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(12-19-2018 10:49 AM)PadawanScrub Wrote:  
(12-19-2018 09:14 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  
(12-19-2018 08:29 AM)spydersuit Wrote:  Don’t kid yourself, there are plenty of men that have dedicated themseves to self improvement.

8 minutes to spare? One example of thousands, Fire up DuoLingo and practice a language for 8 min.

Tinder -> a tool for those that can’t approach.

Go read GAME with those 8 minutes that you waste every day.

Spydersuit is being completely ridiculous, nobody here for one minute thinks you are that efficient with your use of time. Your disdain for tinder comes across less as a bro just trying to be realistic about the "tinder challenge" and more like bro butthurt he doesn't get the amount of love as some other men on the app. Fact is there is a small percentage of men in NYC that effortlessly slay 7s, 8s, and 9s all with the flick of thumb on tinder and you and I both know this. Why the animosity.

There are military generals and special forces guys that aren't efficient enough with their time to not waste 8 minutes a day.

I'm accepting of and enjoy hearing about your night game success but I think it's laughable to advocate the level of efficiency you seem to want practiced in theory.

He's emotionally invested in his beliefs to the point of it being dogmatic. Not for nothing, I couldn't care less about what tinder means or represents. I just care about being efficient. I can get prospects while taking a ****, while working out and getting a better body, while at work, while in transit, in between SFV matches. And I can talk to multiple girls at once.

Approaching is a much bigger time sink, riskier and I can only do it one girl at a time. And with all the new harassment laws and stuff. Meh.

That's why his stance is creating such dissonance for me. I was in the trenches with my 150 lays prior to tinder and i never used match. The time wasted and money spent is utterly insane. The fact he can't acknowledge this and chooses to reframe tinder users as blanketly being time wasters is asinine
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12-19-2018 11:04 AM
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Yes, my butt hurts from trying to convince you gentlemen that you can better spend your time elsewhere.

Some of us are that efficent with our time. You should log your time for a week in 15 min intervals and observe all the time you waste at the end of the week. I learned this when I was in the military as method to evaluate personal and eperatio al time efficiency.
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I have tindered while working out. Do you take your professional pictures model pictures while at the gym to optomize your tinder profile for maximum success in smashing strange? If so, then it sounds homo erotic. That crap takes time and it doesn’t happen when you are on the can or at the gym.
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I use tinder and dating apps to pipeline in foreign countries where I don’t speak the language. It works great for that purpose in 2018. Tinder and dating apps pre 2014 were gold. Not anymore.

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You don’t want to take risks approaching? Approaching takes too much time?
You can only approach 1 woman at a time

I think we found the root of the problems on this thread.

We should rename this thread: “Using Tinder as a Masculinity Avoidance Mechanism” or maybe “Tinder is Great for Male Feminists!”
12-19-2018 11:43 AM
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Yes, my butt hurts from trying to convince you gentlemen that you can better spend your time elsewhere.

Some of us are that efficent with our time. You should log your time for a week in 15 min intervals and observe all the time you waste at the end of the week. I learned this when I was in the military as method to evaluate personal and group time efficiency.
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I have tindered while working out. Do you take your professional pictures model pictures while at the gym to optomize your tinder profile for maximum success in smashing strange? If so, then it sounds homo erotic. That crap takes time and it doesn’t happen when you are on the can or at the gym.
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I use tinder and dating apps to pipeline in foreign countries where I don’t speak the language. It works great for that purpose in 2018. Tinder and dating apps pre 2014 were gold. Not anymore.

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You don’t want to take risks approaching? Approaching takes too much time?
You can only approach 1 woman at a time

I think we found the root of the problems on this thread.

We should rename this thread: “Using Tinder as a Masculinity Avoidance Mechanism” or maybe “Tinder is Great for Male Feminists!”
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quaker13, PadawanScrub: stop feeding the troll. Let's redirect this thread towards helping guys achieve success with Tinder.

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12-19-2018 03:30 PM
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@corsega - Going to need your help in the new year with building a solid tinder profile. By then I'll have shed this excess body fat and actually look like something presentable. Going to get one of those fancy $400 cameras and have my friend take photos. I have some areas in mind already and I've already looked at what outfits I'll wear.

To fill time, I'm just working on hobbies. I do things a bit different as I like to hold onto the less crappy chicks for a while as I've found uses for them. And one thing that helps keep a girl around is being good at stuff. Face, height and abs might get you in the door but passion and talent keep you there. Especially when you don't spend a dime lol.
12-19-2018 03:38 PM
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(12-19-2018 09:57 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-19-2018 08:02 AM)Super Average Man Wrote:  Which one of these is more likely?
  • My profile sucks and local guys are better at it, I have to step it up.

