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(07-31-2014 11:24 AM)mrbiggs Wrote:  Here's a story.

A girl and I matched on Tinder. She was a hot, burning man type hippie chick with purple hair. Extremely hot body.

On her profile she wrote, "my kid is cooler than you." When we matched my first reply was "joke's on you, I'm not cool." She replied "joke's on you, I'm leaving in a week." I wrote, "well we'd better get to it then." I then said, "I would put my tongue so far inside you it would come out your mouth." She replied "my panties just dropped."

We went back and fourth sexting and her sending me dirty pics and me returning in kind.

We planned on meeting for a fuckfest the following day. The night prior I went out with a girl that I had fucked before. I really liked this other girl and she insisted we meet the following day for a hike at Griffith Observatory.

I agreed and cancelled with the other girl. However, me like a dumbass told the other girl why I cancelled? "I like this other girl and I need to hang out with her tomorrow."

I'm very self-sabatoging in this sense in that I get a sure thing and I try to double down and end up fucking everything up.

Now I feeling like I should just jump off a bridge and end it. I fucked it up with a sure thing to appease this girl that I like.


FUCK ALL!!

If anything telling the girl will do 1 of 2 things, she'll get pissed and leave or it'll make her jealous and want to have you more. Next time tell her an emergency or something important came up, instead of mentioning another girl.
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No shit test just hot 18 yr olds who have every guy on tinder on their clit. Just frustrating the way we were talking then how she ignores. I bet she just didn't want to drive even tho she said she would. At least the other girl finally responded saying she "didn't want to trek". 30 mins so I can't blame her.

Going back to setting my radious at like 12 miles. Have plans tomorrow night with a chick 3 miles away should come thru.
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(07-31-2014 11:56 AM)bullocks Wrote:  No shit test just hot 18 yr olds who have every guy on tinder on their clit. Just frustrating the way we were talking then how she ignores. I bet she just didn't want to drive even tho she said she would. At least the other girl finally responded saying she "didn't want to trek". 30 mins so I can't blame her.

Going back to setting my radious at like 12 miles. Have plans tomorrow night with a chick 3 miles away should come thru.


Yeah striking while the iron is hot, distance, and logistics are the 3 major factors for getting a bang on Tinder.

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Either girls really have it fucking made or my game is not where it should be but 30 minutes is nothing. Driving 30 minutes for a lay? I'd do that in my sleep. 45 minutes is probably my limit - although if I was really into the chick and I knew it was gonna be a wild night with her I'd probably push it to an hour drive.

I guess with the amount of options girls have online they can be rigid when it comes to distance.
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(07-31-2014 12:06 PM)kaotic Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 11:56 AM)bullocks Wrote:  No shit test just hot 18 yr olds who have every guy on tinder on their clit. Just frustrating the way we were talking then how she ignores. I bet she just didn't want to drive even tho she said she would. At least the other girl finally responded saying she "didn't want to trek". 30 mins so I can't blame her.

Going back to setting my radious at like 12 miles. Have plans tomorrow night with a chick 3 miles away should come thru.


Yeah striking while the iron is hot, distance, and logistics are the 3 major factors for getting a bang on Tinder.
I got a bang 3 months after initial contact on tinder once LOL but ur right. however we started talking tuesday night and she gave me the option to chill on wednesday or thursday and i picked thursday due to work. we literally talked for 10 hrs and she was all flirty on my dick then yesterday said like 2 things and ignored when i asked what time she was coming at LOL just unmatched her tho dumb sloot.
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(07-31-2014 12:43 PM)Mister X Wrote:  Either girls really have it fucking made or my game is not where it should be but 30 minutes is nothing. Driving 30 minutes for a lay? I'd do that in my sleep. 45 minutes is probably my limit - although if I was really into the chick and I knew it was gonna be a wild night with her I'd probably push it to an hour drive.

I guess with the amount of options girls have online they can be rigid when it comes to distance.

