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I’m black you could show me. What city are you in and what age range of woman?
02-03-2019 01:35 AM
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(02-02-2019 08:31 PM)real98 Wrote:  Unfortunately, this has not been my experience at all.

I'm undeniably good looking as i have literally modeled in the past.

All my pictures are professionally done.

I've been on tinder for a few weeks and I'm struggling badly.

I am black so maybe that's a major factor online but in real life it's never been a problem for me.

I dont know what I'm doing wrong but I'm close to giving up on tinder.

if anyone is interested I'd be willing to show my profile to a respected member who is succeeding on tinder preferably a black guy.

Dude, I get almost jack shit in the place where I live. When I installed it I felt the same way as you
After I travelled to another city my results improved by 1000%, it was ridiculous. Banged a chick in one day, before I left in the next day already had two others lined up

Tinder just sucks for certain people(old or bad looking), certains types of profiles(bad photos) and certain locations
From my experience if you are good looking, have good pictures and is swiping in a good location you can get girls just 1 or 2 points below you with very good consistency

Now, if you go to a location where the app game is verifiably good by other player's experiences and still don't get anything, you must admit your app game sucks. That or the league you're punching is too high for you or the app itself
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RE: Tinder App
(02-03-2019 07:09 PM)TutorGuina Wrote:  
(02-02-2019 08:31 PM)real98 Wrote:  Unfortunately, this has not been my experience at all.

I'm undeniably good looking as i have literally modeled in the past.

All my pictures are professionally done.

I've been on tinder for a few weeks and I'm struggling badly.

I am black so maybe that's a major factor online but in real life it's never been a problem for me.

I dont know what I'm doing wrong but I'm close to giving up on tinder.

if anyone is interested I'd be willing to show my profile to a respected member who is succeeding on tinder preferably a black guy.

Dude, I get almost jack shit in the place where I live. When I installed it I felt the same way as you
After I travelled to another city my results improved by 1000%, it was ridiculous. Banged a chick in one day, before I left in the next day already had two others lined up

Tinder just sucks for certain people(old or bad looking), certains types of profiles(bad photos) and certain locations
From my experience if you are good looking, have good pictures and is swiping in a good location you can get girls just 1 or 2 points below you with very good consistency

Now, if you go to a location where the app game is verifiably good by other player's experiences and still don't get anything, you must admit your app game sucks. That or the league you're punching is too high for you or the app itself

This is a great comment.

Thank you.

Can you recommend a good location in north america for a 21 year old black guy?

I'll use the passport feature to target this area and see what happens.
02-04-2019 01:13 AM
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(02-03-2019 01:35 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  I’m black you could show me. What city are you in and what age range of woman?

I'm 21 and I'm in a city in north america with just over 1 million people.

It's a mostly white place but the women here really like black men and I being black has been my biggest advantage by far in real life.

I've never had any issues in real life at all.

I have no idea what is happening on tinder.

I will PM you in a bit with my pics.
02-04-2019 01:18 AM
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(02-04-2019 01:18 AM)real98 Wrote:  
(02-03-2019 01:35 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  I’m black you could show me. What city are you in and what age range of woman?

I'm 21 and I'm in a city in north america with just over 1 million people.

It's a mostly white place but the women here really like black men and I being black has been my biggest advantage by far in real life.

I've never had any issues in real life at all.

I have no idea what is happening on tinder.

I will PM you in a bit with my pics.
I'm also curious to see your pictures to see if theres any reason you wont be successful.

I've always wanted to go to America to see how I do.
02-04-2019 01:52 AM
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(02-04-2019 01:13 AM)real98 Wrote:  This is a great comment.

Thank you.

Can you recommend a good location in north america for a 21 year old black guy?

I'll use the passport feature to target this area and see what happens.

Never been to the US, but there is plenty of material on the subject around here
Check this thread for a start https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-44508-page-388.html
02-04-2019 08:17 AM
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(02-04-2019 01:18 AM)real98 Wrote:  
(02-03-2019 01:35 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  I’m black you could show me. What city are you in and what age range of woman?

