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RE: Lisbon, Portugal
Lisbon is a cool city and there are plenty of tourist chicks there.

On Friday and Saturday walked around an area where there were a lot of makeshift little bars (kinda run-down) with a lot of people drinking on the street. Not sure where it is located exactly, since just ended up there randomly. A lot of people walking around there on the streets. Close to there is also a park with a night view on Lisbon, which is pretty nice and a lot of people drink there during the night.

On Sunday, it was a bit quiet, but did stumble upon a little club, called Club Academico or something, that had a lot of people. Not sure if it was just a one time thing, as most of the girls and guys were dressed in uniforms or suits. Might have been some sort of a university graduation party or something.

Surprised that many people in Lisbon speak English.
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(05-19-2010 09:53 PM)Pepini Wrote:  Roosh mentioned something about argentineans guys pulling girls hair in

Did I mention that if you did this in Serbia you could possibly get killed?
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(04-15-2014 09:41 AM)DarkKing Wrote:  Lisbon is a cool city and there are plenty of tourist chicks there.

On Friday and Saturday walked around an area where there were a lot of makeshift little bars (kinda run-down) with a lot of people drinking on the street. Not sure where it is located exactly, since just ended up there randomly. A lot of people walking around there on the streets. Close to there is also a park with a night view on Lisbon, which is pretty nice and a lot of people drink there during the night.

On Sunday, it was a bit quiet, but did stumble upon a little club, called Club Academico or something, that had a lot of people. Not sure if it was just a one time thing, as most of the girls and guys were dressed in uniforms or suits. Might have been some sort of a university graduation party or something.

Surprised that many people in Lisbon speak English.
You probably where in Bairro Alto, in a new spot called "Espaço Académico de Lisboa". They have erasmus and other university events/dinners.
The black uniforms are the typical portuguese academical "outfit". Not for everyday use, but more for special occasions.
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(05-19-2010 09:53 PM)Pepini Wrote:  There´s no hip hop clubs, neither hip hop nights in Lisbon that I´m aware. Go figure.

Wednesdays in Lust (Terreiro do Paço). Swag On party is the "Lisbon" Hiphop night.
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I´ve been receiving some PM´s of fellow rooshers about Lisbon. I´ve been more and less retired of game but still want to share some more information in case you come here.

The place in Lisbon were you will have better prospects are:

- College parties (portuguese girls).
- Erasmus parties (foreign girls).

I usually had a mix of both.

For college parties the best ones are from a college called ISCTE.

ISCTE is a public university with great atmosphere. Either in the College campus party or in a club. Important is that it´s themed by ISCTE university. Of course your looking girls between 18-23 years old.
Had lots of fun in this parties.

Coming to Lisbon as a foreigner I would always try to hit college parties. I would just google them.

Venues like Lux are great for foreigners and portuguese girls you would already know beforehand.

I remember once a friend of mine was holding a glass of champagne (we had popped some bottles) in Lux and a foreign girl just came right at him made out and stole him the glass.
Still I remember being in Oslo with my friends and met some portuguese girls. We ditched them after walking by a norwegian night club. Portuguese girls have the lowest ROI in Europe.

Erasmus parties. The fun I had in this parties. They were like buffets. Just google erasmus Lisbon and check if there´s any party going on. I began having interest in this parties when I made Erasmus in Spain. Before went to some parties in Lisbon and it was a fucking buffet. Me and another friend were basically the only portuguese cleaning it up: French, italian, spanish, czech, etc, etc girls. One of the best times of my life.

The first czech girl I met was in Bairro Alto. Me and my brother saw 4 good looking girls and we decided to stalk them. They entered a bar in Rua da Rosa. And disappeared inside the bar. After a while one of them just stood in front of me. And asked me if I was from Portugal. And instantly I had been bitten by the foreign flair.

But even for foreign girls in general only the ugliest and more alternative come to Lisbon. And If I want foreign girls I just hop on a plane and meet them in their countries. Travelling to Lisbon to meet foreigners doesn´t make much sense besides being a backup plan.

About Estoril and Cascais. In the 30´s and 40´s Estoril and Cascais were the safehaven of a lot of monarchs escaping from wars and persecution . The king of Italy, Spain, etc, lived in Estoril during this golden era. Estoril casino is the biggest in Europe. There´s a club outside the casino called Jezebel. I´ve never went there but it´s supposed to be good.
You will get a lot of palaces and jetset vibe. It´s a great place to live above +40.

