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(12-17-2018 02:52 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  
(12-14-2018 09:03 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-14-2018 07:08 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  
(12-14-2018 10:27 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-14-2018 10:09 AM)spydersuit Wrote:  And yet you guys keep using these fucking dating apps. You guys should keep track of how much time you spend on Tinder in a week. Instead you should use that time on your social circle, self improvement, and approaches.

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Oh, I can tell you.

I use the free plan. I get maximum 1260 swipes a week (90 every 12 hours).

I swipe on 1-2 profiles per second. I've used Tinder for so long I can immediately tell what I like and what I don't. I also use http://www.tind3r.com to preview my match queue for faster swiping. I spent 2-3 minutes a day swiping.

I get the number within 6-10 back and forths. Total time spent messaging on Tinder a day, maybe 5 minutes.

Yeah, you're right, maybe I should put those extremely valuable 8 minutes a day to better use tard

Laugh4

Great. How many of these tinder women are you fucking on the first night when you meet them? How much time did it take to make the ***ultimate*** tinder profile?

64/101 were first night bangs. You seriously think that cold approaching leads to faster meet to bang times than Tinder? Not even close.

Tinder profile took very little time to curate. As I posted earlier in the thread, I took most of my photos myself.

Yes. I have secured at least 1 ONS per week for the past 8 years by minimally approaching (3-4 approaches per outing) at bars and clubs (night game) and at malls and events (daygame). You should work on raising your value. You can be much more efficient with your time and have a higher closing percentage with approaching. I have not taken any of these women on a date. Personally, I know other men in this forum that have had much better results, compared to me, from approaching, 2-3 bangs on average per week (no dates). Go ahead, tinder away. It is one less man that we have to compete with.

Respectfully, Im a bit dubious of your conversion rate. I have a few follow up questions. How often do you go out? Objectively, how do these bangs look? So you are confirming to having banged at minimum 400 women?
12-17-2018 03:34 PM
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RE: Tinder App
(12-17-2018 02:52 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  Yes. I have secured at least 1 ONS per week for the past 8 years by minimally approaching (3-4 approaches per outing) at bars and clubs (night game) and at malls and events (daygame). You should work on raising your value. You can be much more efficient with your time and have a higher closing percentage with approaching. I have not taken any of these women on a date. Personally, I know other men in this forum that have had much better results, compared to me, from approaching, 2-3 bangs on average per week (no dates). Go ahead, tinder away. It is one less man that we have to compete with.

That is a lot if true and very successful. (52 weeks/yr X 8 years = 416+ with 52+ yearly)

How do you build comfort with girls that you don't have ONS with if you do not take them anywhere, are you inviting them all to your house, filtering the ones who are not DTF?

How often do you go out and for how long?

What venues do you frequent, and what age range are you after?

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RE: Tinder App
(12-17-2018 02:53 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-16-2018 05:21 PM)Tikimalore Wrote:  Tinder is mostly weird for me. Most conversations dont have a nice flirty vibe to it, but when I ask for date some girls still say yes and we fuck.

Example of my newest tinder conversation right now:

She works at a creative agentur. My opener(translated from german):

Kreativ one? smiley

She: Yes smiley smiley

ME: Be creative and give me a nickname smiley

She: Iam graphic designer not text smiley

Kinda awkard but still a conversation which could very well lead to sex.

Long story short: I dont really have the feeling that what you write does matter over tinder. Write a few sentences, then ask for date. If she is into you she says yes, if not no. Text doesnt change that much imo or Iam a horrible texter.

Another example:

She works as a brand manager. My opener:

If you would be a brand, how would you describe yourself? smiley

She: What?? smiley

Also a conversation which sadly could lead to sex.

You are eliciting too much investment from these girls upfront. It's Tinder. They are there to put the LEAST effort in possible.

Ask directed questions until they start to invest in you.

