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(12-05-2018 06:48 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  Catfished again tonight by a fattie. This has happened to me in Warsaw 5 times this year. Never happened before then. Really sucks.

Learn to read photos and angles. You clearly have a major blind spot here. You should be able to spot a fat girl by her photos very easily. Even if she doesn't have current photos, you can stalk her number on Facebook and get her Instagram or Snapchat, or Google her name to find more recent photos.

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New member here, joined up to get some tips on marketing and concurrency. A friend and I have been using dating apps for the past 5 years now to get laid casually. Of the 2 of us, my friend is eons ahead. He's got his niche dialed down, he knows his audience and how to appeal to them. So even with the inflation caused by more aware dudes he can still pull semi consistently.

We live on the east coast in a major metropolitan area so we usually can pull girls from even 20-30 miles away. I know some of my flaws and where I need to improve on. For one thing, I'm working on getting in shape. I've built some mass, now I need to cut body fat so I can optimize my look. Therein lies the issue, looks are critical for online but I'd say having some sort of character/gimmick/persona is the most optimal tactic. I'm just lost on figuring out how to tailor the pics, bio and speech patterns to my target audience. So when they see my profile it basically says, "I'm in control of things, and when we meet up you're getting plowed".

I'm willing to discuss more details privately if needed and share more details etc. Right now the game got more difficult but I don't wish it was easier. I just mainly wish I was better.
12-06-2018 10:13 AM
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(12-06-2018 10:13 AM)PadawanScrub Wrote:  ...I'd say having some sort of character/gimmick/persona is the most optimal tactic. I'm just lost on figuring out how to tailor the pics, bio and speech patterns to my target audience. So when they see my profile it basically says, "I'm in control of things, and when we meet up you're getting plowed".

This is VERY true. I never see anyone talk about this, either. Tinder is the "image building business".

See #1 here:
https://strengthbysonny.com/2018/11/06/2...bout-game/

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(12-06-2018 10:30 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-06-2018 10:13 AM)PadawanScrub Wrote:  ...I'd say having some sort of character/gimmick/persona is the most optimal tactic. I'm just lost on figuring out how to tailor the pics, bio and speech patterns to my target audience. So when they see my profile it basically says, "I'm in control of things, and when we meet up you're getting plowed".

This is VERY true. I never see anyone talk about this, either. Tinder is the "image building business".

See #1 here:
https://strengthbysonny.com/2018/11/06/2...bout-game/

Not just tinder, every social media app where it's possible to get laid is about image building. I've been punished by the game for not developing a proper gimmick. I think my error is falling into the trap most normie dudes fall into. Upload pics, no thought of scenery, lighting, clothing, area, etc No concept of what each pic conveys about my personality, lifestyle, outlook and most of all not tailoring a bio that is congruent with what I'm saying.

I like to think I'm a pretty decent person to talk to, based on past outings with chicks this year I know for damn sure I can show them a fun and memorable time. Problem is, on these apps and even IRL as a stranger. No one has time to figure you out as an individual. That comes later. It's all about mostly adhering to basic standards of what is considered attractive. A former lay told me that she couldn't read me or figure me out. At first I took that to mean that I was mysterious but based on a massive dry spell I'm realizing that it means that I'm a social blank slate.

I like to think of online dating as auditioning for a role in an action/comic book movie. You have to look the part, you have to study the source material and emulate it and you have to give the impression that you fit the role. I've been lurking this thread for a while and I'd like your input especially. I don't want to dwell on my shortcomings, I want to fix everything I can while I can.
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We're in the same boat. I am an extremely multi-faceted individual and I have a hard time conveying that in six photos and a bio. I will be focusing a lot on building and refining my "brand" as it relates to women in 2019.

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I don't even think most of the smartest women could even appreciate your multiple facets. Women are extremely surface level, base thinkers and make decisions based on emotionally stimulating or not. They only facet they seem to care about is how fun you are, and if you can give her that emotional salad she's been craving.