Quinta da Marinha and Quinta do Patino are considered the most exclusive and expensive places in Lisbon to live and both are located in Cascais. It´s were the old money lives. The most aristocratic families in Lisbon live there.

The place place to eat seafood in Lisbon is called "Ramiro". When Antony Bourdain visited Lisbon he went there. The king prawn (camarão tigre) is great and the prego as a dessert and the lemon sorbet.

The best meat called "bife do lombo" for me is in restaurant called "Ribadouro", ask for it with the house sauce. It´s also a seafood restaurant.

There also a pastry very famous called Pasteis de Nata in Belem.

In Cascais near Guincho you have a wide variety of Restaurants all incredibly good. Seafood go to a restaurant called "Mar do Inferno". Also undisputedly the best seafood restaurant in Cascais.

For restaurants with girls and not food. The place happening is Mercado de Campo de Ourique and I´ve heard Mercado da Ribeira.

Lastly I want to leave this video which explains portuguese female mentality. It´s a famous architect called Taveira. The girls from this videos are either students from him. The one with better sexual performance would get higher grades. And high portuguese socialite. These videos were a huge scandal in the 90´s.
So you see they are as sluttier as others. They just like to do it in closed doors.

http://fantasti.cc/search/taveira/videos/
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RE: Lisbon, Portugal
(06-29-2014 07:51 PM)Pepini Wrote:  But even for foreign girls in general only the ugliest and more alternative come to Lisbon.

http://fantasti.cc/search/taveira/videos/

Things seem to be improving every year in this respect. I've been in the main touristic places this year during the day and evening, and it's rather clear for me that Lisbon is attracting (not only, but a lot of) top level girls from all over the world. Great weather, beaches nearby, a certain coolness and good reputation (though not much deserved) in terms of nightlife are making it work. I really don't think it's a city that only attracts alternative or ugly girls, quite the contrary. Anyone who'd like to check this, go for example to Lux (club) on middle July and August.

In terms of prefering to meet girls abroad rather than in Lisbon... That's just a personal taste of course, on my standpoint I really don't care, I basically want to meet girls, regardless of the nationality. And in Portugal, the rate of success with tourists is rather higher, so I tend to invest more in that.

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hey,

I'm posting cause i want to give you one more native perspective of this nightmare. Yeah, this is nothing short of hell.

Before i've started to travel and got to see how things really work, i was another helpless portuguese man who used to think, damn this is it, dating is hard, women are suposed to be hard, maybe by the end of 50 times going out and 10000 approaches maybe i will get lucky. Well, to say the truth, i had gotten involved in some LTR thinking that was the safest way to get regular pussy.

Then i get to live in Poland for 6 months, and everything changes. It suffices to say that my notch count increased dramatically. Then everything is coming a lot clear for me since then. Everything flows nicely in portuguese girls favour. I had a chubby Portuguese girl as house mate when i lived for 6 months in Oporto. She had lost about 20 kg by that time and she used to brag that with 90 kg and 1.65 cm she was able to pick up gym personal trainers and get a decent notch count... One can draw a lot of conclusions from this.

- The girls are simply cold and unapprochable making cold approaches almost useless here, because portuguese men are constantly validating them, mainly through facebook and sms.

- The parties here are generally sausage parties where almost every kind of girl know she can get dick easily. Abundance mentality for them.

- This is a small country where only Lisbon could considered as a true cosmopolitan city. Thereby, everything revolves around social circles. The best strategy to get pussy here is to know a lot of people and get introduced to pussy through a friend in common. Then you can really game them, but it wont get any easier though. In their hamstering is far more acceptable than give in to cold approaches. Because people wont talk about it in the same. We're in the same social circle, it's only natural for things to happen. The portuguese men with far more sucess are football players and night club associates (security, djs, barmen, etc).

Well, summing it up, if you want a nice country with good food, nice weather and historical prowess, come to portugal. If you want pussy, well, be ready to play the champions league. Even the different look foreing status wont give much of a status.

Regarding myself, as an average or a bit above average portuguese man (physically speaking), i'm just happy that i've got the academic formation which allow me to get a job anywhere in world. Bye Bye Portugal, i wont miss you for a while.

