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Korean American guy here visiting Stockholm (apparently against all odds according to this thread) July 24 to 27. I'm visiting elsewhere in Europe but just stopping by to check out Stockholm. I'm mainly gonna do sightseeing and new experiences in general but also looking to hit on some ladies at night. Also a sister of a friend is supposed to show me around for a day.

Been tinder pipelining for a week and got pretty good results - better than Helsinki in fact. ~30 hits and many cuties are engaged in convo. Not that tinder is the best indicator but it correlates well. I'm short, well-built, above-average dressed, medium game, 30s, good bank roll, been to all over the world and met some great dudes on RooshV forum. PM me if anyone wants to meet up. Staying at a hotel in the center near the popular clubs.
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RE: An Asian guy going to Sweden, any advice or comment?
How many of your matches how many are 8+/10?

If it's below 8/10 that it doesn't count. I also have some matches but since the quality isn't so high in Sweden most are average. For me anything below Zara Larsson level is average.
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Online game is useless in Sweden.you may get few matches bit they will be difficult to get out on a date quickly. Best gaming is in festivals or clubs.day game is too creepy for the average swedish girl.
07-23-2019 09:07 AM
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If you are an average dude, forget western countries man, you'll be better.
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(07-23-2019 09:29 AM)eck Wrote:  If you are an average dude, forget western countries man, you'll be better.

What makes guys that aren't doing well in their country, think they are going to go to Stokcholm and land some Swedish hottie.

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(07-23-2019 07:36 AM)Tall_asian_guy Wrote:  How many of your matches how many are 8+/10?

If it's below 8/10 that it doesn't count. I also have some matches but since the quality isn't so high in Sweden most are average. For me anything below Zara Larsson level is average.

Geez this Zara Larsson can look like a 7 when she just dresses normal without makeup but all done up she looks like an 8. Poland tops out around 7 on average though and these 7s are not easy. A solid 8 is hard anywhere in the world even if you are an 8 but hey, your luck is better in EE if you Asian for sure.
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RE: An Asian guy going to Sweden, any advice or comment?
Not to be rude, but are Asian guys actually having success with tall, good looking blonde women? I find it hard to believe outside of the rare white girl with an Asian fetish or the guy is really loaded?

Why not just stick to Asia? You won’t be dealing with any anti-white stigma, girls won’t be afraid to be seen with you and labeled a hooker, you just need to be an Asian dude with your act together to be taken seriously.
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Because Asian girls are fugly. The prettiest girls in the world are white European girls. Just look at Victoria's Secret. Many don't want to admit it but you know I'm right.

Anyways yes there are many Asian guys that get 7/8/9 white blonde girls. My gf is one, my ex too. Tall blonde girl from Germany that look like a Victoria Street model.
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We have to take into account that for asian guys, a white girl 5 is like an 8, so we can't have the same framework when we are discussing these topics.
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(07-25-2019 09:11 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  ^^Asian girls look like the men, so are they fugly as well!

I don't think so! They are very femenine, and age at a lower rate than white girls. Sadly I don't suffer from yellow fever xD, but I could consider them as a plan B.
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Asian girls are fugly? They’re your own race, bro, and they can be quite beautiful. And I really think you Asian guys would have a much better advantage in a place like SEA or China, but I’m not Asian so what do I know.
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There are a lot of asian guys and brown guys that live in Europe and USA
so its preferable to date white women if possible

SEA girls tend to be very pro or semi-pro that primarily want money.
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(07-22-2019 08:59 PM)betaplusplus Wrote:  Korean American guy here visiting Stockholm (apparently against all odds according to this thread) July 24 to 27. I'm visiting elsewhere in Europe but just stopping by to check out Stockholm. I'm mainly gonna do sightseeing and new experiences in general but also looking to hit on some ladies at night. Also a sister of a friend is supposed to show me around for a day.

Been tinder pipelining for a week and got pretty good results - better than Helsinki in fact. ~30 hits and many cuties are engaged in convo. Not that tinder is the best indicator but it correlates well. I'm short, well-built, above-average dressed, medium game, 30s, good bank roll, been to all over the world and met some great dudes on RooshV forum. PM me if anyone wants to meet up. Staying at a hotel in the center near the popular clubs.

Tell us about your experiences bro
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Those that saying can't get sweds out from online quickly is simply not true. Filter out those that are DTF. They are super liberal and super hot. If your experience differs from this, I recommend focus more on fundamentals, get better pics, get jacked bah bah
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RE: An Asian guy going to Sweden, any advice or comment?
It always made me wonder why it turns into a fuss if Asian men are into white women but when white men are into other races, it is hardly an issue, quite the interesting double standard.

