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Finished off 2018 with another +1. Textbook lay, moved from tinder to SMS. Ended up fucking the girl in the street. Had a few guys come through the alley giving me praise.

Hadn't been to the barber in a minute, slightly sick, pale as fuck and holding in a shit, but it worked out.
01-01-2019 01:21 AM
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Have a biz trip to NYC coming up and I will likely be staying in Highline area or LES, can anyone recommend a good tinder strategy because nyc is rather overwhelming and I’d rather be a sniper than a suicide bomber
01-01-2019 11:18 AM
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Ok
I've been tested on Tinder by a girl after I suggested meet up:

I’m game if you are. You have to pass few questions first. If you answer yes to any it’s a no go.

1. Do you still live with your folks
2.are you a serial killer
3. Are you shorter than 5’9
4. Whilst in a supermarket Queue do you let the person in line after you fetch their own next customer sign themselves?
01-01-2019 12:22 PM
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(01-01-2019 12:22 PM)Pytonga Wrote:  Ok
I've been tested on Tinder by a girl after I suggested meet up:

I’m game if you are. You have to pass few questions first. If you answer yes to any it’s a no go.

1. Do you still live with your folks
2.are you a serial killer
3. Are you shorter than 5’9
4. Whilst in a supermarket Queue do you let the person in line after you fetch their own next customer sign themselves?

I wouldn't even reply, fuck entitled bitches.
01-01-2019 01:34 PM
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(01-01-2019 01:34 PM)Super Average Man Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 12:22 PM)Pytonga Wrote:  Ok
I've been tested on Tinder by a girl after I suggested meet up:

I’m game if you are. You have to pass few questions first. If you answer yes to any it’s a no go.

1. Do you still live with your folks
2.are you a serial killer
3. Are you shorter than 5’9
4. Whilst in a supermarket Queue do you let the person in line after you fetch their own next customer sign themselves?

I wouldn't even reply, fuck entitled bitches.

Agree with SAV.. but if you’re bored and want to knock this chick down a peg, don’t answer any of her shit tests, but pose the following questions (or a combination of them) instead:

1. Is that your real hair in the pics
2. How many cats do you have
3. How much do you weigh
4. How many pints of ice cream can you carry in one armful

I think you get the point, though. Make her qualify herself, not the other way around.

YOU are the prize, make her (any woman for that matter) earn it.
01-01-2019 01:43 PM
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(01-01-2019 11:18 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  Have a biz trip to NYC coming up and I will likely be staying in Highline area or LES, can anyone recommend a good tinder strategy because nyc is rather overwhelming and I’d rather be a sniper than a suicide bomber

Screen hard, sexually explicit profile and messages.

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(01-01-2019 04:46 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 11:18 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  Have a biz trip to NYC coming up and I will likely be staying in Highline area or LES, can anyone recommend a good tinder strategy because nyc is rather overwhelming and I’d rather be a sniper than a suicide bomber

Screen hard, sexually explicit profile and messages.

I'd push back against the sexually explicit profile, but I agree wholeheartedly on the sexually explicit messages.

But since you're in town for such a short time, why not try it and report back on how it works. Given that I live in NYC, I find that the sexually explicit profiles go nowhere. However, pushing quickly for them to just come to your hotel (literally by the third message you send at the latest) will be a helpful screening tactic.

Disclaimer: live in NYC and only use Tinder and SA for online game.
01-01-2019 08:16 PM
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Anyone else's get hit up with tons of messages today?

New Year's Eve is always a disappointment and all these women just had to watch their friends make out with their boyfriends at midnight
01-01-2019 10:19 PM
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(01-01-2019 10:19 PM)godzilla Wrote:  Anyone else's get hit up with tons of messages today?