Edit: Addicional info, i was only able to get a one night stand in Portual with a 40 years old milf. The foreign girls i've picked up here had arrived shortly in the country, and therefore, still not infected. After 2 or 3 months they start to behave as portuguese bitches.
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^ As a fellow Portuguese man who is now living abroad I have to agree... The only women worth gaming in Lisbon are the posh / upper class girls attending Católica or Nova SBE, you could also get lucky with a second generation Ukrainian or Romanian immigrant though
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(10-12-2014 06:15 PM)LouEvilSlugger Wrote:  ^ As a fellow Portuguese man who is now living abroad I have to agree... The only women worth gaming in Lisbon are the posh / upper class girls attending Católica or Nova SBE, you could also get lucky with a second generation Ukrainian or Romanian immigrant though

Even with those upper class bitches you must somehow get in their social circle. I recall that Seinfeld episode where George enters the secret society of hot girls with a fake picture of his beautiful dead wife. My pop cuture analogy with getting Católica upper class girls x)
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(10-12-2014 06:15 PM)LouEvilSlugger Wrote:  ^ As a fellow Portuguese man who is now living abroad I have to agree... The only women worth gaming in Lisbon are the posh / upper class girls attending Católica or Nova SBE, you could also get lucky with a second generation Ukrainian or Romanian immigrant though

As a fellow Portuguese also, I have to disagree with regarding these second generation Ukrainian or Romanian immigrant, this girls can be even more cold, and ad to that, they can play better, and are more materialistic, the quality is so bad in Portugal, that most of these girls that would be 6s and 6,5s in their countries, here are models...so this means something. You have to catch them fresh, just straight out of the Lisbon Airport ))) I think Air Moldova flyes twice a week to here ))
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I agree with all you guys, things are tough here
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^^ What a shame. Lisbon is such a gorgeous city.

So I don't get it, do local girls just hook up less than in most other European countries (because of religion or culture or something)? Or is it just that a smaller percentage of guys get most of the girls?
It seems rather unique for Europe...in countries like Spain and Italy say, it may be hard for tourists to get with local girls but presumably local guys don't have too much of a problem. Why is Portugal apparently special in that regard?

Also - do the locals go for tourist girls a lot then? Since Lisbon is a year-round tourist destination and has several world class hostels.

I remember a Saturday night out in Barrio Alto back from two years ago. Those little bars and streets around them completely packed...with dudes. Such a cockfest I have not seen before, or since.
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(10-16-2014 04:25 AM)Espresso Wrote:  ^^ What a shame. Lisbon is such a gorgeous city.

So I don't get it, do local girls just hook up less than in most other European countries (because of religion or culture or something)? Or is it just that a smaller percentage of guys get most of the girls?
It seems rather unique for Europe...in countries like Spain and Italy say, it may be hard for tourists to get with local girls but presumably local guys don't have too much of a problem. Why is Portugal apparently special in that regard?

Also - do the locals go for tourist girls a lot then? Since Lisbon is a year-round tourist destination and has several world class hostels.

I remember a Saturday night out in Barrio Alto back from two years ago. Those little bars and streets around them completely packed...with dudes. Such a cockfest I have not seen before, or since.

Portuguese girls (and guys as well) are entitled. It's not religion, because no one cares. It's attitude. Portuguese girls have the worst attitude I have ever seen in Europe and has someone said, it's the lowest ROI in Europe. You chat up a Portuguese girl (pretty or not, it does not matter) and you will struggle to get a laugh out of her. With a Spanish girl, it will take you twenty seconds.
Why waste your precious time in a low quality person?

I have lived in Portugal and 3 different European countries. I only met 2 cool Portuguese girls abroad, so my main target are always foreign girls.

Bear in mind: Portuguese guys are on the two sides of the spectrum. Very beta where the oneitis is strong in them or silverback ape alpha. Most of the guys in Lisbon that are from middle to high society class fall on the very beta end of the spectrum. As you may guess, most of the low class dudes I know are natural silverbacks.
I think that the problem in Portugal does not come from the girls, but rather from the boys and their mums. It's a very matriachal society (The worst insult is to call someone's mother a whore). Middle-upper classes are very protective and many guys never manage to cut the umbilical cord. Parental helicoptering is very common to late ages, trying to shield their sons from the dangers of life. I remember when I went to high school, first day my mom told me: "Tie a knot on your dick!". That sure helped me as fuck... On the other side lower class guys are "thrown to the wolves" at a quite young age.


PS: Portuguese girls always have this face on:
http://danielakawmd.files.wordpress.com/...isgust.jpg
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I've got a few Brasilian friends living here in Europe and Portuguese girls are always a running joke amongst them. They all find it hilarious how unfortunate Portuguese guys have it with both ugly, and really bad attitude having girls, in comparison to their relatively close cousin Brasilians.

