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RE: Tinder App
(11-20-2018 03:16 PM)BaatumMania Wrote:  Tinder Casanova pounding 3s to 5.5s who are often mentally unstable

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RE: Tinder App
(11-20-2018 03:16 PM)BaatumMania Wrote:  
(11-18-2018 02:31 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  The ROI from tinder boost is well worth the money. I’ve fucked dozens and dozens of bitches with minimal investment by strategically applying the boost feature. $3 here and $15 there is practically stealing for the doors boost opens. Sure every bitch isn’t a bonifide response, but so what? If every chick I matched with eagerly responded I’d probably be on my 7th cycle of antibiotics from getting so many STDs due to fucking scores of sluts.

Sidebar: I find a lot of you guys are being a bit too delicate with your initial few texts via tinder. You should be giving these chicks the impression you are just looking for a good time and if something more serious comes of it than fine. Sexual intimation is a net positive so long as you aren’t being creepy.

DONT send messages like “wow your cleavage is awesome”

DO send messages like “I hope you don’t minds wearing something more conservative when we meet for drinks because I like getting attention too”

I've bought and used boosts and got laid with multiple women as a direct result. Seems really cheap considering men in near-incel status will spend $100s per hour on an escort. Or even a lot of guys here who will spend $1,000s on international flights to go to a foreign countries (and if you're not buying Tinder Swipes then you're technically limiting the value of those flights in my opinion).


But eventually one gets bored of Tinder. We all think being a Tinder Casanova is great until you realize you're pounding 3s to 5.5s who are often mentally unstable and flakey.

speak for yourself hoss j/k. the one irrefutable fact about online dating is that despite how many high quality bitches you bang you will eventually hit a dry spell and unlike an IRL dryspell where you would never approach a 5 or 6, the advent of online dating will have you doing some shit you will definitely not be proud of in a moment of weakness
11-20-2018 03:31 PM
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RE: Tinder App
(11-20-2018 02:36 PM)coffeedrinker Wrote:  
(11-18-2018 02:31 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  Sidebar: I find a lot of you guys are being a bit too delicate with your initial few texts via tinder. You should be giving these chicks the impression you are just looking for a good time and if something more serious comes of it than fine. Sexual intimation is a net positive so long as you aren’t being creepy.

DONT send messages like “wow your cleavage is awesome”

DO send messages like “I hope you don’t minds wearing something more conservative when we meet for drinks because I like getting attention too”

Hey man, great tip. My question is actually related on this.

How to get in the mindset of taking opportunities to sexualise convos without being creepy?

I know the techniques - innuendos, double meanings, exaggeration, baits etc but struggle to remember to use them or using them effectively.

Even if I'm playful, I often don't sexualise enough. But it's a balance because sometimes I swing too much and say ridiculous crap.

It's frustrating because I feel I can usually get a fun vibe and then it seems easier to sexualise but by then it is too late to switch gears and suddently make innuendos etc without it sounding like I'm not being consistent.

As Corsega has pretty much suggested you're doing it all wrong if your profile isn't a little sexually suggestive. You do not want to look like a relationship guy under any circumstances because A. it won't get you swiped B. when you do get swiped the girls are particularly motivated to respond. C when they do respond and you meet them they have a very anodyne view of you. These bitches should no from your profile that if they go out with you and YOU are attracted to them(not the other way around) then you will 100% try something. This has to be done subtly though.

Your profile has to skillfully and shrewdly give off sexual intimation if you are looking for casual sex. There tons of inoffensive code words you may use.

When you do get her number and start texting then eventually meet, you should rarely mention or hint towards sex. Don't give the woman the satisfaction of knowing you want to fuck her the moment you see her. It has to build. That's why you are almost better off being over sexual before you meet and them tamping down after the obligatory intro hug
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RE: Tinder App
(11-18-2018 02:31 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  As Corsega has pretty much suggested you're doing it all wrong if your profile isn't a little sexually suggestive. You do not want to look like a relationship guy under any circumstances because A. it won't get you swiped B. when you do get swiped the girls are particularly motivated to respond. C when they do respond and you meet them they have a very anodyne view of you. These bitches should no from your profile that if they go out with you and YOU are attracted to them(not the other way around) then you will 100% try something. This has to be done subtly though.

Your profile has to skillfully and shrewdly give off sexual intimation if you are looking for casual sex. There tons of inoffensive code words you may use.

