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(12-11-2018 11:39 AM)corsega Wrote:  You don't have to have "professional" photos per sé. I took most of my better photos myself with a DSLR that I bought 10 years ago and a $20 tripod from Amazon.

I'm curious what sorts of photos you took with your DSLR and tripod setup?

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Corsega, my first camera arrived today and over the time I will probably know enough to make good photos of myself so any advice regarding that area (i.e. DIY cool photos) is welcome.
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1. wearing a blue oxford collar button down and chinos, standing in an industrial area with graffiti in the background, looking away from the camera, kind of scowling
2. suited up, looking away from the camera with a cheeky smile, this was taken under a highway overpass but it's zoomed in enough where you can't tell, looks like it could be a candid from a wedding
3. Inside, shirtless, one overhead light, two rim lights (desk lamps from ikea) coming at me from behind to accentuate my physique. Wearing a baseball cap, one hand on the cap, looking directly at the camera with a dominant expression and hunter eyes (squinch). I cut down to ~10% bodyfat for this photo. I look HUGE even though I was like 168 pounds at 5'8".

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Do you guys have any rules on how long you're willing to wait to meet someone?

Usually if they're not available for a date within 5 days to a week. I just next them
12-11-2018 06:28 PM
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(12-11-2018 06:28 PM)godzilla Wrote:  Do you guys have any rules on how long you're willing to wait to meet someone?

Usually if they're not available for a date within 5 days to a week. I just next them

Generally I agree- but I've pinged seemingly dead app chick leads multiple weeks or a few months in, only to have them come over and fuck (timing wasn't right initially, she wasn't horny enough, etc.). Occasional, non-needy pings can work wonders. The key is to get the digits and take the convo off the app asap.

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Been trying tinder and getting nowhere. Got like 2 matches out of maybe 700+ swipes (Bear in mind I have always been told I am good looking and I used to 'ok' pulling same night lays before the 'dark ages' of game set in these pasts several years with the stranglehold social media has on society). One was nice personality but tomboy/dyke looking so wasn't attracted. The other was attractive but I got rejected after we moved to text after a couple of texts cos I must not have done 100% perfect game.

Seems tinder is another 'urban legend' as to being the goto for easy pussy. I read a few places that all the easy girls have left the clubs in favor of tinder but that theory seems to be complete bullshit. I cannot seem to find that demographic of girls anywhere now. They seem to have gone extinct in the past 5 years.
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12-12-2018 01:46 AM
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(12-12-2018 01:46 AM)user5e8s Wrote:  Been trying tinder and getting nowhere. Got like 2 matches out of maybe 700+ swipes (Bear in mind I have always been told I am good looking and I used to 'ok' pulling same night lays before the 'dark ages' of game set in these pasts several years with the stranglehold social media has on society). One was nice personality but tomboy/dyke looking so wasn't attracted. The other was attractive but I got rejected after we moved to text after a couple of texts cos I must not have done 100% perfect game.

Seems tinder is another 'urban legend' as to being the goto for easy pussy. I read a few places that all the easy girls have left the clubs in favor of tinder but that theory seems to be complete bullshit. I cannot seem to find that demographic of girls anywhere now. They seem to have gone extinct in the past 5 years.

If you are good looking and only getting 2 matches out of 700 swipes, something is likely wrong with your profile. Read my guide: https://pancakemouse.wordpress.com/2017/...nvestment/

If that doesn't help, PM your profile to someone here to get advice.

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12-12-2018 01:59 AM
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To say that men who aren’t scoring on tinder have junk genes is ludicrous. It’s like saying that men who have multiple women from nursing homes are prime specimens.

The tinder environment is that of hyperinflation. This is why tinder is printing paper money (boosts, superlikes, top picks), which allow middle class beta men (6s to 8s) buy just enough bread with their Weimar wheelbarrows one day to keep them interested the next day.

Meanwhile Bumble might be liquidising as it’s now selling lifetime Boost accounts. Here the probability of matching and a conversation forming is lower than tinder.
12-12-2018 02:09 AM
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(12-12-2018 02:09 AM)N°6 Wrote:  To say that men who aren’t scoring on tinder have junk genes is ludicrous. It’s like saying that men who have multiple women from nursing homes are prime specimens.