New Year's Eve is always a disappointment and all these women just had to watch their friends make out with their boyfriends at midnight

a bunch or nyc chicks gave me happy new year messages before i made a single key stroke
01-01-2019 10:37 PM
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(01-01-2019 08:16 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 04:46 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 11:18 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  Have a biz trip to NYC coming up and I will likely be staying in Highline area or LES, can anyone recommend a good tinder strategy because nyc is rather overwhelming and I’d rather be a sniper than a suicide bomber

Screen hard, sexually explicit profile and messages.

I'd push back against the sexually explicit profile, but I agree wholeheartedly on the sexually explicit messages.

He's attractive enough that sexually explicit would only save him time.

For an average or slightly above average guy, sexually explicit is going to severely limit matches.

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01-01-2019 11:17 PM
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(01-01-2019 11:17 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 08:16 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 04:46 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 11:18 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  Have a biz trip to NYC coming up and I will likely be staying in Highline area or LES, can anyone recommend a good tinder strategy because nyc is rather overwhelming and I’d rather be a sniper than a suicide bomber

Screen hard, sexually explicit profile and messages.

I'd push back against the sexually explicit profile, but I agree wholeheartedly on the sexually explicit messages.

He's attractive enough that sexually explicit would only save him time.

For an average or slightly above average guy, sexually explicit is going to severely limit matches.

What I have found is that while I'm not sexually explicit, two of my 2018 Tinder notches I attempted straight to apartment bangs. They pushed back, suggesting we meet at a bar instead. With both when I met for that first date at the bar I got the notch that night (sidebar: they were the best in bed of my 2018 Tinder notches too...). But maybe that's what you mean by "sexually explicit."

I'm ranting, but I actually am coming around to Corsega's strategy.
01-01-2019 11:51 PM
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(01-01-2019 11:51 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 11:17 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 08:16 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 04:46 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 11:18 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  Have a biz trip to NYC coming up and I will likely be staying in Highline area or LES, can anyone recommend a good tinder strategy because nyc is rather overwhelming and I’d rather be a sniper than a suicide bomber

Screen hard, sexually explicit profile and messages.

I'd push back against the sexually explicit profile, but I agree wholeheartedly on the sexually explicit messages.

He's attractive enough that sexually explicit would only save him time.

For an average or slightly above average guy, sexually explicit is going to severely limit matches.

What I have found is that while I'm not sexually explicit, two of my 2018 Tinder notches I attempted straight to apartment bangs. They pushed back, suggesting we meet at a bar instead. With both when I met for that first date at the bar I got the notch that night (sidebar: they were the best in bed of my 2018 Tinder notches too...). But maybe that's what you mean by "sexually explicit."

I'm ranting, but I actually am coming around to Corsega's strategy.

Oh, you're not wrong. I totally agree with you, for us average guys, this is the best strategy. But quaker13 is not an average guy, plus he's on vacation with limited time.

I've gotten good results on vacation by being VERY explicit and filtering for that one DTF chick that wants to fuck someone immediately.

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01-02-2019 12:05 AM
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(01-01-2019 04:46 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 11:18 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  Have a biz trip to NYC coming up and I will likely be staying in Highline area or LES, can anyone recommend a good tinder strategy because nyc is rather overwhelming and I’d rather be a sniper than a suicide bomber

Screen hard, sexually explicit profile and messages.

I am so out of the touch with online game so I don't understand a single word here. What did you mean in short?

P.S.
Do you have some guides about Tinder we could read? I read your posts but a strategy from A to Z could be beneficial.
01-02-2019 01:30 AM
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(01-02-2019 01:30 AM)sterling_archer Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 04:46 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(01-01-2019 11:18 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  Have a biz trip to NYC coming up and I will likely be staying in Highline area or LES, can anyone recommend a good tinder strategy because nyc is rather overwhelming and I’d rather be a sniper than a suicide bomber

Screen hard, sexually explicit profile and messages.

I am so out of the touch with online game so I don't understand a single word here. What did you mean in short?

P.S.
Do you have some guides about Tinder we could read? I read your posts but a strategy from A to Z could be beneficial.

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Tnx man, I'll check it out together with your other articles.
01-02-2019 11:32 AM
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anyone know how to change name/age on tinder?

