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Just got back from downtown Dallas. Went out with a friend who is pretty smooth but has beta tendencies. Doesn't want to get with chicks who are too drunk blah blah blah. Anyways, I forgot my cash at my apt so he buys me a whiskey coke. I go to the bathroom.

A chick exits the bathroom at the same time as me. She flashes a smile I say hey she says heyyy Im messing around and ask her if everything came out alright she laughs and says yeah no troubles. I say I'm chad she says I'm Krystin(might have been Katherine idk) I say buy me a drink and she says she has to wait for her friend I say ok and rejoin my friend.

Later we go outside and sit at a table. Some girl puts her arm on my shoulder and sits down next to me and asks me if it's ok if she sits with us. I say only if you let me use your cigarette to light mine. A few seconds later this really drunk guy sits next to my friend and starts talking. He was really funny and I got so drawn in to what he was saying I forgot about the girl. As soon as I realize that I'm ignoring her she gets up and walks away.

After the bar shut down we went to a gas station that has a Dickeys BBQ inside. My buddy buys me a sandwich and this blond girl (looks to be about 30 years old) appears and starts saying how great the place smells. She was looking at me as she said this so I assume she was talking to me. I got my sandwich and am like yeah it does smell really good take a whiff of this beef...sandwich and hold the bag to her nose. She freaks out and tells me that she needs my help ordering. We go back and forth and I keep telling her no. She yells ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS. LIKE FUCKING SERIOUSLY! At this point everyone is looking at us lol. "Are you about to cry?" I ask. she smiles and says no! I finally help her out and order her a beef sandwich. She says something as I am getting my drink I don't know what she said but I repeat back "you have a hotel where?" she keeps talking all I remember is she said yes I would like sauce but minus the frat boy. I say lucky for you I'm not a frat boy. She starts doing some kind of strange twirling motion with her body and sticks her chin out. Me and my friend exit stage right.(or is it left?)
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07-15-2012 04:17 AM
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I met girls on the bus to and from the city this past weekend.

#1)

Ethnicity: Han Chinese
Hometown: Wenzhou
Venue: Moving Bus
Characteristics: Slightly taller (I peg her at 5'6), skinny (maybe 105?), some ass but zero boobs. Black hair dyed light brown, big eyes, nice teeth. Spoke some English, which facilitated things on my end.
Verdict in Chinese: Kě'ài

Breakdown: I see this girl eye me as soon as she gets on the bus before she sits down. Chinese buses have assigned seats, but people really sit where they want. Ten minutes into the ride (and after a few subsequent more eyeings), I go over and introduce myself. She spoke well and wanted to practice her English, so we spent the whole ride chatting. Don't see myself making it to Wenzhou anytime soon (as Wenzhou doesn't offer much, is like 8 hours by train and she was only semi-cute), but maybe she'll come up to see me?

Result: Cell Number Close, QQ Close.

#2)

Ethnicity: Han Chinese (shocker...)
Hometown: Somewhere in either Jiangsu or Hubei Province (going off what she said)
Venue: Moving Bus (briefly stationary during an accident)
Characteristics: Teeny-tiny, love that shit (5'1, 90ish range), but with boobs (the video goal judge will have to wait to determine whether they were padded or not) and an ass, great legs. Pale skin, great smile, almond shaped face and (quite rare) almost light-brown eyes. Spoke zero English.
Verdict in Chinese: Piàoliang

Breakdown: As I did not see this girl's Chēpiào and the bus was mostly empty, I have to wonder if she chose to sit beside me because, well...I'm me. This whole sequence was staggered to art-form levels. She sits down, we smile at each other, I turn away. Five minutes later she removes something from her bag, I look at it and say Zhè shì me? (What is this?), she says something in Chinese (it's shampoo or some shit). She smiles. A few minutes later I launch into Wǒ de míngzì ______, nǐ de míngzì shì? (My name is ________, what is your name?) and Wǒ lǎoshī háizi English (I teach children English) game. We continue to talk, her in Chinese, me in shitty Chinese, and I get her to laugh a few times, but never is it continual; at times I am pulling away to look out the window at the mountains; North Amercan Game with Chinese characteristics. An hour in I pull her QQ, and up the speaking, telling her I will teach her English and she can teach me Chinese, she smiles. Ten minutes before we stop we exchange numbers (QQ first because it's far less threatening [and you don't want to scare these girls off, many have boyfriends], and also Nǐ de QQ? [Your QQ?] is a shit ton easier than saying Ní de diànhuà hàomǎ? [Your phone number?]). We stand up, she sees how tall I am, I see how tiny she is, I finish off with a nice Nǐ hěn piàoliang and we part ways. Adding her to QQ tomorrow, trying to set it up later in the week, dinner. This is definitely going to be a job for Google Translate.