No. If anything, that comparison is ludicrous.

You guys are blowing this out of proportion. My original comment was in reply to a guy who had gotten zero legit matches after five Boosts.

If you have your shit together in any conceivable way, and follow the advice in this thread about creating a good profile, it is impossible to NOT get laid on Tinder.

And I'm so convinced on that, that I've literally helped a dozen guys from this forum improve their profiles over PM. Always happy to help more.

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I am a bit intrigued by the developments here so I decided to give tinder another shot.

I created a profile 20h ago, just got the free version and bought 1 boost yesterday night. I swiped extremely selectively, around 20% right swipe, that wasn’t even a strategy but because I didn’t like most of the girls. I am currently in Paris and I swipe right mainly on mixed, latina and asians who are above 7 and don’t have slutty poses so that reduces drastically the prospects.

Result after 20h and 1 boost: 2 matches ( 1 superliked me, she’s a 7 on her pics so the superlike was a surprise, the other is a 7, I can see this match was with the boost as there is the purple color).

I initiated the convo with both a few hours ago, the first one sent one message and the second didn’t reply.

I consider this as an extremely weak result and if I take into account the supposedly boost effect from a new profile that means my « real » result is even weaker, I will continue the experiment for 1 or 2 weeks but I don’t expect miracles.

I have 4 pics and my bio is 2 lines long.
Will give an update here.
12-12-2018 11:35 AM
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(12-12-2018 11:35 AM)Lino Wrote:  I am a bit intrigued by the developments here so I decided to give tinder another shot.

I created a profile 20h ago, just got the free version and bought 1 boost yesterday night. I swiped extremely selectively, around 20% right swipe, that wasn’t even a strategy but because I didn’t like most of the girls. I am currently in Paris and I swipe right mainly on mixed, latina and asians who are above 7 and don’t have slutty poses so that reduces drastically the prospects.

Result after 20h and 1 boost: 2 matches ( 1 superliked me, she’s a 7 on her pics so the superlike was a surprise, the other is a 7, I can see this match was with the boost as there is the purple color).

I initiated the convo with both a few hours ago, the first one sent one message and the second didn’t reply.

I consider this as an extremely weak result and if I take into account the supposedly boost effect from a new profile that means my « real » result is even weaker, I will continue the experiment for 1 or 2 weeks but I don’t expect miracles.

I have 4 pics and my bio is 2 lines long.
Will give an update here.

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12-12-2018 11:51 AM
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(12-12-2018 11:35 AM)Lino Wrote:  I initiated the convo with both a few hours ago, the first one sent one message and the second didn’t reply.
As you matched, you'd done 90% of the work, what was the opening lines?
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(12-12-2018 11:51 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  
(12-12-2018 11:35 AM)Lino Wrote:  I am a bit intrigued by the developments here so I decided to give tinder another shot.

I created a profile 20h ago, just got the free version and bought 1 boost yesterday night. I swiped extremely selectively, around 20% right swipe, that wasn’t even a strategy but because I didn’t like most of the girls. I am currently in Paris and I swipe right mainly on mixed, latina and asians who are above 7 and don’t have slutty poses so that reduces drastically the prospects.

Result after 20h and 1 boost: 2 matches ( 1 superliked me, she’s a 7 on her pics so the superlike was a surprise, the other is a 7, I can see this match was with the boost as there is the purple color).

I initiated the convo with both a few hours ago, the first one sent one message and the second didn’t reply.

I consider this as an extremely weak result and if I take into account the supposedly boost effect from a new profile that means my « real » result is even weaker, I will continue the experiment for 1 or 2 weeks but I don’t expect miracles.

I have 4 pics and my bio is 2 lines long.
Will give an update here.

Describe yourself

Late 30s but I’ve put 30 on my profile as I’ve been told I look younger, 5ft7 (yeah I’m a dwarf but with chicks I’m confident/borderline cocky), until 2 years ago I had a good physique, not huge but defined with abs, now I am a potato couch but I’ve put a shirtless pic from a year ago, at that time my body declined already but was still decent I think.

