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(01-30-2016 05:04 PM)elimanning Wrote:  
(01-30-2016 02:27 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  
(01-30-2016 04:57 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  Racism against Koreans have also died down alot. Sure, you might run into some of those extremists having their Sunday rally at Shinjuku or Shibuya but these people are mocked by Japanese themselves and most Japanese, especially the younger ones, feel no ill intention towards Koreans.

^ From my recent experiences, I think Japanese women are becoming a lot more open-minded about Asian guys outside of their ethnicity. One major contributor could be many Japanese guys opting for asexuality these days instead of fucking their women right....

The media is powerful, for the good and for the bad. Japanese women love K-Drama and K-pop.

There are current trend and mobility with the rise in Thai Drama and Chinese Drama. Thai men may benefit from this soon. Jack Ma of Alibaba, the richest Chinese dude in China, will begin making pro-chinese movies, this will help some of our future asian brothers in the the near decade.

http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/ja...est-744371

Jap girls and Thai boys combo are pretty common in Thailand, as Jap heavily invested their manufacturing base there.
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(01-29-2016 01:44 PM)ajarn Wrote:  If you can't get pussy in US/UK/AUS then you are not a true player. Period. Women are women everywhere. THough, I agree the women in the forementioned countries are not as feminine and sexy and EASY as in EE, SA or Asia. But to say that Asian amercans can't or are not as succesful as other races in their first world country is just bullocks. I see plenty of fine babes in UK/US, very fuckable, for us Asians too!
You just gotta work and improve your game, homie.

I agree 100%! As a Vietnamese American growing up in the southern US, I have never had the problem of getting girls of any ethnic background. Why? Because I worked on myself first. I made myself into an attractive product of what Americans viewed as an interesting/attractive guy. In America, asian guys are portrayed as unmasculine, but there's actually some truth to it. Growing up, I played football, wrestling, track, lacrosse and other team sports during school. Guess what? I may have had only like 10 total asian guys on my team the whole time. The majority of the asian guys I knew were investing time into playing videos games and other non-masculine/very stereotypical things, which isn't a bad thing, but doesn't help when you want to date outside your race, especially when trying to date white American girls. I joined the Marines infantry, fought two wars and, afterwards, I became a firefighter/emt for a major city. It's important to work on becoming a stronger/better version of yourself. Don't pull the race card because you can't pick up girls! The problem is your outlook.. Good luck my fellow asian guys..
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(01-31-2016 02:16 PM)Real McCoy Wrote:  
(01-30-2016 05:04 PM)elimanning Wrote:  
(01-30-2016 02:27 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  
(01-30-2016 04:57 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  Racism against Koreans have also died down alot. Sure, you might run into some of those extremists having their Sunday rally at Shinjuku or Shibuya but these people are mocked by Japanese themselves and most Japanese, especially the younger ones, feel no ill intention towards Koreans.

^ From my recent experiences, I think Japanese women are becoming a lot more open-minded about Asian guys outside of their ethnicity. One major contributor could be many Japanese guys opting for asexuality these days instead of fucking their women right....

The media is powerful, for the good and for the bad. Japanese women love K-Drama and K-pop.

There are current trend and mobility with the rise in Thai Drama and Chinese Drama. Thai men may benefit from this soon. Jack Ma of Alibaba, the richest Chinese dude in China, will begin making pro-chinese movies, this will help some of our future asian brothers in the the near decade.

http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/ja...est-744371

Jap girls and Thai boys combo are pretty common in Thailand, as Jap heavily invested their manufacturing base there.

Japanese girls are not common in Thailand on the other hand you see Japanese men everywhere.

Japanese girls with Thai guys is very very rare.
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(01-31-2016 04:51 PM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  Japanese girls are not common in Thailand on the other hand you see Japanese men everywhere.

Japanese girls with Thai guys is very very rare.

so my source isn't giving me a reliable info then, btw you have been staying in Thailand for long?
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(01-31-2016 12:00 AM)elimanning Wrote:  That was also my experience.

The difference is, I met EE women mostly in Miami Beach. I dated mostly Russian, Ukrainian, Columbian, German and Norwegian and especially French women in Miami Beach. Most of these women are considered foreigners in our Anglo culture.

I have zero lays from American women in Miami Beach. Not due to lack of trying.