When you do get her number and start texting then eventually meet, you should rarely mention or hint towards sex. Don't give the woman the satisfaction of knowing you want to fuck her the moment you see her. It has to build. That's why you are almost better off being over sexual before you meet and them tamping down after the obligatory intro hug

My profile pics definitely don't give a sexual vibe. Though I'm not really sure how I can change that right now. I'm going gym to gain weight but will take time.

What are the main things you would say that make a profile be sexually suggestive?

The only 1NS i've had from tinder, my chat was probably the best it ever was and included quite a few innuendos and hints. Things just lined up well, and what I realised was that when we went for drinks, she was ready to come back to mine long before I asked. As soon as I started mentioning going home, she answered lets go before I could even give a reason. Hence, why I try to replicate that kind of chat on tinder but it's very uncalibrated right now.

Appreciate the advice.
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11-21-2018 05:58 AM
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Theory.
If you have an iPhone, a lot of your data is under your iPhone id/email

the only way you really reset your elo is to create a new Apple profile.

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(11-21-2018 05:58 AM)coffeedrinker Wrote:  
(11-18-2018 02:31 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  As Corsega has pretty much suggested you're doing it all wrong if your profile isn't a little sexually suggestive. You do not want to look like a relationship guy under any circumstances because A. it won't get you swiped B. when you do get swiped the girls are particularly motivated to respond. C when they do respond and you meet them they have a very anodyne view of you. These bitches should no from your profile that if they go out with you and YOU are attracted to them(not the other way around) then you will 100% try something. This has to be done subtly though.

Your profile has to skillfully and shrewdly give off sexual intimation if you are looking for casual sex. There tons of inoffensive code words you may use.

When you do get her number and start texting then eventually meet, you should rarely mention or hint towards sex. Don't give the woman the satisfaction of knowing you want to fuck her the moment you see her. It has to build. That's why you are almost better off being over sexual before you meet and them tamping down after the obligatory intro hug

My profile pics definitely don't give a sexual vibe. Though I'm not really sure how I can change that right now. I'm going gym to gain weight but will take time.

What are the main things you would say that make a profile be sexually suggestive?

The only 1NS i've had from tinder, my chat was probably the best it ever was and included quite a few innuendos and hints. Things just lined up well, and what I realised was that when we went for drinks, she was ready to come back to mine long before I asked. As soon as I started mentioning going home, she answered lets go before I could even give a reason. Hence, why I try to replicate that kind of chat on tinder but it's very uncalibrated right now.

Appreciate the advice.

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11-21-2018 02:27 PM
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RE: Tinder App
I'm trying an experiment now to see if I can't work the system. I think some of you guys tried this already.
Set my gold profile (not a new one and one I've had for a while getting 0 new matches in Eastern Europe where I am now) to different South East Asia countries e.g. Phillippines, Thailand etc. As expected getting 100 or so matches after a night or so. Using gold to preview the girls, I only like the ones who are really hot (about 20 or so and no, not lady boys). Next step is to change the location back to Eastern Europe. Will leave it in Minsk (where I got 60 plus matches 2 years ago) and check again in a couple of days.
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11-22-2018 05:04 PM
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RE: Tinder App
(11-22-2018 05:04 PM)WannaBang Wrote:  I'm trying an experiment now to see if I can't work the system. I think some of you guys tried this already.
Set my gold profile (not a new one and one I've had for a while getting 0 new matches in Eastern Europe where I am now) to different South East Asia countries e.g. Phillippines, Thailand etc. As expected getting 100 or so matches after a night or so. Using gold to preview the girls, I only like the ones who are really hot (about 20 or so and no, not lady boys). Next step is to change the location back to Eastern Europe. Will leave it in Minsk (where I got 60 plus matches 2 years ago) and check again in a couple of days.

This experiment has been tried time and time again by a number of different users and not a single person has had long-term success with it.

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Not sure if this has been discussed, but has anyone else noticed that there seems to be an increasing difference between changing the location to a place and actually being there? I have no evidence other than anecdotal to back this up but I travel a lot and I often change my location beforehand to get a general idea. It used to be that as soon as you changed your location to a place where you stand out a lot of likes would start rolling in right away. I have traveled a bit in SEA lately and when changing my location beforehand I would get maybe 30-50 very average likes in a big city in a few hours, but as soon as I actually got there the phone would blow up with hundreds of matches (and higher quality). It also seems a lot more common to see the same girls over and over when you use the passport feature.