I actually thoroughly enjoyed Lisbon when I was there - sunny, cheap prices, nice city etc. I also found it very easy for pulling, but that was targeting exclusively tourist girls. I'd recommend it to anyone to visit in summertime when they can enjoy the cultural/weather aspects of Lisbon, and spend their nights hitting on American college girls. Just find out where the hostels are going on pub crawls and go there. You need to avoid the bars where the locals go though, sadly, which is an awful thing to have to say about a city.
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(10-16-2014 07:29 AM)Wreckingball Wrote:  PS: Portuguese girls always have this face on:
http://danielakawmd.files.wordpress.com/...isgust.jpg

That photo is too good not to be saved for posterity:

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(10-16-2014 09:33 AM)zatara Wrote:  I've got a few Brasilian friends living here in Europe and Portuguese girls are always a running joke amongst them. They all find it hilarious how unfortunate Portuguese guys have it with both ugly, and really bad attitude having girls, in comparison to their relatively close cousin Brasilians.

Putting it in other words, 80% of tinder matches I have are from Brazilian girls, which are also the most interesting ones, and the ones that reply the most as well.
IMO, most Portuguese girls are a waste of time.
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I have a friend who lives in Lisbon and grew up there. He says portugese girls are really into black guys so if you're black and from the US i think you might have decent luck with girls. Again it would massively help if you had contacts to get into social circles and meet people that way instead of cold approach.
This could be due to the fact that my friend is from a poorer area of Lisbon so the girls are more used to being around black guys but its advice from someone who's a native.
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I don't have much experience gaming in Mediterranean countries, but the girls in Portugal sound really uptight, frigid and not interested in sex. It sounds similar to places like Spain, Italy and Greece, where the every girl in the 18 - 25 age lives with her family and they watch over her closely.

I guess this is why so many men leave these countries and look for pussy abroad.
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(10-18-2014 07:11 PM)Biologist Wrote:  I don't have much experience gaming in Mediterranean countries, but the girls in Portugal sound really uptight, frigid and not interested in sex. It sounds similar to places like Spain, Italy and Greece, where the every girl in the 18 - 25 age lives with her family and they watch over her closely.

I guess this is why so many men leave these countries and look for pussy abroad.

I have said it before in other threads, but with 1/10th of the effort I get 10 times better quality from a polish chick Banana

Also, for some reason that I have not yet understood, higher status (medium and up social class) portuguese girls are very prude about sex. It's missionary and not much else. Perhaps I have been unlucky with this type of girl, but that's what I can tell you about my findings and experiences.
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Geez/. Sounds so much like India (urban cities).. Crap!

(10-16-2014 07:29 AM)Wreckingball Wrote:  
(10-16-2014 04:25 AM)Espresso Wrote:  ^^ What a shame. Lisbon is such a gorgeous city.

So I don't get it, do local girls just hook up less than in most other European countries (because of religion or culture or something)? Or is it just that a smaller percentage of guys get most of the girls?
It seems rather unique for Europe...in countries like Spain and Italy say, it may be hard for tourists to get with local girls but presumably local guys don't have too much of a problem. Why is Portugal apparently special in that regard?

Also - do the locals go for tourist girls a lot then? Since Lisbon is a year-round tourist destination and has several world class hostels.

I remember a Saturday night out in Barrio Alto back from two years ago. Those little bars and streets around them completely packed...with dudes. Such a cockfest I have not seen before, or since.

Portuguese girls (and guys as well) are entitled. It's not religion, because no one cares. It's attitude. Portuguese girls have the worst attitude I have ever seen in Europe and has someone said, it's the lowest ROI in Europe. You chat up a Portuguese girl (pretty or not, it does not matter) and you will struggle to get a laugh out of her. With a Spanish girl, it will take you twenty seconds.
Why waste your precious time in a low quality person?

I have lived in Portugal and 3 different European countries. I only met 2 cool Portuguese girls abroad, so my main target are always foreign girls.

Bear in mind: Portuguese guys are on the two sides of the spectrum. Very beta where the oneitis is strong in them or silverback ape alpha. Most of the guys in Lisbon that are from middle to high society class fall on the very beta end of the spectrum. As you may guess, most of the low class dudes I know are natural silverbacks.
I think that the problem in Portugal does not come from the girls, but rather from the boys and their mums. It's a very matriachal society (The worst insult is to call someone's mother a whore). Middle-upper classes are very protective and many guys never manage to cut the umbilical cord. Parental helicoptering is very common to late ages, trying to shield their sons from the dangers of life. I remember when I went to high school, first day my mom told me: "Tie a knot on your dick!". That sure helped me as fuck... On the other side lower class guys are "thrown to the wolves" at a quite young age.


