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In honor of my first day doing day game, made myself open this cute girl at the gate in the airport. Asked her if she's going to sf too, what time it boards, etc. super nice girl, sophisticated accent from Australia. Got one personal question but that's it I was doing all the talking. Mentioned bf but traveling to sf by herself for a concert. Then got up to go board early, so prob a polite ejection. Either way at least now I won't regret it for the next few hours.
09-07-2012 01:00 PM
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When I got shut down at Whole Foods by a Russian girl on her cell phone the other day I realized:

Even if I'm 100% certain that I will get rejected, if I know that there isn't even the SLIGHTEST chance that I'll even get my presence acknowledged, let alone a conversation or phone number, if there's basically no way on God's green earth that I will acheive any success whatsoever, but I STILL don't approach, I'll regret it.

You could call it, "Irrationally following the impulse". See attractive girl, approach, period. Because where do you draw the line in rationalizing NOT approaching? What, she's with a guy? On her phone? Has a scowl on her face? None of those things insure that she's not approachable.
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(09-02-2012 04:36 PM)starmaze Wrote:  I liked when Giovonny once said that he doesn’t go out to collect numbers , he is going out to create connections.

Yes, I remember saying this, and it's very true. DON'T BE A NUMBER COLLECTOR! The most important thing is that we create a connection with these girls. We have to get them out on a date! Getting the number means nothing. It's how we get the number that is important. We want to be remembered. We need to leave an impression. She has to be waiting for our call and want to see us again. Approach with the goal of making a connection.

(09-05-2012 04:59 PM)pitt Wrote:  Great advice Gio but i think that alphamind line is way too straight forward, i am quiet sure the majority of girls will just say no thanks, even if they were interested.

Well, it all depends, if you are a 6 and you approach a 9 with this line, she will probably not be interested. But, if you are a 6 and you approach another 6 with line, it could work. Stay within a point of two or your looks range.

If you are a 5, use this line on 6s and 7s.

If you are a 6, use this line on 6s, 7s and 8s.

If you are 7, 7s and 8s.

See what I mean? Stay in your range. Most guys don't have the balls to do this so you will set yourself apart from the crowd and have a certain wow factor. Girls are not getting approached like this very often, especially the 6s and 7s, if you approach like this, you could be giving her an experience that she has never had, she could really like it, especially if you are smooth, well spoken, well groomed, and confident.

Try it, its a great exercise in building confidence.

I think you will be surprised what happens. Girls respect confidence. They won't laugh at you or blow you out. They might say - "I'm flattered, but I have a boyfriend" or "I appreciate the offer but I'm with someone" or "thank you, but im not looking for anything right now".

It's really no big deal. The people sitting around her won't even know what is happening. It will just look like two people talking.

Once you see that it is no big deal and no one is gonna laugh at you, it really changes your perspective, you see what is possible, you see that girls want to be approached and they respect men who do it with confidence.

I do it to 9s and 10's just for practice and to keep fear out of my mind. Every once in a while a 9 will give me her number and will give me a real chance.

(09-02-2012 02:37 PM)gandt Wrote:  Got out of my comfort zone finally. Its good to feel alive again.

Doesn't this day game make you feel alive!?!!

It forces you to man up and face your fears. That shit is powerful. Just you and a woman, one on one, no alcohol, no music, no party, you have to impress her with the sheer force of your personality and confidence. It's a great test for any man.

(09-06-2012 04:27 AM)starmaze Wrote:  Me: excuse me, do you know where is street x?
Her: blab la
Me: btw you have unique style


Usually they say thanks and walk away.

Me: excuse me, do you know where is street x?
Her: blab la
Me: I don’t visit this part of the city too often
Her: oh, I see
Me: you know it’s funny, you remind me a girl from my yoga class


This one works a bit better.

I had a dates from both openers but I am looking for something better.


The one I want to try is:

Me: excuse me, do you know where is street x?
Her: blab la
Me: you looked like I have just interrupted you having some deep thoughts. As if you was thinking about meaning of life or fate of universe..