Result: Cell and QQ.

EDIT: And you need to keep shit REAL simple with GT English-Chinese.

EDIT, again: And yes, for short (<3 hour) trips, I take the bus instead of the plane or the train. Hate all you want, but buses leave every 30-60 minutes, which frees up more time for me to chop piàoliang Chinese girls (trains every few hours), are less crowded so I have more oxygen with which to chop piàoliang Chinese girls, skew cheaper the closer you get to 3 hours which frees up more money to chop piàoliang Chinese girls and I'd definitely say every 3 bus trips I take, I meet a piàoliang Chinese girl.
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07-15-2012 09:25 AM
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Went 3 for 3 yesterday.. Very happy I didn't strike out.


3/3 number close - make plans for later date
2/3 bought me a drink
1/3 K close
0/3 bangs


1) Was at a friend from class's going away cookout and everyone was foreign and spoke English as a second language.. Mostly tall blonde German women but one woman stood out. Tanya this HB 8.5 big titty Russian was at the table so I asked the kid next to me to trade seats (he was in between) so I could sit where he was (in front of everyone - they knew I was spitting game and she liked how was confident) and he agreed. I just made some jokes and she told me that she liked to go to an amusement park so I said we should go and we exchanged numbers.

2) Went to the club solo and got there early, which was god cause as Roosh said there was basically only women there so I just made some idle conversation and had a group of girls I approached buy me a shot. Had a really tough time finding a spot to post up at B/c they changed the set up. I saw a girl I had banged in the past's best friend HB8 Aubery and she bought me a drink and we agreed to do something this week so she gave me her number.

3) Saw a girl HB8 standing alone watching the bull rider inside the club so I walked up to her and made a joke about it. We talked for another minute and then we danced for a couple songs.. then we went outside cause I wanted to smoke a cig. I got the K close and number so I tried to pull her back to my place but she had to go home to her kid. She has already texted me this morning so I feel good about this one.

Recommendations to myself: Find more slutty chicks for SNL's.
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07-15-2012 11:47 AM
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met up with a forum member that was interested in getting into cooking. We meet at my usual pulling venue. I get there before he does and sit down directly across from this fucking hot 8. She's my ideal type, great body, dark hair, dark eyes. She's on a date with some guy but she's not into it, her body language is off. As soon as I sit down we lock eyes and I keep strong eye contact with a smirk on my face. We keep doing this while she's with this guy and one of his friends. They get up to go to the bathroom so I write my number down on some bar printer paper and walk over there and put my hand on her lower back and say, "Is that your boy?" "No." "Okay, well in that case you might need this." And hand her my number and walk off.

Shitty approach, I know. In the heat of the moment I didn't know what to do. Didn't want homeboy to come back and make a scene or pull her away, I wanted another chance to talk to her. I also had to piss like a racehorse so made a b-line for the bathroom after I dropped off my number. When I came back she kept giving me strong eye contact and smiling at me the whole night. At one point I nodded and motioned for her to follow me outside but nothin doing. Her date kept trying to kino escalate and she was very avoidant.

I don't wanna be that guy that says, "I hope she calls me." But sweet Jesus, I hope this girl calls me.
07-18-2012 09:24 AM
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Alright let's see how many approaches I can do today. Need to go to the grocery store, math department, library, the study abroad office, and the bar tonight.
07-18-2012 11:19 AM
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I wore my sleeps well with others shirt today. Not a good shirt for day game...sure I got some smiles from the guys and a few older women but it wasn't good for my demographic. Let's just skip ahead to night game..