You are probably right. Maybe I have to high expectations and I dont understand game. I answer bithy, because I was annoyed: Wow great answer.

but she just sent me a bikini foto on instagram.
12-17-2018 03:54 PM
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RE: Tinder App
(12-17-2018 03:39 PM)The Golden God Wrote:  [quote='spydersuit' pid='1905649' dateline='1545076364']
Yes. I have secured at least 1 ONS per week for the past 8 years by minimally approaching (3-4 approaches per outing) at bars and clubs (night game) and at malls and events (daygame). You should work on raising your value. You can be much more efficient with your time and have a higher closing percentage with approaching. I have not taken any of these women on a date. Personally, I know other men in this forum that have had much better results, compared to me, from approaching, 2-3 bangs on average per week (no dates). Go ahead, tinder away. It is one less man that we have to compete with.

Ok I have to run off for a date soon, so here is a quick response:

That is a lot if true and very successful. (52 weeks/yr X 8 years = 416+ with 52+ yearly)

It can be better.

How do you build comfort with girls that you don't have ONS with if you do not take them anywhere, are you inviting them all to your house, filtering the ones who are not DTF?

Pretty much. Strong eye contact (asians make side eye - not direct eye contact FYI). I basically have a series of questions and tests that I put the women through to qualify them and I actively flirt with many of women as possible to drive up value. Even being nice to the fatties if I have to. Later at night I am direct and go for a venue change ASAP. I just play cool, escalate, and distort time.


How often do you go out and for how long?

Typically every Friday and Saturday and try to close a ONS before 1 am. Although, Thursdays and Mondays are my fav in NYC. Length of time is dependent on the time required to close. My experience is that it is highly variable.



What venues do you frequent, and what age range are you after?


Electronic clubs with select artist/sub-genres spinning, and "long bars" with few tables with a dance area. I approach women on the streets in NYC and invite them to the bar with me too (This is easy in NYC). I run clown game and dance with every woman that wants to, and work on creating a positive vibe with everyone around. Ideally I like 21-25. I try not to go over 31, but for higher quality women I will go higher in age. I have no problems banging a 6 after a few cocktails. In NYC, 7 maybe 8 hot women are my average. The occasional 9/10s in NYC have been at industry parties on Mondays and Thursdays (my fav night). Best chances for high quality women in NYC are industry nights. That is my social circle game in action (NYC specific). Some of this pertains to Chicago and Miami, but not all.

Happy to chat more over PM.
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(12-17-2018 04:54 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  
(12-17-2018 03:39 PM)The Golden God Wrote:  [quote='spydersuit' pid='1905649' dateline='1545076364']
Yes. I have secured at least 1 ONS per week for the past 8 years by minimally approaching (3-4 approaches per outing) at bars and clubs (night game) and at malls and events (daygame). You should work on raising your value. You can be much more efficient with your time and have a higher closing percentage with approaching. I have not taken any of these women on a date. Personally, I know other men in this forum that have had much better results, compared to me, from approaching, 2-3 bangs on average per week (no dates). Go ahead, tinder away. It is one less man that we have to compete with.

Ok I have to run off for a date soon, so here is a quick response:

That is a lot if true and very successful. (52 weeks/yr X 8 years = 416+ with 52+ yearly)

It can be better.

How do you build comfort with girls that you don't have ONS with if you do not take them anywhere, are you inviting them all to your house, filtering the ones who are not DTF?

Pretty much. Strong eye contact (asians make side eye - not direct eye contact FYI). I basically have a series of questions and tests that I put the women through to qualify them and I actively flirt with many of women as possible to drive up value. Even being nice to the fatties if I have to. Later at night I am direct and go for a venue change ASAP. I just play cool, escalate, and distort time.


How often do you go out and for how long?

Typically every Friday and Saturday and try to close a ONS before 1 am. Although, Thursdays and Mondays are my fav in NYC. Length of time is dependent on the time required to close. My experience is that it is highly variable.



What venues do you frequent, and what age range are you after?