My mission is to figure out how to convey said emotional stimulation in 6 photos and a bio lol.
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Roosh has talked about how Tinder and similar apps have given women endless options and thus all the power in dating. I think he said that eventually, only men who are 10s will get anything better than a 6, or something to that effect, because gender relations now revolve around women's hypergamous nature. I enjoyed dating apps and had a good amount of success from 2013-15, then noticed a massive decline in ROI and so I curtailed my usage. The last time I used a dating app was around a year ago and this happened:

I came across the profile of a girl I knew when I was around 18-21. She was the "It" girl around campus and at first didn't know I existed, but we later had a parttime job working together so we interacted a bit. She's now in her mid 30s, living in a major Canadian city, working a stupid and pointless white collar job that she probably is proud of (marketing or something), and has aged terribly. She had the kind of face and body there wasn't much room to grow into, now everything looks loose and saggy. At 19 she was a hard 8 but her rich girl attitude and hyper sociability generated the kind of buzz usually reserved for 9s and 10s. Back then, it'd have blown my mind to have interacted with her.

So we matched and I told her who I was. She pretended to remember me. The convo was banal and went nowhere. She had zero personality, nothing interesting to say, and I'm at a point in my life where I'm not going to waste energy trying to game a woman that old (not saying I'd never date one, just not going to try very hard when that energy is better spent on younger women with greater ROI). She wound up at the bottom of my match list and I didn't think about her.

Around the same time, the exact same thing happened with another, hotter girl I knew from back then. This one is a legit 9, absolutely gorgeous face, I'm pretty sure she did some modelling (runway body though, a bit too tall and skinny, but beyond photogenic). We'd interacted a good deal back then and she remembered me. She hadn't aged badly at all, according to her pics. Is still a 9 within her age category (mid 30s), probably a 7.5 amongst all women. Has a job working with kids. The convo went the same way as the first one, fizzled out and I wasn't going to work that hard. This one clearly stated I wasn't what she was looking for and unmatched me. All business.

Much later it dawned on me: these were two of the most sought-after girls I knew at the time of life--the time of their peak fertility and marriagability--and neither of them wound up marrying or having kids. Both had their pick of literally hundreds of promising young men (we went to a school full of Chads, I'm tall and good looking but I was barely shit on campus) and they chose to stay single. What's more, I could sense in our convos neither of them felt much anxiety about being unmarried and nearly infertile (the second one, the one who promptly unmatched me, gave the impression she was looking for wining/dining/travel, not husband/kids).

What this means is that whatever two 9/10 Chads who would have married these two most likely had to lower their standards in order to find wives, probably marrying 8s or even 7s, making those two women unavailable for the 7-8/10 men who in turn would have married them, and so on. So, all it takes is for the top-tier women to have their hypergamy legitimized and enabled, and it throws the whole dating and marriage market out of whack.

I guess it's not even about dating apps since both these girls likely committed to their Sex/City Wandercunt lifestyle long before Tinder became a thing, so you can't blame the technology. Still it's noteworthy how the app brought this out, made it obvious to me.
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This is what happens when slut shaming doesn't exist. Now we can only sit back and watch as society at this rate eventually crumbles into a ghetto welfare state of single motherhood, lonely cat ladies, and an involuntary celibacy rate of 80%+ for men.
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(12-07-2018 01:26 AM)Barney Wrote:  This is what happens when slut shaming doesn't exist. Now we can only sit back and watch as society at this rate eventually crumbles into a ghetto welfare state of single motherhood, lonely cat ladies, and an involuntary celibacy rate of 80%+ for men.


Some of you guys are so over dramatic lol.
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(12-06-2018 10:49 AM)PadawanScrub Wrote:  
(12-06-2018 10:30 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-06-2018 10:13 AM)PadawanScrub Wrote:  ...I'd say having some sort of character/gimmick/persona is the most optimal tactic. I'm just lost on figuring out how to tailor the pics, bio and speech patterns to my target audience. So when they see my profile it basically says, "I'm in control of things, and when we meet up you're getting plowed".

This is VERY true. I never see anyone talk about this, either. Tinder is the "image building business".

See #1 here:
https://strengthbysonny.com/2018/11/06/2...bout-game/

Not just tinder, every social media app where it's possible to get laid is about image building. I've been punished by the game for not developing a proper gimmick. I think my error is falling into the trap most normie dudes fall into. Upload pics, no thought of scenery, lighting, clothing, area, etc No concept of what each pic conveys about my personality, lifestyle, outlook and most of all not tailoring a bio that is congruent with what I'm saying.