I try to parrellel park in a tight space. I roll down my window and yell at some girls to wish me luck. Made it in on my first try. Me and my friend catch up to them at a cross walk and tell them thanks.


The first bar me and my friend went to was mostly guys. I counted 37guys to 8 girls. Anyways me and him sit at a table and talk. Out of the 8 girls, 3 were sitting at a table by themselves. One was fat, one had the skilexx(or whatever) haircut, and one was cute. My friend goes to the bathroom and I walk over to their table and use their ash tray as my opener. I sit down and they start talking to me. Things are going good until my friend comes out of the bathroom and spits bad game. All but the fat girl lose interest quick so I suggest we bounce and meet one of my friends a bar down the road. on my way out I attempt to grind on a girl whose dancing by her self. I think she was mad at first but I llooked over my shoulder and saw she was smiling.

At the next bar I steal a line from the Mrxy guy and tell a couple girls who are waiting in line to get into the bar to hurry up because I'm trying to get in. We talk a little bit but it leads nowhere.

At this bar a girl I havnt seen since freshman year I high school opens me. We're talking for not even ten seconds when my buddy forces himself into the conversation and kills my flow. I'm disgusted at this point. He should have gone to get a drink or something. I love the guy but hes the worst friend to take to a bar ever.

I kind of ditched him and my other friend and posted up near a pool table. I opened this girl who was grinding on her friend "what are you doing!"

She reads my shirt and says I'm trouble I tell her I'm more than she can handle. She tells me her name, I tell her mine and eject from this set because she is chubby.

My friend who blew up two promising sets starts throwing up so me and my other friend drop him off and then we went to a strip club.
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07-19-2012 06:32 AM
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Tonights rundown:

3 approaches
3 numbers
1 makeout sesh

Went to my usual pulling venue. What I've realized is that, while my venue has the highest concentration of hot girls in my local area, the logistics are just downright bad. Most girls are there in groups, sitting down eating. The hottest ones are already with guys on dates. It's a restaurant/bar. My bang rate at the moment is something to the tune of 1/20 or so. Maybe 1/25. There's a lot of high level dudes I have to compete with. The guys that I see with the hottest girls...they're suited down, probably actors, very attractive, probably loaded, and have serious game. Major competition. I definitely sacrifice quantity for quality here.

Approached a group of girls, got great rapport going with a 7 blonde girl, exchanged numbers, and then, because she was there with 4 other girls and I was conversing with the bartender, I look over and they just leave. Just like that. To go find a table or change locations. Fine.

The next group that takes their spot has an old busted cougar who is eyeing me up and down. I finally open them up just for practice and she's ready to blow me right then and there. She's a 4 at best, busted old hag with tons of makeup. Insta boner killer.

I move to another bar in the venue and there's two cute blonde girls giving me strong eye contact. I move over, open them up, ask if they're Australian and they say yes. One tries to fake the accent, the other obviously doesn't speak English. They're fucking with me. Turns out they're Hungarian. I'm Hungarian, so I strike up tons of convo and they just eat it up. Even though they've both lived here 10 years they are infinitely more interesting, attractive, and easy to talk to than any other western girls that I ever approach at this venue. One of them is very interested in me. Her face is okay, a 5, but her body is amazing, HUGE natural tits, at least DD, popping out of her tank top. Turns out they're both married with kids but it sounds like they got married for citizenship purposes; the one that's into me is ready to score that night. We talk another 30 min, we all exchange numbers, I nod to tits McGee to come outside and she follows and we go at it. Her tits feel great in my grip, big firm real meaty tits and we're smashing our faces together. I'm not sure if she would have come home with me, I kinda doubt she'd ditch her friend like that, but I leave her behind cuz I already called over this hot Jewish chick I've been bangin to meet me at my place. Pretty confident the big titty Hungarian will be a +1 in the very near future.
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Yesterday's Approaches: ( Three numbers that mean nothing )

# 1. Girl in Scrubs at Univ Campus : I open with do you know of a place where I can get my documents scanned as I need to send them to my partner ASAP (I seriously needed to have something scanned and was rather worried as needed to have it done in the next hour), She told me get to Kinko's on such and such road but they won't be open till 9, then suddenly sher goes you have an I phone, i said yes , she showed me an app that you can take a pic and convert in into a PDF format that looks like a real document, Great App by the way. I banter about her broken screen etc.