What do you thing about those ones?


These are better. They seem more natural. The girl won't feel you were playing a game with her. These are more straight forward and direct.

I think the next step for you is to just go direct..

Say - "excuse me, you have a crazy style, are you from new york?"

Notice that I am not complimenting her. She might even take it as a neg. I am just commenting on her look and asking a direct question.

You don't have to compliment her and say she is cute. You can just make a neutral observation. Keep it playful, smile, relaxed body language, calm tone of voice, don't talk to fast.

(09-06-2012 04:27 AM)starmaze Wrote:  Going direct and telling girl you find her attractive is one thing but asking for date/number right off the bat is other thing. You find her attractive, alright, but you still want to find out something interesting about her. Even if going direct alone can create attraction , by asking for date immediately you skip qualification and comfort phase.

Exactly!

Don't ever skip qualification and comfort!

Don't ever just say - "hey you're cute can i get your number?"

That is not direct game! That is just direct.

Direct game is talking to her, making her laugh, finding something in common, making a connection, qualifiying her, building comfort, AND THEN, AFTER ALL THAT, GETTING HER NUMBER. The point is not to get her number, the point is to see her again.
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Tru dat. A direct opener is only supposed to shock her the fuck out of her mind-numbingly boring reality (= auto-pilot).

You could argue she becomes more receptive to your game in general.
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(09-07-2012 01:55 PM)reino341 Wrote:  A direct opener is only supposed to shock her the fuck out of her mind-numbingly boring reality (= auto-pilot).

I love this! "shock her the fuck out of her mind-numbingly boring reality"

Exactly!

(09-07-2012 01:55 PM)reino341 Wrote:  You could argue she becomes more receptive to your game in general.

If you do it right and she is open to meeting a cute stranger, I think she does become more receptive to your game. All girls want to meet a handsome stranger.
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(09-06-2012 04:59 PM)Thatdude Wrote:  Me: hey do you know where science north is?
Girl: yeah I'm actually going there right now
Me: you mind if I join you?
Girl: sure, do you have physics at 7?
Me: nah, I have Chem at 6
Girl: oh
Me: yeah do you go here full time? ( this is at a cc where I'm taking one of my classes cause its easier than at my actual college)
Girl: yeah what about you?
Me: nah I'm taking a class here I actually go to ***
Girl: really? Same here I went there last year but had to come here cause I was basically failing out
Me: yeah the science and math classes are easier at a community college, what are you studying?
Girl: yeah my dad told me to finish up these classes here before I go back to ******** and I'm studying arabic

Thats a good start to your day game career. You do have to be careful about being too direct on a college campus. You are gonna see alot of these girls again. You can't be asking everybody for their number.

One thing I suggest is to try and personalize the conversation. When she said she was Arabic, you could have asked her if she was Arab. This might have led to a more personal thread of conversation.

Try dropping some bait like - "my sense of direction is all messed up because i just got back from argentina". Even if its a white lie, who cares?! This might intrique her and get her to ask you some questions.

The big thing with this girl is to say hi to her next time you see her. Keep the dialogue going with her. Try to talk to her on a slightly more personal level next time. When you go to school with a girl, sometimes you have to be more patient and "slow play" her. Meaning, don't ask her for her number the first time you talk to her, instead, build comfort and attraction over time.

(09-07-2012 10:01 AM)starmaze Wrote:  Yesterday. 1 approach

I wanted to tested my New transition from asking for direction to normal conversation. It didn’t go smooth though. I approached her from behind asking about some street.
Me: excuse me where is street x?
Her: blab
Me: you know, you reminds me of I girl I met on my yoga class
Her: oh..
Me: have you ever taken yoga class?
Her: ( smiles), no…

I didn’t want to say next so she put her earphones back and walk away.

Today I made 2 approaches.
I saw a nice girl shopping in the mall. I hesitated but put myself next to her pretending I am checking some stuff. When she walks by me I asked:

me: excuse me, do you know if this fish ia any good?