I guess it would make sense for Tinder to "reward" people who are actually in the place they are swiping, I can imagine it must be pretty frustrating being a girl in Kiev for example swiping through thousands of guys who never intend to visit but just wants to see "if it is true what they say about Ukrainian girls". It is also more common now to see stuff like "only match with me if you are actually in XXXXX"
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(11-23-2018 12:37 AM)scengja Wrote:  Not sure if this has been discussed, but has anyone else noticed that there seems to be an increasing difference between changing the location to a place and actually being there? I have traveled a bit in SEA lately and when changing my location beforehand I would get maybe 30-50 very average likes in a big city in a few hours, but as soon as I actually got there the phone would blow up with hundreds of matches (and higher quality). It also seems a lot more common to see the same girls over and over when you use the passport feature.

I guess it would make sense for Tinder to "reward" people who are actually in the place they are swiping, I can imagine it must be pretty frustrating being a girl in Kiev for example swiping through thousands of guys who never intend to visit but just wants to see "if it is true what they say about Ukrainian girls". It is also more common now to see stuff like "only match with me if you are actually in XXXXX"

This happens because you change location using Tinder Passport which shows your actual distance to the girls. No girl wants to swipe a guy who is 5432 miles away

when you arrive to the actual location, you distance is shown as 2 miles, and then there is incentive to swipe

You should not be using passport to change your location IMO, you should spoof your GPS and it does wonders i can confirm. The girls see you as being there (2 miles) and can't believe their luck WhipWhipWhip
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RE: Tinder App
I noticed the app was not showing the girls who liked me, so I decided to give a try to tinder gold to check what was going on. Worth note that I’m living in not so large Brazilian city, then the numbers are ok for the size, once it’s common that app run out of people to show.

So that’s like many guys said here before, tinder it’s more and more a pay for play app. That’s what I checked:

1)There was 21 likes stuck
2) About a third was from boost I paid before, which the app didn’t show me.
3) 1 girl superliked me. Although I would not match with her (5 in looks), the app didn’t show me her before and she should be in the beginning of my queue. So now I have doubt if I´m seen by the girls I superliked.
4) 2 were stupid guys, probably gays that change their gender to sign up.
5) 2 were girls stating they are sugar babies (they are in the wrong app)
6) About a third of the girls out of my distance range. This may be a reason for them not being in my queue, but I had matches like that before.
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(11-23-2018 12:37 AM)scengja Wrote:  Not sure if this has been discussed, but has anyone else noticed that there seems to be an increasing difference between changing the location to a place and actually being there? I have no evidence other than anecdotal to back this up but I travel a lot and I often change my location beforehand to get a general idea. It used to be that as soon as you changed your location to a place where you stand out a lot of likes would start rolling in right away. I have traveled a bit in SEA lately and when changing my location beforehand I would get maybe 30-50 very average likes in a big city in a few hours, but as soon as I actually got there the phone would blow up with hundreds of matches (and higher quality). It also seems a lot more common to see the same girls over and over when you use the passport feature.

I guess it would make sense for Tinder to "reward" people who are actually in the place they are swiping, I can imagine it must be pretty frustrating being a girl in Kiev for example swiping through thousands of guys who never intend to visit but just wants to see "if it is true what they say about Ukrainian girls". It is also more common now to see stuff like "only match with me if you are actually in XXXXX"

When I travel to places within 100/150 km I see no differences, and that’s worth observe that my km range is set to 35 km. But yes, I also noted that when I fly to other distant destinations.
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If are girl knows you have tinder plus and asks why you have, what do you say?

Its obviously a shit test. I tried ignoring but she's persisting with the question

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(11-23-2018 06:29 PM)pandiani1 Wrote:  If are girl knows you have tinder plus and asks why you have, what do you say?

Its obviously a shit test. I tried ignoring but she's persisting with the question

how would she know?
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Hidden age or distance

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(11-23-2018 06:29 PM)pandiani1 Wrote:  If are girl knows you have tinder plus and asks why you have, what do you say?

Its obviously a shit test. I tried ignoring but she's persisting with the question

"They gave me a free 2 week trial so I figured I tried it but im going to cancel once the trial ends"
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(11-23-2018 07:42 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  
(11-23-2018 06:29 PM)pandiani1 Wrote:  If a girl knows you have tinder plus and asks why you have it, what do you say?

Its obviously a shit test. I tried ignoring but she's persisting with the question

"They gave me a free 2 week trial so I figured I tried it but im going to cancel once the trial ends"

Thanks for response. Any other suggestions?

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(11-23-2018 06:29 PM)pandiani1 Wrote:  If are girl knows you have tinder plus and asks why you have, what do you say?

Its obviously a shit test. I tried ignoring but she's persisting with the question

It could help if you post a thread of this conversation to know what leads to this question

Normally i never get this question

Are you leading the discussion in the right direction or are you blabbing away with the girl?