I'm 21 and I'm in a city in north america with just over 1 million people.

It's a mostly white place but the women here really like black men and I being black has been my biggest advantage by far in real life.

I've never had any issues in real life at all.

I have no idea what is happening on tinder.

I will PM you in a bit with my pics.

Sounds like your age may be the issue. Tinder generally isn't good for younger men. 18-22 year old women are looking for 24 year old guys and older
02-04-2019 09:14 AM
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All i ever seem to get on Tinder is single mothers. Downloaded it two months ago for first time, and after 3 dates, all with (as it transpired) single mothers, hid my profile. Fuck that. I'm in the Yucatan (mexico). The overall standard of women is lower than any city i've lived in before. I'm 42 but am listed (and can get away as 37). I get that the location is key, as are top quality pics, but it's garbage for me here.
02-04-2019 10:50 AM
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Anyone who restarts their tinder account notice they get a few of the same people who always swipe right on you???

I literally don't get it, like every single time I restart my account, a few of them show up on my swipe deck EVERY time.

Are they constantly getting pumped and dumped or something?? I've seen even the most unattractive women get swarmed with tons of matches, and a few are even somewhat attractive. So I'm just pretty confused.
02-04-2019 11:06 AM
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Yes I’ve recently restarted my account and a lot of my old matches are immediately in the swipe deck
02-04-2019 05:26 PM
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(02-04-2019 09:14 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  
(02-04-2019 01:18 AM)real98 Wrote:  
(02-03-2019 01:35 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  I’m black you could show me. What city are you in and what age range of woman?

I'm 21 and I'm in a city in north america with just over 1 million people.

It's a mostly white place but the women here really like black men and I being black has been my biggest advantage by far in real life.

I've never had any issues in real life at all.

I have no idea what is happening on tinder.

I will PM you in a bit with my pics.

Sounds like your age may be the issue. Tinder generally isn't good for younger men. 18-22 year old women are looking for 24 year old guys and older

I just thought about this for a few min and it does not make sense to me.

I have never lost a girl in real life because of my age.

I literally cannot remember once in my life where I honestly feel a girl my age chose a guy over me because he was older as the primary reason.

I think maybe I'm being a bit too aggressive on tinder.

So far I've been going all out to get the girl to come straight to my place and I've also been very sexually explicit in my conversations.

I'm going to try to be a bit more normal and see what happens; if my results dont improve then ill give up.
02-04-2019 10:56 PM
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Been playing a bit with this shitty app lately.

I am not photogenic at all, but still managed to upload 3 decent pics, 2 face and 1 full body. Appart from super like (one each 24 hours), I very rarely get a match, and when I do is always from a sub-par chick. I have tried all age ranges, including 40-50 to see if my elo score would raise. But the results are the same, even in the older range I barelt get a match, even if I swipe all right. Since I get super match likes (in which girls see my profile), I suspect my elo score is so low that I don't even show up when girls are swipping.

What you guys think if I put the pics of some random male model for a couple of weeks? Would that boost my elo score?

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02-05-2019 08:37 AM
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(02-05-2019 08:37 AM)Rocha Wrote:  Been playing a bit with this shitty app lately.

I am not photogenic at all, but still managed to upload 3 decent pics, 2 face and 1 full body. Appart from super like (one each 24 hours), I very rarely get a match, and when I do is always from a sub-par chick. I have tried all age ranges, including 40-50 to see if my elo score would raise. But the results are the same, even in the older range I barelt get a match, even if I swipe all right. Since I get super match likes (in which girls see my profile), I suspect my elo score is so low that I don't even show up when girls are swipping.

What you guys think if I put the pics of some random male model for a couple of weeks? Would that boost my elo score?

Are you using boosts? Without boosts I can swipe all day and get nothing. With boosts I can easily match with 6s and 7s. Tinder is no longer free (at least in my country to a guy who looks like me).
02-05-2019 09:04 AM
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(02-05-2019 09:04 AM)Argot Wrote:  
(02-05-2019 08:37 AM)Rocha Wrote:  Been playing a bit with this shitty app lately.