She asked me do I work here, I told her I am a consultant on business here, she told me what she is studying (Radiology Technician) and I advised her to study to become a Physician Assistant as with her qualification it will take her 2.5 years and she can be making $ 80,000. her eyes lit up....

I gave my 5 min speech on Where the Health care is heading and she was floored, asking me what is my name , what is my speciality, Can I guide her properly as no one gave her the proper info, I told her I have to be in a meeting in another town 80 miles away but will call her when I am driving back and Number closed.

# 2. I am trolling the Lunch places about 10 min walk from my work place and a Girl sitting at a Bench says , you are such and such, I had met their whole group at lunch like a month ago, we banter a little, she said she is moving back to chicago, I tell we will through her a going away party, she is out of own for next 3-4 days. I told her next week then. I didn't number close her becuase of everyone present and one lady that knows me but ding it , will get her next week.

# 3. I am carrying my lunch box and looking for a cutie at an empty table outside and see someone at the revolving door that looks like a failiar face, My God that was a Nurse that I gadn't seen in 5 years, we wave at each other and start walking to meet. She gives me a Sincere Hug that gave me aboner, she has Blond hair/blue eyes , cutest little glasses and figure.

We quickly tell each other what we have been upto, she tells me she has been trying to get Job at my hospital, I go into my speech mode and tell her exactly how to go about it, her eyes spazz out and says that you so much.... , Number close next......

# 4. A young black girl with a nice Ass is wheeling an old man to restroom and when he gets in is waiting outside, I open withsomething about her piercing right above her clevage, she laughs and said all her friends have it, I ask about her grandfather , she tells where his appointment is, we talk about patients having to wait a long time, she told me she had to drive him from another city about 1.5 hr away, we talk about that city, I wouls have liked to banter more but needd to get away from this hallway and told her I will be in her city next week and we should get together, she said Ok............. wait How old are you , I said how Old Do I look , she guessed a full 10 years younger then my age and I corrected her to another -2 Smile, She said yeah that should be fine, number close.

# 5. I am trolling a Hotel Lobby and walkin past the coffe shop see that the barista is rather cute and there is no one around, get a cup od coffe and ask for a cup of water, ask her if she is from Iran , she says no Albania , Why do I have an accent , I said yes and I banter about her region and the difficulties Immigrants feel when they come to US, she asks me how long I have been in US, what do I do...., We talked for a good 10 min real good vibe and there was no one in the shop and Then comes her fatso Boss giving me evil yes as if saying leave now...., I talk some more and leave ( I should have gotten her number when I had such a Nice banter going ) lesson learned.

walking out of the hotel decided IDGF and returned to the shop (Boss not present) and asked her you forgot to give me a glass of water and told her I reaaly enjoyed talking to her earlier we should get together sometime, She gave me the softest rejection ever, apologized and told me she has a BOy friend who is away for 2 months and she doesn't want to cheat. I wasn't gonna give up that easy and gave about 3 different BF destroyers, she held my hand placed the other on my shoulder and looked in my eyes and said she can not....., No dice here atleast I gave my full no regrest here.


and yes between approach 4 & 5 I trolled 2 grocery stores and post office , only one approach at post office

# 6. White Girl fully tattoed sleeves and chest, I can see half her tits, I open with the need to scan a document and to to such and scuh place, asked about her tattoes, she aswered and opened her phone and started talking , well this one is not interested......

I talked to few more during the day but wouldn't call it an approach as it is more of talking exercise for me even when I know girl is not my type or she will exit soon but I like to banter anychnace I get.

Feel free to critique me Guys.

And the three numbers I got yesterdy I thought # 1 was solid connection, Bitch didn't pick up her phone at the specified time we agreed on WTF........, Next....

Leaves me two more numbers to work with, Alright guys it's lunch time and I have wasted my trolling lunch place time for, going to get my Lunch quickly .........

"You can not fake good kids" - Mike Pence
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Went to a conference on diabetes and hypertension, more for networking than anything else.