I was smiling and possibly she sensed that it was just excuse to talk to her so she just smiled and said: her: sorry, I have no clue ( and walked to next isle)

I said to myself “fuck it” and decided to reopen her.

Me: I don’t really care about fish, just wanted to talk to you, you look cute.

She was very friendly and receptive. We had nice talk and she asked me some personal questions but it turned out she had a child and a husband. I wish her a good day and ejected.

I wanted t try my new street opener and stopped another chick in the street. I asked her where I can eat a good pizza around here but she said : I don’t know and kept walking.

I will try this opener again tomorrow.

Ok, you are getting better with the transition from indirect opener to personal conversation. I think the girls can tell that you are lying when you ask for directions and ask about pizza. They know you are just trying to talk to them. They can probably see it in your eyes. If you were really lost and looking for a street, you would look lost, you probably don't look lost at all, you just look like a pick up artist. They are good at sensing this stuff.

Keep posting your approaches and I will try to help you more. Just keep it up. I can tell you are a fast learner.

Try some direct stuff.

(09-07-2012 12:35 PM)Lothario Wrote:  Starbucks Approach : In line about 3-4 people in line, last person is a Girl with a leather shoulder bag, i couldn't see the face. I'm thinking the line is too short and i will not have time to finish and don't know how the girl looks like and ........just say Fuck it... i'm opening just for batting practice..

ME: Is that a Fossil bag you are carrying

She turns around smiling (Butter face 6.5, No ring on the finger, ok...)

Her: I got it at Macy's, they had a big sale labor day weekend.

Me: Oh yeah, I have only been to the Fossil store at the Mall where I got my Watch (show her my Watch)

Her: That's a cool watch, Fossil watches are really reliable , I had one that lasted 5 years.

Me: I like it too , This is my second Fossil watch and still have the first one.

Her: I spilled some paint on my bag and probably going to get another one.

Me: Are you a student here

her: Yes I'm doing PHD in Mineral Sciences, our classes/research is in such and such building....

Me: So you are on the other end of the spectrum from us...

Her: What do you do ?


and comes the cockblock , A young brother seemed bothered that i was talking to this girl and said the barrista is waiting for your order just when i got the signal to go GALNUC.

Her: Well it was nice talking to you and goes to order

I order my coffee and ask her to come join me for coffee and we can continue the conversation , she says she has to get back to her project and leaves.

Solid approach. Simple and got the job done! Started a conversation.

(09-07-2012 12:35 PM)Lothario Wrote:  2nd Approach: That I didn't do Angry....., I was leaving the building and see a latino girl dressed in formal pants and blouse, coming towrads me, we hold eye contact, I hold the door for her, she takes two steps forwards turns around and says thank you, I just say you're welcome and keep walking.... Ding it. There was something in her eyes, a spark something ........ On to the next one.......

It's tough when you are walking out and she is walking in. It's like on the street when you are walking in opposite directions. The only thing you can do it stop, get in their way, and open them right there.

What could you have done here to open this Latina in the doorway? It's is a hard one. You have to be extra ballsy. I think I would have touched her. Just gently grabbed her arm and said something like - "the coffee shop is closed, they ran out of coffee" or "hey no latinas allowed right now, its too hot in here?" or "hey why didn't you come in here 5 minutes ago so i could flirt with you?"

Just something playful and flirty like that. If she laughs and you get a conversation going, may be you could have stayed and chatted with her.
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(09-07-2012 02:21 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Thats a good start to your day game career. You do have to be careful about being too direct on a college campus. You are gonna see alot of these girls again. You can't be asking everybody for their number.

gio since you make a lot of your approaches on college campuses and you say you can't be asking every girl for their number, how often you do it? there's so many hot girls around how do you choose which to approach?
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Thanks for the responses Gio, Keep em coming ....... On the Second Approach I would have gone direct like you said if I wasn't close to my work area. Had this been out of town , I would be all over it......