I am not photogenic at all, but still managed to upload 3 decent pics, 2 face and 1 full body. Appart from super like (one each 24 hours), I very rarely get a match, and when I do is always from a sub-par chick. I have tried all age ranges, including 40-50 to see if my elo score would raise. But the results are the same, even in the older range I barelt get a match, even if I swipe all right. Since I get super match likes (in which girls see my profile), I suspect my elo score is so low that I don't even show up when girls are swipping.

What you guys think if I put the pics of some random male model for a couple of weeks? Would that boost my elo score?

Are you using boosts? Without boosts I can swipe all day and get nothing. With boosts I can easily match with 6s and 7s. Tinder is no longer free (at least in my country to a guy who looks like me).

No. Just the free version...

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02-05-2019 09:54 AM
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started using tind3r and it's a big help for the ease of changing location (even helpful with tinder plus, shows the girl as if you're there instead of many km away) AND the ability to swipe faster (you can see more than one of the girls photos at once, bigger photos easier to see details you would miss on a phone screen).

I noticed that on the main home "swiping screen" you can click to load more profiles below and like or dislike them , ignoring the main profile you're being show up top.

I have yet to confirm for 100% certain that using the app/site in this way is working regularly, but this layout allows for very fast selective swiping or using super-like(s) effectively.

In general I always make sure to throw in a good number of "dislike"/left swipe and so far there haven't been any issues with using the site in the way described above. Good for free tinder version if you're concerned with picking quality for your 100 or so free swipes a day..

Anyone else using tind3r care to share their thoughts on this/etc ?


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What you guys think if I put the pics of some random male model for a couple of weeks? Would that boost my elo score?

Rocha, I wouldn't do the male model thing. Tinder will show any matches you got the old model photos (often cached/saved on their cell phone), it will switch to your new photos at some point, and your account may get reported/banned. A few report/unmatches/etc and your score is probably down to where it was before, or below. Changing your location to the Philippines etc to get a bunch of matches & favorable score might be a slightly more productive approach (ideally you would actually be traveling there and not just wasting time), will possibly give your "elo score" a boost but in my experience it doesn't seem to really linger long enough to be worth the effort.

Try to figure out a specific niche... apps/online dating in general is really hit or miss for the 26+ year old girls in a lot of areas (extra bs, often they are not using it seriously or huge expectations, disconnect, red flags, etc), most effectively used if you put your age as low as you can get away with and/OR try to focus in on a niche/style/target/etc that seems to be working for you somewhat..
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^^ Guess I will just keep going to the street intersection I usually stand having a glass of wine and doing real life swipping and swooping LaughLaughLaugh

But thanks for the tips @dirty_old, they where appreciated.

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(02-05-2019 07:18 PM)dirty_old Wrote:  Anyone else using tind3r care to share their thoughts on this/etc ?

Another advantage is that Tind3r allows you to know the girl's Instagram account and access it directly. The latest Tinder update does not allow it.
02-06-2019 10:44 AM
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Question for you guys doing well and pulling from tinder already.

For the first meetup, have you been getting girls to come straight to your place for the most part?

Last 3 girls I’ve hooked up with on tinder agreed to come to my place and got banged out within an hour or so of coming over. One of them I had to take to a sushi place across the street from my house to see if we “vibe right” (I framed it that way) then took her back home to “play with my puppy” (best little wingman ever).

I’m starting to think that I need to just go for this from now on, since the girls on here seem to be dtf pretty much every time they keep up a conversation for more than like 10 replies.

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02-07-2019 06:46 PM
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(02-05-2019 07:26 PM)Rocha Wrote:  ^^ Guess I will just keep going to the street intersection I usually stand having a glass of wine and doing real life swipping and swooping LaughLaughLaugh

But thanks for the tips @dirty_old, they where appreciated.


