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(04-20-2018 10:29 PM)Mikestar Wrote:  Went to a uni party full of international students, had so much choice, girls from Spain, France, Brazil, Lithuania, Germany. First I stuck to a pair of Spanish chicks who apparently live near me, did a lot of touching but she said she had a bf, her body was very curvacious. Then I got introduced to a Brazilian girl, I knew I wanted to bang her from first glance. I showed off my Brazilian knowledge I learnt from this forum and kissing her was like shaking hands, Brazilian girls are the best kissers of all time, no joke.

I tried to escalate but she vanished. At the end of a party I stumbled upon a really drunk French chick in a short dress, I was touching her in 5 seconds, had a conversation and touched her inner thighs, I was rock hard despite drinking a lot. I keep playing the spiel and she says im going toilet, then I see her go home with another guy.. Oh well. Still a fun night.

The really drunk French chick messaged me out of nowhere after that night, I scheduled a date with her for this coming week. Going to use tuthmosis first date bang recipe, bounce her to my dorm and get inside that French pussy.
04-22-2018 05:00 AM
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(04-21-2018 09:57 AM)Mizo1234 Wrote:  Advice needed .
Last night, I was at live music cafe . Parents and their daughter were there . The daughter was sitting between the dad and the mom . The daughter made couple of eye contacts and smiled multiple time .

How would you approach this?

An idea came to my mind , only after she left . I might have gone to smoking and she would follow .

That is a tough situation and the best you could hope for would be to get the number.

My plan of attack would be to wait for her to go to the bathroom and then pretend to go yourself and approach her as she exits the bathroom on the way back to her table. Have a conversation and ask for her number.

Your plan is a good one, if she smokes too, as it would give you more time to build up rapport before going for the number.

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04-22-2018 09:46 PM
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Maybe throw a business card in her accessible area somehow.
04-23-2018 01:16 AM
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In my 7+ years posting on RVF, I don’t recall ever posting in this thread and if I did it was only once or twice. I’m posting here tonight because for the first time in my nearly twenty years of fucking, I legit made a girl squirt. It was also the first time in a long time that I fucked in a car, this bitch made a huge mess in the back of her Jeep Cherokee. She tooks pics lol, we cleaned it up then I went into my apartment and she drove home, after drinking 5 beer lol!

She was my first and only IG bang, Venezuelan born but grew up in Canada. These are my favourite skanks, Latina Canucks!!! Hopefully I will be posting here more often lol.

I’m no authority but I know the d-e-a-l when it comes to dealing with the females.
04-23-2018 03:23 AM
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Being single over this past month, I have been coming to terms that I am an attractive guy.

This has meant I have had to adjust my game by essentially tuning it down a bit. Being cocky meant girls have called me arrogant so I have been tweaking with the yes/no/maybe game that girls implement.


Signs that got me to understand this:

- Girls in social circle finding out I am single and commenting on how "I could have done better" and that I "deserve to be surrounded by models"

- Being stopped at every bar/club with a photographer, asking to take a picture of me and whoever I am with (seldom does this happen)

- Girls approaching me, outright (usually the less attractive)

- Girls perimetering me, especially at the bar

- Tinder has blown up

- Constant DMs and whatsapps from friends of friends

- Girls checking me out 24/7 at the shops, at bars, in the gym. When with friends, I have caught them motioning at me or talking about me. I always open with "I see you talking about me, what's up?" -> "My friend thinks you're handsome/I find you quite attractive" etc.

- Waitresses always addressing me instead of anyone else in the group

- Gay guys constantly approaching you (super lame)


How I have adapted my game to this:

- Less is more, don't over game.

- Less cocky, more direct

- More comfort game

- Less teasing HB7s and below, more teasing HB8s and above

- Auto smiling at every woman (disarming smile as opposed to I will fuck you immediately smile)

- Minimize sexual conversation and replace with more sensual, story telling

- More 'relatable' conversation, less DHV, more mystery

- More focus on the 'uglier' friends than targets. Always used to do this but essentially getting the girls to be a bit competitive.

- Further delays in responding in text are met with 'panic' and 'relief' when I respond

- Maintain basics of touching, push/pull, moving them around

Open to any further suggestions but my game feels more calibrated and less forced. I have resorted to going back to making assumptions that I am in and as such will promote 'reactive' game when necessary.