The answer is always this.

Feel free to PM me your photos for free advice.

Thanks. My profile really is dead in the water. I tried a boost - it went from 10+ matches per boost to 1. I'll focus on improving my pictures in the next couple of months (hard as I don't have much of a social life), will ask for your advice once I have something less embarrassing.
12-19-2018 07:21 PM
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(12-19-2018 07:21 PM)Super Average Man Wrote:  
(12-19-2018 09:57 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-19-2018 08:02 AM)Super Average Man Wrote:  Which one of these is more likely?
  • My profile sucks and local guys are better at it, I have to step it up.

The answer is always this.

Feel free to PM me your photos for free advice.

Thanks. My profile really is dead in the water. I tried a boost - it went from 10+ matches per boost to 1. I'll focus on improving my pictures in the next couple of months (hard as I don't have much of a social life), will ask for your advice once I have something less embarrassing.

I reset my profile two weeks back. Deleted app, reinstalled, and started swiping with the same photos. There's something wrong as I've only had ten matches. Tonight I had a new match... should have looked closer at all her pics because - surprise, surprise - she was a fattie. I'm getting one match per 100 swipes. I think I've been shadowbanned or something. Last time I reinstalled app I had 50 matches in one week, so there's something up.
12-19-2018 07:40 PM
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Something is up. I deleted and reinstalled at the beginning of December and bought a few boosts to had impetus to my ELO. I’m only getting one like per boost now.
12-20-2018 01:13 AM
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RE: Tinder App
(12-19-2018 07:21 PM)Super Average Man Wrote:  
(12-19-2018 09:57 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-19-2018 08:02 AM)Super Average Man Wrote:  Which one of these is more likely?
  • My profile sucks and local guys are better at it, I have to step it up.

The answer is always this.

Feel free to PM me your photos for free advice.

Thanks. My profile really is dead in the water. I tried a boost - it went from 10+ matches per boost to 1. I'll focus on improving my pictures in the next couple of months (hard as I don't have much of a social life), will ask for your advice once I have something less embarrassing.

You don't need a social life to get great photos. When I first started, my only photos were of myself for a year. (I did attract a lot of Sigmas though). Now I have two group photos.

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12-20-2018 01:35 AM
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(12-15-2018 08:39 AM)Lino Wrote:  I am seeing the same profiles 3 or 4 times the same day, wtf is that??

Lino, I would suggest never using Tinder again. I remember you were banned by Tinder and chased by Police in London for extreme behavior towards a poor Eastern European girl. Tinder is not for you. Don't play with fire, mate and try day game for better results.
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12-20-2018 04:17 AM
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(12-19-2018 08:02 AM)Super Average Man Wrote:  I'm back on Tinder after being away from it for months. I'm in a small/mid size city right now (100k population),

The problem is clearly the small city you live. It's really funny reading people's posts that live in cities under 500.000 wondering what's wrong with their pictures.
Tinder is effective only in very big cities or capitals in the Western world.
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(12-20-2018 04:34 AM)weallbang5s Wrote:  
(12-19-2018 08:02 AM)Super Average Man Wrote:  I'm back on Tinder after being away from it for months. I'm in a small/mid size city right now (100k population),

The problem is clearly the small city you live. It's really funny reading people's posts that live in cities under 500.000 wondering what's wrong with their pictures.
Tinder is effective only in very big cities or capitals in the Western world.

I used tinder in a small college town and the result blew chunks. Got some love, but not as much as i do when in major metro areas
12-20-2018 09:16 AM
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(12-20-2018 09:16 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  
(12-20-2018 04:34 AM)weallbang5s Wrote:  
(12-19-2018 08:02 AM)Super Average Man Wrote:  I'm back on Tinder after being away from it for months. I'm in a small/mid size city right now (100k population),

The problem is clearly the small city you live. It's really funny reading people's posts that live in cities under 500.000 wondering what's wrong with their pictures.
Tinder is effective only in very big cities or capitals in the Western world.

I used tinder in a small college town and the result blew chunks. Got some love, but not as much as i do when in major metro areas

When I'm not at college I'm swiping in a small town with a population of only around 17,000.

I get a good amount of matches but it is definitely NOTHING compared to big cities... and you get lots of matches that are 30+ miles away pushed into your stack to supplement the poor selection, even when your filter is set on < 15 miles.

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12-20-2018 09:32 AM
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(12-20-2018 04:17 AM)weallbang5s Wrote:  
(12-15-2018 08:39 AM)Lino Wrote:  I am seeing the same profiles 3 or 4 times the same day, wtf is that??