The one thing you have to take into account whenever you are talking Asian men and to a great extent Indian men traveling internationally to get laid is that the representative is hardly of much quality in most cases. You can see the threads play out with the constant over-thinking, imaging white women as unattainable, and constant self-defeating mentality.

FWIW, I've noticed Northern European women and Anglo women are most likely to give a quality dude of any race a chance. They care more about how hot you are, how cool you are, and how socially calibrated you are.
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(08-09-2019 06:06 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  FWIW, I've noticed Northern European women and Anglo women are most likely to give a quality dude of any race a chance. They care more about how hot you are, how cool you are, and how socially calibrated you are.

From what you've noticed..which type of women are different than the ones mentioned? Just curious

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(08-09-2019 06:45 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  
(08-09-2019 06:06 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  FWIW, I've noticed Northern European women and Anglo women are most likely to give a quality dude of any race a chance. They care more about how hot you are, how cool you are, and how socially calibrated you are.

From what you've noticed..which type of women are different than the ones mentioned? Just curious

If I had to create a list of women who care significantly about race to the point that they will take a lower quality white guy over a higher quality ethnic guy, it would go something like this.

1. White-washed ethnic women (Asian, Latina, Middle Eastern, and even white women of some of the more tanned/darker ethnic groups like Slavs and Mediterranean).

You have a much better shot getting the blonde or redhead debutante in the US compared to ethnic women from a similar crowd who are desperately trying to fit into "white culture", one way ticket being going for a white guy even if it means sacrificing a lot on quality. The more traditionally racist the part of the region they are from, the more they will thirst for white guys.

2. Ethnic women trying to climb the social ladder, whether it is in fashion industry or high society, in the western world.

Guaranteed they will go for a white guy over you even if you are better looking yet at the same time a white woman in a similar group would be more open minded. This also goes for any aspiring model who is born and raised in a western country, even if you are better looking and higher quality, she'll still prefer a white guy over you since she sees it as a necessity to fit in. Asian women and Latinas are notorious for doing this.

3. White women from ethnic groups that might not be perceived as being white enough or white women that might not look white enough.

It is no mystery why interracial relationships involving white women are so common in the western world and Northern Europe. Similarly why you see so many blondes and redheads with darker skinned men.

One main reason for that is whites who to some degree might have their whiteness questioned tend to be more tribal and dislike the idea of mixing it up. This is more of a wild card though as the significant racism that exists in Eastern and Southern Europe makes these women immediately open minded once they travel outside their backyards.

My point being, if you are failing with Northern European and Anglo women, it's not your race, you're just of shit quality.

Scandinavian, Anglo Saxon, and Northern European women sit on top of the social ladder, they can do whatever they want given their status. Women of other races and cultures (except for maybe African American women) follow their lead.

Think I am wrong?

Once you get good with white girls, all the ethnic girls who initially saw you as trash and turned their nose up at you will be on their knees for you. White women are easily the least racist and most open-minded when it comes to race, the trick is, you just have to be someone worth sleeping with.
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(08-09-2019 08:34 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  
(08-09-2019 06:45 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  
(08-09-2019 06:06 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  FWIW, I've noticed Northern European women and Anglo women are most likely to give a quality dude of any race a chance. They care more about how hot you are, how cool you are, and how socially calibrated you are.

From what you've noticed..which type of women are different than the ones mentioned? Just curious

If I had to create a list of women who care significantly about race to the point that they will take a lower quality white guy over a higher quality ethnic guy, it would go something like this.

1. White-washed ethnic women (Asian, Latina, Middle Eastern, and even white women of some of the more tanned/darker ethnic groups like Slavs and Mediterranean).

You have a much better shot getting the blonde or redhead debutante in the US compared to ethnic women from a similar crowd who are desperately trying to fit into "white culture", one way ticket being going for a white guy even if it means sacrificing a lot on quality. The more traditionally racist the part of the region they are from, the more they will thirst for white guys.

2. Ethnic women trying to climb the social ladder, whether it is in fashion industry or high society, in the western world.

Guaranteed they will go for a white guy over you even if you are better looking yet at the same time a white woman in a similar group would be more open minded. This also goes for any aspiring model who is born and raised in a western country, even if you are better looking and higher quality, she'll still prefer a white guy over you since she sees it as a necessity to fit in. Asian women and Latinas are notorious for doing this.

3. White women from ethnic groups that might not be perceived as being white enough or white women that might not look white enough.

It is no mystery why interracial relationships involving white women are so common in the western world and Northern Europe. Similarly why you see so many blondes and redheads with darker skinned men.