I am currently seeing an 18 year old fitness model (sponsored by protein companies etc.), 24 year old who is the daughter of a multimillionaire (cinema at home, parents out type) and a 34 year old model who is a friend of a close friend; she moved back from Dubai last year and is in commercials etc.

I can't be fucked to constantly keep up with the messaging appetite of most women so I have another 9 on my phone which I ain't really responding to and a bunch of matches on Tinder I am just leaving there.

Good looks are not a replacement for game.

Game supplements good looks, past the initial interaction where they are attracted.

- Keep up attraction levels

- Run comfort, be congruent with their desired image of you (or better)

- Don't be arrogant (when you are better looking, its quite easy to be seen this way as I have discovered)

- Avoid getting played for attention, validation and instagram photos (despite this being 'pre-selection)

- Transition from the cliche of being just a pretty face into setting up a fantasy bubble and transporting their minds elsewhere


Yes, I know this sounds braggy but I thought I would share and see if anyone went through this 'epiphany'. I spent the last 11 years focused solely on game because I never thought I was anything more than average.

Hitting the gym and slimming out my face has changed this and consequently, my game had to adapt.

edit: Excelsior nails it here
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^Damn man, sounds like you're absolutely crushing it!

I'd like to think I'm decent looking, but I don't have any of those positives you highlighted happen on a constant basis.

However, I do get eye fucked at the gym a lot just because I'm really tall.

One thing that really stuck out to me in your post was:

Quote:Further delays in responding in text are met with 'panic' and 'relief' when I respond.

This has recently started happening to me, a lot. It's gotten to the point where I've been deleting numbers because the women I text say things like "hey, haven't heard back from you, what's going on?" or "I take it you're not interested in hanging out anymore..."

I usually respond with "been busy" or something along those lines. I'm not lying to them, I just have a lot going on right now. One of the girls who I was texting straight up flipped out on me when I didn't respond quick enough to a text. I responded in kind with a little more hostility, she quickly apologized for acting crazy, but I was done with her upon reading that initial freak out.

The thing is, I don't care. It doesn't bother me if one of the girls starts fucking another guy or ghosts me.




One thing I've noticed that is starting to freak me out a little bit, is that I feel emotionally dead. My main girl is really cool and everything and I would like to feel something for her in a more emotional capacity, but it's not happening.

All of the girls I have been with over the past 11 months have not provided me with that connection. I'm assuming I'm just in a funk and need to continue fucking other girls until I find one that does.

I'm having fun hanging out with them and going out and doing things. Also not depressed.

Gentlemen, any thoughts or words of wisdom? Any of y'all experienced this disconnection from the women you're with?

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Buddies and I went out for my birthday celebration on Friday night. Had a delicious BBQ dinner and then out for drinks. Hit a few places and our last stop was a dive bar by my apartment. This part of the night gets fuzzy but I remember making out with a girl and fingering her in the bar. The bouncer came over to us and told us to get a room or get out. I don't even know how it got to that point but there it was. Got her number and I'll plan to invite her over soon.

(04-19-2018 01:00 PM)[email protected] Wrote:  Girl #2 and I are meeting this Saturday, although from her pics she looks a little chunky. I don't have high hopes.

I met this girl on Saturday and actually was pleasantly surprised. She was a little chubby but not as bad as I was fearing. Super cute face and her tits are pretty big which made me think her gut would match it.

We met at a Pizza Shop/brewery near my place. Two beers and I was back to feeling good. This chick was very affectionate and loved PDA. I'm not a big PDA person but I will go with the flow if I'm getting attacked. She is rubbing my dick through my pants under the table and at this point I tell her we should go back to my place to watch cartoons. She laughs and says "we can't" but I can tell she is thinking about it. I don't push the issue and tell her we should do something Sunday. She agrees.

So she calls me after work yesterday and she agrees to come over. I'm expecting little to no ASD, and she doesn't disappoint. Her hands are down my pants within 5 minutes.

At one point she is on top and riding me and she starts to squirt/leak all over my stomach and it's running down my backside. Ahh such a nice feeling. I think we fucked close to 3 straight hours.

Another productive weekend for the books.


(04-23-2018 08:25 AM)Remington Wrote:  Gentlemen, any thoughts or words of wisdom? Any of y'all experienced this disconnection from the women you're with?

No words of wisdom from me, but I can definitely relate. However, I will say I don't think the answer is fucking more girls as you realize that they are all the same. But perhaps that's a good thing as you don't get disillusioned.