Without being a photogenic guy with way above average looks, tinder sucks. Also being an older guy you probably won’t even be shown to the girls that you would actually want to hook up with, they would have to change their settings to older ages.

I have a love/hate relationship with this app, I do well because I’m a good looking guy with a fitness model physique, but I can’t stand how shitty it is for meeting girls.

A lot of them just swipe for validation and aren’t motivated to actually have a conversation. You really have to strike while the iron is hot with a girl who’s replying or she’ll get 20 new messages and forget about it.

Face to face game will NEVER be comparable in effectiveness to online dating apps.

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Can anyone explain why attractive women are on tinder in the first place? When I look at these girls pics its obvious that they're social people, so between classes, parties, and friends why do they need to be on the app? Obviously some are on it purely for validation, but I can't imagine all them are.

One girl I had a class with last year had over 500 matches, but had zero intentions of going out with any of them haha.
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(02-07-2019 06:46 PM)The Golden God Wrote:  Question for you guys doing well and pulling from tinder already.

For the first meetup, have you been getting girls to come straight to your place for the most part?

Only if they seem really DTF right away. I usually go for a drink with them first (nothing fancy and they pay for themselves) just so we can screen each other, and if things go well we go back to my place. It depends on the country too. I feel in the US, for example, more girls are okay coming over straight away, whereas in some other countries that isn't as kosher even if they are just looking for an ONS.

In short, I think pushing them to come over right away can make you lose out on some girls, especially those who aren't as desperate and would need to screen you by meeting first. Besides, if you are like me, you would value the ability to screen them too--some of the girls most willing to come over straight away might prove a negative surprise, despite promising photos.
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(02-07-2019 09:47 PM)pravda Wrote:  Can anyone explain why attractive women are on tinder in the first place? When I look at these girls pics its obvious that they're social people, so between classes, parties, and friends why do they need to be on the app? Obviously some are on it purely for validation, but I can't imagine all them are.

One girl I had a class with last year had over 500 matches, but had zero intentions of going out with any of them haha.


Social Media is supposed to be (should be) also about meeting people you ordinarily wouldn't meet in your everyday life or your immediate social circle

My guess is that its a way to see/taste something different for those who dare
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(02-07-2019 06:59 PM)The Golden God Wrote:  
(02-05-2019 07:26 PM)Rocha Wrote:  ^^ Guess I will just keep going to the street intersection I usually stand having a glass of wine and doing real life swipping and swooping LaughLaughLaugh

But thanks for the tips @dirty_old, they where appreciated.


Without being a photogenic guy with way above average looks, tinder sucks. Also being an older guy you probably won’t even be shown to the girls that you would actually want to hook up with, they would have to change their settings to older ages.

I have a love/hate relationship with this app, I do well because I’m a good looking guy with a fitness model physique, but I can’t stand how shitty it is for meeting girls.

A lot of them just swipe for validation and aren’t motivated to actually have a conversation. You really have to strike while the iron is hot with a girl who’s replying or she’ll get 20 new messages and forget about it.

Face to face game will NEVER be comparable in effectiveness to online dating apps.

They are swiping for validation and we are swiping for quick lays, fair is fair lol.
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(02-08-2019 10:39 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  They are swiping for validation and we are swiping for quick lays, fair is fair lol.

Very true haha. I do believe however that even the girls who are swiping for validation will end up fucking a guy on there every once and a while when the stars align.

Example, when they need a quick lay after a breakup, when they aren’t feeling enough attention or when they’re mad at their boyfriend.

Also, I saw earlier a mention that a girl had 500 matches and didn’t have any intention of fucking them. I feel 500 is a low number for girls on tinder. I reset my tinder roughly every month and usually have around 300 matches and I only selectively swipe on girls I want to fuck... I imagine hot girls on there are easily in the thousands.

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I noticed that you can no longer go to a girls IG from in tinder

100% it's another move to optimize for women.

Now, guys can't DM them on IG. Not that I think that works anyway
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