I mean i could drive but 30 mins is pushing it. Especially if its not a for sure lay (tho she seemed slutty and on my dick). But still, i rarely drive for girls would rather them come here cuz then u know their down. Now if i had a place to crash then maybe but 30 mins both ways meh.
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(07-31-2014 12:51 PM)bullocks Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 12:43 PM)Mister X Wrote:  Either girls really have it fucking made or my game is not where it should be but 30 minutes is nothing. Driving 30 minutes for a lay? I'd do that in my sleep. 45 minutes is probably my limit - although if I was really into the chick and I knew it was gonna be a wild night with her I'd probably push it to an hour drive.

I guess with the amount of options girls have online they can be rigid when it comes to distance.

I mean i could drive but 30 mins is pushing it. Especially if its not a for sure lay (tho she seemed slutty and on my dick). But still, i rarely drive for girls would rather them come here cuz then u know their down. Now if i had a place to crash then maybe but 30 mins both ways meh.

I think for me it's because (as I mentioned in the sex is easy thread) I'm a quality over quantity guy. So I'm not banging it out every weekend like some of the other dudes here. I could see not driving for a girl I'm only lukewarm about in terms of attractiveness, but I only shoot for girls I find to be stunners. Since I'm already behind the ball and not getting action with the level of consistency as some of the other guys, driving 30 minutes, for a stunner, to me, is a no brainer. Even if it's not a guaranteed hookup, I have to do what I can to make it happen. But I also see the other side of it too.
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(07-31-2014 12:43 PM)Mister X Wrote:  Either girls really have it fucking made or my game is not where it should be but 30 minutes is nothing. Driving 30 minutes for a lay? I'd do that in my sleep. 45 minutes is probably my limit - although if I was really into the chick and I knew it was gonna be a wild night with her I'd probably push it to an hour drive.

I guess with the amount of options girls have online they can be rigid when it comes to distance.

I only travel long distances(~1 hour drive) if I know it's going to be worth it. I've only traveled to see one girl from Tinder and she paid the cab fare.

A girl that I'm talking to right now lives about an hour drive away. I'm not going to see her because 1) she's 18 and still lives with her parents 2) the cab ride is almost $100 3) I have better options. So I told her to come see me instead.
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(07-31-2014 12:56 PM)Mister X Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 12:51 PM)bullocks Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 12:43 PM)Mister X Wrote:  Either girls really have it fucking made or my game is not where it should be but 30 minutes is nothing. Driving 30 minutes for a lay? I'd do that in my sleep. 45 minutes is probably my limit - although if I was really into the chick and I knew it was gonna be a wild night with her I'd probably push it to an hour drive.

I guess with the amount of options girls have online they can be rigid when it comes to distance.

I mean i could drive but 30 mins is pushing it. Especially if its not a for sure lay (tho she seemed slutty and on my dick). But still, i rarely drive for girls would rather them come here cuz then u know their down. Now if i had a place to crash then maybe but 30 mins both ways meh.

I think for me it's because (as I mentioned in the sex is easy thread) I'm a quality over quantity guy. So I'm not banging it out every weekend like some of the other dudes here. I could see not driving for a girl I'm only lukewarm about in terms of attractiveness, but I only shoot for girls I find to be stunners. Since I'm already behind the ball and not getting action with the level of consistency as some of the other guys, driving 30 minutes, for a stunner, to me, is a no brainer. Even if it's not a guaranteed hookup, I have to do what I can to make it happen. But I also see the other side of it too.

Yeah 30 minutes is chump change, i live right off a major connector for 2 major freeways. Typically I get the girls to drive to me since they can't have me over.

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I'm wondering what percentage of chicks (18-25) are on Tinder. It seems like a very high percentage of chicks use the app. That saddens me because each day there are fewer and fewer quality chicks. I talked to my friend about why I most likely wouldn't use Tinder to find a main girl. There's this one girl I've seen a couple times who's cool as hell, but that's not the point. The point is, these girls are on Tinder for one reason: To meet guys they consider attractive in the hopes of having great sex.

