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Speed Dating Datasheet
Back in January, I met some guy in his late 30s at a networking event. We got on the topic of dating as he was single, and he told me about his experiences with speed dating. Basically he said if you just show up and are normal and decent looking, you will kill it. I've always wanted to try it, so I thought why not. I've gone twice now, so here is a summary of what it was like.

First and foremost, if you are ok with banging 6s and lower, you will almost certainly have sex as a result. 7s were hit and miss, and nothing higher than a 7.5 showed up either time. This is not a means to find a girlfriend, to up your quality level, or to practice your game on models and lookers. But if you are in a slump, down in your queue, want to practice your game, or just horny for some sex I can't think of an easier way to get leads from committed, single and horny girls than this.

Company I used one called pre-dating. I'm sure if you google it you can find out more. There are a lot of companies, but some of them are shady and I don't think work well. This was the one that was recommended to me by that guy.

Go to the site and look up events in your area. I chose the ones with the youngest age group for girls. Obviously you will have to tailor it to your age. The good thing about this company is that you can continually check to gauge the level of participation by guys and girls. It says "room available", and then it goes to only a few spots left, to then waiting list. At first I thought this would be a good way to judge how many girls would show up (i.e. if girls said "waiting list" then it would be at capacity) but oddly enough the waiting list event I went to had less girls (they flaked) than the one that didn't fill up online. So I would just use this to make sure the male spots don't fill up.

Arrival They'll email you instructions. When I got there, I would go to the bar and get a drink. First time I went with a friend, so we chatted. Second time I went alone so I found a few guys and chatted with them. Here's something that I accidentally did that worked wonders for me - I ordered a Goose Island Matilda beer and the bar served it to me in a wine glass. That was an instant conversation starter with a lot of girls as I went through the night. This may be a good way to just stand out in general when going out. Ask for beer in a wine glass.

Anyway, you arrive, register and after everyone gets there you get ushered to the area where you engage in the speed dating. You are assigned a number and girls sit the whole time, while guys rotate after 6 minutes with each girl. One thing I cannot stress enough - try to scope out the girls beforehand at the bar and as you are walking over to the area. The girls all sit during the actual event, so you cannot see their asses, thighs, stomachs, etc. I was tricked a few times by the unexpected fattie.

Girls Nothing above a 7.5. Sadly, it can get down to something like a 1 or a 2 - I'm not joking either. There was a cross-eyed obese girl, and a manly Asian woman with a square jawline, facial hair and actual hair like Jamie Foxx from Booty Call. It's really unpredictable who shows up, so you cannot be sure of quality. The first time I went, it was really good. Of the 12 girls there, I would have banged 7 of them. The second time, of the 14 girls there, I would have banged maybe 2-3. Cute girls do show though, so I think it is worth it.

Personality wise it is all over the place. From drunk party asian sluts, to video game nerds, to gymnasts, to yoga girls, etc. Also very important, is almost all the girls come with 1 or 2 friends. Rarely did a girl come alone. This leads to some problems if you choose two girls that are friends, which I did. For some reason a lot of girls were attorneys.

And of course, there will be fatties. At least half are fatties both times. But the good news is the thin ones turned out to be bangable and decent looking.

Also, these girls are "pre-qualified" in that they are single, usually horny, and obviously have trouble dating. They are there to actually go on dates, so the flakiness usually associated with getting numbers, etc. is quite minimized.

Guys Completely and utterly no competition whatsoever. Both times, there was maybe a total of 2-3 guys that had any semblance of style or game. They are the type of guys that never talk to girls and cannot hold conversations. It is absurd. I'm talking those engineer types. I've heard guys say to these girls "I've never talked to so many beautiful girls at once in my whole life." The coordinator had to come and talk to one guy about it being ok that he messed up talking to a girl, as he wanted to go back and have another shot. It's almost sad. So if you have any decent style and conversation, you will blow them away. I dressed as I would for going on a date or night out.

The actual speed dating You get 6 minutes with each girl, and then you move to your right to the next table. You are given sheets, and you note if you want to see the person again or not. I never crossed off my decision there, but did so at the end. Just make notes though because after 12-14 girls you get confused as to who's who.

The girls will be either 1) drunk so they are not nervous, or 2) not drink because they are not drinkers. Obviously 1 was way more fun than 2. Most girls have nothing to say so they will go into standard interview questions. Just have fun, have a relaxed vibe and it will rub off on them. I found bantering worked well, and just talking about random stuff. One girl was doodling so I made her draw something on my hand. Another begged me to choose her over her friend as she was drunk. Just have complete fun with it and don't take it too seriously. Just run game as normal if you were at a bar or something, maybe toned down slightly. When you get towards the end I talked about how I couldn't remember who's who, etc.

