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And alpha, that is why going to clubs in SE Asia is not maximizing your bangs. Here, you need to conserve as much energy as you can, as there are so many opportunities to bang young girls. Going out late at night, drinking alot, and having a girl sleep over takes away from that. As i said before, the secret to maximizing bangs in SE Asia is 2 fast first dates during the day with new girls. And then a 2nd date, with dinner in the evening and the bang in your relaxed pad at night. How can a noisy drunken club beat that.
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(06-12-2012 06:19 PM)mikeymike Wrote:  how does it compare to thailand...are they worshiping the pale skin too or will us guys with a lil flava have some luck...not to race troll but Thailand was not the same place for non white guys as it is for white guys...is it as dramatic here or?

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I enjoy going out to clubs but I agree that in SE Asia it's not the best way to get laid, you often deal with pros or get nowhere with the good girls. However I still couldn't be bothered to have 2 to 3 dates a day with different girls, it would take up so much time. I like to have time to myself and do other things, not just chase women. Fair play to you if you can keep that up for weeks on end.
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(06-14-2012 02:30 PM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  I enjoy going out to clubs but I agree that in SE Asia it's not the best way to get laid, you often deal with pros or get nowhere with the good girls. However I still couldn't be bothered to have 2 to 3 dates a day with different girls, it would take up so much time. I like to have time to myself and do other things, not just chase women. Fair play to you if you can keep that up for weeks on end.

It really wasnt so time consuming, as it may seem. Most girls come to you, if you are in the center or best part of the city. Since my pad was next to Vin Com Center Mall, it was a breeze to walk 2 blocks and just have a typical 1 hour coffee date. Only if there was a strong connection, did it last more. At the beginning, it was a great way to get info about how things worked in the city.
I imagine, being in a club for several hours and the hangover the next day, would be way more time and energy consuming.
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Quote:Yes alpha, that is the way it is in SE Asia and Thailand...Internet game.

The thing is, the drop off in quality between night clubs and internet game is huge, at least where I am. It's hard to feel motivated to try online dating and browse through profiles of 6s when at any night of the week you can go out to a mainstream club and be surrounded by 8s and better. Yeah getting a ONS is pretty rare, you have to put them on the slow burner (but isn't this true for most places outside English speaking countries?). I also hate going out often because of the drain on health and cash. So, I'd rather have a rotation of 2-3 8s that I see again in a month and have some time to myself than try to set a record and bang 12+ new 6s in the same timeframe. Looking to dive into day game as a better option.
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(06-15-2012 10:37 AM)the_conductor Wrote:  The thing is, the drop off in quality between night clubs and internet game is huge, at least where I am. It's hard to feel motivated to try online dating and browse through profiles of 6s when at any night of the week you can go out to a mainstream club and be surrounded by 8s and better. Yeah getting a ONS is pretty rare, you have to put them on the slow burner (but isn't this true for most places outside English speaking countries?). I also hate going out often because of the drain on health and cash. So, I'd rather have a rotation of 2-3 8s that I see again in a month and have some time to myself than try to set a record and bang 12+ new 6s in the same timeframe. Looking to dive into day game as a better option.

Do you use different dating sites here in BKK than the ones us foreigners use? I think the large majority of Thai girls on TLL and TF are looking for white guys, as the sites seem to be geared towards that. Are there dating sites in Thai language that locals use?
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(06-14-2012 07:13 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  
(06-14-2012 02:30 PM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  I enjoy going out to clubs but I agree that in SE Asia it's not the best way to get laid, you often deal with pros or get nowhere with the good girls. However I still couldn't be bothered to have 2 to 3 dates a day with different girls, it would take up so much time. I like to have time to myself and do other things, not just chase women. Fair play to you if you can keep that up for weeks on end.

It really wasnt so time consuming, as it may seem. Most girls come to you, if you are in the center or best part of the city. Since my pad was next to Vin Com Center Mall, it was a breeze to walk 2 blocks and just have a typical 1 hour coffee date. Only if there was a strong connection, did it last more. At the beginning, it was a great way to get info about how things worked in the city.
I imagine, being in a club for several hours and the hangover the next day, would be way more time and energy consuming.