Dark hair, I’de say I have average facial features, far from a model and my face is quite asymmetrical but many girls said they liked my face so I guess I am somehow charming.

I am university educated, speak a few languages and lived in several countries but I don’t mention that as I don’t think it matters for hookups, I am often suited up at work but I don’t show it on my profile, I don’t have any pic suited up, maybe I should.

I switched from daygame to online around 5 years ago and at first it was a game changer with many easy lays but since a year or 2 it’s getting difficult, super entitled bitches and IG followers chasers, that’s why I stopped tinder around 6 months ago.

Edit: just for reference, I don’t claim to be a PUA and I find many of these « experts » ridiculous but I have a decent experience with women, I love them and chased them for many years so as a result I reached the triple digits a while ago and often had very cute girls (yeah I also fucked ugly pigs Smile )
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(12-12-2018 12:56 PM)Lino Wrote:  
(12-12-2018 11:51 AM)quaker13 Wrote:  
(12-12-2018 11:35 AM)Lino Wrote:  I am a bit intrigued by the developments here so I decided to give tinder another shot.

I created a profile 20h ago, just got the free version and bought 1 boost yesterday night. I swiped extremely selectively, around 20% right swipe, that wasn’t even a strategy but because I didn’t like most of the girls. I am currently in Paris and I swipe right mainly on mixed, latina and asians who are above 7 and don’t have slutty poses so that reduces drastically the prospects.

Result after 20h and 1 boost: 2 matches ( 1 superliked me, she’s a 7 on her pics so the superlike was a surprise, the other is a 7, I can see this match was with the boost as there is the purple color).

I initiated the convo with both a few hours ago, the first one sent one message and the second didn’t reply.

I consider this as an extremely weak result and if I take into account the supposedly boost effect from a new profile that means my « real » result is even weaker, I will continue the experiment for 1 or 2 weeks but I don’t expect miracles.

I have 4 pics and my bio is 2 lines long.
Will give an update here.

Describe yourself

Late 30s but I’ve put 30 on my profile as I’ve been told I look younger, 5ft7 (yeah I’m a dwarf but with chicks I’m confident/borderline cocky), until 2 years ago I had a good physique, not huge but defined with abs, now I am a potato couch but I’ve put a shirtless pic from a year ago, at that time my body declined already but was still decent I think.

Dark hair, I’de say I have average facial features, far from a model and my face is quite asymmetrical but many girls said they liked my face so I guess I am somehow charming.

I am university educated, speak a few languages and lived in several countries but I don’t mention that as I don’t think it matters for hookups, I am often suited up at work but I don’t show it on my profile, I don’t have any pic suited up, maybe I should.

I switched from daygame to online around 5 years ago and at first it was a game changer with many easy lays but since a year or 2 it’s getting difficult, super entitled bitches and IG followers chasers, that’s why I stopped tinder around 6 months ago.

Edit: just for reference, I don’t claim to be a PUA and I find many of these « experts » ridiculous but I have a decent experience with women, I love them and chased them for many years so as a result I reached the triple digits a while ago and often had very cute girls (yeah I also fucked ugly pigs Smile )

You got the tools and the intellect brother, just need to get back in shape. As I've said I'm in great shape now, but I'd be "struggle swiping" without the proper pics to show off my face and physique. You are using an old pic of you in great shape, but doubtful it's a professional pic or else you'd probably have more matches. I'm telling you me with the exact same pics and the exact same styling but with an iphone camera would likely put me in the dregs of tinder. Lose some weight. You probably don't even have that much to lose. Be your best self physically, get the pics and rest on the laurels of your hard work after
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(12-12-2018 12:14 PM)Bikal Wrote:  
(12-12-2018 11:35 AM)Lino Wrote:  I initiated the convo with both a few hours ago, the first one sent one message and the second didn’t reply.
As you matched, you'd done 90% of the work, what was the opening lines?

just a simple « Hello » to start. I m not sure there is a perfect script to follow, usually I exchange a few sentences then ask the number.
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(12-12-2018 01:14 PM)Lino Wrote:  Just a simple « Hello » to start. I m not sure there is a perfect script to follow, usually I exchange a few sentences then ask the number.
Does that usually work?