Do you have copy-paste start to finish text thread then this should never come up
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(11-24-2018 06:12 AM)yang2287 Wrote:  
(11-23-2018 06:29 PM)pandiani1 Wrote:  If are girl knows you have tinder plus and asks why you have, what do you say?

Its obviously a shit test. I tried ignoring but she's persisting with the question

It could help if you post a thread of this conversation to know what leads to this question

Normally i never get this question

Are you leading the discussion in the right direction or are you blabbing away with the girl?

Do you have copy-paste start to finish text thread then this should never come up

Me: Where are you from?
Her: ******* orginally
Me: Guess where I'm from
Her: Hmmm not sure sure you obviously have tinder plus so your location is turned off
Me: I didn't know it was off, try again now
Her: Let me guess ********? How come you pay for tinder plus?
Me: You're right, well done you win a prize
Her: Hahahaha you're still avoiding my question yeah?

I've just ploughed on but would be interesting to hear how others would approach this

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(11-24-2018 06:34 AM)pandiani1 Wrote:  Me: Where are you from?
Her: ******* orginally
Me: Guess where I'm from
Her: Hmmm not sure sure you obviously have tinder plus so your location is turned off

You brought up the location question, why?

You should be using her location to propose a date

Use FakeGPS or chrome to change location not Tinder plus

don't turn location off, girls can see that and start asking silly questions

Move her to sms or Whatsapp
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(11-24-2018 06:37 AM)yang2287 Wrote:  
(11-24-2018 06:34 AM)pandiani1 Wrote:  Me: Where are you from?
Her: ******* orginally
Me: Guess where I'm from
Her: Hmmm not sure sure you obviously have tinder plus so your location is turned off

You brought up the location question, why?

You should be using her location to propose a date

That's exactly what I'm doing.

Part of a routine which can be found earlier in this thread.

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(11-24-2018 06:34 AM)pandiani1 Wrote:  
(11-24-2018 06:12 AM)yang2287 Wrote:  
(11-23-2018 06:29 PM)pandiani1 Wrote:  If are girl knows you have tinder plus and asks why you have, what do you say?

Its obviously a shit test. I tried ignoring but she's persisting with the question

It could help if you post a thread of this conversation to know what leads to this question

Normally i never get this question

Are you leading the discussion in the right direction or are you blabbing away with the girl?

Do you have copy-paste start to finish text thread then this should never come up

Me: Where are you from?
Her: ******* orginally
Me: Guess where I'm from
Her: Hmmm not sure sure you obviously have tinder plus so your location is turned off
Me: I didn't know it was off, try again now
Her: Let me guess ********? How come you pay for tinder plus?
Me: You're right, well done you win a prize
Her: Hahahaha you're still avoiding my question yeah?

I've just ploughed on but would be interesting to hear how others would approach this

Why would you need to hide it?

How about "I am on tinder to meet girls, using tinder plus saves me a lot of time since I can just see who likes me first. Sometimes I also like to change my location to see what girls look like in other countries"? Am I missing something?

Edit: just realised you can only see who like you using gold not plus, but point being it does not matter if you use plus or gold.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Showerthoughts/...r_average/

People outside the manosphere are starting to wake up to what tinder actually is.

It's funny reading through the replies on this thread.

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(11-24-2018 06:34 AM)pandiani1 Wrote:  
(11-24-2018 06:12 AM)yang2287 Wrote:  
(11-23-2018 06:29 PM)pandiani1 Wrote:  If are girl knows you have tinder plus and asks why you have, what do you say?

Its obviously a shit test. I tried ignoring but she's persisting with the question

It could help if you post a thread of this conversation to know what leads to this question

Normally i never get this question

Are you leading the discussion in the right direction or are you blabbing away with the girl?

Do you have copy-paste start to finish text thread then this should never come up

Me: Where are you from?
Her: ******* orginally
Me: Guess where I'm from
Her: Hmmm not sure sure you obviously have tinder plus so your location is turned off
Me: I didn't know it was off, try again now
Her: Let me guess ********? How come you pay for tinder plus?
Me: You're right, well done you win a prize
Her: Hahahaha you're still avoiding my question yeah?

I've just ploughed on but would be interesting to hear how others would approach this
Why did you pay for tinder plus ?
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The Reddit thread is very astute but some men are turning their tinder accounts homo and getting a lot of gay interest.

It’s like dating market is becoming as skewed as polygamous Saudi Arabia and producing homosexuals from the surplus male population.
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