Chicks have an absurd number of matches. Dudes are like, "Hell yeah! I got ten sexy matches today!" Chicks are, "Let's see if I can get 100 matches with 100 swipes." They can chose whomever they want. I'm sure there are girls who are sweet chicks go on Tinder and realize that they can have the world. They can find a dude within a mile who they think is attractive.

A quality girl is one who would devote anything to you, has the desire to please you and only you and has an enrapturing and interesting, well-behaved personality. I feel like, especially in the United States, the number of quality girls is dwindling due to Tinder. I'm not complaining (I love sex) -- it's just a thought I've been thinking through. I'm wondering:

There could be a superbly hot cutie who you go out with a couple times. Let's say she doesn't put out on the first day. But when you fuck, the sex is great and you enjoy her company. As soon as you convince yourself that this chick is worthy of your time, whether it be 1-2 times a week, you remember:

That's right. We met on Tinder.
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(07-31-2014 01:03 PM)Renberg Wrote:  I'm wondering what percentage of chicks (18-25) are on Tinder. It seems like a very high percentage of chicks use the app. That saddens me because each day there are fewer and fewer quality chicks. I talked to my friend about why I most likely wouldn't use Tinder to find a main girl. There's this one girl I've seen a couple times who's cool as hell, but that's not the point. The point is, these girls are on Tinder for one reason: To meet guys they consider attractive in the hopes of having great sex.

Chicks have an absurd number of matches. Dudes are like, "Hell yeah! I got ten sexy matches today!" Chicks are, "Let's see if I can get 100 matches with 100 swipes." They can chose whomever they want. I'm sure there are girls who are sweet chicks go on Tinder and realize that they can have the world. They can find a dude within a mile who they think is attractive.

A quality girl is one who would devote anything to you, has the desire to please you and only you and has an enrapturing and interesting, well-behaved personality. I feel like, especially in the United States, the number of quality girls is dwindling due to Tinder. I'm not complaining (I love sex) -- it's just a thought I've been thinking through. I'm wondering:

There could be a superbly hot cutie who you go out with a couple times. Let's say she doesn't put out on the first day. But when you fuck, the sex is great and you enjoy her company. As soon as you convince yourself that this chick is worthy of your time, whether it be 1-2 times a week, you remember:

That's right. We met on Tinder.

I didn't want to admit this but:

My main LTR i've dated since January...we met on Tinder. The sex is great, she's loyal, obeys, no drama, she COMPLIMENTS my life.

I always think about that, "we met on Tinder"....anyways I'm not holding my breath, I'm just enjoying the adventure with her. (and my other Tinder bangs of course)

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(07-31-2014 12:56 PM)Mister X Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 12:51 PM)bullocks Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 12:43 PM)Mister X Wrote:  Either girls really have it fucking made or my game is not where it should be but 30 minutes is nothing. Driving 30 minutes for a lay? I'd do that in my sleep. 45 minutes is probably my limit - although if I was really into the chick and I knew it was gonna be a wild night with her I'd probably push it to an hour drive.

I guess with the amount of options girls have online they can be rigid when it comes to distance.

I mean i could drive but 30 mins is pushing it. Especially if its not a for sure lay (tho she seemed slutty and on my dick). But still, i rarely drive for girls would rather them come here cuz then u know their down. Now if i had a place to crash then maybe but 30 mins both ways meh.

I think for me it's because (as I mentioned in the sex is easy thread) I'm a quality over quantity guy. So I'm not banging it out every weekend like some of the other dudes here. I could see not driving for a girl I'm only lukewarm about in terms of attractiveness, but I only shoot for girls I find to be stunners. Since I'm already behind the ball and not getting action with the level of consistency as some of the other guys, driving 30 minutes, for a stunner, to me, is a no brainer. Even if it's not a guaranteed hookup, I have to do what I can to make it happen. But I also see the other side of it too.