Aftermath Everyone turns in their sheets and the coordinator sends you an email within 24 hours of your matches. If you choose each other, you get sent each other's emails. If she chooses you but you don't choose her, you get sent her email anyway in case you change your mind. First time I went, 10 of the 12 chose me, 5 of which I had chosen. Second time like I mentioned was much worse, and it was obvious from the beginning I did not match with a lot of these freaks and fatties - 6 of the 14 chose me, 4 of which I had chosen but 2 of those I got tricked into choosing as when they got up at the end I saw about 40lbs that were hidden while they were sitting.

Anyway, you get the email with their emails. Wait a few hours, as some girls who are desperate will email you first. I then sent the girls this standard email:

Quote:Monday was fun...we should try it for more than 6 minutes this time. [insert quick note about what you talked about] Give me your number and we can set something up.

Slubu

They always responded with their numbers. I then texted all but one girl, who I called. That girl never called me back. The rest that I texted I followed Roosh's text guide and worked easily. I ended up going out with 3 girls from the first one. Followed this guide and banged two of them and fingerbanged the other. All of them I had park at my place then we'd head out so they came back to my place afterwards. The one that I did not bone was difficult, because both her and her friend chose me and I couldn't figure out how to try and date both, so I think she flaked after I tried to go out with her friend right after her (the hotter one). Oh well. Girl 1 was a short, very busty light skinned filipina girl(6, probably 6.5-7 if you like huge tits which I don't), girl 2 was a party korean girl with a bitchy attitude (7, great body), girl 3 was a young white gymnast girl (7). Her friend that I tried to date also which didn't go over well was a poor man's version of katie holmes and also the hottest girl of these events (7.5).

Conclusion

If you want to try something different, and if you are just feeling an easy 6 or potential 7 if you are lucky, then give it a whirl. If you are into 5s and lower then this may be the closest thing to guaranteed sex I can think of without p4p. At the absolute worst case scenario, you just had a concentrated exposure to practicing conversation, first impressions, dating and game on 10+ girls in real life in about an hour, which can take weeks to do normally.
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Excellent post, thanks. I've been thinking about trying this and you've convinced me it's worth a shot

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I did this eons ago a couple times. Didn't really enjoy the experience much. I'd say quality of girls was right around the middle as you say. 4-6. Maybe a stray 7 here or there, a few uggs. I think I did it 3 times and one of them almost every chic was Asian and I wasn't into Asians so it was like a waste of time. Every single girl asks the same fucking questions so just have your standard answers ready to go. The first question out of each of their mouths is going to be "So...What do you do?" Then "where do you live?" "Why did you decide to try speed dating?" It almost gets boring because one of them had like 20 different girls to talk to and had to answer the same questions like 20 fucking times. Maybe some of the girls you'll have a fun and spontaneous 6 minutes that isn't the standard barrage of qualifier questions. I also don't like the way it's men that have to get up and change seats. Just makes the women feel like they are doing all the choosing from a moving assembly line of men.

Yeah, not an ideal way to meet women, but could be okay as a slump breaker I guess.

I wonder how popular speed dating is in other countries? If it's popular in places like Colombia, Brazil and Eastern Europe, it may be something to consider as a quick way to meet a whole bunch of girls in a new country fast.
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I went to a speed dating event in DC once. I was bored and wanted to see what the chicks were like. The event already had trouble signing dudes up because what man with options will show up at a speed dating event. The mingling before and after the actual speed dating was where you were supposed to shine I suppose, but during was pretty lame.

The chicks sat while the guys rotated in 4 minute intervals. Most of the chicks were boring, humorless, upset and almost confrontational. They figured 4 minutes wasn't a whole lot of time, so they wanted to find out as much "pertinent" info as possible. They asked the lamest questions, where are you from, what do you do for a living, what do you do for fun.

By the third "date" I was tired of that BS and tried to ramble as best as I could in 4 minutes. Talked about everything but the usual shit. I told her that the girls before me were lame and didn't hide their disappointment with the turnout of the event. I told her that she would probably be best date I had that night as the rest didn't seem as open as she was. I got a laugh out of that, but my time was up. Sure enough I was right.