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@Remington, thanks mate, I am 'crushing' it but also leaving a lot of pussy on the table simply because it's so time consuming. I used to rotate 4 plate before getting into a relationship but my responsibilities have increased a lot now that I just won't be bothered.

For example, WhatsApp convo with a Dutch 7 from Friday-

Her: Come over here
Me: I am smoking some bud with some friends at home
Her: So are we
Me: Great minds think alike
Her: Come
Me: u come here
Her: Uhhh noo
Me: Uh yes
Her: Uber my friend
Me: Go for it
Her: No

-no response-

Cue sending me messages all weekend.

The juice ain't worth the squeeze sometimes.

(04-23-2018 08:25 AM)Remington Wrote:  One thing that really stuck out to me in your post was:

Quote:Further delays in responding in text are met with 'panic' and 'relief' when I respond.

This has recently started happening to me, a lot. It's gotten to the point where I've been deleting numbers because the women I text say things like "hey, haven't heard back from you, what's going on?" or "I take it you're not interested in hanging out anymore..."

I usually respond with "been busy" or something along those lines. I'm not lying to them, I just have a lot going on right now. One of the girls who I was texting straight up flipped out on me when I didn't respond quick enough to a text. I responded in kind with a little more hostility, she quickly apologized for acting crazy, but I was done with her upon reading that initial freak out.

The thing is, I don't care. It doesn't bother me if one of the girls starts fucking another guy or ghosts me.

This is good, it's a screening mechanism to see how they would treat you further down the line. All they want is attention so when you take away that oxygen, it's quite telling. It's similar to the breaking rapport theory where you respond to people who treat you worse; you think you did something wrong and fall into their frame, chasing their approval.

It's evident you're living an abundant life and honestly, this is just how it is man. Accept that this is how it will be.

I just send voice notes to them when I can and when they send voice notes back, it's a positive; also because you always have the excuse of 'I can't listen to it right now'.

Still, it's inconsequential.

Quote:One thing I've noticed that is starting to freak me out a little bit, is that I feel emotionally dead. My main girl is really cool and everything and I would like to feel something for her in a more emotional capacity, but it's not happening.

All of the girls I have been with over the past 11 months have not provided me with that connection. I'm assuming I'm just in a funk and need to continue fucking other girls until I find one that does.

Gentlemen, any thoughts or words of wisdom? Any of y'all experienced this disconnection from the women you're with?

Yes, I feel this all the time with women where it's predictable. Thing is, when your game is tight, you can see 2-3 steps ahead and set it up that it's natural even though you're directing the show.

It's when a girl deviates from this that you become invested emotionally.

It's the woman's responsibility to do this, you ain't doing anything wrong here.

Your connection happens when:

- she creates jealousy in you
- she takes away rapport for no apparent reason
- she is distant for no reason or is busy for reasons unknown
- she is going out but not inviting you
- she can sow a seed in which you are thinking about her when she is not around
- you start having to initiate a conversation
- she takes longer and longer to respond and generally seems to be less invested in you -> this causes your ego to step in and figure out why, at the expense of your game/self-trust

Girls need game too, not to get laid but to hold a man down.


I don't usually post stories because they're time consuming but here's a LR anyways.

I went out on Saturday to a pretty upmarket bar and the hostess recognized me from the previous week. She came and gave me a hug and we skipped the queue. My best friend, his fiancee and this other girl who he brought for me (friendgirl).

Go inside, get a drink and go for a smoke outside. I notice this HB8 checking me out, with her gay friend.

I approach, "I know you two are talking about me" with a sly smirk on my face.

She responds "I was just telling him how attractive I find you and that I want to take you home".

"I just got here, lets see where the night goes"

Friendgirl comes outside, realizes what is happening and asks all of us to come dance.

They all join. Friendgirl (HB7) is scoping out HB8 and places herself next to her on the dancefloor and pulls in to me. Classic territory marking.

She continues to want to make out. This is not my vibe, I am not in high school and not big on the PDA.

I excuse myself and go outside, sit next to these two older women and we are flirting hardcore. They are married. Dutch guy comes to speak to one, I tell him "she's my wife bro". He is shocked and leaves.

We are all friends now and they are actively 'wingmanning' me with other girls.