PS: Portuguese girls always have this face on:
http://danielakawmd.files.wordpress.com/...isgust.jpg

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(10-16-2014 07:29 AM)Wreckingball Wrote:  Portuguese girls (and guys as well) are entitled. It's not religion, because no one cares. It's attitude. Portuguese girls have the worst attitude I have ever seen in Europe and has someone said, it's the lowest ROI in Europe. You chat up a Portuguese girl (pretty or not, it does not matter) and you will struggle to get a laugh out of her. With a Spanish girl, it will take you twenty seconds.
Why waste your precious time in a low quality person?

I have lived in Portugal and 3 different European countries. I only met 2 cool Portuguese girls abroad, so my main target are always foreign girls.

Bear in mind: Portuguese guys are on the two sides of the spectrum. Very beta where the oneitis is strong in them or silverback ape alpha. Most of the guys in Lisbon that are from middle to high society class fall on the very beta end of the spectrum. As you may guess, most of the low class dudes I know are natural silverbacks.
I think that the problem in Portugal does not come from the girls, but rather from the boys and their mums. It's a very matriachal society (The worst insult is to call someone's mother a whore). Middle-upper classes are very protective and many guys never manage to cut the umbilical cord. Parental helicoptering is very common to late ages, trying to shield their sons from the dangers of life. I remember when I went to high school, first day my mom told me: "Tie a knot on your dick!". That sure helped me as fuck... On the other side lower class guys are "thrown to the wolves" at a quite young age.

PS: Portuguese girls always have this face on:
http://danielakawmd.files.wordpress.com/...isgust.jpg


"Portuguese girls have the worst attitude I have ever seen in Europe and has someone said, it's the lowest ROI in Europe." --> I see where you're coming from, but from my personal experience, their attitude (tough indeed) is not much different than the one of Italian, Greek or Argentinian girls.

"You chat up a Portuguese girl (pretty or not, it does not matter) and you will struggle to get a laugh out of her." --> I live in this country for 30 years and I really don't agree with this. If you meet the girls through social circles, they can prove to be really interesting and well humoured. The only problem is, regardles of their humour, they are not comfortable with being approached by strangers, and they just shut you off.

"Most of the guys in Lisbon that are from middle to high society class fall on the very beta end of the spectrum. As you may guess, most of the low class dudes I know are natural silverbacks." --> sorry but this is completely false (in Portugal and probably anywhere else in the world). In Lisbon, people from high society are frequently the ones feeling more empowered, since they have the cars, the money, the good taste to attract the girls, everywhere. They also get the most beautiful Portuguese girls as girlfriends/wives, who attach some importance to people from "good families", etc. Trust me on this one. Guys from low class can also feel empowered, but only in places where girls from the same class attend.

"I think that the problem in Portugal does not come from the girls, but rather from the boys and their mums." --> this can be true in part; unlike countries such as German, it would be shocking for a Portuguese parent to accept that his recently graduated son/daughter would start a gap year during which he would travel around the world and accept jobs in hostels or bars to afford it.
It's also interesting to note that we have a very unflexible unflexible labour market, which leads to the older generations having better and more stable jobs than the younger ones.

But still, the main problem here is "market" related: the guys just look much better than the girls, that's just it. I could find an inteligent, well mannered and honest Portuguese girlfriend quite easily, I could also bang a few in ONS in clubs/bars (as I did many times before), but it's very difficult to find one that meets my beauty standards, specially for ONS.



PS: Portuguese girls always have this face on:
http://danielakawmd.files.wordpress.com/...isgust.jpg
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RE: Lisbon, Portugal
After all what's been said and despite the several factors one can point out that have led to the scenario being depicted here, for me the most crucial one is the market. Let me make a simple comparison with Poland:

-> In Poland, there are far more girls than men. It's just the impression i've got when i was there, i don't have concrete facts to back me up here, just simple observation. But maybe there are more girls due to fact that Poland has been losting a lot of men to war, i dont know, just speculating. And the typical Polish man comes as very intriguing to me. They can be very alpha, in the sense that they dont give a flying shit about women, i mean, they arent always thinking about women like the Latin men, they are typically more concerned with fighting and drinking. I'm not kidding. This behaviour seemingly results on less validation for girls. On the other hand, their game is usually very weak, they dont know how to approach, they are quite aggressive in general. That's why the Latin men does so well in Poland (god bless Polish men), the girls aren't used to men who knows how to approach, they are not used to men who have to balls to actually approach. And ofc, the latin looks are quite handful as well. Also, the typical Polish man is not very good looking. Well, they do the dirty work for us by not providing validation and we highly capitalize on that. I had Polish girls saying to me, "you're are so confident, you're are so bold, you're so cool, you're so handsome". Not in a million lifes a portuguese girl would say that to me.