I like to think I'm a pretty decent person to talk to, based on past outings with chicks this year I know for damn sure I can show them a fun and memorable time. Problem is, on these apps and even IRL as a stranger. No one has time to figure you out as an individual. That comes later. It's all about mostly adhering to basic standards of what is considered attractive. A former lay told me that she couldn't read me or figure me out. At first I took that to mean that I was mysterious but based on a massive dry spell I'm realizing that it means that I'm a social blank slate.

I like to think of online dating as auditioning for a role in an action/comic book movie. You have to look the part, you have to study the source material and emulate it and you have to give the impression that you fit the role. I've been lurking this thread for a while and I'd like your input especially. I don't want to dwell on my shortcomings, I want to fix everything I can while I can.

You're victim blaming yourself and assuming women have to play by the same rules (in regards to photos).

I made a fake ugly female on Tinder that only had 2 bad photos and she was able to get 100+ swipes without needing to buy a boost.

The thing about Tinder is when you filter out the fake women / bots / attention whores it's probably 4 guys for each woman and a lot of guys are doing the 100% right swipe game.
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(12-07-2018 02:09 AM)BaatumMania Wrote:  
(12-06-2018 10:49 AM)PadawanScrub Wrote:  
(12-06-2018 10:30 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-06-2018 10:13 AM)PadawanScrub Wrote:  ...I'd say having some sort of character/gimmick/persona is the most optimal tactic. I'm just lost on figuring out how to tailor the pics, bio and speech patterns to my target audience. So when they see my profile it basically says, "I'm in control of things, and when we meet up you're getting plowed".

This is VERY true. I never see anyone talk about this, either. Tinder is the "image building business".

See #1 here:
https://strengthbysonny.com/2018/11/06/2...bout-game/

Not just tinder, every social media app where it's possible to get laid is about image building. I've been punished by the game for not developing a proper gimmick. I think my error is falling into the trap most normie dudes fall into. Upload pics, no thought of scenery, lighting, clothing, area, etc No concept of what each pic conveys about my personality, lifestyle, outlook and most of all not tailoring a bio that is congruent with what I'm saying.

I like to think I'm a pretty decent person to talk to, based on past outings with chicks this year I know for damn sure I can show them a fun and memorable time. Problem is, on these apps and even IRL as a stranger. No one has time to figure you out as an individual. That comes later. It's all about mostly adhering to basic standards of what is considered attractive. A former lay told me that she couldn't read me or figure me out. At first I took that to mean that I was mysterious but based on a massive dry spell I'm realizing that it means that I'm a social blank slate.

I like to think of online dating as auditioning for a role in an action/comic book movie. You have to look the part, you have to study the source material and emulate it and you have to give the impression that you fit the role. I've been lurking this thread for a while and I'd like your input especially. I don't want to dwell on my shortcomings, I want to fix everything I can while I can.

You're victim blaming yourself and assuming women have to play by the same rules (in regards to photos).

I made a fake ugly female on Tinder that only had 2 bad photos and she was able to get 100+ swipes without needing to buy a boost.

The thing about Tinder is when you filter out the fake women / bots / attention whores it's probably 4 guys for each woman and a lot of guys are doing the 100% right swipe game.

My bad, maybe you understood me. I know all too well how lopsided it is online. Of the girls who came to see me(none were special really), most had notifications turned off. Because of the sheer volume of snapchat, instagram, tinder etc notifications they'd get. One girl in particular had her phone freeze and was forced to put everything on mute.

All I'm saying is, I think the solution for me is to tighten up some obvious flaws I have and make a bit more effort. I'm taking responsibility for the holes in my game, not going to put that on chicks. Chicks gonna chick. They're just doing what they're programmed to do.
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(12-07-2018 02:09 AM)BaatumMania Wrote:  
(12-06-2018 10:49 AM)PadawanScrub Wrote:  
(12-06-2018 10:30 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-06-2018 10:13 AM)PadawanScrub Wrote:  ...I'd say having some sort of character/gimmick/persona is the most optimal tactic. I'm just lost on figuring out how to tailor the pics, bio and speech patterns to my target audience. So when they see my profile it basically says, "I'm in control of things, and when we meet up you're getting plowed".