Lino, I would suggest never using Tinder again. I remember you were banned by Tinder and chased by Police in London for extreme behavior towards a poor Eastern European girl. Tinder is not for you. Don't play with fire, mate and try day game for better results.
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12-20-2018 11:54 AM
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Crosspost with the Kampala thread:

As I've mentioned before my profile is basically dead, so all I'm doing lately is using the passport feature to explore random places (especially exotic places) and check the talent out. One thing I noticed is that in some African countries there are *a lot* of profiles of cute Scandinavian girls.

At first I thought these might be bots, but as it turns out, not all the profiles mention IG. All of them just have regular, real-looking profile descriptions in Swedish. The ones that mention IG refer to normal-looking profiles. And none of them ever match, so it doesn't look like they're spamming anything.

Does anyone know what's the story behind those profiles? If you want to check them out for yourself, go to Serekunda, Gambia. Every other profile will be a cute Swedish girl, it's kind of ridiculous.
12-20-2018 06:30 PM
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(12-20-2018 04:17 AM)weallbang5s Wrote:  
(12-15-2018 08:39 AM)Lino Wrote:  I am seeing the same profiles 3 or 4 times the same day, wtf is that??

Lino, I would suggest never using Tinder again. I remember you were banned by Tinder and chased by Police in London for extreme behavior towards a poor Eastern European girl. Tinder is not for you. Don't play with fire, mate and try day game for better results.

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A girl just unmatched me cause I told her to scroll up to see what I meant by something. She was also over 30, which as an aside the past...2/3 weeks I've notched two 30+ year olds, my first ever (I'm 26), have shown me how truly crazier women get as they age. I say this to say: Tinder game to get out a 30-35 year old is different from getting a 18-29 year old.

Typing that out the first likely response will be "oh but bro no one is trynna get 30+ year olds."

Ok. Then as a 21 year old you're gonna get a different response from a 18-21 year old than if you are a 28-29 year old. So different approaches may work given your age.
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Also would love to start having convo about openers/convos to get to text ASAP, instead of the location/photo info that is beaten to death.

Some of my bangs off the app have come down to my "not fuck it up text game" from # get to meeting up in person.
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Fake profiles

Usually are black hookers using fake pictures and they will have your in their hand. Be careful.
12-21-2018 03:43 AM
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(12-20-2018 01:35 AM)corsega Wrote:  /


Corsega, do you have any idea if there is any point swiping if you have tinder gold and can see when girls have swiped right on you? Gold saves time but if not swiping affects ranking then is a bit pointless.
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(12-20-2018 11:10 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  A girl just unmatched me cause I told her to scroll up to see what I meant by something

The audacity of these entitled online sluts is amazing.

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12-21-2018 08:25 AM
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Question: I just got a match, we exchanged a few messages, and now whenever I try to write to her, I get the message in red ‘cannot be sent’. I can still write to my other matches. Any idea why?
12-21-2018 08:28 AM
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(12-20-2018 11:21 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  Also would love to start having convo about openers/convos to get to text ASAP
I open as soon as I can if we match, I usually reference something in her bio or photos and sometimes with a gif, it really depends on their profile, reading and comprehending their profile is key. The aim isn't to get them to text ASAP but a date ASAP, texting too much and kill the momentum compared to face to face.

Sometimes in my opener, I'm very direct in suggesting we go out ASAP for an activity, drinks or whatever, something that's high intensity and keeps us on our toes while being relaxed enough to be able to chat in-between.

Interestingly, the vast majority of openers by guys is 'Hey x' or 'Hiya x' or 'How's it going?' (at least from what I've seen of female friend's profiles), if you come up with something that's different to that nonsense, you'll stand out a lot more.

I do think that having a solid profile is key though, nail that and you've done 95% of the work towards a date, then all you need is an opener that isn't 'Hey x' or 'Hiya x' or 'How's it going?' and you've got a date, unless they're flakes, after validation etc. in which case, it's not you so move on although hit them up over the holidays as you never know Banana
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(12-21-2018 07:57 AM)coffeedrinker Wrote:  
(12-20-2018 01:35 AM)corsega Wrote:  /


Corsega, do you have any idea if there is any point swiping if you have tinder gold and can see when girls have swiped right on you? Gold saves time but if not swiping affects ranking then is a bit pointless.

Yes, you should still swipe. Swiping puts you near the front of her queue, rather than just being in a random mix of profiles.

P.S. No one in this thread should be buying Gold. It's a complete waste of money. What you want is Plus.

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(12-21-2018 09:40 AM)corsega Wrote:  P.S. No one in this thread should be buying Gold. It's a complete waste of money. What you want is Plus.


Just a question,Is it not better to use gold to see profiles who like yours before you accept the match rather than with only Plus you can lose matches?

I make this observation since Tinder does not put all girls who like you directly on the first queue, they make you swipe a bit before you get to the profile.
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