I ended up going on two real dates with that chick that went nowhere once I found out she was big into church. On the second date she threw that out there and I wrote her off in my mind at that point. She hit me with a shit test during the date, that I failed in the grandest fashion I could muster. She spotted a white woman with a big ass and she was like "wow check out that white chick's ass, I wonder what she's feeding it?" I did a cartoon double take complete with sound effects, she was not amused.

Anywhoo.. only got 1 real date out of 10 speed dates. Which I guess isn't bad considering. The quality of the women at that particular event ranged from 4-8 and the chick I went out with twice was a 6. Even though guys get in free with this event because they have trouble getting 10 men to commit to it, I would not and have not repeated. It was a waste of time.
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A friend and I have pulled from singles events, not by registering and going, but just by being guys who happen to be at the bar and wondering what's going on. Bet the same would work with speed dating events. Of course, the girl turned her head when I tried to kiss her but still had the gall to text me the next day. Fuck that.
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Great data sheet. I'm gonna have to look in this direction. Living in a city of 23,000+ females ages 18-23 (about 1 in 12 people) speed dating could be another valuable resource.

I also like Catch 22's idea:

Quote:A friend and I have pulled from singles events, not by registering and going, but just by being guys who happen to be at the bar and wondering what's going on. Bet the same would work with speed dating events.

(02-16-2014 01:05 PM)jariel Wrote:  Since chicks have decided they have the right to throw their pussies around like Joe Montana, I have the right to be Jerry Rice.
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I doubt it's really a great way to meet women, but it might be a good way to get rapid practices in a short period of time. It's not exactly a cold approach, but it's a sort of approach.
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Great sheet, thanks.

I did speed dating in college, and I found it useful to have an approach that *quickly* gets girls out of the interview mindset and shows you're different and ready to have fun, that you don't take it seriously.

Doodling actually sounds like a great idea. You exchange names, she asks you a question, with your brows furrowed with concentration, you say "hold on, I'm drawing a very serious portrait of you" and then show her the ugly stick figure you drew, using the pen and paper they give you. Think I stole that from a Roissy post.

When I did it, I brought a book and would tell girls, "this is for when dates get boring, I just quietly take my book out and start reading."
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(05-29-2012 12:10 AM)basilransom Wrote:  When I did it, I brought a book and would tell girls, "this is for when dates get boring, I just quietly take my book out and start reading."

That's a sweet idea. You could easily joke around with her, anytime you want to tease her start opening the book and act like you're about to start reading. The more exaggerated the better

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(05-29-2012 09:45 PM)flyfreshandyoung Wrote:  
(05-29-2012 12:10 AM)basilransom Wrote:  When I did it, I brought a book and would tell girls, "this is for when dates get boring, I just quietly take my book out and start reading."

That's a sweet idea. You could easily joke around with her, anytime you want to tease her start opening the book and act like you're about to start reading. The more exaggerated the better

Yeah or she answers a question in a way you don't like, "Oh, looks like it's reading time." Unfold a large newspaper for greatest effect.

I like using a dry deadpan style when teasing like that. It puts girls on edge, they think in response "wait, is he serious? He can't be! But he's not smiling..." Plus it's less try-hard.
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(05-29-2012 09:56 PM)basilransom Wrote:  
(05-29-2012 09:45 PM)flyfreshandyoung Wrote:  
(05-29-2012 12:10 AM)basilransom Wrote:  When I did it, I brought a book and would tell girls, "this is for when dates get boring, I just quietly take my book out and start reading."

That's a sweet idea. You could easily joke around with her, anytime you want to tease her start opening the book and act like you're about to start reading. The more exaggerated the better

Yeah or she answers a question in a way you don't like, "Oh, looks like it's reading time." Unfold a large newspaper for greatest effect.

I like using a dry deadpan style when teasing like that. It puts girls on edge, they think in response "wait, is he serious? He can't be! But he's not smiling..." Plus it's less try-hard.

I like your style, deadpan is usually the best way to go for about anything

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(05-28-2012 07:43 PM)Catch 22 Wrote:  A friend and I have pulled from singles events, not by registering and going, but just by being guys who happen to be at the bar and wondering what's going on. Bet the same would work with speed dating events. Of course, the girl turned her head when I tried to kiss her but still had the gall to text me the next day. Fuck that.
This is a great idea. I wonder if single events and speed dating websites post up the location and date.
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(05-28-2012 07:43 PM)Catch 22 Wrote:  A friend and I have pulled from singles events, not by registering and going, but just by being guys who happen to be at the bar and wondering what's going on. Bet the same would work with speed dating events. Of course, the girl turned her head when I tried to kiss her but still had the gall to text me the next day. Fuck that.