I noticed that whenever my girl friend's get Hello/Hi/Hey/How are you, they blank and sometimes unmatch, you need to stand out from the sea of guys doing this although it's London this happens, maybe a British thing?

Personally I open direct and adjust in relation to bio/photos, I'm also quick after matching as hanging around can lose out on the instant appeal she already has, I get a lot of good results, at least better than "Hello".
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My openers:

"Are you as delightful as you look?" or "You look like trouble."

Both work for me.

"Hello" might work if you're Chris Hemsworth.
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(12-12-2018 01:53 PM)Bikal Wrote:  
(12-12-2018 01:14 PM)Lino Wrote:  Just a simple « Hello » to start. I m not sure there is a perfect script to follow, usually I exchange a few sentences then ask the number.
Does that usually work?

I noticed that whenever my girl friend's get Hello/Hi/Hey/How are you, they blank and sometimes unmatch, you need to stand out from the sea of guys doing this although it's London this happens, maybe a British thing?

Personally I open direct and adjust in relation to bio/photos, I'm also quick after matching as hanging around can lose out on the instant appeal she already has, I get a lot of good results, at least better than "Hello".

Lol, it used to work. Sometimes I say something cheeky based on her bio, it depends on my mood.

I say hello because I consider that if she matched there should be a mutual interest and I don’t have to say something amazing, the second sentence can always be more original.

But it seems nowadays you need to display value/personnality from the first sentence.

Regarding the London thing, I don’t know... I admit that I was very prompt to complain and bitch on London whle I was living there but now I realize it wasn’t that bad and I’ll tell you what, I actually think it is a better city than Paris, not that London is great but Paris is even worse, great for a few days but no more.

London is a city that you hate at first but that slowly grows in you, I remember an east european guy I was chatting with when I was fresh in London, he said « you gonna hate it the first 2 years then you’ll love it », I guess he was right.
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(12-12-2018 11:35 AM)Lino Wrote:  I am a bit intrigued by the developments here so I decided to give tinder another shot.

I created a profile 20h ago, just got the free version and bought 1 boost yesterday night. I swiped extremely selectively, around 20% right swipe, that wasn’t even a strategy but because I didn’t like most of the girls. I am currently in Paris and I swipe right mainly on mixed, latina and asians who are above 7 and don’t have slutty poses so that reduces drastically the prospects.

Result after 20h and 1 boost: 2 matches ( 1 superliked me, she’s a 7 on her pics so the superlike was a surprise, the other is a 7, I can see this match was with the boost as there is the purple color).

I initiated the convo with both a few hours ago, the first one sent one message and the second didn’t reply.

I consider this as an extremely weak result and if I take into account the supposedly boost effect from a new profile that means my « real » result is even weaker, I will continue the experiment for 1 or 2 weeks but I don’t expect miracles.

I have 4 pics and my bio is 2 lines long.
Will give an update here.

Those results seem fairly typical for a 5'7" decently attractive guy, if you are only swiping on a limited palate of 7s or better with a 20% swipe right ratio.

I swipe right on about 55% of girls, even in San Francisco which is known to have some of the ugliest women out of any major Western city. In Paris it would probably be around 60-70%.

If you don't like "slutty poses" you might try Happn (still popular in France last I checked) or Bumble.

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So I have a tinder date lined up tomorrow night with a thin asian 7 with Japanese looking arm tattoos (maybe had lol). We have not chatted in a few days after initially agreeing to the date. She stalled when responding to a stupid question about alcohol preference for 2 days and she re-initiated imessage conversation with "shots!" So then we chat about shot preference types and this conversation occurs:

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HER: Where shall we go tomorrow?

ME: Your bedroom ;P I had not gave it any thought yet as I am still working and I was waiting on your response. Does 8pm work for you?
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I figure this was a good way to determine if she is a time waster looking for free drinks.