There was one organiser chick, though, the moment I saw her I reckoned I had to make an approach.

Inbetween the presentations they had this really lame comedian for entertainment. Organiser chick walks out the conference to speak to someone.

I walk out the conference room soon after, trying to look like a lost elderly man looking for the bathroom.

She was talking to someone, so I walk past and go to the bathroom.

On my way back she's alone and standing outside the conference room. The lame comedian was still struggling to get people to laugh inside.

I stood by her for a moment, and said, "Who hired this lame act?"

Tried to ramble but my brain was in networking mode and I ended up running WNDHC instead of GALNUC. Did get her number though, but I framed the wrong context.

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Shaming a man taking a higher risk than you screams of insecurity.

If you are so funny why dont you put your ass up there? If he's so bad show me something.

Second she was WORKING the event either she or someone else chose this guy. You've now also insulted her.

Next time, look around. Say hmm you know I have this bet that people can you just "tell" whose a Podiatrist. I think that guy is, whose your pick?

Now you're playing a game instea of bringing someone down with negativity.

Only insecure people would do that.

Third.

"wow we doctors are a lot of fun huh?" Self-depreciating humor in a cocky funny manner. This assumes everyone was being boring and uninterested in comedian. Since she is higher social status at that time you have to imply your status without bringing down hers.

Fourth.

Approaching while an event is going on is rough, attention is all up and away, if it was isolated sure otherwise likely better to change the timing.

Hope this all helps, keep getting out there!

(07-20-2012 12:54 PM)Thomas the Rhymer Wrote:  Went to a conference on diabetes and hypertension, more for networking than anything else.

There was one organizer chick, though, the moment I saw her I reckoned I had to make an approach.

Inbetween the presentations they had this really lame comedian for entertainment. Organiser chick walks out the conference to speak to someone.

I walk out the conference room soon after, trying to look like a lost elderly man looking for the bathroom.

She was talking to someone, so I walk past and go to the bathroom.

On my way back she's alone and standing outside the conference room. The lame comedian was still struggling to get people to laugh inside.

I stood by her for a moment, and said, "Who hired this lame act?"

Tried to ramble but my brain was in networking mode and I ended up running WNDHC instead of GALNUC. Did get her number though, but I framed the wrong context.
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I gotta start going out solo

Went out with three friends tonight.

Got approached by a hot chick who was kinda drunk...ok she was very drunk but you know, I'm alright with that. She comes up to my table and starts dancing in front of us. Walks around to me and pulls my hand to make me standup. I get up and she tells me her name and asks for mine. When im in a loud enviroment, I like to make them say what so I can get right into their personal space. Im pretty much kissing her ear and I have my hand on her ass. She puts her hand down and brushes my dick. The she wants to dance with me but she flais her arms and knocks the drink out of my other hand. She says sorry and gives me hers. We were drinking the same drink.

For some reason I was feeling bad about my friends just sitting there so I ask if she has any friends. She says it's her friends birthday. She points to a table and her friend is even more drunk than the girli was talking to. So I tell my friends to get up and to come to this other table. Shit fell apart and I didn't want to just stand around so had them follow me upstairs to play some pool.

Later in the night one of my buddies got invited to a party. I went to tab out. I'm standing at the bar waiting for my bill when a cute chick stands right next to me.

Kb: Hey what's up?
Chick: not much
Kb: Did you come here with anybody?
Chick: Yeah I came with three friends.
kb: Are they girls?
Chick: No they are guys
Kb: do you want to go to a party?
chick: maybe.can my friends come?
kb: no. Just tell your friends you're going to the bathroom.
chick:Haha Maybeeee
kb: Ah that's a no.
chick: What?
Kb: maybe means no.
Chick: Not always =)

Boom,one of her friends walks up and takes her away.

We go to the party and it turns out that it's a Hawaiian themed party that was clearing out by the time we got there. A girl threw beads at me and I confront her about it. All she does is hug me.

I need to start asking girls for their phone number.
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In reviewing my approaches the past couple weeks, I've come up with a new standard for myself:

No more bro code.

If I get IOIs from a girl at a bar, she's game, period. I don't care if a guy's got his arm around her. I don't care if she's there with 3 other guys. I'm approaching. Fuck it. If I get punched, so be it. It's been happening more and more.

