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RE: How to get laid on okcupid like a boss
(04-10-2012 01:47 PM)Hash Wrote:  My results have been pretty good off this website,

I'm 9/9, in about 3 months, very little time invested, all girls except 1 were 7+'s. I tend to do really well with the smart chicks. 7 of those were on the first date.

I'm good looking, 6'0, have killer jobs, and my name on the website is big_pianist, and I am actively gaming in bars and on street corners, OKC is something fun to do late night considering I still live in the burbs. To be honest I like crafting messages which get me laid.

I don't send crazy messages back and forth, and usually ask them out by the second or third message, the ultimate pick up line works wonders "want to smoke some weed?" credit G manifesto. Each message is personal, my friend also has done really well and has bagged 3 HOTTIES (he spends little time on it and is constantly getting girls in actual REAL life). Somehow they put him in the "good looking" section (yes there is one, and he got the email saying he's in it)

If a girl says she wants to get to know me a bit more before meeting me I just say I don't like to create unrealistic expectations of who I am, and I find meeting in person and talking for an hour will tell you more about someone than any silly profile or message.

The last girl I hooked up with off that site , my opening message was "How did the hipster burn his tongue? He drank his coffee before it was cool."

I don't take my profile very seriously, have only 2 pics of myself, keep a mysterious air. Under the description of myself, for the longest time I had

"Both my parents died in a horrible accident and now I have this thunderbolt scar on my forehead."

All chicks want dick, you just have to be normal.

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Everything you said was on point until here.

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RE: How to get laid on okcupid like a boss
Interesting thread on reddit:

Q: How do female users see OkCupid?

A: NOT THE OPINION OF ALL WOMEN ON OKC:

If you're single, it's like being a fucking rock star. All the menfolk want to talk to you, and you're like, that's nice, but I'm way too good for you. Look at all these hot guys over here!

And then you message the hot guys, and you might meet them for dinner, and get into ill-advised relationships that end poorly because you're desperate not to be alone. Why should you be alone? All these men want you.

All these desperate, desperate men, small fish in a very large, overpopulated sausagefest pond.

You cry yourself to sleep, because you never really got over that guy from when you were 17, but you're too good for him now. All these men agree.

Also, jesus christ we get way too many messages with way too little content and even if we are interested, some of us feel a little ashamed meeting guys on the internet.

Later:
Yeah. I'm sorry about that, guys. Personally, I try to respond to everything, but it's really fucking difficult. Average of 120 visitors/week(when single) means a LOT of messages to answer every day. I'm not even that attractive. It's not that your message wasn't interesting or we're bitches, it's a time management thing.


http://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments...e_okcupid/
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So, I mined the profiles of 5+star rated guys and I found one commonality:

It's about looks. But to a degree. 90% of "hot" guys there have the same 2 pictures:
1) the "look how professional I look in a suit, nice shirt and/or tie, I'm totally the suave professional you desire" pic
2) The "Im just chillin outside enjoying an outdoor activity woops are those my abs?" pic.

Those pictures are almost always in the first 3 pictures (the ones that scroll into view when you hover).
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I actually got the email that I've been rated as attractive.
It says something like you've been rated as attractive and as a result we'll show you more attractive matches. Something like that, it was a few months ago.
Having said that, my time on okc has been dry. Really dry.

I recently changed my profile though and I'm having a much better response. We'll see.

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Does anyone else use a second profile?

I use a second, annonymous profile to browse and research in another browser. I recommend it for two main reasons:
1) you can answer all kinds of questions that you wouldn't want others to see publicly (thus creating an information imbalance in your favor)
2) you can view as you please and whenever you please without giving yourself away.

I know DC1000 just sets these things up asap, but I feel he might be able to get away with a little more considering his persona. If I ask for the number too soon, within the first couple messages, they always stop the conversation. Now I wait until the girl gives more signs she's interested before making an excuse to drop my number with far more success.


I would like to improve my conversion rate after landing that number. How much time do you typically spend texting or on the phone before scheuling the first date?
04-13-2012 10:09 AM
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(04-13-2012 10:09 AM)ronjon548 Wrote:  Does anyone else use a second profile?

I use a second, annonymous profile to browse and research in another browser. I recommend it for two main reasons:
1) you can answer all kinds of questions that you wouldn't want others to see publicly (thus creating an information imbalance in your favor)
2) you can view as you please and whenever you please without giving yourself away.

I know DC1000 just sets these things up asap, but I feel he might be able to get away with a little more considering his persona. If I ask for the number too soon, within the first couple messages, they always stop the conversation. Now I wait until the girl gives more signs she's interested before making an excuse to drop my number with far more success.