No response yet after 25 min. Any bets as to whether she flakes or this happens? Do you think being this direct helps eliminate time wasters, or is it too strong?

In my experience, you have to be strong and direct with asian women on dating apps (more so than other cultures). Thoughts?
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(12-12-2018 05:30 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  So I have a tinder date lined up tomorrow night with a thin asian 7 with Japanese looking arm tattoos (maybe had lol). We have not chatted in a few days after initially agreeing to the date. She stalled when responding to a stupid question about alcohol preference for 2 days and she re-initiated imessage conversation with "shots!" So then we chat about shot preference types and this conversation occurs:

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HER: Where shall we go tomorrow?

ME: Your bedroom ;P I had not gave it any thought yet as I am still working and I was waiting on your response. Does 8pm work for you?
------

I figure this was a good way to determine if she is a time waster looking for free drinks.

No response yet after 25 min. Any bets as to whether she flakes or this happens? Do you think being this direct helps eliminate time wasters, or is it too strong?

In my experience, you have to be strong and direct with asian women on dating apps (more so than other cultures). Thoughts?

Way too strong.

First of all, don't admit you haven't given a date location any thought yet. You are the man. It is your job to be in control and think these things through (even if you haven't), don't give her the impression that you haven't.

Second of all, don't try to pull to a woman's bedroom directly, especially if you're going to joke about it and then back off.

Best way to set up a date is to call her on the phone. That way you can handle any objections right away instead of waiting for texts back, as well as build more comfort. With enough comfort and sexualization you can sometimes even pull to a girl's place for a zero date bang, however in my experience this has only worked on girls over 35 or girls with lower SMV than me.

If you can't call her on the phone, then lock down time first, THEN set date location.

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(12-10-2018 04:12 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-08-2018 12:23 PM)Delta Wrote:  Given that belief, help me explain this:

I'm tall, a lifelong weightlifter, and lean enough to have visible abs. The photos I put up aren't shitty selfies, they show me out in cool places. Every pic I use on dating apps scores at least top 20% attractiveness on photofeeler. Some are top 10%. I'm very professionally successful. I'm game-aware enough to keep my bios and conversations light and positive.

I quit using Tinder because it felt like a massive waste of time, but I'm on every other popular dating platform. I rarely get a match on Bumble. In general, 99% of the matches I get on dating apps either turn out to be SIFs when I look more closely, or if they're actually cute, put zero effort into the conversation (if they respond at all). Across all dating platforms, I meet a worthwhile girl about once every few months on average.

So does that constitute "success," or am I just incredibly low-value?

Hopefully Delta will be OK with me revealing this, but we've been PMing. I took a look at his profile, he is a high value guy who has high standards. I gave him a couple profile and "brand" tips that I think will improve his success even more.

There are no anomalies. Tinder is a magnifying glass for your real-life value. You just have to focus the lens.

No issue with you revealing that, but I'm not quite on board with your conclusion. My standards are nothing crazy. For the most part, I reject girls who are at all fat, and girls who look trashy or seem like sour/high-maintenance bitches. I very seldom next a girl for being too genetically unattractive. If she looks like a pleasant individual who takes good care of her body, the vast majority of the time she'll get a right swipe from me.

With that swiping pattern, matches on most apps are very few and far between, the notable exception being Hinge, where I match with a shit ton of cute girls who invariably proceed to write back the laziest responses imaginable before ghosting within a few messages.

I don't think they're any denying that the online dating market is exceedingly fucked up, and plenty of objectively high value guys are going to feel like they're failing hard.
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(12-12-2018 07:26 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-12-2018 05:30 PM)spydersuit Wrote:  So I have a tinder date lined up tomorrow night with a thin asian 7 with Japanese looking arm tattoos (maybe had lol). We have not chatted in a few days after initially agreeing to the date. She stalled when responding to a stupid question about alcohol preference for 2 days and she re-initiated imessage conversation with "shots!" So then we chat about shot preference types and this conversation occurs:

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HER: Where shall we go tomorrow?

ME: Your bedroom ;P I had not gave it any thought yet as I am still working and I was waiting on your response. Does 8pm work for you?
------

I figure this was a good way to determine if she is a time waster looking for free drinks.