My regular pulling venue is pretty competitive, but not in the sense of other guys running approaches like me. It's a date venue where there are 30+ beautiful women, mostly on dates or in groups of women. I have to adapt to this.

I rationalize this in my head as, if I were married or in a very serious relationship, I would NOT be taking my girl out to a bar to socialize where there are many other good looking, successful, well-dressed men. Especially young model-type women who are more than happy to get extra attention from other guys. In a way these dudes are asking for it.

I've always heeded the bro code, and when my game was weaker, I'd actually use it as a typical rationalization to NOT approach, "Oh, she's with other guys, she's taken." Now I know it's not true, that, especially where I live, often the guy is gay or just a platonic friend. But now I'm going to extend that to women who are obviously on a date, but giving me strong eye contact or smiling at me. The date must not be going very well if she's not giving her guy utmost attention, so in my mind she's fair game.
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Bro code is only for your good friends. I won't try to girlfriend steal from a guy who is making me better. I have no qualms hitting on a girl with a random guy though, if he wants to fight he is showing anger, he has already lost.

A boyfriend is just another obstacle, chances are she initiated going out. To get more attention and make her boyfriend do more things and two to meet new guys better than her current.

Nothing is funnier than causing a couple to fight because you win over the girl and the guy walks over and throws a drink on you. You lose the girl for the night(the battle), he lost the girl forever(the war).

The player always wins because he doesn't care.

(07-21-2012 01:30 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  In reviewing my approaches the past couple weeks, I've come up with a new standard for myself:

No more bro code.

If I get IOIs from a girl at a bar, she's game, period. I don't care if a guy's got his arm around her. I don't care if she's there with 3 other guys. I'm approaching. Fuck it. If I get punched, so be it. It's been happening more and more.

My regular pulling venue is pretty competitive, but not in the sense of other guys running approaches like me. It's a date venue where there are 30+ beautiful women, mostly on dates or in groups of women. I have to adapt to this.

I rationalize this in my head as, if I were married or in a very serious relationship, I would NOT be taking my girl out to a bar to socialize where there are many other good looking, successful, well-dressed men. Especially young model-type women who are more than happy to get extra attention from other guys. In a way these dudes are asking for it.

I've always heeded the bro code, and when my game was weaker, I'd actually use it as a typical rationalization to NOT approach, "Oh, she's with other guys, she's taken." Now I know it's not true, that, especially where I live, often the guy is gay or just a platonic friend. But now I'm going to extend that to women who are obviously on a date, but giving me strong eye contact or smiling at me. The date must not be going very well if she's not giving her guy utmost attention, so in my mind she's fair game.
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Thursday night, West Village in NYC. First night in, meet up with some old friends get dinner then go to a bar. First 40 minutes do nothing, just talking and having fun. Both guys have girlfriends so I was getting bored. This girl walks in, great sexy body but her face while not bad is not easily identifiable as to what age she is. So we called her old young face. Her friend was a troll but very nice, I went over and asked them how old do you think my friend is (he just finished telling me everyone in Thailand thinks he's 40 and he's 32). Get the repoire going, sit with them for a few hours and eventually they take off, tried to bounce with OYF but didn't work, got her #.

Before that approached two girls that lived in the City with where to go next (tourist play). One kept up the convo for a bit then I ejected. Her friend I actually overheard say "hey I think this guy's hot i'm gonna go home with him" and friend just said "cool." There is 0 cockblocking in NYC, it's amazing.

After losing OYF went to another bar down the street, started talking to this very nice but obviously very wealthy girl from the upper east side. Can't really remember what happened but I know I tried to get her to come home with me and didn't work. Having my buddies continually buying rounds of drinks earlier I had gotten very tipsy and realized I need to go home. Almost got into a fight outside with some jersey-shore guy cause he thought I was staring at his girls or something. Took a cab home and passed out.
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Got wind last night the Brugal models were out at a liquor store. Walked down to the wrong one, then called my driver to set me straight. Word travels fast and it was a total sausage fest. Hung around, bought an expensive bottle of Brugal, won a t-shirt, and never saw the models.