French and German girls are very open to Asian men in Miami. I heavily targeted them. They treated me like a man and view me first as a man, not as Asian men.

Every date I went on in Miami Beach, with these lovely Foreign women, we never spoke about Asia or Asian stereotype. We just drank and had fun.

Good insight. If these types of women ever perceived me as an "Asian" man, then they were technically interested in my ethnicity & wanted to know more about myself out of "curiosity."

My experiences with German, French, and Scandinavian women are limited mainly due to the fact that there were always other hot chicks in my presence when encountering them. Might try to bridge that gap in the next few months....

(01-31-2016 12:00 AM)elimanning Wrote:  I agree with you, I have never dated a liberal feminist, feminist are not open to Asian men, could be seen as viewing Asian's as FOBs/Foreigners or outsiders. I am starting to believe, this is more due to liberal feminist more likely to be brainwash and influenced by American Liberal Media.

There are indeed some liberal feminist types that go for Asian guys. They can be attractive but then destroy themselves with short hair and flats lol. And even if they are attractive & more desirable....it can be really annoying hearing about their dumb agendas, etc over...and over...and over again (been there done that). Even the hot liberal chicks that wear heels & have long hair seem to possess the uglier female friends too.

The more attractive liberal females who always play the race equality card & include "minorities" in order to serve their own self interests against "white males" are very damaged however. The resentment stems from their youth of being overlooked by the more desirable alpha males in high school so will do anything to "date up" in college and/or their professional years via assholes.

(01-31-2016 12:00 AM)elimanning Wrote:  I notice the only time I dated or banged an American girl, was when she was from Nebraska, Oklahoma or Windsor, Ontario (Canada). All three of those girls, like the EE girls only see me as a man, they never view or saw me as Asian. They never spoke about Asian food or topics. They treated me like I was American. Girls that exhibit conservative culture were more likely to view me as an American not as a Foreigner/Outsider.

From my experiences of being with conservative & liberal ones...I'd say the attractive conservative ones are much more comfortable within their own skin. It also helps their female friends are hotter too.

There's two possibilities of why they'd opt for the type of Asian guy who exhibits value:

1) They view you as someone different. If you are perceived as being able to offer value in terms of your different appearances (not meant to be offensive), confidence, personality, or the stereotypical financial stability, a conservative girl who is bored to death of her white bread upbringing and average conservative Joes since adolescence will take a chance on you. So you're respected as being different. I'm not offended by her curiosity in that case.

2) They view you as a person that is a part of their tribe & are therefore comfortable around you. Whether it's through social circle game or being able to relate to the girl & build common ground via sharing similar cultures (sense of humor is key), both are ways to build that comfort.

Social circle game can be a bit hit or miss because you don't want to spend all of your time with one single group that sits around being asexual while discouraging actions that could actually result in dating or sex. It is therefore best to spend a little bit of time in different circles to find out, which groups suit you best. The other solution is just moving around while spreading your seed in each group so that the opposition doesn't catch onto your moves.

And what does sharing similar cultures or being a part of the "same tribe" entail? Let me offer insight from recent missteps while in Brazil.

Despite speaking fluent Portuguese, dressing well, having success while living in Brazil, and being able to make others laugh in their native language, there were a few odd occurrences where girls with interest in Asian guys ended up passing up on or friend zoning me. These were situations where gals heavily preferred Asian guys "born in Brazil" sharing the same:
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B) sense of humor
C) social slang, and
D) perceived comfort of having similar upbringings.

I think those weird incidents in Brazil sums up how hard it can be for recently transplanted Asian male immigrants in the West in terms of gaming girls & learning the local culture simultaneously...hard..but not impossible..just takes time & trial/error.

The flaw in this type of logic (relevant to any race/society) is that many people who marry or get involved into relationships based on this thinking still have a high chance of failure sustaining things long-term. This discussion in itself should be reserved for another time.

So what does this mean for Asian guys in the west? It means they should work on knowing how to deal with social situations of the society they're living in & to react accordingly. Other suggestions (applicable for guys of all races) include inner game, proper grooming, fitness, and other tips that can improve one's confidence in any type of social situation.

Constantly stepping out of your comfort zone is key, but you also have to not obsess about any short-term results that you had no control over in the first place due to cultural issues. As Roosh said, you're not actually rejected by a girl unless she's known you well for at least two years so keep firing away at the numbers game.