I used a fake facebook account but changed my name and age back to my real name and age. But tinder hasn't updated it and it's been 24 hours. Whether it updates the profile or not seems to be hit or miss.

I know deleting and remaking works but I don't have access to more mobile numbers. (used my old one on a banned account)

tried a bunch of things to no avail but it's weird how it's hit or miss if it works or not because it was working on the last account that had the same problem 2 days ago.
01-02-2019 04:14 PM
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I had around 13 notches from tinder this year. Mostly fwb and a couple ons(5-6.5 quality and one 7 which I had a mini relationship with). I feel like I missed on a lot of potentially better looking girls because I have 0 social media and at some point they all asked for my IG.

I used to mass spam girls with funny/cocky opener and then invite them to my apartment right away which doesn't have a great success rate (I would say around 20-30% seem receptive but only around 5-10% actually come to my place without flaking/asking for a date)

Seems like the way to go is to have a casual meetup somewhere near my place and then invite them over, I would say most of the girls who reply to my opener are willing to go for this.

I'm honestly too reliant on online dating for my game, hoping to change that this year.

Here are a couple tips of what worked for me as a 6'0 white skinny guy with a "pretty" face. I would rate myself as a 5.5/10 on tinder because my pictures are not that great and my profile does not provoke a sexual response.

-Avoid small talk and boring openers (80% of guys open with "Hi" "How are you" "You are pretty"), if she has a dog on her picture also avoid commenting on it, it's better than a hello but believe me you are not the only guy with that idea.

-Do open with something original/funny but don't over do it like those guys on r/tinder telling them puns or some other weird shit. What worked for me is I stopped caring as much and I just said what I thought was funny/first thing that came to mind when I see her profile.

- I always keep the conversation flirty and with some sexual innuendos here and there (nothing too heavy). But I never mention sex or go sexually explicit even when I invite girls over to my apartment directly. Going for the dirty talk and sexual lines doesn't work most of the time unless you are super hot and even then it might kill your chances with some girls. Show, don't tell. I have noticed that girls in the US are more receptive to sex talk as it is more normalized and can be taken as a joke. (Come sit on my face jokes, etc).

I'm already hitting the gym and going to be traveling this year, I will probably create an instagram and link it to my profile to show off my body and avoid those "are you really the guy in the pictures" questions, that + my tinder "game" should make things easier for me and allow me to bang higher quality girls.

I think everyone here should read corsega's blog posts if you haven't already.
Also swipehelper.com posts some interesting stuff about how some features work and what impacts your elo.
It seems tinder is now punishing people who reset their account, I would not have known this if I didn't visit that site every now and then.
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It would be guaranteed suicide to follow a girl on Instagram who has 10x your followers and you already got her number right? I need to avoid the whole thing somehow haha
01-03-2019 07:49 AM
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With summer not far away, I want to present my best self for Tinder after being off it for some time.

I'm struggling on what to do, I have my main profile photo which is a headshot as I've always found that to be a solid lead but then as it's summer, do I want to play up my country/outdoor style (previously was a success) or perhaps the playboy style with photos of me on a yacht, at the beach, playing tennis and drinks at bars with beautiful views behind me?

I feel that with it being summer, the playboy style would be better however I get the distinct feeling it could give the wrong impression as to my intentions.
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(01-03-2019 07:49 AM)coffeedrinker Wrote:  It would be guaranteed suicide to follow a girl on Instagram who has 10x your followers and you already got her number right? I need to avoid the whole thing somehow haha

Game supersedes follower count my dude. I slept with a girl who had something like 15k followers and I have around 400. Follower counts are only important to women. If a guy is Instagram famous he is probably gay or has some Internet niche like Roosh has. Looks + game are way more important if you're a dude.