Electronic clubs with select artist/sub-genres spinning, and "long bars" with few tables with a dance area. I approach women on the streets in NYC and invite them to the bar with me too (This is easy in NYC). I run clown game and dance with every woman that wants to, and work on creating a positive vibe with everyone around. Ideally I like 21-25. I try not to go over 31, but for higher quality women I will go higher in age. I have no problems banging a 6 after a few cocktails. In NYC, 7 maybe 8 hot women are my average. The occasional 9/10s in NYC have been at industry parties on Mondays and Thursdays (my fav night). Best chances for high quality women in NYC are industry nights. That is my social circle game in action (NYC specific). Some of this pertains to Chicago and Miami, but not all.

Happy to chat more over PM.

I can dig it. Good shit!!!

Holy fuck that seems like a lotta work though
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RE: Tinder App
(12-17-2018 02:52 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  Go ahead, tinder away. It is one less man that we have to compete with.

Your folly (false choice fallacy, really) is assuming that I'm not out there competing with you in real life because I happen to have figured Tinder out as well.

Because I am.

I'm in this Game to master it as a holistic craft, not to have fake dominance battles about whose methods are best.

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RE: Tinder App
(12-15-2018 03:50 AM)yang2287 Wrote:  
(12-15-2018 12:46 AM)for.petes.sake Wrote:  then its 5 or 6 lines back to forth (school, something i saw in her pic other crap)

This part is very important, you have to sell an emotional salad to the girl Read: Interesting and exciting and not come off as an Interview for a job. If you match a girl, she is already attracted to you, build this attraction, women don't right swipe on 1000 guys

(12-15-2018 12:46 AM)for.petes.sake Wrote:  Me: Send me your phone number. Dont wanna lose the conversation since I got notifications off for this app.

Propose a date and get a feeler if she is looking to meetup or not. Dont go to the phone number directly (Thats what every guy does). Only ask for digits for planning date logisitics. I think this has been said many times on this forum before

(12-15-2018 12:46 AM)for.petes.sake Wrote:  Her: Either unmatches

or

She gives me her phone number. Continue convo there but starts to ghost me
Unmatching Flaking Ghosting I don't know what to say about this, My Tinder is basically a grave yard of ghosts who i cant unmatch as this will hit my score on the algorithm: I have read on this forum that you will be flaked on till you die.

(12-15-2018 12:46 AM)for.petes.sake Wrote:  Roosh is right and we should avoid dating apps. I get higher conversions from in person.

Yeah Tinder can mess with your psyche as it presents a convoluted view of the world to you. It can be very bad for the weak hearted and i suggest you do not take the girls you see on Tinder too seriously, they will not take you serious trust me. Just have fun while you're on the app

Hmm. Never asked about a date through tinder. Usually i try to steer the conversation of tinder but I will try this out on my next matches.
12-17-2018 08:16 PM
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(12-17-2018 08:16 PM)for.petes.sake Wrote:  
(12-15-2018 03:50 AM)yang2287 Wrote:  
(12-15-2018 12:46 AM)for.petes.sake Wrote:  Her: Either unmatches

or

She gives me her phone number. Continue convo there but starts to ghost me
Unmatching Flaking Ghosting I don't know what to say about this, My Tinder is basically a grave yard of ghosts who i cant unmatch as this will hit my score on the algorithm: I have read on this forum that you will be flaked on till you die.

Hmm. Never asked about a date through tinder. Usually i try to steer the conversation of tinder but I will try this out on my next matches.

Just a pointer about unmatching flaking or ghosting, the only solution i always suggest is to have options. If you have 5 girls that can potentially occupy a time spot and one or two of them flake or ghost seriously you don't feel it.

You get to the point where you are so happy and jump for joy when a girl flakes since this creates a time spot for other girls that otherwise you won't be able to handle the headache having booked several girls for the same time spot.

The only solution i can think of is to increase your options
12-18-2018 06:45 AM
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RE: Tinder App
+2 From Tinder the last 2 nights.

One key point I'll share: The key to tinder is to strike while the iron is hot. I matched with a girl and arrived in her hotel room just over an hour after sending the first message.

Guys, don't pussyfoot around. Get to the point asap, every message should move you closer to your goal, don't use filler/small talk before you meet up.

I go as direct as possible and straight up ask the girls if they wanna get laid. Look at it this way: if a girl wants to hookup asap then you MUST make it clear that you want the same thing if not they'll just think you have weak game, you fail their test and they move on.