-> In Portugal, generally there are more men than women and i belive, there is always a guy working on a girl (either by facebook, sms, whatever). Thereby, abundance mentality for them, they always have options. The Portuguese man thinks about women 24/7, we're cursed. I'm cursed. In my deepest darkest desires i want to be a porn actor, getting paid to have sex with a lot of woman. There ain't more to life than that. Anyway and furthermore, i think on average the Portuguese man is way more good looking than the Portuguese women.

Concluding: In order for that situation to change, apart from the mentality shift on cultural and social behaviours, one big step would be the Portuguese men to stop giving so much validation to girls. Stop making bullshit chating on facebook with them, stop texting them bullshit, stop caring about what they are doing and work to improve yourselves, dont make useless cold approches ignore them instead, stop the slut shaming because she's not being a slut with you. Don't give a square shit about them! Dont lower your fucking standards, use your right hand instead. Fuck them.

Well, have a nice one. Just needed to take that out of my chest.
(This post was last modified: 10-25-2014 03:24 AM by PTHulk.)
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RE: Lisbon, Portugal
(10-25-2014 03:23 AM)PTHulk Wrote:  Don't give a square shit about them! Dont lower your fucking standards, use your right hand instead. Fuck them.

Or... start meeting foreign girls here. The market forces are already changing, with the hordes of Erasmus and tourist girls coming every year, with international agencies here such as ESMA and others, etc., etc.
10-27-2014 09:33 AM
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RE: Lisbon, Portugal
I used to live in Lisbon and just got back from 2 weeks there. It is actually a pretty good place for women. I had 2 Portuguese girl friends when I lived there and they were both super hot and sexual. It was not hard with either one. We were having sex within 2 or 3 dates.

In my opinion Portuguese women are hot. There are tons of 7s and 8s, very few 9s but also very few dogs. When they go to the beach they usually wear g strings and are topless. If you like beautiful bodies and tan, brown asses and nipples, you will love Lisboa in the summer.

This last time I was there I was too busy banging a German and a Spanish girl so didn't do a Portuguese one, but I did go out one Saturday night with 3 Portuguese cougars. They loved hanging out with a tall, handsome foreign guy. They said Portuguese guys are way too aggressive/ needy and cannot dance. My dancing skills are very mediocre but in Lisbon, they are way above average.

I also noticed that the women in Lisbon were very receptive to day game. Almost every time I met a local girl (usually way younger than me) she gave me an extremely warm smile and vibe.

And this.... Lisboa is really cheap, really beautiful and there are awesome beaches within 20 minutes by public transport from the center.
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RE: Lisbon, Portugal
So there are tons of local guys telling people how it is in this thread, that the quality is scarce and the return is low, and suddenly Adonis comes down from the skies and thinks Lisbon is good for pussy?

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(01-17-2015 12:23 PM)Robert Plant Wrote:  I used to live in Lisbon and just got back from 2 weeks there. It is actually a pretty good place for women. I had 2 Portuguese girl friends when I lived there and they were both super hot and sexual. It was not hard with either one. We were having sex within 2 or 3 dates.

In my opinion Portuguese women are hot. There are tons of 7s and 8s, very few 9s but also very few dogs. When they go to the beach they usually wear g strings and are topless. If you like beautiful bodies and tan, brown asses and nipples, you will love Lisboa in the summer.

This last time I was there I was too busy banging a German and a Spanish girl so didn't do a Portuguese one, but I did go out one Saturday night with 3 Portuguese cougars. They loved hanging out with a tall, handsome foreign guy. They said Portuguese guys are way too aggressive/ needy and cannot dance. My dancing skills are very mediocre but in Lisbon, they are way above average.

I also noticed that the women in Lisbon were very receptive to day game. Almost every time I met a local girl (usually way younger than me) she gave me an extremely warm smile and vibe.

And this.... Lisboa is really cheap, really beautiful and there are awesome beaches within 20 minutes by public transport from the center.

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