(01-31-2016 12:00 AM)elimanning Wrote:  Its weird that the only girl that gave me an oppurtunity were from conservative states. I think girls from conservative states are less affected by American Mass Media compare to girls from D.C., Los Angeles etc.

I've never actually been in California for the sake of gaming..but will say..California girls who recently moved to my state of Texas typically do not pay much attention t Asian guys. Once they've actually lived away from California past that 2 year mark, they become more open-minded about fucking Asian guys (raises hand). I can't seem to explain why that's the case, but just a strange observation of mine's.

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Any asians had any luck in Estonia? Looking for my next destination
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(02-02-2016 12:37 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  I've never actually been in California for the sake of gaming..but will say..California girls who recently moved to my state of Texas typically do not pay much attention t Asian guys. Once they've actually lived away from California past that 2 year mark, they become more open-minded about fucking Asian guys (raises hand). I can't seem to explain why that's the case, but just a strange observation of mine's.

I can maybe explain some of this. California is a very segregated place for the most part. Everyone lives in some type of majority race enclave where you'll have limited bleed through. For example you'll have a few asian families living in a mostly white neighborhood or some white holdouts in a mostly asian or latino neighborhood.

I've been to Texas before and have relatives living there and I actually think that Texas has way more racial integration than CA. It's ironic.

There are certain cities in CA where there's a lot of "multicultural" overlap but it's mostly poorer cities where you have the black/latin/asian mix. I partially grew up in one of those cities and it was in fact a pretty horrible and violent shithole in the early 90's. When you get a multi racial non or slim majority held neighborhood then that's when the ethnic tension is usually at its highest. You would think that wouldn't be the case but it is. There are exceptions where you have a multicultural city that is upper middle class but those are comparatively rare.

Since most people live in enclaves they tend to look at everyone outside that bubble with a bit of disdain too. That's why people mostly just have friends from inside that.

When i'm talking about people sticking to mostly enclaves i'm referring to people who grew up in California and not recent transplants. Recent transplants to CA behave a bit differently and tend to move around a lot more.

There's sometimes a situation where a neighborhood starts to flip from one race to another too. You'll see ethnic flight going on. I'm not going to call it white flight since i've seen situations where blacks got pushed out of a neighborhood that turned majority latino.

Asians are more upwardly mobile in CA so asians tend to push into former white neighborhoods more. White people in CA resent this a lot and end up leaving the state altogether to states like Texas, Colorado, Oregon, or Arizona. So there's definitely some issues with this. It's not surprising if you meet a CA native in another state that they would kind of view asians with disdain. If the person is a CA asian and views other asians with disdain chances are they are trying to escape and distance themselves from their own enclave to begin with.


Growing up in CA has shaped my views of multiculturalism a lot. Shit doesn't work, period.
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Can any vouch if Poland is still good for Asian guys? Scandinavia and western Europe is a pass.
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(02-10-2016 09:21 PM)Joeno Wrote:  Can any vouch if Poland is still good for Asian guys? Scandinavia and western Europe is a pass.

Why on earth would you write off Scandinavia and Western Europe altogether? Please explain.

And no, Poland hasn't capitulated yet. I still received IOIs from girls I'd rate an 8 even in Warsaw.
Of course, heading further east -- Lublin and Białystok -- you have a bit more of an exotic factor, maybe you'd be seen as even more of a catch given that they're the least Westernised parts of the country. It's not just the fact that they were less likely to speak English that made them more receptive to me (though that may have been a factor, as with second-tier cities in Czech and Hungary, from first- and second-hand experience). But I didn't find "Westernised" Poland an issue for me.
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(02-11-2016 02:46 AM)JWLZG Wrote:  
(02-10-2016 09:21 PM)Joeno Wrote:  Can any vouch if Poland is still good for Asian guys? Scandinavia and western Europe is a pass.

Why on earth would you write off Scandinavia and Western Europe altogether? Please explain.

And no, Poland hasn't capitulated yet. I still received IOIs from girls I'd rate an 8 even in Warsaw.
Of course, heading further east -- Lublin and Białystok -- you have a bit more of an exotic factor, maybe you'd be seen as even more of a catch given that they're the least Westernised parts of the country. It's not just the fact that they were less likely to speak English that made them more receptive to me (though that may have been a factor, as with second-tier cities in Czech and Hungary, from first- and second-hand experience). But I didn't find "Westernised" Poland an issue for me.