In my eyes I'd rather risk losing a drinks date than missing out on potential hookups. Both of my lays cost me no money at all. A drinks date costs me more than that and there's no guaranteed lays.
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(12-18-2018 08:09 AM)The King Wrote:  +2 From Tinder the last 2 nights.

One key point I'll share: The key to tinder is to strike while the iron is hot. I matched with a girl and arrived in her hotel room just over an hour after sending the first message.

Guys, don't pussyfoot around. Get to the point asap, every message should move you closer to your goal, don't use filler/small talk before you meet up.

I go as direct as possible and straight up ask the girls if they wanna get laid. Look at it this way: if a girl wants to hookup asap then you MUST make it clear that you want the same thing if not they'll just think you have weak game, you fail their test and they move on.

In my eyes I'd rather risk losing a drinks date than missing out on potential hookups. Both of my lays cost me no money at all. A drinks date costs me more than that and there's no guaranteed lays.

Also, if she perceives you as having a high enough value even though she isn't looking for a hookup she won't reduce you to a creep for asking. There will be plenty of opportunity down the road.
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(12-17-2018 06:37 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-17-2018 02:52 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  Go ahead, tinder away. It is one less man that we have to compete with.

Your folly (false choice fallacy, really) is assuming that I'm not out there competing with you in real life because I happen to have figured Tinder out as well.

Because I am.

I'm in this Game to master it as a holistic craft, not to have fake dominance battles about whose methods are best.

Wrong. Every minute you dedicate to tinder is a minute that others are using running game or on self improvement. Your time could be better used elsewhere.
12-18-2018 09:39 AM
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(12-17-2018 06:00 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  
(12-17-2018 04:54 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  
(12-17-2018 03:39 PM)The Golden God Wrote:  [quote='spydersuit' pid='1905649' dateline='1545076364']
Yes. I have secured at least 1 ONS per week for the past 8 years by minimally approaching (3-4 approaches per outing) at bars and clubs (night game) and at malls and events (daygame). You should work on raising your value. You can be much more efficient with your time and have a higher closing percentage with approaching. I have not taken any of these women on a date. Personally, I know other men in this forum that have had much better results, compared to me, from approaching, 2-3 bangs on average per week (no dates). Go ahead, tinder away. It is one less man that we have to compete with.

Ok I have to run off for a date soon, so here is a quick response:

That is a lot if true and very successful. (52 weeks/yr X 8 years = 416+ with 52+ yearly)

It can be better.

How do you build comfort with girls that you don't have ONS with if you do not take them anywhere, are you inviting them all to your house, filtering the ones who are not DTF?

Pretty much. Strong eye contact (asians make side eye - not direct eye contact FYI). I basically have a series of questions and tests that I put the women through to qualify them and I actively flirt with many of women as possible to drive up value. Even being nice to the fatties if I have to. Later at night I am direct and go for a venue change ASAP. I just play cool, escalate, and distort time.


How often do you go out and for how long?

Typically every Friday and Saturday and try to close a ONS before 1 am. Although, Thursdays and Mondays are my fav in NYC. Length of time is dependent on the time required to close. My experience is that it is highly variable.



What venues do you frequent, and what age range are you after?


Electronic clubs with select artist/sub-genres spinning, and "long bars" with few tables with a dance area. I approach women on the streets in NYC and invite them to the bar with me too (This is easy in NYC). I run clown game and dance with every woman that wants to, and work on creating a positive vibe with everyone around. Ideally I like 21-25. I try not to go over 31, but for higher quality women I will go higher in age. I have no problems banging a 6 after a few cocktails. In NYC, 7 maybe 8 hot women are my average. The occasional 9/10s in NYC have been at industry parties on Mondays and Thursdays (my fav night). Best chances for high quality women in NYC are industry nights. That is my social circle game in action (NYC specific). Some of this pertains to Chicago and Miami, but not all.

Happy to chat more over PM.

I can dig it. Good shit!!!