No response yet after 25 min. Any bets as to whether she flakes or this happens? Do you think being this direct helps eliminate time wasters, or is it too strong?

In my experience, you have to be strong and direct with asian women on dating apps (more so than other cultures). Thoughts?

Way too strong.

First of all, don't admit you haven't given a date location any thought yet. You are the man. It is your job to be in control and think these things through (even if you haven't), don't give her the impression that you haven't.

Second of all, don't try to pull to a woman's bedroom directly, especially if you're going to joke about it and then back off.

Best way to set up a date is to call her on the phone. That way you can handle any objections right away instead of waiting for texts back, as well as build more comfort. With enough comfort and sexualization you can sometimes even pull to a girl's place for a zero date bang, however in my experience this has only worked on girls over 35 or girls with lower SMV than me.

If you can't call her on the phone, then lock down time first, THEN set date location.

Thank you! To put this in context I have higher value than her, my pussy pipeline is full, and this girl is a 50 minute drive away. I am mostly interested in her because I love asian vaginas (none in my pipeline currently) and the novelty of something new (my pipeline is getting stale).

She asked for the location, and I steered the conversation to time (see above). I get the sense that she is a party girl and all I have to do is let the clock tick down. If she does not initiate conversation by late tomorrow afternoon. I will re-engage her. I have been running asshole and clown game per the usual. I will report back tomorrow.
12-12-2018 07:56 PM
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RE: Tinder App
(12-12-2018 01:59 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-12-2018 01:46 AM)user5e8s Wrote:  Been trying tinder and getting nowhere. Got like 2 matches out of maybe 700+ swipes (Bear in mind I have always been told I am good looking and I used to 'ok' pulling same night lays before the 'dark ages' of game set in these pasts several years with the stranglehold social media has on society). One was nice personality but tomboy/dyke looking so wasn't attracted. The other was attractive but I got rejected after we moved to text after a couple of texts cos I must not have done 100% perfect game.

Seems tinder is another 'urban legend' as to being the goto for easy pussy. I read a few places that all the easy girls have left the clubs in favor of tinder but that theory seems to be complete bullshit. I cannot seem to find that demographic of girls anywhere now. They seem to have gone extinct in the past 5 years.

If you are good looking and only getting 2 matches out of 700 swipes, something is likely wrong with your profile. Read my guide: https://pancakemouse.wordpress.com/2017/...nvestment/

If that doesn't help, PM your profile to someone here to get advice.

The thing is I also tried using a supposed 'super optimized' picture from the 'cocporn' guy from nextasf who has written a whole online game treatise and claimed he got 20-40 swipe return rate and still got 0 matches.

Only thing left to try is using a picture of zyzz Confused not that that will give any practically useful data.
12-13-2018 05:35 AM
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RE: Tinder App
Would you guys say a great physique is the most important thing on Tinder?

I am not in great shape. Kind of skinny fat. Not terrible physique, but definitely not a bodybuilder. Not a whole lot of defined muscle mass. So I have one full body picture with clothes on were I look to be in OK shape (slim and not fat), the rest are face or upper body pictures. I also have two images with very attractive females in them. One with an Instagram model (1m+ followers) in lingerie, and me shirtless showing off tattoos (tattoos cover basically my whole chest and stomach). Then another one with 3 sexy chicks in lingerie on top of me basically while I am on my phone handling business.

All my photos (except the girl photos) have 8.5-9.6 on photofeeler (top 20% the worst, top 5% the best).

I am still struggling to get matches. I get a lot of likes from 5's and 6's, and every once in a while I get a 7 or above. But I will swipe 100 girls and match with no more than 3-4 of them (I don't swipe right on the 6's).

Is this good stats or am I just missing the physique? I am tall as well (6'3) but I'm not sure you could tell that from the pictures.

Oh, I am bald too. Maybe that's what's killing me? The pics are still in the 5th to 20th percentile though and I think I rock the bald look pretty well.
(This post was last modified: 12-13-2018 07:08 AM by Jozi.)
12-13-2018 07:06 AM
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