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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck)
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RE: The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck)
(02-06-2018 02:43 AM)Noir Wrote:  What do you want from this interaction? It's been a while and you both have obviously moved on. Your message touched upon an anchor from the past and she temporarily got back into that emotional state and messaged you.

Define what you want from this and what motivated you to send her that message. Think clearly about it going forward otherwise you will just ping off what she puts out there.

Thanks for replying. I didn't want anything out of it and expected it to die there, so the question was really academic, wondering whether I was seeing ghosts or not.

In the the past, she had no qualms about going no-contact to protect her new relationship. Obviously, things change, but I just didn't expect to go straight to low-key dream analysis. However, she also gave me no hook to take the conversation further. Left it there and will unless maybe I'm in town sometime.

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02-15-2018 09:04 AM
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RE: The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck)
Ok.
The girl did not banter back atter the +5. I might text her this week end.

I have have a more generic question about when not replying to a girl.
Below another 8

It goes like this:

Me: "Picture of a salsa bar" You dance?
5min later
Her: Salsa? Unfortunetely not but i would likeTongue
20 min later
Me: -5
Immediately
Her: -5points for me? Big Grin

Here is the thing.
Since the answer is obvious, I would not reply + she seems to be eager to answer so I rather let her hamster brain be invested.

Is it a correct mindset?

If the answer is obvious and / or the girl seems highly curious, just let it go?
02-15-2018 09:56 AM
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RE: The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck)
(02-15-2018 09:56 AM)Sleek2b Wrote:  I have have a more generic question about when not replying to a girl.
Below another 8

It goes like this:

Me: "Picture of a salsa bar" You dance?
5min later
Her: Salsa? Unfortunetely not but i would likeTongue
20 min later
Me: -5
Immediately
Her: -5points for me? Big Grin

Here is the thing.
Since the answer is obvious, I would not reply + she seems to be eager to answer so I rather let her hamster brain be invested.

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Dude, you REWARD girl with good behaviour (intermittently) and PUNISH bad behaviour. +/- pts are figurative, you know it, she knows it, yet it's important for it establishes the frame who's in charge.

You ask he if she can dance, she complies and shows eagerness she'd like to try and you punish her?! WTF?. OK, I'm half-serious but you get the picture Wink Also, the first time you dish it out it's good to add 'pts' or 'points' as it is far from clear what you mean by typing some numeral. She's so eager, she actually wants confirmation and still shows a happy face. Book the date immediately, this is a Yes girl! If a girl plays straight, there's no game involved, you both know you want the same thing, you're straight on a motorway to datecity and sweet lovemaking. The real game is played in maybe whereas with the latter girl it's just Don't Fuck It Up Game.

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RE: The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck)
(02-15-2018 09:56 AM)Sleek2b Wrote:  I have have a more generic question about when not replying to a girl.
Below another 8

It goes like this:

Me: "Picture of a salsa bar" You dance?
5min later
Her: Salsa? Unfortunetely not but i would likeTongue
20 min later
Me: -5
Immediately
Her: -5points for me? Big Grin

Here is the thing.
Since the answer is obvious, I would not reply + she seems to be eager to answer so I rather let her hamster brain be invested.

I agree with ksbms, you should move forward on this. You could say "+2 smart girl right direction" or something like that. Either way move it forward. You don't have to necessarily set up a dance date, but you need to move the interaction forward and escalate the flirting towards in person/physicality.

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02-16-2018 02:07 PM
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RE: The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck)
That's okay guys. I organized a meeting for tomorrow Wink

Me: I will teach you. free sunday?
Her: So why you did not dance salsa at "where we met". Yess sunday fee Smile
Me: No good partner. We meet there at that time
Her: ho you are very decided Tongue
Me: always Wink

I will let you know how it goes
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