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I think today was pretty sick approach wise.
Bus Game/Walmart Game
So I needed to take the bus to get to Wal-Mart. When I had gotten on the bus, it was flaming hot. Like hot to the point that everyone on the bus was raging. And instead of raging, I decided to just make fun about the whole situation the whole time.

Conversation #1:
*Girl sits next to me*
Me: Aren't you glad I saved you a seat? (Used from Bus game thread!)
Azn #1: Yes thank you.
Me: Yo, what the fuck is up with this bus?
Me:We paid like 50k to be here and they give us this hot ass bus.
*Girls on the bus laugh*

I chatted with the asian looking girl (5.5) for a while. But it seemed like she was too interested in talking to her other girly friends.

Conversation 2:
Me: It's hot as shit on this bus so I'm just gonna socialize. *walks to the back*
And then I had talked to a few bros who were also talking to some chicks. At that moment, I unno my approach anxiety just died for some reason.
Girl: Why do they have a shop called West Coast Movies? We're in Pennsylvania.
Me: I'm from the West coast (bullshit lie)
Girl: Where are you from?
Me: Hollywood
Girl #2: Which street?
Me: Hollywood Street
Girl #3: Whats the zip code?
Me: 187 HOLLY
*girls all laugh*

So now by the time I get to the line with my lighter fluid. The fucking cashier was being a pussy and was like "I'm sorry but I can't sell this because you don't have your ID."

I felt like a bitch at first. But I walked around to see if any of the girls would bump into me. So the freshmen girls came and said "sup" to me.

Conversation 3
Me: So I guess you girls are going to the american theme party.
Girl #1: Yeah.
Me: Oh fuck that, I'm going to the 80's party.
Azn Girl #2: Can I get a piece of your Sweedish fish?
Me: Sure! *Pull it out to her then eats it*
Azn Girl #2: Awww come on
Me: Alright *pulls it to her but does the same*
Azn Girl #2: I dont even want none no more
Me: *Gives her one* Stop whining.

I asked one of the freshmen girls to use her ID to help get my lighter fluid. And even though she helped me get it, it seemed like she had forgotten to ask for the money back. I think game has a little magic with it.

And on the bus ride back, I continued to chill with em and crack some jokes. Great fucking ride. All because I decided to have the balls to say something. When we had gotten halfway to the campus, I just got off and walked home.

No number closing at this one. But I'm sure we'll all meet up again next time.

Lessons Learned:
+Some negative situations can help you.
+Always say "are you happy i gave you a seat?" if a girl sits near. And "thanks for giving me a seat" when you sit next to a girl.
+Girls on the bus aren't that bad
+FRESHMEN GIRLS ARE COOL
+When I stop acting like a pussy, good things happen!
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(09-07-2012 03:10 PM)lurker123123 Wrote:  gio since you make a lot of your approaches on college campuses and you say you can't be asking every girl for their number, how often you do it? there's so many hot girls around how do you choose which to approach?

I rotate between a few different colleges so I can be more aggressive. I will only be at any certain college campus maybe once or twice a week. Some weeks I go to a different college everyday. I do this so that my face doesn't get recognized too often.

Here is how I decide which girls to approach:

1) Am I attracted to her?
2) Is she approachable?
3) Are the logistics favorable for me?

I like girls walking by themselves. I like girls sitting down. I like girls waiting in line.

I don't like girls walking in groups. I don't like girls who are in a hurry. I don't like girls talking on their phones.

Basically, I just try to find a girl who is alone and in a situation that makes it easy for me to approach. Walking by herself, waiting for the bus, sitting at the cafe, etc. I approach the ones who are easy to approach.

As far as asking for her number..

If I can create a decent conversation with her and make some sort of connection, I will ask for her number. If she seems uninterested and tries to end the conversation, I won't ask.

I don't have to worry about these girls seeing my everyday because I am not a student. If I get rejected like 10 times in a row I will just go to a different school. Hope that answers your question.
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Rolled dolo and struck out about 15 times in a row last night. Was feeling real good about a couple of them, especially these 2 sisters from Taiwan, who had only been here for 2 weeks, but I kept losing all the girls after 5-10 minutes. I think I need to be more sexual and energetic in my approaches. Also drunk a lot less than I usually would, and it wasn't so bad, but I found myself running out of steam towards the end of the night.