(06-01-2012 07:30 AM)houston Wrote:  This is a great idea. I wonder if single events and speed dating websites post up the location and date.

They do post the location, dates and time. The only problem I foresee is that these girls will within 24 hours get contacted by x number of guys, so you'd probably have to go for the SNL or really make yourself stand out. But with some of the guys that show up to these events, may not be so hard.
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Even just being the one who bounces them from the venue should be enough to stand out. But yeah, they're going to get a zillion texts on Monday (if it's a Saturday). Slow play it.
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(05-26-2012 11:50 PM)silent_scope Wrote:  I went to a speed dating event in DC once. I was bored and wanted to see what the chicks were like. The event already had trouble signing dudes up because what man with options will show up at a speed dating event. The mingling before and after the actual speed dating was where you were supposed to shine I suppose, but during was pretty lame.

The chicks sat while the guys rotated in 4 minute intervals. Most of the chicks were boring, humorless, upset and almost confrontational. They figured 4 minutes wasn't a whole lot of time, so they wanted to find out as much "pertinent" info as possible. They asked the lamest questions, where are you from, what do you do for a living, what do you do for fun.

By the third "date" I was tired of that BS and tried to ramble as best as I could in 4 minutes. Talked about everything but the usual shit. I told her that the girls before me were lame and didn't hide their disappointment with the turnout of the event. I told her that she would probably be best date I had that night as the rest didn't seem as open as she was. I got a laugh out of that, but my time was up. Sure enough I was right.

I ended up going on two real dates with that chick that went nowhere once I found out she was big into church. On the second date she threw that out there and I wrote her off in my mind at that point. She hit me with a shit test during the date, that I failed in the grandest fashion I could muster. She spotted a white woman with a big ass and she was like "wow check out that white chick's ass, I wonder what she's feeding it?" I did a cartoon double take complete with sound effects, she was not amused.

Anywhoo.. only got 1 real date out of 10 speed dates. Which I guess isn't bad considering. The quality of the women at that particular event ranged from 4-8 and the chick I went out with twice was a 6. Even though guys get in free with this event because they have trouble getting 10 men to commit to it, I would not and have not repeated. It was a waste of time.
Thank you for this review. I've been thinking about trying a speed dating event in DC. I get the "what do you do for a living" a lot, and if one doesn't have a gov't, or high flying position, that is usually an instant turn-off for the girls around here, unlike some other areas.
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Slubu:
This is probably a really dumb question, but is there any reason why a guy cannot simply get the numbers of the girls he likes at the speed dating events as opposed to going through that e-mail process? I read through pre-dating's website before reading your original post and the website does not really explain why this e-mail process is necessary. It appears as though there is a bit of a delay between the time of the speed dating event and the time when you and the girls receive the e-mails. It seems as though simply getting the girls' numbers would be much more efficient. My guess is that if I went to only one of these events, I may very well be disappointed, but that if I started attending these events regularly, I would probably start consistantly pulling decent, but not great, quality as a result of doing speed dating.
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Merenguero, they have rules prohibiting you from asking for their number. It's just the policies they have. Plus, once you get going it's such a whirlwind of an event as the time passes, you have to make notes, etc. that you really don't have time to stop her and ask her if she wants to give you her # and so on. Personally, I like the system as you don't have to worry so much and you get the emails the next day anyway, and I just drop that note I stated above to get the #.

As to going to multiple events, if you do I would not tell the girls you have been before it seems to turn them off.
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I just saw an speed dating event posted and am considering going, mostly because I want to see how it is and report back. My age is the upper ceiling of the age range, so it is very likely that every girl will be younger. My logic is that if I go there and every girl is horrible, all I wasted was a couple of hours of my time and some pocket change. Based on what I've read here and elsewhere, I should easily have my pick of the girls there. The problem is the girls there may all be horrible. Has anyone been to anyone of these events in Baltimore or D.C. lately? If so, how was it?
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(05-26-2012 11:50 PM)silent_scope Wrote:  I went to a speed dating event in DC once. I was bored and wanted to see what the chicks were like. The event already had trouble signing dudes up because what man with options will show up at a speed dating event. The mingling before and after the actual speed dating was where you were supposed to shine I suppose, but during was pretty lame.

The chicks sat while the guys rotated in 4 minute intervals. Most of the chicks were boring, humorless, upset and almost confrontational. They figured 4 minutes wasn't a whole lot of time, so they wanted to find out as much "pertinent" info as possible. They asked the lamest questions, where are you from, what do you do for a living, what do you do for fun.