How about Scandinavia?
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(02-10-2016 09:21 PM)Joeno Wrote:  Can any vouch if Poland is still good for Asian guys? Scandinavia and western Europe is a pass.

I recently came back from Wroclaw and yes its all still good. Though, I did pipeline a few before arriving via Tinder/Badoo. In clubs, hit the student places for easier targets.
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My SEA-American buddy - who's got the single eyelids - does fine here in Gdansk. Intermediate Game.

I do fine as well as another SEA-American with intermediate Game. I've got double eyelids though, and can pass for Mexican, so I'm less useful as a data point for East Asians.

Not sure about Scandinavia and Western Europe for Asians. But they're a bit more expensive than EE, so I doubt you'd want to live there unless you had a comparable income. Less exotic factor too, as well as the average girl being of lower quality.
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Any Filipinos in here? I'm not Filipino but I could easily pass as one or Mexican. So I'm curious how some of the Filipino guys here have done in Europe? More than likely I will be going to Prague, Budapest, and Bucharest at some point this year unless you guys recommend other places. Montenegro? Nice, France? Oslo? Stockholm, maybe?
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(02-11-2016 02:46 AM)JWLZG Wrote:  
(02-10-2016 09:21 PM)Joeno Wrote:  Can any vouch if Poland is still good for Asian guys? Scandinavia and western Europe is a pass.

Why on earth would you write off Scandinavia and Western Europe altogether? Please explain.

JWLZG is right. Are Scandinavia and Western Europe a pass because of
A) attitudes,
B) declining appearances of the talent there, or
C) mix of both?

Please elaborate.

Never been to Scandinavia, but have met nice Swedish, Norweigan, and Finnish girls. The only ones that rubbed the wrong way were Swedish from Stockholm. I remember someone on the forum (forgot) mentioned Swedish girls can be boring with bland personalities...add Stockholm into that mix & that means they typically have "meh attitudes as well.

(02-10-2016 06:51 PM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  Asians are more upwardly mobile in CA so asians tend to push into former white neighborhoods more. White people in CA resent this a lot and end up leaving the state altogether to states like Texas, Colorado, Oregon, or Arizona. So there's definitely some issues with this. It's not surprising if you meet a CA native in another state that they would kind of view asians with disdain.

^ - This...

There are quite a few college & graduate students from California that move to Texas not being receptive to anyone in the state really. These are people that are resentful about not getting accepted into a good UC or Cal State school so are attending a university out of state begrudgingly. These gals are really annoying & bitchy...esp to Asian dudes.

Female California transplant in Texas Age Range 18-25 = typically not very receptive to Asian guys. Not just that...they're also pretty annoying & always talk about how great everything in California was compared to "this place"

Female California chick visiting a Texas city for the weekend at the same Age Range = Receptive & Possibly DTF

Female California transplant in Texas Age Range 26+ = typically very receptive towards Asian guys.

I'm too well-traveled, mobile, and even surrounded by better options if at home to care about California chicks...however...the observation from them is usually:
A) Fuck off, or
B) wow I didn't expect an Asian guy to be so assertive in a PUA manner (bc it's typically not the case back where I'm from)

(02-10-2016 06:51 PM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  If the person is a CA asian and views other asians with disdain chances are they are trying to escape and distance themselves from their own enclave to begin with.

My biggest obstacle in gaming groups of girls in the US usually arises when I see a pack of girls. They could be mixed..or mainly white...but if there is a token Asian chick in that group, she's going to cockblock the shit out of me when I make the approach (either that or a dirty bitch stare).

Still trying to find a way to neutralize those situations....

(02-10-2016 06:51 PM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  I've been to Texas before and have relatives living there and I actually think that Texas has way more racial integration than CA. It's ironic.

When going to Asian shopping centers in Dallas/Ft. Worth suburbs for groceries, etc...I typically see more Asian guy with White female pairings...not sure about Austin...but it's the "stereotypical" other way around in Houston.

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(02-11-2016 08:07 AM)Lateapex Wrote:  Any Filipinos in here? I'm not Filipino but I could easily pass as one or Mexican. So I'm curious how some of the Filipino guys here have done in Europe? More than likely I will be going to Prague, Budapest, and Bucharest at some point this year unless you guys recommend other places. Montenegro? Nice, France? Oslo? Stockholm, maybe?