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(09-07-2012 07:19 PM)Rosca Wrote:  When I stop acting like a pussy, good things happen!

You got it dude! Not being a pussy is the #1 rule!
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(09-07-2012 09:04 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Hope that answers your question.

It does. Thanks for all the great insights on this thread
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(09-07-2012 03:10 PM)lurker123123 Wrote:  
(09-07-2012 02:21 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Thats a good start to your day game career. You do have to be careful about being too direct on a college campus. You are gonna see alot of these girls again. You can't be asking everybody for their number.

gio since you make a lot of your approaches on college campuses and you say you can't be asking every girl for their number, how often you do it? there's so many hot girls around how do you choose which to approach?


Thanks for the advice man, you are so right in that I'll see these girls again so pushing for the number each time might not be the smartest move. The last thing I want is a reputation as a creeper. Also how you said building a connection is more important, that's so true when you think about it. But anyway I'll keep everything you said in mind, and thanks again!
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I have not seen a girl worth approaching all day. I rolled out to taco bell and the cashier was a guy.
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This weekend is a bust for me game wise. Visiting buddies that drink nonstop so no shot at gaming. Was tanked by 11 last night. I did approach one girl at dinner and hit it off with her, taking shots, chatting etc. sadly can't remember anything I said or she said. Her friends dragged her to a bar and she told me to meet her there but never made it. I believe I tried approaching more girls but I was probably way too drunk for any to understand.
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Last night was mad fucking fun. This is a fucking game highlight for me. Remember that bus approach shit? I made out with a girl that was on the bus.

Frat Party Game
So I had went to this American themed frat party with the wrong theme on. So throughout the party, I had gotten 3 makeouts pretty fast.

PROTIP #1: See, a good tip for dancing is to wear a hat. Then, when you dance with a girl you will be able to put it on her head. And depend on how long she has it on there you can guage if she wants to make out or not.

So the last chick I was dancing with, I made out with her and heres how the conversation started.
Her: Are you in this frat?
Me: You tell me *slides finger under her chin*
Her: Seriously, you tell me *Slides finger under my chin*
Me: No you tell me *slides it under her chin again*
Me: Nah, I'm a sophomore.
So we danced a bit again and we made out one more time. I was ready for the bang man. I don't know how to explain it, but I fucking felt it going down. So I had then began to ask her. "Hey, wanna smoke with me?". She said yes and we began to leave the frat party. Everything was good at this point. And we're walking back to her spot.

On the courtyard of her dorm place, we decided to chill and smoke cigarettes. While there we were talking about how freshmen guys are cool, but its hard as fuck for them because they're well freshmen. And here's how everything fucked up so bad.

And this is fucking crazy man! The bitches who cockblocked me were on the bus too! So her friends had kept calling her phone and shit. And like within minutes, they all began to came.

At that moment, I was just like "fuck it!" and made out with her in front of them. But they still did not get the fucking hint, these bitches still wanted to go to another party. So they took the girl I was with with them. And I was following suit. I did not want to give up on a bang.

Then come to find out some dickhead freshmen guy starts coming with us! And I was guessing that he was their friends and shit. Beta orbiter to the fucking max. He takes the girl I made out with phone and placed it in her pocket. He was like "oh well don't worry, i'll make sure you'll be okay". Like she would walk arm and arm with him. I was just pissed off, I had never been cockblocked this hard ever. One of her friends was like "Oh you can just leave. It's fine.". The fucking bastard guy was like "We're just gonna call it a night and go back to the dorms".

That's when I knew I was cockblocked to the max. She had given me her so called "number" and when I texted it, it was the wrong person.

So after that, I bonged up with these dudes i just gave a cig to. And now I'm still feeling that shit. Now I can't stop dancing for some reason. Its like I have a high hangover.