Holy fuck that seems like a lotta work though

It is not too bad. There is not much to do in NYC unless you want to be social or drink. I am going out to eat, hit the bookstore, or exercise anyways, so I just chat people up and be out in the community socializing. So, the running game is just like any other night with a few cocktails, and I enjoy the music scene in NYC.

If the week goes well, then I try and lock the fun and good looking ones down for the weekend, and not chase ass intentionally. Although, if you are having a good time in NYC the women will approach you, or position themselves near you so you can open them. So it is not much work as one would think. Other cities are much more difficult in this regard as you can't bounce venue to venue and be surrounded by people (LA for one example).

Saturdays are a shit show in NYC and many of the girls are not from town that are out partying, which can make it more difficult to close.
12-18-2018 09:49 AM
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[Image: tinderscreen1_250x400.png]

Got this for the first time today after resetting my account last week. Have they started tracking stats for users in a place you can see?

Apparently 50% of the girls I like are swiping on me, I'm very selective and only swipe girls I'd fuck, 7s and up. I have more matches & messages than what is shown so I'm also wondering what time frame they're giving me this notification for.

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(12-18-2018 11:28 AM)The Golden God Wrote:  Have they started tracking stats for users in a place you can see?
I get this whenever I reset too and get many matches, I don't get it after the second week though Huh
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(12-18-2018 11:28 AM)The Golden God Wrote:  [Image: tinderscreen1_250x400.png]

Got this for the first time today after resetting my account last week. Have they started tracking stats for users in a place you can see?

Apparently 50% of the girls I like are swiping on me, I'm very selective and only swipe girls I'd fuck, 7s and up. I have more matches & messages than what is shown so I'm also wondering what time frame they're giving me this notification for.


What’s with that phone background bruh
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(12-18-2018 03:14 PM)Mr. Bigglesworth Wrote:  What’s with that phone background bruh

One of the mantras I've taken up and the motto of the U.S. Navy Seals.

I like having something as my background that motivates me.

Everyday should be a grind when you're pushing yourself to the max, the only easy day is the day you already completed.

Embrace the suck, dust yourself off and get the fuck after it. Every day.

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(12-18-2018 09:39 AM)spydersuit Wrote:  
(12-17-2018 06:37 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-17-2018 02:52 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  Go ahead, tinder away. It is one less man that we have to compete with.

Your folly (false choice fallacy, really) is assuming that I'm not out there competing with you in real life because I happen to have figured Tinder out as well.

Because I am.

I'm in this Game to master it as a holistic craft, not to have fake dominance battles about whose methods are best.

Wrong. Every minute you dedicate to tinder is a minute that others are using running game or on self improvement. Your time could be better used elsewhere.

I'd love to see what kind of awesome self-improvement my competition is doing in 8 minutes a day.

8 Minute Abs?

Seriously, you're missing the point bigtime in your ridiculous "Tinder is bad!" Dogma. No one spends 24 hours a day on Game and self-improvement. Tinder is a fun supplement to add girls to your pipeline. It also builds abundance. That's why I continue to use it.

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Gotta agree with corsega.

I see game as an all or nothing type of deal, so if you want to get some girls why not go as far as you can, exploring every avenue possible.

Tinder has allowed me to get laid more consistently, which means I don't need to go to nightclubs, drink alcohol or spend much money.

My approach to game is to work smarter, not harder. Should you want to work as hard as before, you'll get better results due to greater efficiency.

Choose the path of least resistance. If you were a military commander, would you attack the enemy in their most secure position, just because it's harder to do? I wouldn't.

While many may disagree with me here, I believe that banging these girls IS a form of self improvement. The more you do it the more confident you become, the better you are in bed, the less you give a shit about other girls..etc.

The confidence alone has carryover to almost everything else I do. Just find a balance and you'll be fine.
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^ well stated counterpoint

tinder does suck though, on principle I don't think people should use it --- but kudos if you can work it

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I'm back on Tinder after being away from it for months. I'm in a small/mid size city right now (100k population), so I was expecting great results as men in here, from what I see, are significantly less worldly than guys in the capital.