How do you say goodbye/get rid to over 20 girls?. I can't seem to fix this problem, most girls want to stick around for days and/or constantly call,mail or text me.

Do you literally kick them out on a certain hour or how do you do it ? What excuse do you use?
What if girls really want to stay and make no moves to leave your room ?

I was getting near to a hundred texts everyday in the phils.

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(06-15-2012 10:37 AM)the_conductor Wrote:  The thing is, the drop off in quality between night clubs and internet game is huge, at least where I am. It's hard to feel motivated to try online dating and browse through profiles of 6s when at any night of the week you can go out to a mainstream club and be surrounded by 8s and better. Yeah getting a ONS is pretty rare, you have to put them on the slow burner (but isn't this true for most places outside English speaking countries?). I also hate going out often because of the drain on health and cash. So, I'd rather have a rotation of 2-3 8s that I see again in a month and have some time to myself than try to set a record and bang 12+ new 6s in the same timeframe. Looking to dive into day game as a better option.

If you're a local and in your home city I think it's a bit different for someone just there for just a few months. Personally I want to bang as many half decent looking local girls as possible when in a new country / city so in BKK I prefer to get one night stands from going on dates with girls I met online rather than play the waiting game with girls from clubs. Thai girls are few and far between in my city, I'm not sure I've ever met one, so I like to make the most of them while I can.

I never had a problem finding attractive girls on the dating sites. I think places like Thai Friendly and Love Links are only good for farang though.

(06-15-2012 11:24 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  Do you use different dating sites here in BKK than the ones us foreigners use? I think the large majority of Thai girls on TLL and TF are looking for white guys, as the sites seem to be geared towards that. Are there dating sites in Thai language that locals use?

I came across a Thai dating site for locals but couldn't figure out how to use it because of the language barrier.

(06-15-2012 11:25 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  How do you say goodbye/get rid to over 20 girls?. I can't seem to fix this problem, most girls want to stick around for days and/or constantly call,mail or text me.

Do you literally kick them out on a certain hour or how do you do it ? What excuse do you use?
What if girls really want to stay and make no moves to leave your room ?

I was getting near to a hundred texts everyday in the phils.

Just tell them you have plans and don't arrange to meet them again. If they text you then don't respond. I have no problem telling a girl she has to leave my room, I usually pretend I have work to do or somewhere to be.
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(06-15-2012 11:25 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  
(06-14-2012 07:13 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  
(06-14-2012 02:30 PM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  I enjoy going out to clubs but I agree that in SE Asia it's not the best way to get laid, you often deal with pros or get nowhere with the good girls. However I still couldn't be bothered to have 2 to 3 dates a day with different girls, it would take up so much time. I like to have time to myself and do other things, not just chase women. Fair play to you if you can keep that up for weeks on end.

It really wasnt so time consuming, as it may seem. Most girls come to you, if you are in the center or best part of the city. Since my pad was next to Vin Com Center Mall, it was a breeze to walk 2 blocks and just have a typical 1 hour coffee date. Only if there was a strong connection, did it last more. At the beginning, it was a great way to get info about how things worked in the city.
I imagine, being in a club for several hours and the hangover the next day, would be way more time and energy consuming.

How do you say goodbye/get rid to over 20 girls?. I can't seem to fix this problem, most girls want to stick around for days and/or constantly call,mail or text me.

Do you literally kick them out on a certain hour or how do you do it ? What excuse do you use?
What if girls really want to stay and make no moves to leave your room ?

I was getting near to a hundred texts everyday in the phils.

Neil, the story in my Vietnam cupid profile, or in general, was that I was there working as an outside consultant, for Citibank on a 6 month contract. This was believable because i had a swanky pad in the best part of town. Also, that I had investments in NY and South America, which is actually true, and that I needed to make calls late at night or early in the morning, to check up on them. So after the bang, I would emphasize all of this and since Vietnamese girls are hard working, unlike most of their Filipina counterparts, they would understand that I was a busy man.
On dates, I would say that I was given a 2 hour lunch, at the time of my choice, and that I returned home to shower. So that is why I was not in office attire. With the weather in Saigon, that is entirely believable.
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(06-15-2012 10:37 AM)the_conductor Wrote:  
Quote:Yes alpha, that is the way it is in SE Asia and Thailand...Internet game.