I'm not Filipino either but can definitely pass as one, or Mexican.

Unfortunately, I haven't been to the cities you mentioned.

That being said:
1) Apply Roosh's #1 tip for traveling for sex - Go to where you don't look like a local.

2) Note that "local" can also include immigrants - So try to stay away from capitals, especially Western European ones.

3) But you still need a city large enough to Game in - So also try to stay away from small countries, such as the Baltics and some of the Balkans and some of Central Europe.

4) Then you need to tailor your selection to your time frame. Unless you're moving here, you'll likely be here for only two weeks at most, so your focus will be on same-day-laying or same-night-laying summer solo tourist girls.

5) So what meets all the above criteria? Central and Eastern European summer resorts, like:
Sopot (Poland) (I live in the area)
or possibly,
Sunny Beach (Bulgaria)
Odessa (Ukraine)
Hvar (Croatia)
(none of which I've been to, but search for the forum for info).
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Poland might be an option as well, but we shall see when the time comes. I'm new to this stuff, so I feel like I need a coach haha and yes, more than likely I won't be able to stay just about anywhere for more than 2 weeks due to work unless I win the lottery between now and then. Sounds like I have quite a bit to work on before I head to Europe starting with the gym so I can fit into some nicer clothes.
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(02-12-2016 05:08 AM)262 Wrote:  That being said:
1) Apply Roosh's #1 tip for traveling for sex - Go to where you don't look like a local.

Disagree with this for Asian guys. The local Asian girls love Asian guys that are from overseas, have some money and can speak English. You'll also have a better chance mixing with the higher class girls, rather than the gringo hunters, especially if you day game (the sluttiest ones come out at night). A lot of Asian girls don't like to be seen with white/foreign guys because it makes them look bad and Asian culture is very gossipy. It draws a lot of attention and many simply don't like this. When they walk around with me it draws no attention at all, but they still get the "experience" of dating a foreign guy (which they love, because they get to speak English and it's exciting and they get to show you all their favorite spots around town). So don't write off Asia itself if you're into Asian girls.
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(02-10-2016 04:04 PM)pantsonfire Wrote:  Any asians had any luck in Estonia? Looking for my next destination

Hey what's up pantsonfire.

I can't say anything about Estonia as a country but I had a short term fling with an Estonian girl while I was living in China. She had blue eyes, blond hair, and was really leggy. She was about 4 inches taller than me too. She had to bend down a little to kiss me. lolz

I'm a southeast asian American guy (think southern Thai), average build, average height (5' 8").

My only impression of Estonian girls is based off her. She was very sweet, feminine, smart, and treated me like a man. I do not think that in my city of Washington DC, an American white girl of that beauty would ever give me chance. The only caveat is that I think this may be an isolated incident as she was really into Asian culture (She can even speak Chinese!). Nevertheless, it got me really curious about Estonian girls so I will definitely visit Estonia in the future.
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(02-13-2016 02:32 AM)Gas Wrote:  
(02-12-2016 05:08 AM)262 Wrote:  That being said:
1) Apply Roosh's #1 tip for traveling for sex - Go to where you don't look like a local.

Disagree with this for Asian guys. The local Asian girls love Asian guys that are from overseas, have some money and can speak English. You'll also have a better chance mixing with the higher class girls, rather than the gringo hunters, especially if you day game (the sluttiest ones come out at night). A lot of Asian girls don't like to be seen with white/foreign guys because it makes them look bad and Asian culture is very gossipy. It draws a lot of attention and many simply don't like this. When they walk around with me it draws no attention at all, but they still get the "experience" of dating a foreign guy (which they love, because they get to speak English and it's exciting and they get to show you all their favorite spots around town). So don't write off Asia itself if you're into Asian girls.

I could see this being true, at least for LTRs, even though I've never Gamed in Asia (or Latin America, for that matter). But I did have a Thai (not Thai-American) gf later in my college years. She came to the US to study, and came from a well-off family.

My guess is as an overseas Asian guy in Asia though, girls are more likely to try and boyfriend you up, due to K-selection, rather discreetly but quickly bang you in your two week window, r-selection style.

