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I did a bunch of sloppy drunk approaches that I can barely remember. My friends were impressed that I opened a bunch of girls and actually talked to them but they dogged on me saying I couldn't close which I took with some pretty horrible poise. I'm such a shameless liar when I'm drunk it's funny. I have no idea what the fuck I'm doing in nightgame I just walk up tell some lies and talk to women. I was way to drunk to actually get anywhere with any of those approaches which makes me wonder what the fuck I'm actually doing, I guess it's just fun. My friends were being boring and I was just trying to be drunk and enjoy myself.

1st approach

"hey why are you on your phone with a room full of people"
"I'm talking to my boyfriend"
"where is he"?
"he's working the bar"
"that's cool, I'm from wisconsin I don't know anybody here, will you introduce me to some people"
"Oh that's so cool everyone is from here, I don't know anybody either"

I don't remember the rest I started like doing some light kino and fucked it up by being too agressive. I'm not from wisconsin and don't have an accent at all, no idea what I was thinking. Straight drunk fucking up.

2nd one

"I would never forgive myself if I didn't walk up and tell you you're beautiful what's your name"
"[name], what's yours"
"my name is [name], it's nice to meet you. What are you doing tonight"?
"drinking, dancing, hanging out with my friends"
"me too! Those are my friends over there [points], we should all meet and be friends together"

Don't remember the rest. I got her to come over to my group but fucked it up somehow. I'm gonna have to ask my boys if they remember what happened

3rd one

"hey you're beautiful, dance with me"
"I have a boyfriend"
"it's just dancing, what you don't like to dance"?
"I don't feel like dancing"
"Let me tell you a secret"
"okay..."
"I can't dance at all I was just going to get drunk and wing it anyway"

She laughs and the conversation goes dead and I just meander away drunk as fuck.

4th one

[I walk up and grab this girls hand and she kind of just give me this wtf look]
"what's your name"
"[name]"
"[name], hold my hand"
"okay..."
"what are you doing here"

Can't remember the rest at all. I was pretty fucked up on redbull and vodka at this point. I came home with my dick in my hands and did some blow with my peoples. Regurely, sober I'm pretty fearless. Drunk I'm just a mess. I didn't get kicked out of any bars so you know whatever. I'm kind of mad I was too inebriated to actually pull but I'm happy I actually approached even it was sloppy as shit with no real outcome. I actually did have a good time until I started getting too drunk and talking shit to people. I'm going to get back on the wagon get sober for a little while and try to do some of this stuff sober. I've almost completely swore off online game at this point because I'm just fucking tired of it. I'm tired of the serial dating courosel riding busted ass bitches on there that think they're 2-4 points above their SMV. I mop up 4-6s like nobodies business but i'm not too proud of all that. I figure if I can get a 5-6 a week on Tinder I can get at least a 7-8 a month daygaming and nightgaming. We'll see. I'm also pretty actively looking for something different lately. Hooking up with a girl the first day I meet her off of tinder or OKC isn't doing it for me.
(This post was last modified: 05-07-2017 04:04 PM by Eugenics.)
05-07-2017 04:03 PM
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RE: The Approach Thread
(04-28-2017 11:44 AM)Mess O. Wrote:  Stats for 2015
Approaches: 500
Dates: 2.5
Lays: 0

Hats-off to kbsms.

These stats are absolutely horrible. A 0.5% date to approach response rate is not acceptable at all.

Please explain what you're doing, and we'll figure out what's going wrong and get this fixed.
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RE: The Approach Thread
Was struttin' through the park, when I spy a chick off in the distance, playing with a german shepard, so I immediately head in that direction. The cutest Asian of all time. Billowy sweats implied a champion ass, even full-looking breasts under her snug tank. So, I simply started up a chat about the dog, and after maybe 15 minutes made the formal play, to which she threw out the boyfriend biz. I took a walk without fighting that shit.
05-10-2017 09:33 AM
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Oh, and captain_shane, that's why I'm here, since I clearly need the aid of the forum.
05-10-2017 09:34 AM
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RE: The Approach Thread
Been trying to get back into this as it's my favorite way to meet girls and I'm fairly recently single.

Anyway, was in Target last night needing to buy some bike chain lube and paper towels. I grab the lube and head over to paper towels aisle, grab a two pack - select-a-size because I'm an environmentalist like that. I turn to head to the register when I see this super cute girl with caramel skin, long black wavy hair, jean jacket and a flowery skirt browsing the hair products aisle. She was thin but with a nice little rack and great ass protruding out from her skirt. I'd give her a high 6/low 7. Early to mid 20's, I'd guess maybe 24.