The thing is, the drop off in quality between night clubs and internet game is huge, at least where I am. It's hard to feel motivated to try online dating and browse through profiles of 6s when at any night of the week you can go out to a mainstream club and be surrounded by 8s and better. Yeah getting a ONS is pretty rare, you have to put them on the slow burner (but isn't this true for most places outside English speaking countries?). I also hate going out often because of the drain on health and cash. So, I'd rather have a rotation of 2-3 8s that I see again in a month and have some time to myself than try to set a record and bang 12+ new 6s in the same timeframe. Looking to dive into day game as a better option.
Conductor, as I have stated before in this post, nightgame is not a solid option, in either the Phils or Vietnam. Maybe in Bangkok, to a certain degree. Though day game is very easy option to use in the Philippines, but not in Vietnam, because of the general low english language ability and innate shyness of the girls.
In terms of spending cash, on most first dates I just had coffee or juice with them. The 2nd date dinners were generally in decent or nice places, but Vietnam is a cheap place. So, after being several times in countries like Brazil, it did not seem like much.
Part of the reason, I racked up high numbers in SE Asia was that, though I am very attracted to Asian girls physically, I don't really like them as girlfriends or as regulars. I rarely repeated with a girl, even if she was an 8. This is just a personal choice. But of course, if I only had the choice between a westernized (i.e American cunt) or a SE Asian girl, as a girlfriend, then that would be an easy one to make.
In general, I prefer to hang out and repeat bang with Brazilian, Colombian or Eastern European girls. Also, since they are harder to bang than SE Asian girls, it makes sense to have a rotation of hot regulars in those countries. I did not the see the sense of doing that, in either Vietnam or the Philippines.
And for me the internet girls i banged ranged from 6s to 8s....the 6s would usually be the 18 or 20 yr olds. Though, I always gave them a plus 1 for their youthfulness. All the 5s or below, I would encounter on dates, would be quickly discarded, by making an excuse about how something came up and i needed to leave quickly.
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So in phils you basically get on line or day game, meet for juice, then bang on second date after dinner? Can you do it right on first meeting (nonpro of course) or culturally you just need that second meeting.
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(06-15-2012 05:44 PM)Menace Wrote:  Choche

So in phils you basically get on line or day game, meet for juice, then bang on second date after dinner? Can you do it right on first meeting (nonpro of course) or culturally you just need that second meeting.

Yes you can do it. In Manila, especially, first date bangs are not infrequent. In other cities of the Philippines, it can happen sometimes and less so in Vietnam, because of the cultural conservatism and shaming from their men(that is starting to change).
Usually, it happens when you see a lot of excitement in the girl's face, if there is good kino escalation or if she accepts an offer to have an alcoholic drink with you. Also, if you playfully suggest coming to your place to see some photos you have taken or listen to music that you both like, and she accepts.
Another way of maximizing the possibility of the first date bang, if you really like the girl you meet, is to ask her to go somewhere like the zoo or to the cinema, right after. Always ask what time she has to go home, to plan for getting her back to your place. Most of the time, I couldn't be bothered with spending so much time with a girl, so didn't use this one much.
The important thing is not to force it. A lot of the times, they can be shy with foreigners and even bring a "cousin" or friend, on the first date (Ironically, this almost never happened in Vietnam; just mostly in the Phils). But rest assured, if she likes you (which if you are a foreigner who is not Indian, too old and has some game, is a given), the 2nd date will occur and the bang probabilities go up through the roof.
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(06-15-2012 11:24 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  
(06-15-2012 10:37 AM)the_conductor Wrote:  The thing is, the drop off in quality between night clubs and internet game is huge, at least where I am. It's hard to feel motivated to try online dating and browse through profiles of 6s when at any night of the week you can go out to a mainstream club and be surrounded by 8s and better. Yeah getting a ONS is pretty rare, you have to put them on the slow burner (but isn't this true for most places outside English speaking countries?). I also hate going out often because of the drain on health and cash. So, I'd rather have a rotation of 2-3 8s that I see again in a month and have some time to myself than try to set a record and bang 12+ new 6s in the same timeframe. Looking to dive into day game as a better option.