I didn't expect to get a close, but push my limits to approach top talent. Tonight is the casino, tomorrow a barrio, and then Boca Chica Monday night. Gonna be A LOT of approaches in the next 72 hours.
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(07-21-2012 04:49 PM)slubu Wrote:  Thursday night, West Village in NYC. First night in, meet up with some old friends get dinner then go to a bar. First 40 minutes do nothing, just talking and having fun. Both guys have girlfriends so I was getting bored. This girl walks in, great sexy body but her face while not bad is not easily identifiable as to what age she is. So we called her old young face. Her friend was a troll but very nice, I went over and asked them how old do you think my friend is (he just finished telling me everyone in Thailand thinks he's 40 and he's 32). Get the repoire going, sit with them for a few hours and eventually they take off, tried to bounce with OYF but didn't work, got her #.

Before that approached two girls that lived in the City with where to go next (tourist play). One kept up the convo for a bit then I ejected. Her friend I actually overheard say "hey I think this guy's hot i'm gonna go home with him" and friend just said "cool." There is 0 cockblocking in NYC, it's amazing.

After losing OYF went to another bar down the street, started talking to this very nice but obviously very wealthy girl from the upper east side. Can't really remember what happened but I know I tried to get her to come home with me and didn't work. Having my buddies continually buying rounds of drinks earlier I had gotten very tipsy and realized I need to go home. Almost got into a fight outside with some jersey-shore guy cause he thought I was staring at his girls or something. Took a cab home and passed out.

Believe me there is plenty of cockblocking in NYC. I was chatting up this Russian chick at UnionSquare, and shit was going good until her friend came out of St.nowhere ,grabbed her arm and pulled her the opposite direction she came from. That twisted my gears for a few minutes. That was the first Russian chick I had ever met. Not "American-Russian", she was here visiting. Welp, life goes on.
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Lunch time Approach Again :
I'm sitting at a table in shaded area under trees after my lunch and reading RVF on my mobile and a persian looking girl in tight jeans and sleeveless shirt comes and sits on a table in front of me with her back toward me, happened so quick, I must have been absorbed reading some shit e-mech has written but she sat down and i didn't get a chance to open.

I wasn't gonna let this go, I read the RVF for next 10 min and let her finish her lunch and then got up, went to her table and sat down extended my hand and introduced myself, looking in her eyes and said, I had to come over and guess that you are Arabic just by the way your hair have curls in them.................. She laughs and says that's impressive that you can tell just by my hairs, she goes I'm actaually from lebanon. we banter a little about lebanon being a party city, etc , This town that we are in doesn't have much to do yada yada. Talk about a Lebanese restaurant in town. I ask her what brings a girl from leabnon to BFE Midwest America, she tells me she is doing PHD in Biochemistry.

I was following Uncle Roosh's model and checking off where I was even before I had a chance to thow a small or a big bait she asked me a Personal question what do you do ? I asked her to guess she guessed it right ? asked some specifics about what I Do, I have a 1 min DHV speech that I deliver and she asks more questions like How long have I been living here etc etc....

I told her my Luch break is over and have to get back lets get together some time, she hesitated and said she is kind of committed, I laughed and told her we are not commiting to anything , just a cup of coffee. She called my cell , number closed ......... next......

P.S : I am getting pissed at these numbers 5 numbers in the last 5 days , not getting anywhere

Also I have noticed I do better with my approaches on my working days . On the days when I go out Day Gaming with the Intent of gaming girls, either it's too obvious or i give off the vibe of someone who has their dick in hand to fuck someone, but I do poorly just like Thu i got 3 numbers from 5 approaches but no move forward fom those 3 numbers.

The whole weekend Fri-Sun I was in Game mode and only got 1 number ( Story later as it is interesting ) atleast the girl picked up the phone and we are planning to meet, but see whole weekend and only one number.

Did One approach today and one number, I do not feel this is gonna go anywhere though......

Happy Hunting......