This is VERY true. I never see anyone talk about this, either. Tinder is the "image building business".

See #1 here:
https://strengthbysonny.com/2018/11/06/2...bout-game/

Not just tinder, every social media app where it's possible to get laid is about image building. I've been punished by the game for not developing a proper gimmick. I think my error is falling into the trap most normie dudes fall into. Upload pics, no thought of scenery, lighting, clothing, area, etc No concept of what each pic conveys about my personality, lifestyle, outlook and most of all not tailoring a bio that is congruent with what I'm saying.

I like to think I'm a pretty decent person to talk to, based on past outings with chicks this year I know for damn sure I can show them a fun and memorable time. Problem is, on these apps and even IRL as a stranger. No one has time to figure you out as an individual. That comes later. It's all about mostly adhering to basic standards of what is considered attractive. A former lay told me that she couldn't read me or figure me out. At first I took that to mean that I was mysterious but based on a massive dry spell I'm realizing that it means that I'm a social blank slate.

I like to think of online dating as auditioning for a role in an action/comic book movie. You have to look the part, you have to study the source material and emulate it and you have to give the impression that you fit the role. I've been lurking this thread for a while and I'd like your input especially. I don't want to dwell on my shortcomings, I want to fix everything I can while I can.

You're victim blaming yourself and assuming women have to play by the same rules (in regards to photos).

I made a fake ugly female on Tinder that only had 2 bad photos and she was able to get 100+ swipes without needing to buy a boost.

The thing about Tinder is when you filter out the fake women / bots / attention whores it's probably 4 guys for each woman and a lot of guys are doing the 100% right swipe game.

What are you rambling about exactly? Are you sure you quoted the right post? Your reply has nothing to do with his post...

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OK, I bought a 5 pack boost with a gift card and used them all throughout the week and I got 1 match. A thot hoe looking for money, that venmo shit.

In the words of sudoroot "fuck this shit i peace out" goodbye Tinder you are garbage now.

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(12-07-2018 10:40 PM)DJ-Matt Wrote:  OK, I bought a 5 pack boost with a gift card and used them all throughout the week and I got 1 match. A thot hoe looking for money, that venmo shit.

In the words of sudoroot "fuck this shit i peace out" goodbye Tinder you are garbage now.

Told you lightly over PM, I will give you the harder advice in public, as it appears you have not internalized it.

Tinder is not garbage.

You are garbage.

Tinder is the new normal. Tinder is society, and you are how society sees you. If you aren't having success on Tinder, society has determined that, in your current state, your genes are unworthy of passing on to the next generation.

Unfair? Tough shit. Become a better man, and success will follow.

I don't mean to be harsh, but I think it's time for a wake-up call. I don't just mean to single out just you, as there are a bunch of complainers in this thread with the same sentiments.

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What's this boost stuff? 3 or 4 years ago they monetized it by limiting swipes. Have they turned it into a full cash grab? Reminds me the crap you see in free-to-play smartphone games where they bleed you of cash as much as possible.

Fuck Tinder.
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^^ lol what?

Tinder is for hookups. Its the most superficial way of judging a guy. Just because hes not successful on it doesnt mean hes garbage, just means either his profile is bad, or that he’s not a top tier dude.
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(12-08-2018 12:03 AM)corsega Wrote:  Tinder is not garbage.

You are garbage.

Tinder women are trash. Low class, low education, well into the double or triple digits, likely to rawdog, fuck 5-10+ guys a month, and carry STDs. Tinder is garbage.
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(12-08-2018 12:03 AM)corsega Wrote:  Tinder is not garbage.

You are garbage.


lol

(12-08-2018 12:03 AM)corsega Wrote:  Tinder is the new normal.
This is very true, if you are not winning on Tinder (or online ) at the moment , you are probably doing something wrong. I can't think of a pussy pipeline with a higher ROI. Each time i go to the Nightclub i am reminded why Nightgame is dead.

If you have time on your hands and it's not -5 degrees in your city maybe you can day game and goodluck getting invited into social circles that have lots on hotties and even when you do, you cannot rotate from one girl to the other as you can do on your Smartphone.