Do you use different dating sites here in BKK than the ones us foreigners use? I think the large majority of Thai girls on TLL and TF are looking for white guys, as the sites seem to be geared towards that. Are there dating sites in Thai language that locals use?

Yeah, there are dating sites in Thai that locals use. I haven't really immersed myself in online game, even though gaming in real life doesn't get you much ONS like I said, and everyone here mentions that online is easier.

The more prevalent ones in Thai are just MSN messenger lists though, and there are loads of "sideline girls" and ladyboys:
http://www.ohozaa.com/msncomm/
http://www.haafan.com/

Here's some "proper" dating sites:
http://love.siamza.com/ -quite poorly designed
http://www.jubkoo.com - better design
http://www.mamefan.com - everybody can see everything, like I mentioned
http://www.jubkoo.com
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(06-15-2012 04:50 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  
(06-15-2012 10:37 AM)the_conductor Wrote:  
Quote:Yes alpha, that is the way it is in SE Asia and Thailand...Internet game.

The thing is, the drop off in quality between night clubs and internet game is huge, at least where I am. It's hard to feel motivated to try online dating and browse through profiles of 6s when at any night of the week you can go out to a mainstream club and be surrounded by 8s and better. Yeah getting a ONS is pretty rare, you have to put them on the slow burner (but isn't this true for most places outside English speaking countries?). I also hate going out often because of the drain on health and cash. So, I'd rather have a rotation of 2-3 8s that I see again in a month and have some time to myself than try to set a record and bang 12+ new 6s in the same timeframe. Looking to dive into day game as a better option.
Conductor, as I have stated before in this post, nightgame is not a solid option, in either the Phils or Vietnam. Maybe in Bangkok, to a certain degree. Though day game is very easy option to use in the Philippines, but not in Vietnam, because of the general low english language ability and innate shyness of the girls.
In terms of spending cash, on most first dates I just had coffee or juice with them. The 2nd date dinners were generally in decent or nice places, but Vietnam is a cheap place. So, after being several times in countries like Brazil, it did not seem like much.
Part of the reason, I racked up high numbers in SE Asia was that, though I am very attracted to Asian girls physically, I don't really like them as girlfriends or as regulars. I rarely repeated with a girl, even if she was an 8. This is just a personal choice. But of course, if I only had the choice between a westernized (i.e American cunt) or a SE Asian girl, as a girlfriend, then that would be an easy one to make.
In general, I prefer to hang out and repeat bang with Brazilian, Colombian or Eastern European girls. Also, since they are harder to bang than SE Asian girls, it makes sense to have a rotation of hot regulars in those countries. I did not the see the sense of doing that, in either Vietnam or the Philippines.
And for me the internet girls i banged ranged from 6s to 8s....the 6s would usually be the 18 or 20 yr olds. Though, I always gave them a plus 1 for their youthfulness. All the 5s or below, I would encounter on dates, would be quickly discarded, by making an excuse about how something came up and i needed to leave quickly.

In terms of drain on cash and health I was talking about going to clubs to game.

When you mention that South American and EE girls are harder to bang than SEA girls, how is that? Also does internet game work well for you in those places too?
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(06-16-2012 06:49 AM)the_conductor Wrote:  
(06-15-2012 04:50 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  
(06-15-2012 10:37 AM)the_conductor Wrote:  
Quote:Yes alpha, that is the way it is in SE Asia and Thailand...Internet game.