All my bangs off tinder have been 8+. Well i had one that was about 7.75 but rly nice face LOL im quite picky and even if the girl is cute i wont drive that far. Tho i do agree if shes like a 9 ill drive about 20-25 mins or so. Most of these girls are younger and dont have a place so thats why its usually not worth it.
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(07-31-2014 01:00 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 12:43 PM)Mister X Wrote:  Either girls really have it fucking made or my game is not where it should be but 30 minutes is nothing. Driving 30 minutes for a lay? I'd do that in my sleep. 45 minutes is probably my limit - although if I was really into the chick and I knew it was gonna be a wild night with her I'd probably push it to an hour drive.

I guess with the amount of options girls have online they can be rigid when it comes to distance.

I only travel long distances(~1 hour drive) if I know it's going to be worth it. I've only traveled to see one girl from Tinder and she paid the cab fare.

A girl that I'm talking to right now lives about an hour drive away. I'm not going to see her because 1) she's 18 and still lives with her parents 2) the cab ride is almost $100 3) I have better options. So I told her to come see me instead.
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i have so many convos like that where a girl will hint on coming but then flop LOL GL
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(07-31-2014 01:12 PM)kaotic Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 01:03 PM)Renberg Wrote:  I'm wondering what percentage of chicks (18-25) are on Tinder. It seems like a very high percentage of chicks use the app. That saddens me because each day there are fewer and fewer quality chicks. I talked to my friend about why I most likely wouldn't use Tinder to find a main girl. There's this one girl I've seen a couple times who's cool as hell, but that's not the point. The point is, these girls are on Tinder for one reason: To meet guys they consider attractive in the hopes of having great sex.

Chicks have an absurd number of matches. Dudes are like, "Hell yeah! I got ten sexy matches today!" Chicks are, "Let's see if I can get 100 matches with 100 swipes." They can chose whomever they want. I'm sure there are girls who are sweet chicks go on Tinder and realize that they can have the world. They can find a dude within a mile who they think is attractive.

A quality girl is one who would devote anything to you, has the desire to please you and only you and has an enrapturing and interesting, well-behaved personality. I feel like, especially in the United States, the number of quality girls is dwindling due to Tinder. I'm not complaining (I love sex) -- it's just a thought I've been thinking through. I'm wondering:

There could be a superbly hot cutie who you go out with a couple times. Let's say she doesn't put out on the first day. But when you fuck, the sex is great and you enjoy her company. As soon as you convince yourself that this chick is worthy of your time, whether it be 1-2 times a week, you remember:

That's right. We met on Tinder.

I didn't want to admit this but:

My main LTR i've dated since January...we met on Tinder. The sex is great, she's loyal, obeys, no drama, she COMPLIMENTS my life.

I always think about that, "we met on Tinder"....anyways I'm not holding my breath, I'm just enjoying the adventure with her. (and my other Tinder bangs of course)
I feel you, K. It's interesting because there are girls who I go out with who I think may be deserving of my time ("quality"). But then there's the flipside. This girl went out with me, hooked up with me, and told me to hit her up soon and then I go on Tinder the next day and she's been online 30 minutes ago Laugh

Is your girl still on Tinder?
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(07-31-2014 01:12 PM)kaotic Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 01:03 PM)Renberg Wrote:  I'm wondering what percentage of chicks (18-25) are on Tinder. It seems like a very high percentage of chicks use the app. That saddens me because each day there are fewer and fewer quality chicks. I talked to my friend about why I most likely wouldn't use Tinder to find a main girl. There's this one girl I've seen a couple times who's cool as hell, but that's not the point. The point is, these girls are on Tinder for one reason: To meet guys they consider attractive in the hopes of having great sex.

Chicks have an absurd number of matches. Dudes are like, "Hell yeah! I got ten sexy matches today!" Chicks are, "Let's see if I can get 100 matches with 100 swipes." They can chose whomever they want. I'm sure there are girls who are sweet chicks go on Tinder and realize that they can have the world. They can find a dude within a mile who they think is attractive.