Note that these girls may not be the same. As Gas says above, you may get more interest in higher-class girls, who I'd guess are less likely to put out within your two week window, while a foreigner may get more interest in foreigner-hunters, who I'd guess are more likely to put out within your two week window.

Of course, one could say you could overcome these problems with better Game, but one could also say the West is poosy paradise with enough Game.
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RE: The Asian Guy Travel Thread
(02-13-2016 04:35 AM)262 Wrote:  
(02-13-2016 02:32 AM)Gas Wrote:  
(02-12-2016 05:08 AM)262 Wrote:  That being said:
1) Apply Roosh's #1 tip for traveling for sex - Go to where you don't look like a local.

Disagree with this for Asian guys. The local Asian girls love Asian guys that are from overseas, have some money and can speak English. You'll also have a better chance mixing with the higher class girls, rather than the gringo hunters, especially if you day game (the sluttiest ones come out at night). A lot of Asian girls don't like to be seen with white/foreign guys because it makes them look bad and Asian culture is very gossipy. It draws a lot of attention and many simply don't like this. When they walk around with me it draws no attention at all, but they still get the "experience" of dating a foreign guy (which they love, because they get to speak English and it's exciting and they get to show you all their favorite spots around town). So don't write off Asia itself if you're into Asian girls.

I could see this being true, at least for LTRs, even though I've never Gamed in Asia (or Latin America, for that matter). But I did have a Thai (not Thai-American) gf later in my college years. She came to the US to study, and came from a well-off family.

My guess is as an overseas Asian guy in Asia though, girls are more likely to try and boyfriend you up, due to K-selection, rather discreetly but quickly bang you in your two week window, r-selection style.

Note that these girls may not be the same. As Gas says above, you may get more interest in higher-class girls, who I'd guess are less likely to put out within your two week window, while a foreigner may get more interest in foreigner-hunters, who I'd guess are more likely to put out within your two week window.

Of course, one could say you could overcome these problems with better Game, but one could also say the West is poosy paradise with enough Game.

It's important to control the frame. Escalate reasonably early and make it seem normal. The girls there know that things generally move faster in Western culture and will probably watch a lot of American TV and movies. Bring her into your world rather than conforming to hers. While they may be conservative you might find they're actually really interested in sudden, passionate affairs with interesting guys, just like they see on the television. Kind of like the preacher's daughter thing. But you definitely need to take control and lead her there. One girl actually said to me after I'd left town how fun it was to "finally experience a weekend fling like Sex and the City" because it was something she could never do with a local guy. Never saw her again but we still chat sometimes.
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RE: The Asian Guy Travel Thread
(02-13-2016 02:32 AM)Gas Wrote:  
(02-12-2016 05:08 AM)262 Wrote:  That being said:
1) Apply Roosh's #1 tip for traveling for sex - Go to where you don't look like a local.

Disagree with this for Asian guys. The local Asian girls love Asian guys that are from overseas, have some money and can speak English. You'll also have a better chance mixing with the higher class girls, rather than the gringo hunters, especially if you day game (the sluttiest ones come out at night). A lot of Asian girls don't like to be seen with white/foreign guys because it makes them look bad and Asian culture is very gossipy. It draws a lot of attention and many simply don't like this. When they walk around with me it draws no attention at all, but they still get the "experience" of dating a foreign guy (which they love, because they get to speak English and it's exciting and they get to show you all their favorite spots around town). So don't write off Asia itself if you're into Asian girls.

You still have to game and dress well for most countries but it's definitely way easier in some asian countries than others.

Cultural knowledge for social circle game is a must though for quality..otherwise you're still just a tourist tagging the outliers.

One suggestion I have is to not over value the bonus you get for being foreign..whether it be trying to play the westernized "hi so" asian card or flogging white god factor.

Too many guys fly in and start rubbing this shit in people's faces and end up looking like complete tools and ruining their own and other foreigner's reps in one fell swoop. A lot of these countries see tourists all the time so your "foreignness" is not really that special to begin with.

A lot of asian guys who grew up in the west get a very misinformed or skewed view of asian culture based on westernized asian girls..who really aren't asian at all. Local asian girls in asia are very different and vary quite a bit. The good thing about being a foreign asian is that you can hit multiple social tiers without any social hangups. I have my young slutty university girl. My slutty service counter girl. An older milf property manager i'm boning. I also have a random waitress I met. It's all good. Some local asian guys in these countries shy away from messing with girls from a lower social tier but as a foreign asian guy a bit on the outside anyways you can hit multiple social tiers all at once and if you play it right you won't mess your rep up either.