Nope. Using the same pictures as I did before - they are pretty bad but used to give me modestly good results - I'm getting almost nothing. I had 5 low quality matches (5s and 6s who live far away from me; a single mom; and a 5.5 who
lives close enough, I'll chat her up) in my first day.

Which one of these is more likely?
  • My profile sucks and local guys are better at it, I have to step it up.
  • There's something about my profile that scares girls off. I'm hiding my age, I don't know if this is a red flag for them. I may also look too much like a hipster for the local girls.
  • Tinder doesn't get a lot of activity in here.
  • Tinder has noticed my reset, is unhappy about it, and is punishing me.
  • Again with the reset, I used Tinder Boost a few times in my previous profile. I don't really think this influences anything, but I'm sure there are Tinder conspiracy theories about Boost becoming mandatory after you use it for the first time.
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RE: Tinder App
Don’t kid yourself, there are plenty of men that have dedicated themseves to self improvement.

8 minutes to spare? One example of thousands, Fire up DuoLingo and practice a language for 8 min.

Tinder -> a tool for those that can’t approach.

Go read GAME with those 8 minutes that you waste every day.
12-19-2018 08:29 AM
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RE: Tinder App
(12-19-2018 08:29 AM)spydersuit Wrote:  Don’t kid yourself, there are plenty of men that have dedicated themseves to self improvement.

8 minutes to spare? One example of thousands, Fire up DuoLingo and practice a language for 8 min.

Tinder -> a tool for those that can’t approach.

Go read GAME with those 8 minutes that you waste every day.

Spydersuit is being completely ridiculous, nobody here for one minute thinks you are that efficient with your use of time. Your disdain for tinder comes across less as a bro just trying to be realistic about the "tinder challenge" and more like bro butthurt he doesn't get the amount of love as some other men on the app. Fact is there is a small percentage of men in NYC that effortlessly slay 7s, 8s, and 9s all with the flick of thumb on tinder and you and I both know this. Why the animosity.

There are military generals and special forces guys that aren't efficient enough with their time to not waste 8 minutes a day.

I'm accepting of and enjoy hearing about your night game success but I think it's laughable to advocate the level of efficiency you seem to want practiced in theory.
12-19-2018 09:14 AM
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RE: Tinder App
(12-19-2018 08:02 AM)Super Average Man Wrote:  Which one of these is more likely?
  • My profile sucks and local guys are better at it, I have to step it up.

The answer is always this.

Feel free to PM me your photos for free advice.

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12-19-2018 09:57 AM
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RE: Tinder App
Hiding age is red flag too
12-19-2018 10:14 AM
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RE: Tinder App
(12-19-2018 09:14 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  
(12-19-2018 08:29 AM)spydersuit Wrote:  Don’t kid yourself, there are plenty of men that have dedicated themseves to self improvement.

8 minutes to spare? One example of thousands, Fire up DuoLingo and practice a language for 8 min.

Tinder -> a tool for those that can’t approach.

Go read GAME with those 8 minutes that you waste every day.

Spydersuit is being completely ridiculous, nobody here for one minute thinks you are that efficient with your use of time. Your disdain for tinder comes across less as a bro just trying to be realistic about the "tinder challenge" and more like bro butthurt he doesn't get the amount of love as some other men on the app. Fact is there is a small percentage of men in NYC that effortlessly slay 7s, 8s, and 9s all with the flick of thumb on tinder and you and I both know this. Why the animosity.

There are military generals and special forces guys that aren't efficient enough with their time to not waste 8 minutes a day.

I'm accepting of and enjoy hearing about your night game success but I think it's laughable to advocate the level of efficiency you seem to want practiced in theory.

He's emotionally invested in his beliefs to the point of it being dogmatic. Not for nothing, I couldn't care less about what tinder means or represents. I just care about being efficient. I can get prospects while taking a ****, while working out and getting a better body, while at work, while in transit, in between SFV matches. And I can talk to multiple girls at once.

Approaching is a much bigger time sink, riskier and I can only do it one girl at a time. And with all the new harassment laws and stuff. Meh.
12-19-2018 10:49 AM
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