I pass her once then loop back around for the approach. I notice she has one right earbud in so I look at her and say, "Hey, are you on a call right now?"

She smiles and says, "Hey hang on a sec" to the person on the phone. She then nods and says to me, "Oh hi. Yeah, what's up?"

I then ask, "Is it important?"

She smiles again and says, "Oh I'm talking to my friend, we're having some girl talk right now."

I continue, "Oh I see, well I just wanted to tell you something." There was a brief pause to create some suspense.

Me: "I thought you looked super cute (I smirked while checking her out up and down) and wanted to say hey."

She immediately starts giggling, meanwhile her friend is on the other line, hearing this all in real time. Without prompting, she says, "hi I'm [her name]" and she extends her hand. We exchange names.

She then says, "Oh I need some of those too (pointing to paper towels in my hand) and toilet paper too!"

I then start rambling about paper towels and how I've been reusing this dirty dish towel in my kitchen and it's probably about time to not be such a dirt bag and be more sanitary with disposable cleanup methods, etc. etc. Rambled about my bike chain needing oil yadda yadda for like 2 or 3 minutes.

She just smiles and nods. I then say, "Well hey, listen, I wanted to ask you just one quick question as I see you're busy with some serious girl stuff right now with your friend. Are you single?"

She shows me a huge grin and shrieks and says, "Yes! My friend and I were just talking about boys just now..."

Me: "Great, put your number in my phone and maybe we can get together over coffee or beer sometime."

Her: "Ok, I like both actually, just not mixed together."

Me: "So no coffee porters for you then."

Her: "Exactly."

Me: "Ok dork."

She enters number and I make a comment about her area code. She is from the midwest - I'm from TX. I didn't send a text or anything yet. Will give her a call today or tomorrow...I think I got some uniqueness points for this approach given the circumstances. We will see how it plays out.

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05-10-2017 12:15 PM
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RE: The Approach Thread
(05-10-2017 09:34 AM)Mess O. Wrote:  Oh, and captain_shane, that's why I'm here, since I clearly need the aid of the forum.

Tell me what your approach looks like. Let's break this down and see what's going wrong.
05-11-2017 12:36 AM
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Heh-heh, Christ, which one? Are you famiilar with some of my earlier materials on this thread?
05-11-2017 12:58 AM
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RE: The Approach Thread
I've been out of civilization for two months (close to zero opportunity for sex and minimal interactions with females) so it's time to shake off the rust. I went downtown Saturday night (the day I got back) and it was a bit too much for me so I bailed early and decided to ease into it with some low pressure situations.

I had two errands to run today - 1) get equipment from TV/internet company 2) pick up held mail. At the internet place a hot blonde (8) was in front of me so I sat down next to her after I signed in.

Me: "What are you in for?"
Girl: "I'm getting rid of my service with this company, I'm so excited!"
Me: "So that's it? You're disconnecting from pop culture once and for all?"
Girl: "Ha ha, no I'm switching companies. I don't even have cable but the other one has better customer service and faster internet" (babbles about customer service for awhile)
Me: "So how are you going to keep up with the Kardashians now? You'll have to get all your information secondhand."
Girl: blah blah, not interested in that kind of stuff
Me: (sarcastically) "Oh really, that's my favorite program."
Girl: "Somehow I don't believe you."
Me: "Well you know you shouldn't judge a book by its cover. There are some important deep social themes they discuss on that show."
At this point the girl is called up, the first name on the account is "Richard." She had used the pronoun "we" to describe the situation so it's clear enough she has a boyfriend. It would've been difficult to close out anyway because she walks out once she's done at the counter and I'm still sitting in the waiting area but I suppose if she'd wanted to she could've come by to say goodbye. Anyway I accomplished something with the interaction, opening cold and bantering with a very attractive person.

Mail center -
Decent looking girl (6) is at the counter in front of me. She's wearing skin tight shorts that barely cover her ass cheeks. Legs are OK, a bit fleshy but I don't mind a little thigh fleshiness. The guy tells her he needs to see her ID and she makes a joke complaint about having to go out to her car to get it. When she gets back in

Me: "Pretty difficult walk, huh?"
Girl: "Oh yeah, it was like 3 steps each way."
Me: "Oh wow, brutal. Especially in this weather" (It's 75 and sunny). "Better make sure you're not dehydrated."
Girl: "Ha ha."
I forget a bit of the intervening dialogue, she mentions that she's just wearing her pajamas which is actually a hoodie and the shorts.
Me: "That's what you wear to sleep?"
Girl: "Yeah, well normally I don't sleep in this" (motions to sweatshirt, I was going to say something about cranking up the AC).