The thing is, the drop off in quality between night clubs and internet game is huge, at least where I am. It's hard to feel motivated to try online dating and browse through profiles of 6s when at any night of the week you can go out to a mainstream club and be surrounded by 8s and better. Yeah getting a ONS is pretty rare, you have to put them on the slow burner (but isn't this true for most places outside English speaking countries?). I also hate going out often because of the drain on health and cash. So, I'd rather have a rotation of 2-3 8s that I see again in a month and have some time to myself than try to set a record and bang 12+ new 6s in the same timeframe. Looking to dive into day game as a better option.
Conductor, as I have stated before in this post, nightgame is not a solid option, in either the Phils or Vietnam. Maybe in Bangkok, to a certain degree. Though day game is very easy option to use in the Philippines, but not in Vietnam, because of the general low english language ability and innate shyness of the girls.
In terms of spending cash, on most first dates I just had coffee or juice with them. The 2nd date dinners were generally in decent or nice places, but Vietnam is a cheap place. So, after being several times in countries like Brazil, it did not seem like much.
Part of the reason, I racked up high numbers in SE Asia was that, though I am very attracted to Asian girls physically, I don't really like them as girlfriends or as regulars. I rarely repeated with a girl, even if she was an 8. This is just a personal choice. But of course, if I only had the choice between a westernized (i.e American cunt) or a SE Asian girl, as a girlfriend, then that would be an easy one to make.
In general, I prefer to hang out and repeat bang with Brazilian, Colombian or Eastern European girls. Also, since they are harder to bang than SE Asian girls, it makes sense to have a rotation of hot regulars in those countries. I did not the see the sense of doing that, in either Vietnam or the Philippines.
And for me the internet girls i banged ranged from 6s to 8s....the 6s would usually be the 18 or 20 yr olds. Though, I always gave them a plus 1 for their youthfulness. All the 5s or below, I would encounter on dates, would be quickly discarded, by making an excuse about how something came up and i needed to leave quickly.

In terms of drain on cash and health I was talking about going to clubs to game.

When you mention that South American and EE girls are harder to bang than SEA girls, how is that? Also does internet game work well for you in those places too?

I think most forum members who have been to all three regions can attest to SE Asia being the easiest of the three. Of course, there are exceptions and some white guys who have been to Peru might disagree.
Nevertheless, racking up high numbers of bangs in Colombia and Brazil, without Spanish and Portuguese skills is very tough. Also, there is some competition from the local men, while in SE Asia there is virtually noneConfusedo few have any game.
I'm not an Eastern Europe expert(have been there, but not for extended periods), but from what most forum members have said some countries in the area are tough to crack. When I go to Poland, in the fall, I expect to bang 7 or 8 girls in a month. In SE Asia that is nothing.
Internet game works well in South America, where for the most part, english speakers are not very common. Also, night game is more difficult than in Eastern Europe because most girls go out in big groups and don't drink as much.s
I am leaving SE Asia tomorrow and going to South America. What i will miss most about the region is the quantity of cute young 18 to 22 yr olds you can bang. When I go back to Colombia and Brazil, I will have to get used to banging way more 25-29 yr olds than i really want to (I am in my mid 30s). After you have had so much young lovin its hard to go back to the old ways. They like older guys in South America too, but not as much.
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Quote:Yeah, there are dating sites in Thai that locals use. I haven't really immersed myself in online game, even though gaming in real life doesn't get you much ONS like I said, and everyone here mentions that online is easier.

Online is easier for farangs targetting local girls but not neccessarily for locals like yourself targetting local girls. When we go onto Thai Friendly etc we're presented with thousands of girls looking for a foreign guy like us. If you go on Thai Friendly you might not get the same response as they aren't looking for local guys. Definitely think you'd do better on sites aimed at the Thai market but there's no guarantee the girls will be up for one night stands just because the girls we meet from Thai Friendly are.

Quote:When you mention that South American and EE girls are harder to bang than SEA girls, how is that? Also does internet game work well for you in those places too?

I wouldn't say harder neccessarily. Haven't spent enough time in EE to know enough about that but in South America you can easily get one night stands with a girl you've just met in a club which is something not that common in SE Asia. I never used internet dating out there but I imagine it would be similar to SE Asia and if you pick the right websites you could meet and bang girls on the same night.
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(06-16-2012 07:58 AM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  
Quote:Yeah, there are dating sites in Thai that locals use. I haven't really immersed myself in online game, even though gaming in real life doesn't get you much ONS like I said, and everyone here mentions that online is easier.

Online is easier for farangs targetting local girls but not neccessarily for locals like yourself targetting local girls. When we go onto Thai Friendly etc we're presented with thousands of girls looking for a foreign guy like us. If you go on Thai Friendly you might not get the same response as they aren't looking for local guys. Definitely think you'd do better on sites aimed at the Thai market but there's no guarantee the girls will be up for one night stands just because the girls we meet from Thai Friendly are.

Quote:When you mention that South American and EE girls are harder to bang than SEA girls, how is that? Also does internet game work well for you in those places too?