Friendgirl is a bit unhappy about this but she kept saying "spread your wings". She is going home. I wish her the best (even though she parked her car at my place) because I know I can bang her anytime.

I sit in the smoking area next to these two attractive mid-20s girls.

"You look like she just told you an amazing joke, you're beaming. I wanna hear it"
"Oh no, we were just talking about x y z."
"You don't know any jokes?"

...
Spent an hour together, 27yo single mom came home with me, had a good time but honestly, she's deserves to be a friend instead of anything else as she is quite red pill.

I saw Iwannatakeyouhome girl later on and gave her a high five but I wasn't feeling her vibe, despite her being hot. Something was off and honestly, when a girl comes on to me like that here in South Africa, you never know if you will go to hers and 4 hooded men will come out while you're fucking and steal your shit.

Friendzone girl is coming over on Wednesday.

This is outside of the 3 girls I mentioned above (18, 24 and 34yo).
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(04-23-2018 08:56 AM)Noir Wrote:  It's when a girl deviates from this that you become invested emotionally.

It's the woman's responsibility to do this, you ain't doing anything wrong here.

Your connection happens when:

- she creates jealousy in you
- she takes away rapport for no apparent reason
- she is distant for no reason or is busy for reasons unknown
- she is going out but not inviting you
- she can sow a seed in which you are thinking about her when she is not around
- you start having to initiate a conversation
- she takes longer and longer to respond and generally seems to be less invested in you -> this causes your ego to step in and figure out why, at the expense of your game/self-trust

Girls need game too, not to get laid but to hold a man down.

I appreciate your response. Lots of useful information. Too bad I can't rep you again.

The funny thing is, that the girls I've been hanging with do most of those things. The removal of rapport for no reason hasn't happened with them but they definitely do those things you highlighted.

They do it in a forced way.

Example: Main girl spent the night last night and left my place in the morning to go to work. She texted me later asking how my day was going. I responded after I was finished watching hockey. Never heard back.

Doesn't bother me at all. I have things going on that occupy my time as does she. I know she gets hit on a lot as she helps run social events. She goes out with her friends when she doesn't come see me. I'm not worried that she will find another guy. If she did, who cares? I have 4 other women can call and have at my place.

The thing is, I really like spending time with my main. We have a lot of fun together. Just this weekend, we went skeet shooting and busted the shit out of some clays.

Could it develop into something deeper? Can't answer that. I don't feel a whole lot emotionally. Not because I don't want to, I just haven't had that feeling yet.

Going to assume that it'll just take some more time. If it works, great, if not, no big deal. Plenty of other women that can occupy my time.

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@Remington, it sounds like you are in a great place, no need to force anything.

I am wired differently to you so my observations are subjective in this context.

Time will tell, how your relationship comes along and if it evolves into something deeper or more meaningful. Investment is a big one but the kicker is, if you're a busy man who's focus is past partner-seeking, then it's never really going to develop like that unless there is a specific event to precipitate this.

For me, the emotional attachment (and I am similar to you) came at a point where I kicked her ass to the curb after she pulled some shit on me. I spent time with other women and realized, in her absence, how vapid and boring they were. I ignored her for a few weeks and she did a darn good job of making it up to me. We 'reset' the relationship.

It's usually something drastic that flips a switch in your mind that allows you to let the emotional connection in. With others it's a dimmer switch, similar to women.

It's also what you define you want out of the relationship. I believe some of this shit is subconscious based off your upbringing, any kind of Freudian psychology, your past relationships, your current attitude towards monogamy, your state of mind, your mental RAM balance between work, exercise and women and whole bunch of other variables.

Again, this is just my personal experience but as I said earlier, go with the flow and see how you feel. At least you are aware of this and not being reactive. Enjoy the ride.
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(04-19-2018 03:08 AM)tomzestatlu Wrote:  So yestersay I have been with this 20yo girl for the third time. First date was just rollerblade ride, second one was a walk ended up with something more in my car, so third date was supposed to end up with sex.
The problem is that at this moment I don't have any place to take her (I live in room of my ex-gf, she is now living at her mother... but there is still lot of her stuff and housemates are her friends). So we went for a walk and than I took her by car to one parking lot with some kind of view and shit. Everything escalated quickly and she insisted on not having sex. I took her out of the car and bend her over car and took her panties of while she protested but didnt' t defend very much, so there was a chance but at the moment it didn't worked out (I had sex few hours before and after difficult training) and we also found out its too late so I had to get her to her last train.

