in my life, and I am currently 24.

So, I was getting horny to the point of feeling like I needed to jerk off/fuck, so, I turned to porn which was never a problem with me, I'd boot it up probably once a month, so it didn't really matter to me, so I got off on porn. I know boys, I've advocated not watching porn/masturbating before, but I consider it a tool to be enjoyed sparsely now a days.

I busted the biggest load I ever busted, and that day I jerked off two more times and had sex...

I continued this combo of jerking off/sex, every day, watching porn and having sex, for almost a month now. Even days I had off and wasn't having sex, I watched porn.

How did this effect me?

I felt the most underconfident I've felt in a long time. I've never felt so insecure, anxious and weird, since I was a youngin' in high school.

I felt like I wasn't worthwhile for other women, and kept avoiding many situations with them.

I felt like I didn't have the confidence or motivation to do school work, construction work, or even hobbies I normally enjoyed. I was more interested getting my next fix of masturbation, or reading articles that had nothing to do with anything.

And lastly, and the worst, was that I started to become very feminine in my interactions, and mixed with my anxiety, made me feel even worse.

For lack of better wording, I over did it on masturbation, and felt like I temporarily lost my manhood.

I've gone back to only having sex (not watching porn) and abstaining from jerking off, and if I feel like I absolutely have to, it's in the morning and there are no visual aids. I feel confident, outgoing and motivated as fuck, and when I bust loads, they are fucking huge. I am still taking my magnesium pills and taking my creatine, but I'm just abstaining from jerking off hardcore even though both seem to have made me feel really horny lately.

Now, I'm not certain of the science behind why I felt so fucked up during my mass-masturbation time, but, I know how I feel now, compared to then, I felt the most effeminate I've ever felt. This is a hard lesson I am not taking lightly.

Happy gaming boys, just thought I'd share my perils of mastrubation story to you.

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40 days here, feel great, did some approachs last night in an department store, the first girl totally ignored me and glued to her phone, the second gave me a stare like I ate her puppy or something. Before I'd feel pretty down about something like that, now I just assume she's socially retarded and move on. The third girl, she passed the boner test and she seem interested but I bailed a little too soon.
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11-29-2013 12:10 AM
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So I fapped to porn, lasted 42 days on no porn and no fap, my highest record. Well, back to day 1 and aim for 90 days now.
12-01-2013 07:59 PM
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@Day 40

The good:

- Been having wild monkey sex with the main girl. Banged her 2 times last night then woke up at 7am with morning wood (pretty much never have this), did her again before I went to work and then again during lunchtime (I live close to work). This is pretty crazy by my standards.
- I now have 4 girls I am pumping on the regular (2 before this experiment).
- The obsession with sex during the day has passed. Felt very focused and positive during work last week. It's as if my brain has calmed down from all the under-stimulation or something.
- Moods are better. Not feeling the aggro I had before.

The bad:

- Nothing really. It feels like I have finally adjusted to this. I don't even feel tempted to look at porn although I admittedly wasn't much of an epic porn viewer anyway. I did have a bad habit of thinking about past girlfriends (sometimes even during sex...) which probably wasn't too healthy. I also realize now that there's pretty much no reason to fap if you are getting regular sex. Maybe I will make this a permanent change in lifestyle.

For those of you who are sceptical, just try it out for 30 days for yourselves. If anything, it's a good exercise in self-discipline which will be useful in other areas of your life.

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12-02-2013 12:53 AM
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I'm going to give this another go. Day 1.
12-02-2013 08:33 AM
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I'm on day 2 of no fap.

I've been an avid porn viewer since 7th grade.

When I masterbate I usually can start jacking off hard to finishing in about 3 or 4 minutes. I have noticed during sex that I always want to cum around that same time and I think its because I've trained myself to do it that way.

Once I get past that 3 or 4 minute mark during sex I can usually last a really long time without cumming. The only downside is sometimes if they girl doesn't talk dirty or turn me on enough I start to go soft.



The last time I didn't masterbate for 4 days was when I was with my family at my dads lake cabin. When I got back to town I had sex with my girlfriend and literally came in about 2 minutes. It was fucking laughable.
12-04-2013 12:03 AM
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Day 1 again
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I have been on and off no fap for almost two years now and i can confirm without a shadow of a doubt that it works. Here's an excerpt from my r/nofap post from a while ago when I completed 7 months of no ejaculation successfully.
"For me nofap was more of a psychochemical Improvement. I used to be your typical socially awkward 20 years old boy, but I developed good habits and changed for the better. Nofap changes you, believe everything else you read here, you really do feel like a Super Saiyan

Some of the most notable Changes I saw after the 40 Day mark:

Best sleep of my life, as though I was knocked out cold.
More energy and eagerness to move, I used to get restless to go to the gym
Best gains ever, gained 8lbs of muscle and minor definition around my abs
Mental stillness and zen-like calm
Diminished approach anxiety (like, almost none) and willingness to socialise And the most important one :
Colossal female attention everywhere I went.

edit :I'm surprised not many people speak about the physiological changes after long term nofap, the testosterone rush is beyond every drug