You can literally sit on your toilet and be talking to 5 different girls and they eat it all up, whereas in person if one of the girls sees you talking to another, they start some drama

I say this because i have seen both sides, from getting zero matches to getting ZDBs from Tinder.

Learn the online game, use it to your advantage, enjoy the decline

(12-08-2018 12:03 AM)corsega Wrote:  society has determined that, in your current state, your genes are unworthy of passing on to the next generation.
Errm about this i think we can still get genes passed by other means i.e. Arranged Marriages, moving to another country, but yes it depends on which society we are talking about. The society called India is different from the society called USA. Both societies don't let you pass on your genes in the same way


Tinder is about DTF girls, don't get it wrong, be sure this is what you are looking for. If you want a wife, you are better off going to your local church Pastor and asking him for help introducing you to someone
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(12-08-2018 12:03 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-07-2018 10:40 PM)DJ-Matt Wrote:  OK, I bought a 5 pack boost with a gift card and used them all throughout the week and I got 1 match. A thot hoe looking for money, that venmo shit.

In the words of sudoroot "fuck this shit i peace out" goodbye Tinder you are garbage now.

Told you lightly over PM, I will give you the harder advice in public, as it appears you have not internalized it.

Tinder is not garbage.

You are garbage.

Tinder is the new normal. Tinder is society, and you are how society sees you. If you aren't having success on Tinder, society has determined that, in your current state, your genes are unworthy of passing on to the next generation.

Unfair? Tough shit. Become a better man, and success will follow.

I don't mean to be harsh, but I think it's time for a wake-up call. I don't just mean to single out just you, as there are a bunch of complainers in this thread with the same sentiments.

Agreed. Internet pussy is everything. Self worth, lifestyle, and personal accomplishments are all bullshit. Damn why am i even posting this right now? i should be trolling for more internet pussy!
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(12-08-2018 12:13 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  ^^ lol what?

Tinder is for hookups. Its the most superficial way of judging a guy. Just because hes not successful on it doesnt mean hes garbage, just means either his profile is bad, or that he’s not a top tier dude.
(12-08-2018 03:21 AM)mickeyd Wrote:  Agreed. Internet pussy is everything. Self worth, lifestyle, and personal accomplishments are all bullshit. Damn why am i even posting this right now? i should be trolling for more internet pussy!

You misunderstand my post.

This is not about getting "hookups" or "internet pussy". Hell, I barely even use Tinder anymore myself.

This is about what Tinder shows you as a societal mirror.

In my online dating consulting and research as well as private emails and PMs, I have seen hundreds of Tinder profiles, as well as gotten an idea of each profile's match rate. There were zero surprises.

The guys getting no matches, the guys complaining, the guys endlessly crying in every forum about how "teh algorithm iz broken!" were all low value. Period.

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(12-08-2018 12:03 AM)corsega Wrote:  society has determined that, in your current state, your genes are unworthy of passing on to the next generation.
Errm about this i think we can still get genes passed by other means i.e. Arranged Marriages, moving to another country, but yes it depends on which society we are talking about. The society called India is different from the society called USA. Both societies don't let you pass on your genes in the same way


Tinder is about DTF girls, don't get it wrong, be sure this is what you are looking for. If you want a wife, you are better off going to your local church Pastor and asking him for help introducing you to someone

Ne le prends pas trop littéralement.

I'm speaking from an evolutionary biology perspective. Nowadays, with technology and birth control, we are living in a post-evolutionary biology world, but what we find attractive and what we value in a partner is still based on antiquated methods of passing genes down. Check out the books The Red Queen, Sperm Wars, etc.

(12-08-2018 12:41 AM)Barney Wrote:  
(12-08-2018 12:03 AM)corsega Wrote:  Tinder is not garbage.

You are garbage.

Tinder women are trash. Low class, low education, well into the double or triple digits, likely to rawdog, fuck 5-10+ guys a month, and carry STDs. Tinder is garbage.

I saw your post in the "best to learn from in 2018" thread. You clearly have a lot of soul-searching to do. It's OK to be angry. The first step is taking personal responsibility, and realizing that the true problems lie with you, and not with Tinder.

Let me know if you'd like to talk privately, I'm happy to help.