A quality girl is one who would devote anything to you, has the desire to please you and only you and has an enrapturing and interesting, well-behaved personality. I feel like, especially in the United States, the number of quality girls is dwindling due to Tinder. I'm not complaining (I love sex) -- it's just a thought I've been thinking through. I'm wondering:

There could be a superbly hot cutie who you go out with a couple times. Let's say she doesn't put out on the first day. But when you fuck, the sex is great and you enjoy her company. As soon as you convince yourself that this chick is worthy of your time, whether it be 1-2 times a week, you remember:

That's right. We met on Tinder.

I didn't want to admit this but:

My main LTR i've dated since January...we met on Tinder. The sex is great, she's loyal, obeys, no drama, she COMPLIMENTS my life.

I always think about that, "we met on Tinder"....anyways I'm not holding my breath, I'm just enjoying the adventure with her. (and my other Tinder bangs of course)

I live literally 2 mins from the biggest highway probably in Canada lol but yeah if they dont have their own place theres too many things that can go wrong when just meeting up for me to even want to bother...
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(07-31-2014 01:14 PM)bullocks Wrote:  i have so many convos like that where a girl will hint on coming but then flop LOL GL

That's not a problem. It's happened to me before, which is why I usually have 3-4 dates in the pipeline just in case one backs out.

If your game is tight you can get them to come straight to your house or meet up with them somewhere that's close to your home.
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(07-31-2014 01:19 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 01:14 PM)bullocks Wrote:  i have so many convos like that where a girl will hint on coming but then flop LOL GL

That's not a problem. It's happened to me before, which is why I usually have 3-4 dates in the pipeline just in case one backs out.

If your game is tight you can get them to come straight to your house or meet up with them somewhere that's close to your home.

Yeah all 6 of my lays have come straight to my house for "netflix" lol usually im working lots of girls at once but most do flop (prolly dont wanna mish)
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One girl took a train and two buses which took 4 hours and then did it again 2 weeks later. That was good times...
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(07-31-2014 01:15 PM)Renberg Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 01:12 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I didn't want to admit this but:

My main LTR i've dated since January...we met on Tinder. The sex is great, she's loyal, obeys, no drama, she COMPLIMENTS my life.

I always think about that, "we met on Tinder"....anyways I'm not holding my breath, I'm just enjoying the adventure with her. (and my other Tinder bangs of course)
I feel you, K. It's interesting because there are girls who I go out with who I think may be deserving of my time ("quality"). But then there's the flipside. This girl went out with me, hooked up with me, and told me to hit her up soon and then I go on Tinder the next day and she's been online 30 minutes ago Laugh

Is your girl still on Tinder?

She deleted it right after she met me, she barely even uses instagram or FB, she snap chats me alot tho. (she's not big on social media thank god)

However, I matcher her friend on Tinder who sent my girl screenshots of our convo which was 2 messages (I was right swipe spamming)
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-28919-...#pid780995

But luckily I held frame, saved it, and I got a couples massage, new lingerie, and a whip to use on her Laugh

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(07-31-2014 01:26 PM)kaotic Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 01:15 PM)Renberg Wrote:  
(07-31-2014 01:12 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I didn't want to admit this but:

My main LTR i've dated since January...we met on Tinder. The sex is great, she's loyal, obeys, no drama, she COMPLIMENTS my life.

I always think about that, "we met on Tinder"....anyways I'm not holding my breath, I'm just enjoying the adventure with her. (and my other Tinder bangs of course)
I feel you, K. It's interesting because there are girls who I go out with who I think may be deserving of my time ("quality"). But then there's the flipside. This girl went out with me, hooked up with me, and told me to hit her up soon and then I go on Tinder the next day and she's been online 30 minutes ago Laugh

Is your girl still on Tinder?