The problem I have is rotating girls and preventing over clinginess and too much emotional drama from them. I'm someone who can be nearly anywhere and anytime I want and when the girls you have on your rotation realize this they do get very clingy.

edit: By the way this Valentine's day i'm going to spend the entire valentines weekend alone or hanging out with guy friends drinking beer. Why? Because I don't want any of the girls to think they are special and to taper down some of the clinginess Smile.
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RE: The Asian Guy Travel Thread
(02-12-2016 12:40 AM)Brosemite Wrote:  
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(02-10-2016 09:21 PM)Joeno Wrote:  Can any vouch if Poland is still good for Asian guys? Scandinavia and western Europe is a pass.

Why on earth would you write off Scandinavia and Western Europe altogether? Please explain.

JWLZG is right. Are Scandinavia and Western Europe a pass because of
A) attitudes,
B) declining appearances of the talent there, or
C) mix of both?

Please elaborate.

Never been to Scandinavia, but have met nice Swedish, Norweigan, and Finnish girls. The only ones that rubbed the wrong way were Swedish from Stockholm. I remember someone on the forum (forgot) mentioned Swedish girls can be boring with bland personalities...add Stockholm into that mix & that means they typically have "meh attitudes as well.

If anyone seems to be labouring under the illusion that Scandinavian/WE girls are off-limits to Asian dudes, my impression is that their take thereof stems from the following:

1) Greater levels of Westernisation, including American pop culture and its associated prejudices

2) Greater levels of English-language penetration, and the cultural memes it brings

3) The sluttier or more sexually liberal the girl is, the more Asian-averse they are cf. point 1

4) The more well-off the society, the harder it is for Asian dudes to be seen on an equal playing field.

Point 1 is very debatable. It's true that I did get a few Jackie Chan comments in WE, and a drunk German school group yelling Konnichiwa and Pikachu to me because I had the temerity to return the smile of one of their girls. On the other hand, I've found that EE girls are just as likely to be versed in lots of Western cultural references -- many did grow up watching the same TV serials and films, such a way it was to build comfort. As it was, it didn't mean they took on the lovely racial stereotypes we export to the world.

Point 2 is bullshit, given that were that the case, I'd have been shooting fish in a barrel in Latin Western Europe, which has far worse English-language acumen than large swathes of EE.

Can't comment on Point 3.

Point 4 may have some credence insofar as a higher standard of living correlates to a lack of need for a provider figure, which an Asian might be associated with more so than as the fun, outgoing alpha. Even so, the gap is closing, especially in Poland, Hungary and Croatia. While I've noticed Polish girls drawn towards the provider persona, they will also gravitate towards Western alpha game.

(02-11-2016 03:09 AM)djk100 Wrote:  How about Scandinavia?

I've never had issues with Scandinavians. I can't say I've been rejected by one on racial grounds. I do know that Scandinavian 'racism' is more of an under the surface affair, and that even though it's something they might bitch about behind closed doors, there'll be a shame involved in admitting it, especially given that it's not exactly in fashion to hate on Asians as much as, say, Middle Easterners.
For that reason it's not, as far as I know, going to give you an outright advantage. Race hasn't given me additional brownie points among Scandinavians.

(02-11-2016 08:07 AM)Lateapex Wrote:  Any Filipinos in here? I'm not Filipino but I could easily pass as one or Mexican. So I'm curious how some of the Filipino guys here have done in Europe? More than likely I will be going to Prague, Budapest, and Bucharest at some point this year unless you guys recommend other places. Montenegro? Nice, France? Oslo? Stockholm, maybe?

On my first night in Prague, I was told that the Filipino dude in my hostel had pulled a hot blonde Swiss girl on the pub crawl. She was easily a head taller than him. I didn't really get to speak to him much though.
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RE: The Asian Guy Travel Thread
What about Asian dudes in france?

I've swore I e heard that Asian guys do well there.

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RE: The Asian Guy Travel Thread
Don't Westernized Asian men do well in their respective home countries? ABCs, CBCs, etc. I've heard and read accounts about dudes returning to China, Taiwan, Vietnam, and clean up immensely.

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