Then the postal guy came back and dealt with her. I noticed when she signed in to her phone, the photo was of her with a young bearded guy so I didn't pursue any further although that was probably a mistake. For all I know it could've been her brother and the practice wouldn't have hurt. Anyway she smiled and said goodbye to me and I left it at that.

It was good to make conversation with girls and practice some situational openers. It wasn't great, but overall not bad for starting over after a long layoff. Now I just need to keep the momentum going.
05-15-2017 05:44 PM
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RE: The Approach Thread
Was downtown today.

Did 2 approaches. Nothing much to report other than I'm still doing them and even my shitty approaches are pretty decent. One of the chick was in HS so I told her that I'll be walking the other way but she was super flattered and attracted to me.


Was in the sauna later and then did an indirect approach with a mom/daughter combo. They were mexican and the daughter was super sexy. I included the mom in the convo but eventually focused on the daughter. I even said with a straight face: "so, is this your... sister" LOL. Then asked her if I can take her to coffee and asked her mom if she's okay with that.

Closed with instagram ala Vinny instead of a phone number. We'll see how this turns out but she accepted my follow request and followed me back.
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05-16-2017 03:30 AM
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RE: The Approach Thread
Chatting up a girl in the presence of her mother that is some balls!
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05-19-2017 12:19 PM
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Interesting progression of 3 yesterday.

First I was walking home and about a block ahead of me I see something that looks really good from the back - thin, nice ass, legs, long strawberry blonde hair. I didn't think I'd catch up but we end up waiting to cross the street together. Her head is buried in her phone (big surprise). We start to cross and an oncoming car makes a pretty late left turn nearly hitting us. "That was pretty late" I said, and she says "IKR!" or something along those lines. I say "good thing we were paying attention." She finally looks up at me to voice her agreement and WOW she is young. Legal, but no more than 20. She makes a quick right turn which took me by surprise so I didn't have anything prepared and gave up. Something good to say may have been "we're breaking up already? But we just met!" etc.

A couple hours later, out at the bar with friends. I go up to close out my tab and as I sat down a girl (6.5) offers me some chips from her basket. I ask her what she ordered and we get to talking. She's with three friends and they're out for her birthday. I say "21?" jokingly but she doesn't pick up on it and says 26. She's drunk but not in a good way, just kind of out of it. We chat for awhile, but it's getting real interview-y, she's not really into it. She says her friends and her are going to some dance party. I rub her arm - "how about if I go with you?" She says OK but they all kind of slink away, I think the other chicks are likely cockblockers and I'm not going to chase after them. I think she really just wanted to get rid of the chips and I mistook it as a flirty IOI.

Friends moved on to another bar while I was talking to the last chick. I get there and there's an open stool next to them so I sit down and start telling them what happened. I show them a funny picture of myself which I'd used while chatting up the girl at the last bar and then just spontaneously I show it to the girl that was on my other side, who turns out to be about a 7. She actually goes for it and we start having a really good conversation. Fun, humorous, good flow, very relaxed and not forced. No silence for ~30 minutes. Turns out she's a Californication/Hank Moody fan. Her crew is about to leave for another bar so I hand her my phone and say "we'll hook up later" to which she nods eagerly and puts in her info. Up to this point I played it perfectly, but I think I should've told her to hit me up when she was done with her friends and texted her right then so she could've had my #. At the time I thought about it like I shouldn't contact her right away and instead should wait a day or so, but in retrospect I think this was the wrong move because we hit it off so well and she was already out and drinking and quite possibly DTF. Admittedly, being drunk muddled my thought process. I'll text her tomorrow but I'll have to be starting out from scratch so we'll see how that goes. On the plus side I guess it's good to make specific mistakes so I can add those to the memory banks and know not to make them again. I gained something to build on from #'s 1 & 3, but 2 was just a dud.

Then a lesbian sat down next to me. I'm feeling like I'm on a roll and I start chatting her up because I'm feeling good and chatty. We're having a nice conversation and I can tell her girlfriend (hairstyle is #2 clipper all around) is getting annoyed which just inspires me to keep going. Turns out they're there with one of my co-workers who I find out is gay. I had no idea. I guess my gaydar is terrible, but you learn interesting stuff by going out and talking to strangers.

The 3rd approach was obviously the best, but my main criticism is that I was already fairly drunk at that point which is why I was able to be so bold and converse in such a care-free manner. I don't want to develop the habit of having alcohol as a crutch, especially since I don't even enjoy drinking. I have to learn how to relax myself naturally even if it is in a place where everyone is drinking.
05-21-2017 01:45 AM
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