So this girl is sure thing for the next time but there's no space to develop this. Easiest way would be movie invitation, but that's not possible now. Any ideas how to solve this situation and reach the goal?
Fixed. Today she asked me to go to rollerblades and I banged her in the forest during heavy rain.

Generally I am doing awesome with girls now. Since break-up with my fiancee I decided to do not be willing to jump to relationship like always before.
I noticed that game is extremely easy for me now. My athlete body and decent height and over-average active lifestyle was always big plus for me, but there´s something different than few years ago. I think age plays big role, I am 25 now and everything is just easier than when I was 22. Second is that I decided to stop shaving everyday and grow beard (more like stubble).
Without any big struggle I can bang few plates a week (slowly creating the net). It´s already more like I don´t have time for all the girls (many of them are matter of progress, many dates are scheduled to unknown, because I just don´t have time).

I must admit, that the most of the traffic I get from Badoo and Tinder, but I want to change it more to day game. Working as bouncer seems to be good too, this weekend I got few contacts and next week I´m gonna get more.

And what´s the most surprising - my career situation is really garbage now and financial is not very good. But girls don´t care.

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Almost got cockblocked by a hotel receptionist but had a true player moment.

I had initially booked a hotel room for a weekend with a plate, but by Saturday afternoon she was getting on my nerves so I sent her home. Then I called up another plate Saturday night since I still had the room. As I'm walking through the lobby with plate #2 the herb at the front desk says "weren't you here last night?".

Once upon a time something like that would have completely frozen me up. I would have ended up trying to explain myself, more than likely fucking up my night in the process. Not this time. Without missing a beat I come back with "we won't be so loud this time". That was the first time I ever came up that quick with a shot to shut down a soy like that but the look of hate on his face (and lust on hers) made it worth it. One of the little wins that comes with this lifestyle, I guess.

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Got a text from my main earlier this morning. Haven't been real good about texting her because I've been busy with work and the gym.

What I received:

"Hey, haven't heard from you in a while. Wanted to let you know I just got us tickets for Saturday to see Infinity War. Got the theater with those reclining seats you like so you're not smushed Smile"

I always appreciate a woman who puts forth a little effort. Plus, I'm pretty pumped to see the movie.

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Pipelined this chick and she's DTF, haven't met her yet but now I saw a picture of her and it looks like she either has a lipstick smudge or it's a recovering cold sore, it's a grainy low light picture in a club so it's hard to tell. Extremely disappointed because she is fucking sexy.
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Looking for some brief advice on how to respond. Long term plate that knows we aren't exclusive bumped into me and my son while we were at a coffee shop hanging out with another single mom and her kid. I'm not dating or fucking this other woman but I do think she's into me, and today my plate texted me "Are you fucking her or working that angle?"

Plate is a full time single mom, I've been repeatedly clear that we aren't exclusive, she gives me a little grief every 4-6 months then settles down when I hold firm. I like my plate and enjoy spending time with her but don't want a girlfriend and don't want to mislead her.

My inclination is to reply with something like this but I don't usually have good game so welcome any advice. "If you want a boyfriend then I've been clear that I'm not that guy. If you enjoy the time we spend together as much as I do then this question isn't relevant."

Suggestions?
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^ Your text comes off pretty cold. Even though her initial message comes off that way as well, no need to nuke it as of yet.

You can always respond with something like "nah, we just ran into each other." If she probes further, you can go nice and say "her kid and mine are friends, so we were all catching up."

Or, if the probing continues, you can always nuke it and say something like "quit jumping up my ass about something that doesn't matter."

Personally, if I was being grilled, I'd go radio silent, or nuke the conversation to make her drop the subject, then go radio silent. When that happens, I usually get the "sorry, I didn't mean to be so nosey" or "sorry I was going off on you" text.

Radio silence is great because it will give her the opportunity to cool down and realize the text she sent was her being paranoid/crazy.

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(Today 11:05 AM)Remington Wrote:  You can always respond with something like "nah, we just ran into each other."

Thanks Remington I responded with a variation of this, she came back with a wall of text about why she felt awkward and didn't want to feel uncomfortable if she comes to that coffee shop again, etc. I replied with a single soothing sentence and switched topics to getting together Sat night. She replied saying how horny she is. Cheers man. I gotta keep working on not coming down so hard on them when girls act out like that.
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