Lessons Learned:
+Cigarettes and zippo lighters are a great way to establish conversations.
+Don't give a bitch a cigarette if you're tryna bang. Just give her yours! Giving her one means you are taking longer to get to her room.
+Dance wise, the best way to make out with a girl is to first go for the neck. Then get in the lips.
+Slim fit V-necks are like good luck charms.
+Always answer a girl's question with some bullshit.

-Anytime a girl says "room" do not fucking decide to chill and smoke with her. Go to her fucking room.
-Cockblockers are the worst. But as a group, your chances to pull goes from fine to fucked within seconds.
-I'm going to have to see her again. This campus is small ):

But damn dude, my night game has went up so good it seems. I have a high hangover now, but I can say that game is really fucking cool once done right.
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Did my first day game approach today. First mall I went to I couldn't find a single target after walking around 30 minutes. Second mall I found one.

I wasn't nervous until the seconds before I decided I was going to approach. After that my heart started beating rapidly but I knew I had to do it. Used roosh's day bang model and tried to ramble about some jeans I was looking at. She was answering all my questions, but I ran out of things to say and I couldn't think as clearly as I normally do because of nerves.

After the approach I couldn't wait to do more. Unfortunately the malls here don't have a lot of good opportunities. Looking forward to hitting college campuses next week.
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09-08-2012 05:56 PM
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RE: The Approach Thread
I had a good night fun wise yesterday, but game wise I got fucked multiple times. I approached a bunch of chicks.but it never went anywhere because I kept getting interrupted by friends. I had 2 chicks approach me and got both of their numbers. One told me I was the "sexy guy from class" met up later at her friends house they got invited to a house party so the sure thing bang fell through

The only approach' I really did was these 8s friends of a friend. Spilled a drink on one and me laughing instead of apologizing made them angry I tried to get a normal convo going afyer talking to my friend for a bit. Asked them where they were from and teased them about their hometowns suddenly one just says "were too old for this shit" I agree and amplify and say they should go to a bingo hall instead. She starts screaming for me to get the fuck out and I'm a huge asshole. I get out of there right quick.

I think I can be too much of an asshole at night. I make fun of chicks or say mean things before they realize that I never mean any of it and that's just who I am
09-08-2012 07:28 PM
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RE: The Approach Thread
(09-08-2012 07:28 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  I had a good night fun wise yesterday, but game wise I got fucked multiple times. I approached a bunch of chicks.but it never went anywhere because I kept getting interrupted by friends. I had 2 chicks approach me and got both of their numbers. One told me I was the "sexy guy from class" met up later at her friends house they got invited to a house party so the sure thing bang fell through

The only approach' I really did was these 8s friends of a friend. Spilled a drink on one and me laughing instead of apologizing made them angry I tried to get a normal convo going afyer talking to my friend for a bit. Asked them where they were from and teased them about their hometowns suddenly one just says "were too old for this shit" I agree and amplify and say they should go to a bingo hall instead. She starts screaming for me to get the fuck out and I'm a huge asshole. I get out of there right quick.

I think I can be too much of an asshole at night. I make fun of chicks or say mean things before they realize that I never mean any of it and that's just who I am

Hmm I don't know what the situation was but you could've used the spilled drink as a chance to isolate and escalate - take her away to somewhere where you can help her clean up and give her a wipe down, get physical..
09-08-2012 08:09 PM
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RE: The Approach Thread
Did my first approach today as well..forever 21.spent the first 20 min feeling awkward about being in a women's store. Then approached a girl asking for advice for my sisters b'day ( which was a lie obviously.I don't have a sister).Bantered a little bit about getting a casual top.dropped bait about just graduating from college and being on a budget.she didn't respond.eventually she just walked away.i didn't know how to sustain the conversation.

Same store, two hot blondes walk by me looking at the same tops that I'm looking at.I gestured with my hand and was about to say ' that would look nice on you' but the words didn't come out.It was funny.I moved my hands but my mouth didn't open.That wasn't an approach but I'm getting there.