She deleted it right after she met me, she barely even uses instagram or FB, she snap chats me alot tho. (she's not big on social media thank god)

However, I matcher her friend on Tinder who sent my girl screenshots of our convo which was 2 messages (I was right swipe spamming)
http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-28919-...#pid780995

But luckily I held frame, saved it, and I got a couples massage, new lingerie, and a whip to use on her Laugh
That's pretty fucking funny, man haha. Awesome how you have a chick off social media. This chick who I'm hanging with is a paranoid girl -- I was her first Tinder date. She asks me, "So, like, do you go on lots of date online? Isn't it weird to go out with people from online?" She says as she's standing next to me haha. She could be a quality girl who goes un-quality as a result of the app.
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RE: Tinder App
I go for same day or next day dates.

I only message Thursday-Sun nights for same days
Thursday and Friday for next days

Friday and Sat drinks are usually done at 5 so that I don't interfere with their girls night out.

Last 4 dates have been by a bar right my crib. Banged out 3, two at my place and one at hers(had to go home and feed her dogs before continuing the night...yeh right)

I use to be okay with setting dates days out but it never worked. Fuck weekdays too. Girls that respond Saturday during the day are def up to meeting hours later.

If she can't hang out within 2 days then DO NOT set up a date as you will only be setting yourself up for a flake. Just ask again the next week when it's convenient for you

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07-31-2014 01:44 PM
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Menta nailed it, I only open girls I match with when I want to fuck and have free time within 2 days. I'll swipe weekends as well.

Honestly 80% of the girls I banged off Tinder I met up with on weekdays. Weekends are for me to hangout with my boys and have fun.

But I think your post should be a sticky dude, we need to make a commandment or rules sticky thread.

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07-31-2014 01:49 PM
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(07-31-2014 01:23 PM)bullocks Wrote:  One girl took a train and two buses which took 4 hours and then did it again 2 weeks later. That was good times...

Bullocks, you're in Toronto too if I recall. Did this girl come from Windsor or something??

My Tinder successes have all been long-game, never within a couple days of the match. Striking when the iron is hot has led to nothing but flakes for me, but I'm also matching with girls of a lower calibre you are.

My pics aren't optimized for quick sex either, I'm playing a much more provider-style game right now.
07-31-2014 01:54 PM
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I also get a ton on Windsor girls who say there are no good man in Canada...

If they take the time to cross the border and drive another 20 min to see me then panties will be off at a 100% clip

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07-31-2014 02:14 PM
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(07-31-2014 01:54 PM)Chemistry Wrote:  My Tinder successes have all been long-game, never within a couple days of the match. Striking when the iron is hot has led to nothing but flakes for me, but I'm also matching with girls of a lower calibre you are.

Yeah I think long game actually works better surprisingly.

My theory is this:

Girl joins Tinder looking for either a hookup or a relationship.

Hookup:

-conversation gets sexualized fast
-she's horny for that moment in time
-you set a date
-she has a few days to let the thoughts in her logical brain sink in
-she realizes she could be meeting a total stranger for sex and either fear or anti-slut defense kicks in
-flakes

Relationship:

-starts talking to you, may be sexual, may not be sexual
-decide to meet up
-realizes that if she starts dating you, she might have to tell her friends she met you through tinder and is embarrassed
-doesn't want the stigma of meeting her bf through tinder
-flakes


With a slower burn, she gets to know to you better, and suddenly meeting up with you for drinks doesn't seem so scary because you've been flirting back and forth for weeks now. Probably less likely to flake.

The only caveat to all of this is, of course, you're not her one and only. She has hundreds (sometimes thousands!) of potential matches just a click away. Hence the urgency many men here display. And I can't blame them. Obviously you want to seal the deal before 1.) you end up friend zoned from being her text buddy 2.) some other guy enters the ring 3.) you invest a lot of time in a dead end.

So of course we all want to move fast, but I think most girls flake for that reason, despite knowing full well what tinder is used for. It's not the time you spend talking to her and running game that turns her off. It's the moments when she has time alone to think, time alone when she's not horny, and the possibility of sleeping with an internet stranger becomes very real to her and scares her away.
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