I wouldn't say harder neccessarily. Haven't spent enough time in EE to know enough about that but in South America you can easily get one night stands with a girl you've just met in a club which is something not that common in SE Asia. I never used internet dating out there but I imagine it would be similar to SE Asia and if you pick the right websites you could meet and bang girls on the same night.

Alpha it depends on the country, in South America. Where were you getting your easy one night stands at cubs? I imagine it wasn't in Brazil, Argentina or Colombia. Maybe Peru or Ecuador, if you are a good looking white guy (even more so with blond hair and blue eyes).
In the holy triumvirate of South America, spanish, portuguese or dancing skills are necessary, if you are going to get a one night stand. If not, wish for good luck.
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(06-16-2012 07:54 AM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  I think most forum members who have been to all three regions can attest to SE Asia being the easiest of the three. Of course, there are exceptions and some white guys who have been to Peru might disagree.
Nevertheless, racking up high numbers of bangs in Colombia and Brazil, without Spanish and Portuguese skills is very tough. Also, there is some competition from the local men, while in SE Asia there is virtually noneConfusedo few have any game.

I agree that the easier thing about Southeast Asia is that there is no competition from local men. However, I don't think night game in Southeast Asia is that much easier than in South America. In fact, I've never seen a gringo constantly racking up high numbers from the non-pro clubs in Thailand. You said it yourself that going to clubs in Vietnam is a waste of time. When people say SEA is so easy to pull off ONSs in it's mostly from the freelancer/pro clubs or online game, not night game in the normal clubs.

(06-16-2012 07:54 AM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  Also, night game is more difficult than in Eastern Europe because most girls go out in big groups and don't drink as much.s

This is exactly the case in non-pro clubs in Thailand too.

(06-16-2012 07:54 AM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  Alpha it depends on the country, in South America. Where were you getting your easy one night stands at cubs? I imagine it wasn't in Brazil, Argentina or Colombia. Maybe Peru or Ecuador, if you are a good looking white guy (even more so with blond hair and blue eyes).
In the holy triumvirate of South America, spanish, portuguese or dancing skills are necessary, if you are going to get a one night stand. If not, wish for good luck.

The bold can be said for Thailand (and probably Vietnam too) if u want to bang Non-pros. When a person says he can just easily rack up ONSs from clubs, it turns out it's from a seedy pro/freelancer venue. I've yet to be proven otherwise.

In a nutshell, I think online game is the major factor that makes SEA or at least Thailand easier for one to get laid with non-pros compared to other regions. (Don't really know about and can't comment on the non-pros in the Philippines, but even if that turns out to be different one country doesn't define the whole region.)
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(06-15-2012 01:32 PM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  If you're a local and in your home city I think it's a bit different for someone just there for just a few months. Personally I want to bang as many half decent looking local girls as possible when in a new country / city so in BKK I prefer to get one night stands from going on dates with girls I met online rather than play the waiting game with girls from clubs. Thai girls are few and far between in my city, I'm not sure I've ever met one, so I like to make the most of them while I can.

I never had a problem finding attractive girls on the dating sites. I think places like Thai Friendly and Love Links are only good for farang though.

Yeah, I'd probably want to do that if I'm somewhere for a couple months too, especially if I'm not fluent in the language. Just curious, where do you live AlphaTravel?
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(06-16-2012 07:58 AM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  
Quote:Yeah, there are dating sites in Thai that locals use. I haven't really immersed myself in online game, even though gaming in real life doesn't get you much ONS like I said, and everyone here mentions that online is easier.

Online is easier for farangs targetting local girls but not neccessarily for locals like yourself targetting local girls. When we go onto Thai Friendly etc we're presented with thousands of girls looking for a foreign guy like us. If you go on Thai Friendly you might not get the same response as they aren't looking for local guys. Definitely think you'd do better on sites aimed at the Thai market but there's no guarantee the girls will be up for one night stands just because the girls we meet from Thai Friendly are.

Quote:When you mention that South American and EE girls are harder to bang than SEA girls, how is that? Also does internet game work well for you in those places too?

I wouldn't say harder neccessarily. Haven't spent enough time in EE to know enough about that but in South America you can easily get one night stands with a girl you've just met in a club which is something not that common in SE Asia. I never used internet dating out there but I imagine it would be similar to SE Asia and if you pick the right websites you could meet and bang girls on the same night.

