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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(05-31-2019 06:26 AM)tomzestatlu Wrote:  I have a question.

I am 26 and I work at managing position at one work place (there are mostly women and few beta guys and gays). There´s a part time worker. She´s 45 and now she´s there to earn some extra money, but few years ago, she worked on same position as I do now.
She´s old, but she is really hot. I didn´t have any MILF for longer time and she´s got it. Perfect ass, thin waist, big tits, blonde. She´s probably childless, alone, but very active.

The question is - how to hit on her, when it´s workplace? Only idea I have is to hit her straight, tell her I find her very attractive.

I suggest you tell her that you're ready to settle down. Fast-lane the proposal and marriage. On your wedding night you can hit that.
05-31-2019 07:45 AM
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(05-31-2019 06:26 AM)tomzestatlu Wrote:  I have a question.

I am 26 and I work at managing position at one work place (there are mostly women and few beta guys and gays). There´s a part time worker. She´s 45 and now she´s there to earn some extra money, but few years ago, she worked on same position as I do now.
She´s old, but she is really hot. I didn´t have any MILF for longer time and she´s got it. Perfect ass, thin waist, big tits, blonde. She´s probably childless, alone, but very active.

The question is - how to hit on her, when it´s workplace? Only idea I have is to hit her straight, tell her I find her very attractive.

I did write a few lines about co-workers in another thread:



Currently banging two at my workplace simultaneously, I will reproduce the steps here

Quote: I think this part does not get enough mention on this forum. Banging co-workers. This is a gold mine i would argue. There's a lot of opportunities to be had among female co-workers. Currently i'm banging two girls in my lab and i'm looking to add a third.

I understand this might be really different for everyone depending on your place of work and your position.

But i think one size never fits all. There is a lot of value to be had in the work place. Forget the #metoo bullshit, married ot single colleagues are where an opportunity could exist. I imagine that if you work in a hospital, an airline or an advertising firm, you are potentially sitting in a p***y paradise.

Your workplace could be the new bar, nightclub or tinder. In this day where people are less and less willing to meet in bar night club or Tinder, Workplace is one of the places i can think of where you can still meet women. We all spend A LOT of time at work. I joke with some of my colleagues that i spend more time with them than i do with my parents. And this is true. So this means that you have to choose your work place carefully. God help you if you work in a Saausage fest. My next job must have a good volume of young girls and interns coming through before i even take a look at the contract

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1) Communication about DTF is done with strong eye-contact (No touching No way ward comments or any comments at all, no declaration of undying love at work)

2) If you establish DTF with eye contact and rapport, get the contact but DO NOT TEXT her at work or during work hours

3) Use text to establish logistics No Dating at a resturant or shit : run ZDB at your place (see here: ZDB)*

Everything should happen outside of work

4) You can get LMR when she is at your place but you can calm the hamster by saying a lot of people date at your office and give some examples (true or false examples it doesn't matter)

5) Your relationship must be kept secret at the office, this is obvious, that means (No or little talking to each other at work, No texting at work, No sharing of the details with other colleagues, No walking around the city holding hands ) usually the girls will be the one who wants it kept secret (If she talks it's her reputation on the line and not yours ) (you want all your relationships at work secret so you can run multiple girls simultaneously)

You have no idea at how good girls are at keeping secrets. Sometimes am in a meeting with two girls in my harem and i can't believe how they hide this from each other. :/ :/

6) Texting must be kept minimal, only for setting up dates to meet up and bang

7) Lunch time is a good meet up time for cheating wives who are at work (Eat take away and bang for lunch and get back to work quickly) Big Grin

8) Avoid to be same place with the girls you are banging as much as possible e.g. group lunch or situations where everyone is gossiping about everyone

8) Again leave No evidence No photos, No lewd texts No dick pics, No kiss and tell Use text for logistics!!! If there is no evidence, there is no #metoo

9) Girls wanna know you can keep their secret, don't be the loud boisterous idiot who is talking all about everyone at lunch and who is giving out all the information, be the calm stoic guy who looks into her eyes, smiles bites the lip and gets her wet. You must be the guy who keeps the secret or it's not happening

10) The usual seduction rules apply, dress everyday like it's your wedding day, be well groomed etc etc


I could give more pointers, but i will need specific questions
05-31-2019 09:19 AM
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Post: #11953
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Game Forum Eulogy:

I would like to thank everyone for his contributions to the Game forum. I found this place as an unskilled blue-pilled beta Male 7 years ago. Through the struggles, I've been able to improve my game to a level much higher than before and notch count I would have never thought imaginable. Much kudos to: Roosh (pre-God pill), tuthmosis, slubu, westindianarchie, el mechanico, jariel, thegmanifesto, joehoya, pitt, soup, Mixx, and countless others.