Plus, more , but I threw it all away. I met this girl and we fooled around, one thing lead to another and it was all over. I went back to my old ways of staying in and fapping 3-4 times a day to weird anime. I feel so fucking ashamed writing all of this, in some of my 100 day report I managed to motivate some of you on here, but now I've fallen. My old habits are back, I eat total shit and haven't seen the inside of a gym for 4 weeks now. My social anxiety is back, I tremble at the sight of a beautiful woman and I'll look for excuses to stay home and play video games.(on that note, I finished GTA5 in 3 days). I spend my days in absolute misery and uncertainty. I feel so lethargic and spaced out all the time. I'm on day 3 right now, still too ashamed to reset my badge. It's a blatant reminder of what I used to be. I urge you all to stay strong, giving up is absolutely not worth it, please dont throw it all away for a few seconds worth of empty pleasure."
Currently I am on day 5 and I hope to surpass my previous record.
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12-04-2013 11:04 AM
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Just lock him up and use Emla numbing cream if you need to tard . It works for this guy here: http://sheknowswhatsbestforme.tumblr.com...deo-before
12-04-2013 12:28 PM
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The only thing that scares me about this is when I do have sex I'm going to cum in about 2 minutes.

I think when I regularly masterbate I don't cum nearly as quick but if I dont get a piece of ass for a week and I don't masterbate that whole time I think I will cum really quick.
12-04-2013 11:38 PM
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The 2 minute thing only happened to me once so far but I think I was still adjusting. Now I feel like I can control my timing a bit better, if anything. I just slow down a bit if I want to hold off. Sex has really been great since I have gone on this.

42 days in and I'm not even tempted to watch porn or fap. I definitely feel more "manly". It makes sense when you look at alpha/beta males in apes. The alphas are fucking, not fapping.

Commit to only cumming in (or on heh) a girl and good things start to happen.

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12-05-2013 07:02 AM
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I wonder how your body can tell the difference between fapping and fucking?

Serious question.
12-05-2013 07:30 AM
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Went 6 days...caved on day 7. Damn, I'm ashamed of myself.

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12-05-2013 11:14 AM
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Been ages since I posted. Just recently hit 500 days. I have another Vlog in the works, will post it here when it's done.
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(12-05-2013 11:14 AM)Biz Wrote:  Went 6 days...caved on day 7. Damn, I'm ashamed of myself.

I need to delete Instagram

I feel you.

Don't sweat it, man. I've failed at this mission more times than I can count. There's no shame in setbacks, only in giving up.
12-06-2013 12:30 AM
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For you guys who can't even last a few days, you might want to change your approach.

Something that BB mentioned in the "no alcohol" thread (and is discussed in Allen Carr's books about other addictions) was that you should target your beliefs, not just your behaviors to change habits. I think this applies to No Porn/No Fap too.

If you rely on willpower only you are just torturing yourself. Plus, you will eventually just fall back into what you were doing before.

You need to change the way you think about porn (I'm concentrating on that because it's much worse than just fapping IMO) if you want to be free of it. You need to destroy the desire to watch porn. Ask yourself questions like these:

Does porn ever stop you from going out and picking up girls?
Has sex been worse because you watched too much porn?
Do you feel energized after watching porn? Or fatigued and demotivated?
Why do you get off on watching other men bang girls?
Does porn bring you any benefits at all?

Imagine yourself in third person watching porn with your iPhone, or worse, fapping to ex's photos. What a ridiculous scene that is. With any luck, that will demotivate you.

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(12-05-2013 07:30 AM)cardguy Wrote:  I wonder how your body can tell the difference between fapping and fucking?

Serious question.

Oxytocin comes to mind although other hormones are involved during sex. I'd imagine that going raw multiplies that effect as more fluids are exchanged. Or let's put it another way. If the body couldn't tell between fapping and fucking, then evolution should have weeded humans out of existence by now...

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(12-05-2013 06:57 PM)AntiMediocrity Wrote:  Been ages since I posted. Just recently hit 500 days. I have another Vlog in the works, will post it here when it's done.

Fuckin' hell! How do you feel?

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(12-05-2013 11:14 AM)Biz Wrote:  I need to delete Instagram

seriously, thats basically all it is for me, I follow all of these random hot girls that post, porn stars that pose as fitness models on Ig, random girls from Tinder and what not. For me Ig and Tinder have become my porn, but I can ignore it easily. I quit looking at porn a month ago, it wasn't hard to do, but I still fapp almost daily, usually in bed to go to sleep.

So f*ck it, going to try this, today is officially day 1 for no fapp.
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12-07-2013 09:34 AM
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I made it 5 days. I knew this girl was coming over and didn't want to bust quickly so I jacked off the day before to assure I wasn't too thirsty.
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@48 days

Haven't had sex in a week. Really feeling the horniness again and have hit up all my girls. My schedule is packed for the next 7 days.

Had the first real urge the other day. Saw a photo of an ex, tanned and in a bikini. She was such a fucking bitch when we dated but amazing sex, tight pussy and stunning. Stunning as in, the kind of girl where your friends can't shut up about how hot your girlfriend is...

This photo brought a flashback of all that and my dick responded in kind but I kind of laughed to myself and carried on with my day. The longer this goes on, the more I see how betaness is linked to this shit...in the past I would have jerked off thinking about her (or other exes). Sometimes this would even creep into sex with other chicks. That's obviously not a healthy pattern and it's good to break it.

Better to live in the moment, not the past.

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