One main reason for that is whites who to some degree might have their whiteness questioned tend to be more tribal and dislike the idea of mixing it up. This is more of a wild card though as the significant racism that exists in Eastern and Southern Europe makes these women immediately open minded once they travel outside their backyards.

My point being, if you are failing with Northern European and Anglo women, it's not your race, you're just of shit quality.

Scandinavian, Anglo Saxon, and Northern European women sit on top of the social ladder, they can do whatever they want given their status. Women of other races and cultures (except for maybe African American women) follow their lead.

Think I am wrong?

Once you get good with white girls, all the ethnic girls who initially saw you as trash and turned their nose up at you will be on their knees for you. White women are easily the least racist and most open-minded when it comes to race, the trick is, you just have to be someone worth sleeping with.

I agree. Everyone is racist but if you want to choose a least racist female group it could possibly be white women. Granted there will still be big numbers that don't want to date an different race but you have also big numbers that will.

We are likely to hear more about this (please forgive me if I offend someone):
Asian girl unwilling to date black guys
Pakistani girls unwilling to date Indian guys
Korean girls unwilling to date Chinese guys
Middle Eastern girl unwilling to marry White guys
the list goes on and on......

Because of how liberalism was brought into mainstream thinking by western societies, a healthy group of white people are less racist, so a white girl is much more open to date a minority race than most other girls.
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A person called JT Tran once said that it is harder for an ABC to believe that he can date white girls than a FOB. This is because ABC is hindered by mentality and a FOB by language. Language barrier is easier to leap than mental barrier. Maybe there is a grain of truth in it.
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(08-10-2019 04:10 AM)BalanceLife Wrote:  A person called JT Tran once said that it is harder for an ABC to believe that he can date white girls than a FOB. This is because ABC is hindered by mentality and a FOB by language. Language barrier is easier to leap than mental barrier. Maybe there is a grain of truth in it.

Yeah ABCs from say California or New Jersey tend to have more self-limiting beliefs & more often than not will just retreat to the group mentality they have while harboring resent.

I find more FOBs from Hong Kong/China/Taiwan that say migrated to Texas were just much more coachable people & willing to integrate themselves into mainstream society including finding success in dating outside their race.

It's not just dating....but during my grad school days, I was exposed to many more international students from say Iran/India/South Korea that spent their whole entire lives studying for standardized tests.

Upon arrival in the graduate program, the development of these people was night & day as they became much more personable individuals with better communication skills through community involvement, group projects, and presentations not just within the class room but in front of professionals outside of our program.

I hated group projects more than anything having worked full-time during the day before night classes but it's one of those obligations that paid dividends for international students.

There's this saying in American culture that "the best leaders are the best communicators." Just goes to show what's valued the most within American culture & how there is a way to ultimately get there. As intelligent as most ABCs on the coasts are from a book smart standpoint, I've seen a lot more FOB Southeast Asians or Chinese born outside of the US come to the US and ultimately scoop up management/leadership positions that ABCs fail to maintain.

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I too agree, as much hate as FOBs get, they are willing to learn and get better. Same with Asian guys from more red areas although I will say that the most alpha Asian and Indian American men I have met were from places where they were the token foreigner so they had to adapt. The main part of it is that I think these men never had a "network" to fall back on and so they either had to man the fuck up or get chewed alive.

The reason why so many Asian men from places like California and some of the more liberal areas shit their pants when it comes to gaming white women is that they did not inherently grow their inner strength. A lot of them had their Asian network to fall back on, other Asian men to cry with about white women not wanting them, and even whites in liberal areas are more indirect with their racism compared to some redneck in Alabama who is straight to your face about it.

Most of the race whining you hear from Asian men typically comes from those that grew up in California or the coastal liberal areas, saw their women pair off with white guys, and saw men of their backgrounds get either leftovers or stay incel. Add to that a repressive Asian American community that sucks masculinity out of its men and you get the modern day whiner who overcompensates by trying to be prideful of his heritage.

I've long said it and will say it again, if you are talking about gaming white women, race is the least of your worries. White women are the least racist when it comes to choosing men and will take a quality guy of any race. Try gaming some Brazilian, Colombian, Mediterranean, and Middle Eastern girls; that is when you have to start worrying about race even when you are a top tier guy.

If you can't get white girls, it is because you suck, not because they are racist.
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(07-25-2019 07:31 AM)eck Wrote:  We have to take into account that for asian guys, a white girl 5 is like an 8, so we can't have the same framework when we are discussing these topics.

Having banged hundreds of white girls i must say that a white girl 5 is still a white girl 5. Angel
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