It has been a good run but all good things must come to an end. I wish all of you out there on the grind some good luck on the pavement. It's only getting ever tougher out here in these streets, pareto principle be damned. I'd say it's considerably less than 20% of men getting the 8s, 9s, and dymes in the U.S. That said, the only answer I guess could be is to be the best possible version of yourself and if that isn't good enough for that 8.5 with long curly hair, big ass, and tits then it is what it is . Nobody said life was fair, though. Ok fellas, keep grinding and fucking these women to sleep.
05-31-2019 08:58 PM
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Had a second date with a girl yesterday. She is pretty tall, dark hair, very attractive face, and a ridiculous body. We went to a concert last night with her friend and boyfriend. We had a lot of fun tailgating, drinking, and playing games.

I was talking to her friends bf while they hit up the bathroom during the show. He was saying how she kept saying how much she liked me and how nervous she was to look good for me. Felt really good because I have not had a woman do that for me for a long time.

Really like this girl. We are spending the next couple weekends together so that'll give me the opportunity to get to know her better. Pretty excited because she is a lot of fun and has a great personality that makes her even more attractive.

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06-02-2019 12:14 PM
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(06-02-2019 12:14 PM)Remington Wrote:  Had a second date with a girl yesterday. She is pretty tall, dark hair, very attractive face, and a ridiculous body. We went to a concert last night with her friend and boyfriend. We had a lot of fun tailgating, drinking, and playing games.

I was talking to her friends bf while they hit up the bathroom during the show. He was saying how she kept saying how much she liked me and how nervous she was to look good for me. Felt really good because I have not had a woman do that for me for a long time.

Really like this girl. We are spending the next couple weekends together so that'll give me the opportunity to get to know her better. Pretty excited because she is a lot of fun and has a great personality that makes her even more attractive.

This is very refreshing to hear! Keep us updated

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06-02-2019 01:32 PM
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(06-02-2019 01:32 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  
(06-02-2019 12:14 PM)Remington Wrote:  Had a second date with a girl yesterday. She is pretty tall, dark hair, very attractive face, and a ridiculous body. We went to a concert last night with her friend and boyfriend. We had a lot of fun tailgating, drinking, and playing games.

I was talking to her friends bf while they hit up the bathroom during the show. He was saying how she kept saying how much she liked me and how nervous she was to look good for me. Felt really good because I have not had a woman do that for me for a long time.

Really like this girl. We are spending the next couple weekends together so that'll give me the opportunity to get to know her better. Pretty excited because she is a lot of fun and has a great personality that makes her even more attractive.

This is very refreshing to hear! Keep us updated

Thanks man! This girl is a lot different from the other dumpster fires I've dated. Looking forward to getting to know her better.

It's actually been a relief to find a girl like this because the past few girls I've gone on dates with I have found no emotional connection.

Since I've been single, I've been extremely picky with who I spend my time.

My time is extremely valuable considering the hours I work along with going to the gym. I don't have a lot of free time.

I'm excited about her but I don't want to rush things. Don't want to end up disappointed if I begin to see red flags.

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06-02-2019 01:46 PM
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That's a great feeling to have Remington, always a rush when you find it, and having the skills to throttle it makes it even better.

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So I finally hit a personal goal of mine, 100 notches in a one year period, a couple months ahead of schedule. Sure, there were some 5s in there, but mostly 6s and 7s, and a handful of 8s and the rare 9. 10s don't exist in my world, but only in my dreams. I am a harsh rater, you could say.

So what are my reflections on this? I admit that banging new girls is getting a little bit old, though I entertain no illusions of stopping and settling down. Instead I think I am going to slow down in the near future and try to focus more on the really high quality girls, and then use the rest of my time for other things. Anyway, it has been a good way to get things "out of my system" and a fun experience. It has probably improved my confidence, but at the same time it has made me genuinely fear not ever being able to be in a stable relationship again. I also scare myself seeing how having access to so many women can turn me so cold, even if unintentionally, to some of them. Everything is always on my terms, more or less, which can make me feel like an asshole sometimes. Why should I go far away to see girl X, when girl Y and Z will meet me in my area?