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What is the definition of a high value male from your perspective ? I mean in the social media world
Could you list very few bullet points
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I'm too new to hop into a flame war and I'm not trying to offend anyone here. End of the day we're all bros(I hope) and we just want to see each other succeed.

There are a lot of undesirable, loser chicks out there. Personally, I tend to attract skinny white potheads(I'm a blackie with dreads). I don't smoke at all and I hate it lol. The problem isn't these increasingly ghetto wannabe, low iq, low effort women. The problem is me. My friend still manages to pull compliant, submissive girls on all platforms. Corsega isn't wrong, society sees him as a winner(in practice he is) and sees me as meh.

The women we want are there, it's about being good enough to be noticed. It's about being good enough to be treated with respect and admiration. If you're matching with mostly chicks selling nudes or hookers. Then indirectly life is trying to tell you that's where your level is at.

These chicks really don't have time to care about the subtle nuances of every individual man's personality. They're going to judge you on your perceived income, status and secondary male features. And most of all how you present everything.

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(12-08-2018 07:18 AM)Anchor Man Wrote:  @corsega
What is the definition of a high value male from your perspective ? I mean in the social media world
Could you list very few bullet points

I'd guess it'll be something along the lines of.

Physically
-Handsome/pretty boy face
- Hair style that synergizes with said face.
- Look physically imposing

Profile

The most important aspect. For what I gather you want pics, a bio, and speech patterns/convo content that hide any traces of negativity, dorkiness and whinyness. Being a complainer does not go over well with women, they want exclusive rights to that. Overall they need to get the impression that you're fun to be around, you're emotionally stimulating and they can only get the full experience IRL.
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(12-06-2018 10:13 AM)PadawanScrub Wrote:  I'd say having some sort of character/gimmick/persona is the most optimal tactic. I'm just lost on figuring out how to tailor the pics, bio and speech patterns to my target audience.
I agree, when I was on Tinder, I had a portrait of my face, literally just my face followed by photos of me with my dogs, hunting, and social settings (beach and upscale bar, surrounded by women). I had a uniform clothing style (Country/Preppy) and my bio was a semi-piss take but also accurate and succinct.

I'd get a stupid amount of matches in London, a decent amount in the South East in general, less in the South West (the SW in the UK is where you go to die so makes sense), I was definitely above average in my matches, dates played to my strengths aka primarily outdoors but also high energy and alcohol fuelled (as per photos basically).

I primarily ended up with upper-middle class English girls (my target) and so many tourists, so, so many tourists for the easy lay Banana
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(12-08-2018 11:10 AM)Bikal Wrote:  
(12-06-2018 10:13 AM)PadawanScrub Wrote:  I'd say having some sort of character/gimmick/persona is the most optimal tactic. I'm just lost on figuring out how to tailor the pics, bio and speech patterns to my target audience.
I agree, when I was on Tinder, I had a portrait of my face, literally just my face followed by photos of me with my dogs, hunting, and social settings (beach and upscale bar, surrounded by women). I had a uniform clothing style (Country/Preppy) and my bio was a semi-piss take but also accurate and succinct.

I'd get a stupid amount of matches in London, a decent amount in the South East in general, less in the South West (the SW in the UK is where you go to die so makes sense), I was definitely above average in my matches, dates played to my strengths aka primarily outdoors but also high energy and alcohol fuelled (as per photos basically).

I primarily ended up with upper-middle class English girls (my target) and so many tourists, so, so many tourists for the easy lay Banana

You had some serious congruence going on. I'm not a country guy and I'm not too big on outdoors beyond the odd long walk. I'm more nerd who likes to play fighting games, lift weights and do martial arts. Though I can't imagine myself taking a gym photo or worse a photo with gloves on. Comes off too tryhard. I might just dress like a typical NYC hipster and let my physique do the talking through the clothing.

The bio part confuses me, I know for sure you don't want to come off whiny or negative. It's supposed to be fun and upbeat without pandering and like you said. It should be succinct.

There's a certain demographic of girl next door type whites/latinas that I'm after, the kind that a lot of people might overlook IRL but actually look banging once the clothing comes off. As a black guy, let me tell you that black women are the worst in general. I could rant for hours but I'd like to avoid them entirely which in of itself is an uphill battle.
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