Overall, it was a good experience.I see myself doing this much more often. Next time, just for fun,I'm going to use Alpha Mind's line on some chick on the street.We will see how that goes.

Feel the fear..then do it anyway.
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09-08-2012 08:27 PM
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RE: The Approach Thread
(09-08-2012 08:27 PM)NewGamer Wrote:  Did my first approach today as well..forever 21.spent the first 20 min feeling awkward about being in a women's store. Then approached a girl asking for advice for my sisters b'day ( which was a lie obviously.I don't have a sister).Bantered a little bit about getting a casual top.dropped bait about just graduating from college and being on a budget.she didn't respond.eventually she just walked away.i didn't know how to sustain the conversation.

Same store, two hot blondes walk by me looking at the same tops that I'm looking at.I gestured with my hand and was about to say ' that would look nice on you' but the words didn't come out.It was funny.I moved my hands but my mouth didn't open.That wasn't an approach but I'm getting there.

Overall, it was a good experience.I see myself doing this much more often. Next time, just for fun,I'm going to use Alpha Mind's line on some chick on the street.We will see how that goes.

Hah! I would not, in a million years, daygame at Forever 21. I'm not saying don't try, but it's going to look creepy to chicks no matter what. What I WOULD recommend, and what I have done, is daygame at Anthropologie. That place is a little bit more geared towards buying gifts and I think you could be a little more congruent with your approaches there.
09-08-2012 11:15 PM
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(09-08-2012 01:29 PM)Rosca Wrote:  Last night was mad fucking fun. This is a fucking game highlight for me. Remember that bus approach shit? I made out with a girl that was on the bus.

Frat Party Game
So I had went to this American themed frat party with the wrong theme on. So throughout the party, I had gotten 3 makeouts pretty fast.

PROTIP #1: See, a good tip for dancing is to wear a hat. Then, when you dance with a girl you will be able to put it on her head. And depend on how long she has it on there you can guage if she wants to make out or not.

So the last chick I was dancing with, I made out with her and heres how the conversation started.
Her: Are you in this frat?
Me: You tell me *slides finger under her chin*
Her: Seriously, you tell me *Slides finger under my chin*
Me: No you tell me *slides it under her chin again*
Me: Nah, I'm a sophomore.
So we danced a bit again and we made out one more time. I was ready for the bang man. I don't know how to explain it, but I fucking felt it going down. So I had then began to ask her. "Hey, wanna smoke with me?". She said yes and we began to leave the frat party. Everything was good at this point. And we're walking back to her spot.

On the courtyard of her dorm place, we decided to chill and smoke cigarettes. While there we were talking about how freshmen guys are cool, but its hard as fuck for them because they're well freshmen. And here's how everything fucked up so bad.

And this is fucking crazy man! The bitches who cockblocked me were on the bus too! So her friends had kept calling her phone and shit. And like within minutes, they all began to came.

At that moment, I was just like "fuck it!" and made out with her in front of them. But they still did not get the fucking hint, these bitches still wanted to go to another party. So they took the girl I was with with them. And I was following suit. I did not want to give up on a bang.

Then come to find out some dickhead freshmen guy starts coming with us! And I was guessing that he was their friends and shit. Beta orbiter to the fucking max. He takes the girl I made out with phone and placed it in her pocket. He was like "oh well don't worry, i'll make sure you'll be okay". Like she would walk arm and arm with him. I was just pissed off, I had never been cockblocked this hard ever. One of her friends was like "Oh you can just leave. It's fine.". The fucking bastard guy was like "We're just gonna call it a night and go back to the dorms".

That's when I knew I was cockblocked to the max. She had given me her so called "number" and when I texted it, it was the wrong person.

So after that, I bonged up with these dudes i just gave a cig to. And now I'm still feeling that shit. Now I can't stop dancing for some reason. Its like I have a high hangover.

Lessons Learned:
+Cigarettes and zippo lighters are a great way to establish conversations.
+Don't give a bitch a cigarette if you're tryna bang. Just give her yours! Giving her one means you are taking longer to get to her room.
+Dance wise, the best way to make out with a girl is to first go for the neck. Then get in the lips.
+Slim fit V-necks are like good luck charms.
+Always answer a girl's question with some bullshit.