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I was at the market, I saw a gorgeous little Beyonce type, mixed black/white, maybe 18/19. She was struggling to tear off one of those plastic bags that you put fruit into...

me: how to you work these stupid things
her: i don't know
me: let me try

I tore off one of the bags

her: thank, i guess im not very athletic
me: i guess not
her: hehe
me: are you making a salad?
her: no just getting mushrooms
me: im surprised your not watching the basketball game
her: who's playing? wait, don't tell me..
me: ok
her: umm, oklahoma city?
me: yup, you got it
her: are you a thunder fan?
me: no, im a spurs fan, we are enemies
her: hehe, i actually like the spurs too.
me: do you play ball?
her: no i run track
me: where in college?
her: no, in high school
me: high school! how old are you?
her: 17
me: 17, damn girl you're gonna get me in trouble
her: haha i'll be 18 in november
me: alright well, i'll holler at you after thanksgiving
her: haha ok bye

I walk away. I can't be talking to girls under 18.
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Early morning about 8am, I was getting on the train going to work, I see a cute Asian walking behind me...

me: how do i pay for parking?
her: at the ticker machine
me: oh (pretending to be confused)
her: we are walking the same way so i will show you
me: ok great thanks
her: you walk fast like me
me: i don't like to waste time
her: ya i don't have any to waste
me: me nether

We get to the station and she points out the machine.

her: here it is good luck
me: thanks have a good day

5 minutes later...

I get on the train and I notice the girl is sitting close by. The train is crowded, its early morning and I don't feel like approaching her in front of all these people squeezed together on the train.

I get an idea. I approach her area which is crowded with people. I talk loudly so she and everyone else can hear me...

me: hey do you have a pen i can borrow?
her: let me see (she immediately begins digging into her bag)

her: here you go
me: thanks

I take her pen and I write down my email address. I sit a few seats away from her. I wait a few minutes hoping the crowd around her will get off the train. She gets up and walks towards me and the exit. I get up right away as she walks towards me..

me: i wrote down my email (handing it to her)
her: oh
me: i think we should have a drink sometime
her: im married
me: fuck seriously
her: ya sorry but thanks for the offer
me: damn ok bye
her: bye sweetheart

Even though I was unsuccessful, it felt to good to be gaming hard at 8am on a Tuesday. I like to approach when most guys are scared too. It adds to my confidence.
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The next day, the same train, 2 college aged girls sit next to me carrying big travel bags, I make some pretty good eye contact with one of them...

me: are you going on vacation?
her: hehe, no, we just got here
me: from where?
her: LA, we are here for college
me: what school?
her: cal state
me: you just got off the airplane?
her: ya we have been traveling all morning
me: damn thats crazy
her: we have freshman orientation right now
me: wow, well, welcome to the bay area
her: thanks we love it here
me: ya its a little more relaxed then socal
her: really?
me: ya you don't have to get all dressed up to go to the grocery store
her: haha ya LA is crazy like that.
me: where are gonna live? the dorms?
her: ya
me: you are about 30 mins away from your school
her: really?
me: ya and the weather will be much better over there
her: i heard SF was foggy
me: only close to the ocean, the weather is different every few blocks out here
her: i love SF, what do you do over here?
me: im going to work right now at a sports camp
her: oh thats so much fun

blah, blah, blah...

We chat for a few minutes and I see my stop coming up...

me: this is my stop, wanna exchange numbers?
her: sure

I gave her mine and told her to text me. She did later that afternoon.
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Nice one Giovonny.

Btw you wouldnt fuck a girl who is 17 but looks older? I think the age of consent in the US varies by states, right? Some states 16 is an acceptable age, i dont understand why you wouldnt hit it if you like younger girls.
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Age of consent is 18 in California.
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Perfectly executed approaches Gio.............. Keep'em coming , I think members new at Game should dissect what Gio is telling in these approaches , No Game Theory, No Bull shit , How he goes about his daily routine and approaches effortlessly......

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good to hear youre back at it harder than you were in vegas dude.
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I went grocery shopping today. I noticed this super hot sorority looking girl looking at me/following my shopping route. I asked her the difference between all the kinds of potatoes (talking kind of like I was baked and really wanted to know about potatoes. I was just about to drop some bait when her phone rang. She seemed startled ans reluctantly picked it up. I picked some potatoes and smiled goodbye. Didn't run into her later as I had hoped.

How would you have reacted in this situation?
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