Thanks for the info guys,

Alphatravel: i find it hard to believe that anyone can easily rack up notches in South America. I worked my ass of there and wasn't getting regular sex in any country. It was always a struggle.

So, which countries/cities were so easy for you ? and what was your daily budget ?

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Quote:Alpha it depends on the country, in South America. Where were you getting your easy one night stands at cubs? I imagine it wasn't in Brazil, Argentina or Colombia. Maybe Peru or Ecuador, if you are a good looking white guy (even more so with blond hair and blue eyes).
In the holy triumvirate of South America, spanish, portuguese or dancing skills are necessary, if you are going to get a one night stand. If not, wish for good luck.

I had one night stands in Brazil, Peru and Bolivia. Couldn't get laid in Argentina and didn't spend enough time in Chile to try. Not been anywhere else.

Quote: In fact, I've never seen a gringo constantly racking up high numbers from the non-pro clubs in Thailand. You said it yourself that going to clubs in Vietnam is a waste of time. When people say SEA is so easy to pull off ONSs in it's mostly from the freelancer/pro clubs or online game, not night game in the normal clubs.

Yeah I've yet to meet a farang who can continually get laid with normal girls at non pro clubs.

Quote:Alphatravel: i find it hard to believe that anyone can easily rack up notches in South America. I worked my ass of there and wasn't getting regular sex in any country. It was always a struggle.

So, which countries/cities were so easy for you ? and what was your daily budget ?

I don't think I said it was easy but wouldn't say it was hugely difficult either. Much easier to get a one night stand from a club in South America than in SE Asia (with non pros) IME.

I had one night stands in Rio, Sao Paulo, Lima, Arequipa, Cusco & La Paz. I don't know what my budget was, few years ago now but was staying in cheap accommodation and eating mostly street or local cafe food. Not splashing out really.
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This thread has made me curious about Vietnam. I had no idea Ho Chi Minh city was so big, around 10 million people. And when I checked out a free dating site, the girls seem very attractive.

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(06-17-2012 08:55 AM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  
Quote:Alpha it depends on the country, in South America. Where were you getting your easy one night stands at cubs? I imagine it wasn't in Brazil, Argentina or Colombia. Maybe Peru or Ecuador, if you are a good looking white guy (even more so with blond hair and blue eyes).
In the holy triumvirate of South America, spanish, portuguese or dancing skills are necessary, if you are going to get a one night stand. If not, wish for good luck.

I had one night stands in Brazil, Peru and Bolivia. Couldn't get laid in Argentina and didn't spend enough time in Chile to try. Not been anywhere else.

Quote: In fact, I've never seen a gringo constantly racking up high numbers from the non-pro clubs in Thailand. You said it yourself that going to clubs in Vietnam is a waste of time. When people say SEA is so easy to pull off ONSs in it's mostly from the freelancer/pro clubs or online game, not night game in the normal clubs.

Yeah I've yet to meet a farang who can continually get laid with normal girls at non pro clubs.

Quote:Alphatravel: i find it hard to believe that anyone can easily rack up notches in South America. I worked my ass of there and wasn't getting regular sex in any country. It was always a struggle.

So, which countries/cities were so easy for you ? and what was your daily budget ?

I don't think I said it was easy but wouldn't say it was hugely difficult either. Much easier to get a one night stand from a club in South America than in SE Asia (with non pros) IME.

I had one night stands in Rio, Sao Paulo, Lima, Arequipa, Cusco & La Paz. I don't know what my budget was, few years ago now but was staying in cheap accommodation and eating mostly street or local cafe food. Not splashing out really.

Yes, I figured you had one night stands in countries like Peru and Bolivia. There and also Ecuador, if you are decent looking young gringo, it wouldn't be that hard to pull a one night stand . In those countries there are many gringo groupies, that dont even care that one can't speak spanish.
As to Brazil, it had to be Rio or Sao Paulo, where there are the most english speakers in the country. Im guessing, the garotas you pulled there, knew some english. Also, cities like Manaus and Bahia offer opportunities for one night stands. But in general, in the rest of Brazil, one night stands at clubs are not common, especially if you dont know portuguese or don't use social circle game
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I'd say every girl I pulled in South America knew some English.
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