In terms of game, I can share some of my key takeaways. I think the fundamentals, or whatever you want to call it, are far more important than many make them out to be. If the girl is attracted to you initially, you can bang her; if not, it's not going to happen in nearly every case, no matter what you pull out of your hat. Just find a girl who is attracted to you, build some comfort, and escalate to copulation. Think about it. When you see a girl, in almost every case you know from the outset whether you would bang her or not, and if she's in the second camp it is unlikely she would be able to convince you. After all, you aren't attracted to her. It's the same for girls. I should add that it is the mutual attraction, most likely, that makes the hanging out and building comfort which leads to sex easy, rather than reverse, i.e. hanging out and building comfort making her attracted to you. Appearances play a part, but in the end it's your personality and aura behind that appearance that matters.
06-04-2019 08:36 AM
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(05-31-2019 09:19 AM)yang2287 Wrote:  
(05-31-2019 06:26 AM)tomzestatlu Wrote:  I have a question.

I am 26 and I work at managing position at one work place (there are mostly women and few beta guys and gays). There´s a part time worker. She´s 45 and now she´s there to earn some extra money, but few years ago, she worked on same position as I do now.
She´s old, but she is really hot. I didn´t have any MILF for longer time and she´s got it. Perfect ass, thin waist, big tits, blonde. She´s probably childless, alone, but very active.

The question is - how to hit on her, when it´s workplace? Only idea I have is to hit her straight, tell her I find her very attractive.

I did write a few lines about co-workers in another thread:



Currently banging two at my workplace simultaneously, I will reproduce the steps here

Quote: ...
That´s nice guide.
We have recently hired 4 part-time workers, who are 18. Two of them have LTR, one I am trying and one I already got to my bed. So it´s not some kind of science to hit on these young girls. I was asking especially about this much older woman. Anyway, before this job I knew men-only environment.
_________

Today I met one girl and it didn´t meet with much success. As I was driving home, I realized to started to suck with girls and I don´t know why.
Last year, when I broke up with my LTR, I started to getting notches easily. Online and night game. When I wanted to go out with some girl, usually there was some Badoo or Tinder girl. I was totally sure with succes on the dates. Yes it wasn´t 100%, but the most of them were met with success. I have never been so good player, but I have good body and sharp face. That was definitely big part of success, but dealing with a lot of new girls taught me how to behave with them and abundance mentality. I met with the constant succes on weekly basis during this period, sometimes even better.

During winter I have slowed down a lot. I blamed weather and lack of sun impacting my and girls mood. But summer have came and nothing has changed. I can hardly get any girl on date, I started to suck even at online game. And when I do get girl on date, my success rate drastically decreased in comparison to last year. I set a goal for myself, to date only higher quality, but I started to suck even with lower.

The problem is, that I can´t locate what´s the problem. Everything is the same on me or better. I have same haircut, same or better shape (I have always been maximizing this), invested in better outfits.
Probably something inside me is killing all my vibes. But I don´t know how to get back on track when it comes to dating.

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06-05-2019 04:18 PM
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The girl from last weekend came over yesterday. Since we have a bunch of plans over the next few weekends, we decided to keep this one low key.

I had a few beers, she had some wine. Just hung out and watched movies and talked. Went to bed and we enjoyed ourselves.

She is currently in the bathroom getting ready for me to take her out to a bottomless brunch that is really close to my place. After that, we will get some alcohol, mix a cocktail, and lounge at the pool and relax.

Not a bad way to spend a lazy weekend.

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06-08-2019 07:53 AM
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I run day game in cafes. Sometimes , a girl keep making multiple eye contacts with me but she is on phone talking to someone .
How should I approach this ?
06-17-2019 12:45 PM
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Did my first (real approach) today. Got stood up on a date for the first time, went to a coffee shop sat for awhile and walked out. Soon as I walked out a girl crossing the street was giving me solid eye contact, walked over and said do you know where bla bla is (a club, i genuinely was interested) spoke a bit, asked if she was from the area, chat was going well. Could definitely have kept the interaction going but bailed due to no experience
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I must say I am surprised, how much can change one picture on dating apps. I thought my other ones are good and I got complimented about them, but my friend took normal picture of me standing next to some church, that looks really good and it´s totally game-changer, when it comes to traffic and matches with my profile.

Recently I had really good times with one Greek girl I met on my vacation in Greece. We hanged out together for few times and I must admit I don´t remember when was the last time I enjoyed female´s company so much, probably years. My mind just shifted from reaching some goal with her and I just enjoyed every moment, that´s something what I don´t know anymore. It was short and intense summer love, just what I needed.

Interesting shift in my mind. I found out I am not longer interedted in girls of similar age as I am (26-27) and some years range around (let´s say 24-35), unless she´s top. So ideal age I´m aiming for is 18-19 years. When I was 19, 18 years old girl seemed to be too young to me, thatś funny. And then I am opened for meeting good milfs.

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