By the third "date" I was tired of that BS and tried to ramble as best as I could in 4 minutes. Talked about everything but the usual shit. I told her that the girls before me were lame and didn't hide their disappointment with the turnout of the event. I told her that she would probably be best date I had that night as the rest didn't seem as open as she was. I got a laugh out of that, but my time was up. Sure enough I was right.

I ended up going on two real dates with that chick that went nowhere once I found out she was big into church. On the second date she threw that out there and I wrote her off in my mind at that point. She hit me with a shit test during the date, that I failed in the grandest fashion I could muster. She spotted a white woman with a big ass and she was like "wow check out that white chick's ass, I wonder what she's feeding it?" I did a cartoon double take complete with sound effects, she was not amused.

Anywhoo.. only got 1 real date out of 10 speed dates. Which I guess isn't bad considering. The quality of the women at that particular event ranged from 4-8 and the chick I went out with twice was a 6. Even though guys get in free with this event because they have trouble getting 10 men to commit to it, I would not and have not repeated. It was a waste of time.

Why on earth are you writing off church girls? They are typically the biggest sluts of all.

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(05-26-2012 11:50 PM)silent_scope Wrote:  I went to a speed dating event in DC once. I was bored and wanted to see what the chicks were like. The event already had trouble signing dudes up because what man with options will show up at a speed dating event. The mingling before and after the actual speed dating was where you were supposed to shine I suppose, but during was pretty lame.

The chicks sat while the guys rotated in 4 minute intervals. Most of the chicks were boring, humorless, upset and almost confrontational. They figured 4 minutes wasn't a whole lot of time, so they wanted to find out as much "pertinent" info as possible. They asked the lamest questions, where are you from, what do you do for a living, what do you do for fun.

By the third "date" I was tired of that BS and tried to ramble as best as I could in 4 minutes. Talked about everything but the usual shit. I told her that the girls before me were lame and didn't hide their disappointment with the turnout of the event. I told her that she would probably be best date I had that night as the rest didn't seem as open as she was. I got a laugh out of that, but my time was up. Sure enough I was right.

I ended up going on two real dates with that chick that went nowhere once I found out she was big into church. On the second date she threw that out there and I wrote her off in my mind at that point. She hit me with a shit test during the date, that I failed in the grandest fashion I could muster. She spotted a white woman with a big ass and she was like "wow check out that white chick's ass, I wonder what she's feeding it?" I did a cartoon double take complete with sound effects, she was not amused.

Anywhoo.. only got 1 real date out of 10 speed dates. Which I guess isn't bad considering. The quality of the women at that particular event ranged from 4-8 and the chick I went out with twice was a 6. Even though guys get in free with this event because they have trouble getting 10 men to commit to it, I would not and have not repeated. It was a waste of time.

Why on earth are you writing off church girls? They are typically the biggest sluts of all.

The D.C. area is infested with a lot of Hispanic and black girls who are religious fanatics. When I first moved here, I met more of them than I can count. For me, it's best to avoid them, but your mileage may vary.
10-11-2015 10:17 PM
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RE: Speed Dating Datasheet
There was a speed dating event in DC tonight but I missed it cause I was in New York this weekend and just got back an hour ago.

There were a couple cute girls from the looks of the lineup, willing to bet they were all bots, no-shows, or catfish though. Maybe I'll try to do the next one just for the fuck of it.
10-11-2015 11:06 PM
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RE: Speed Dating Datasheet
Great sheet, many thanks.

Been meaning to give this a shot.
10-12-2015 03:46 AM
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RE: Speed Dating Datasheet
I didn't even know speed dating even still existed after the rise of online dating and tinder in particular.
10-12-2015 04:25 AM
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RE: Speed Dating Datasheet
Just bumping this in case there's been any changes due to culture shifts. I'm seriously considering doing this as one of my friends (purple pilled) said it was really fun. Plus, I'm moving back into a big city in a month, and these events are very popular apparently. Yeah yeah, I know - keep approaching - but this just seems like such an easy way to meet a lot of girls quickly and more in a more 'socially acceptable' way than the LDM (not that it bothers me).

Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit upon his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats. - H L Mencken
08-28-2019 09:46 AM
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RE: Speed Dating Datasheet
I challenge someone to do this challenge.
Bang every girl in a speed dating session.
Just take 3 min to run game, take them to the bathroom and get a quick one off, then back and repeat.
08-29-2019 12:39 AM
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