-Anytime a girl says "room" do not fucking decide to chill and smoke with her. Go to her fucking room.
-Cockblockers are the worst. But as a group, your chances to pull goes from fine to fucked within seconds.
-I'm going to have to see her again. This campus is small ):

But damn dude, my night game has went up so good it seems. I have a high hangover now, but I can say that game is really fucking cool once done right.

Gotta love raw nights.

New here still trying to get used to everything, but my 2cents:

Its generally accepted around here that you want to push for the bang through rain, sleet, and hail; but, in that scenario you probably should have copped the digits and backed off once the friends dragged her to another party. You two were both already somewhat invested in each other and even though College girls are generally promiscuis, if you had built up enough rapport, the follow-up bang would have been cake. In my opinion, by following her around to another party it weakened your position. Pussy ass niggas tend to act like mother hens to the females they're attracted to but not smashing so, I would say, in his own weak way, that beta orbiter sounds like he was "gaming" your girl even though he probably didn't have the skills to take it to the finish line, but (again this is speculative) by following her a negative (for you) vibe is created where she is the prize because the only reason you're there is to get the bang and in hamster land, that's "unromantic" tard
Make Sense?

Overall, killer stuff bro. Put that night in the archives and keep building your highlight tape, player.
09-09-2012 04:38 AM
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Approached a stripper today as I pulled out of the drive through at chick-fil-a. I spotted her as she got out of her car in the parking lot, don't ask me how I knew-- I have an eye for them when they're in civilian clothing, they're my type.

Make a long story short it seems like she's having car trouble I pull up and offer my assistance. I assume a very authoritative disposition and I give her car the once over while keeping the flirting to a -1. Even though this girl's body was incredibly attractive I didn't want to tip my hand to early.

Now, mind you I don't know jack shit about cars, but I know this girl is sexy as hell so I act like I do. I instruct her to pull over to the side of the parking lot and while she tries to do that, the wheel doesn't cooperate idk WHAT happened, but all of a sudden BOOM the car is FUCKED. It's leaning at this weird angle, it's leaking fluid, I"m like OH shit.. She later made it clear to me that this was a rental, but in the moment I was like "oh fuck, I just fucked this bitch's car up."

My macbook is dying I'll have to update this in the morning. Sorry Guys!
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At a party:

Walked up to a girl in the kitchen of at this party.

Me: What do we got over here

Her: lots of stuff what do you want?

Me: what do you have?

Her: whipped cream vodka and orange soda.

Me: ohh make me one.

We drink the orange soda vodka drink and talk then I suggest we do a shot of sweet tea flavored vodka.

Now we're playing beer pong.


Lots of drinking later she says she's going to the bathroom.

I wait like thirty seconds then go to the bathroom. Turn the knob and it's open!

I walk in and she's looking at herself in the mirror.

Her:hey you gotta leave I'm about to pee!

Me: Don't let me being here stop you!

Her: Ok well turn around and font look!!

Me: ok I promise I won't look.


I hear tickles so I turn around.

Me: you done yet? I gotta go!

Her: Whoa! What are you doing don't look!

Me: hurry up I gotta piss! Fuck it ill go in this guys sink!

Her:Ok!

Me: Ahhh I can't pee in his sink. Here ill be in the shower till your done.

Me: Don't worry, this isn't the first time I've been in this situation... Get in the shower when your done.

Her: Haha maybe.

I step out from behind the curtain.

Me: Mayve?!

By now she's pulling up her pants. I start kissing her and feeling her up. I shoot my hand in her pants and start fingering her. She's All over my dick and is an aggressive kisser. Then she's says she has to go because of her curfew. I keep her there another few minutes and she tells me she wants to hang out a lot this week.
I took her number then she squeezed my dick hard then bit my lip snd said see you Tuesday.
09-09-2012 05:07 AM
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