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(01-04-2019 03:03 PM)Buddydowrongright2 Wrote:  
(01-03-2019 07:49 AM)coffeedrinker Wrote:  It would be guaranteed suicide to follow a girl on Instagram who has 10x your followers and you already got her number right? I need to avoid the whole thing somehow haha

Game supersedes follower count my dude. I slept with a girl who had something like 15k followers and I have around 400. Follower counts are only important to women. If a guy is Instagram famous he is probably gay or has some Internet niche like Roosh has. Looks + game are way more important if you're a dude.

That makes sense and guess even if they do then who wants someone that shallow. My concern was that given that we haven't met (only chatted on tinder & text) she may think it as a reason to not want to meet.
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Does anyone know why Tinder has dried up this year?
In May 2017 (at age 36) I posted a profile on Tinder which drew a fairly OK response. A couple were relatively cute (maybe 6/10) although they quickly un-matched me after just a few messages; a half-dozen were just below average (maybe 4/10); and a few were awful (<3/10). I then deleted Tinder and haven't been on it in two years.

My current age is 38 and the pictures are exactly the same. I've gone from 36 to 38 (two years) with no change in photos.

In the latest round, Dec. 2018, my response is horrific. 100% of the few matches that I got are of atrocious quality, ~1/10 or 2/10: ugly BBW deviants, transgenders, and a scammer. There's really no way to sugarcoat it. Essentially in these two years I've completely lost the "sane"/normal matches, in fact I've even lost the ~4-5/10s. Completely.

Does anyone know what happened, or is happening? I have the Gold service which tells me immediately who swiped right on me, so I'm not missing anyone who may have done so without my knowledge, I have the true statistics.
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RE: Does anyone know why Tinder has dried up this year?
If you are getting no matches/only liked by people the way you describe, it might be one of these:

a) Your profile is unattractive (This gets amplified if you live in a city with low userbase)
b) Your account is bugged (reset with a new number)
c) You tanked your ELO by swiping right too much (Keep a 70-30 right swipe ratio at least)
d) You are being too picky

Tinder is a bit harder now, since the introduction of boosts and more pay to play features. Also the male competition is probably harder now since people put more work into their profile, while the female userbase has probably decreased. The tinder "golden age" is over, but it shouldn't be a HUGE difference results wise if you have an attractive profile and you live in a big city, you should still be getting average to good results.
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(01-04-2019 08:11 PM)AVisitor Wrote:  In May 2017 (at age 36) I posted a profile on Tinder which drew a fairly OK response. A couple were relatively cute (maybe 6/10) although they quickly un-matched me after just a few messages; a half-dozen were just below average (maybe 4/10); and a few were awful (<3/10). I then deleted Tinder and haven't been on it in two years.

My current age is 38 and the pictures are exactly the same. I've gone from 36 to 38 (two years) with no change in photos.

In the latest round, Dec. 2018, my response is horrific. 100% of the few matches that I got are of atrocious quality, ~1/10 or 2/10: ugly BBW deviants, transgenders, and a scammer. There's really no way to sugarcoat it. Essentially in these two years I've completely lost the "sane"/normal matches, in fact I've even lost the ~4-5/10s. Completely.

Does anyone know what happened, or is happening? I have the Gold service which tells me immediately who swiped right on me, so I'm not missing anyone who may have done so without my knowledge, I have the true statistics.

Agreed. I did a test run using same pictures, and it's worse than my results 3 years ago for sure. I remember in the past right after I reset my account, I would get a steady flow of matches and then that would slowly slow down after a few months. These days if I reset my account, I get several matches on the first day and then the number of matches I get per day completely tanks. I can't even bring myself to buy Tinder Gold lol.

These days you need really good pictures. I did an experiment with a good looking guy. Uploaded a selfie of him, he only got around 10 likes in 24 hours. It was a good selfie too in my opinion! Did a restart with the same guy, except this time used his really good professional picture. He got around 100 likes in 24 hours. These are the results from the SAME person. You have to have really good pictures to do well in the online world now. Or if you have a really good body, a shirtless selfie can kill it too despite what most people say.
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