I would like to improve my conversion rate after landing that number. How much time do you typically spend texting or on the phone before scheuling the first date?

I do this (second account).

I spend about 20 minutes of back and forth tops once a girl has responded. Average amount of messages before a date is about 3-4 (each). I don't text these girls except to talk logistics or to confirm plans the day of... but I do usually throw in a quick jab or joke if she's going to be late and needing a punishment.

Don't ever ask for her number. Tell her you're grabbing a drink in town on X day and that she should join you. Then when she agrees, give her yours.

Online game is fuckup avoidance game. This is why you don't use texting for anything but logistics. It keeps you mysterious and it keeps her from screening you out too soon (aka saying something stupid or that she doesn't agree with). Most guys don't understand this aspect of game, and are left scratching their heads trying to figure out why a girl flaked on them or stopped responding altogether.

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Great thread. Already getting some interest from the gold here.

What is the consensus here on the POF Relationship Needs Assessment test and the POF chemistry test? Are they beneficial like okc testing? Or are they just a potential electronic cockblock if you do not perfectly align with her imaginary chemistry?
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(04-14-2012 03:28 AM)Ferro Wrote:  Great thread. Already getting some interest from the gold here.

What is the consensus here on the POF Relationship Needs Assessment test and the POF chemistry test? Are they beneficial like okc testing? Or are they just a potential electronic cockblock if you do not perfectly align with her imaginary chemistry?

The POF tests are pretty useless. With OKC, the personality / questions are what set it apart if your slut radar is weak.

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Hey..... There's nothing wrong with sluts.
Just don't let them get attached.

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How would you guys deal with this type of response? Also, what would you have done different?

Too cool to live in LA?
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Apr 12, 2012 – 10:18am
No. it's just not,really my town.

Apr 12, 2012 – 7:53pm
I thought it was every Persian's kind of town.

Apr 12, 2012 – 11:51pm
That sounds vaguely like a stereotype.

Apr 13, 2012 – 7:16am
Only vaguely?

Apr 13, 2012 – 4:34pm
That was complete sarcasm.

Apr 15, 2012 – 4:55pm
Uh oh! I'm dealing with a complete badass here.

Apr 15, 2012 – 5:24pm
Haha no I'm just a bit fiesty.

Apr 15, 2012 – 5:35pm
I'll need you to tone it down just a bit when we're getting drinks.

Apr 15, 2012 – 6:28pm
Why's that?

Apr 15, 2012 – 6:59pm
We can't be disrupting other patrons at the bar.

Apr 15, 2012 – 8:41pm
Well then don't push the wrong buttons. And this is assuming we even go out for drinks.
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(04-13-2012 02:36 PM)Gmac Wrote:  Online game is fuckup avoidance game. This is why you don't use texting for anything but logistics. It keeps you mysterious and it keeps her from screening you out too soon (aka saying something stupid or that she doesn't agree with). Most guys don't understand this aspect of game, and are left scratching their heads trying to figure out why a girl flaked on them or stopped responding altogether.

I agree on the fuckup avoidance comment, but my online game is the complete opposite of yours. I text for days if not a week before meeting broads from online.

I may have mentioned this previously in this thread, forgetful as hell, but I get them warmed up and expecting sex before we ever meet as I hate meeting a broad and having it go nowhere.

Even broads that don't come across as slutty in their profile can become a sex starved nymph after some quality text game spread over several days.

Note-It's not easy for me to meet broads due to; small town and working on the road so I have adapted my game. However, I'm sure anyone can do the same. Just let her know early on you are very busy with little free time so she doesn't think you are stringing her along.

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(04-15-2012 09:59 PM)ronjon548 Wrote:  How would you guys deal with this type of response? Also, what would you have done different?

Too cool to live in LA?
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Apr 12, 2012 – 10:18am
No. it's just not,really my town.

Apr 12, 2012 – 7:53pm
I thought it was every Persian's kind of town.

Apr 12, 2012 – 11:51pm
That sounds vaguely like a stereotype.

Apr 13, 2012 – 7:16am
Only vaguely?

Apr 13, 2012 – 4:34pm
That was complete sarcasm.

Apr 15, 2012 – 4:55pm
Uh oh! I'm dealing with a complete badass here.

Apr 15, 2012 – 5:24pm
Haha no I'm just a bit fiesty.

Apr 15, 2012 – 5:35pm
I'll need you to tone it down just a bit when we're getting drinks.

Apr 15, 2012 – 6:28pm
Why's that?

Apr 15, 2012 – 6:59pm
We can't be disrupting other patrons at the bar.

Apr 15, 2012 – 8:41pm
Well then don't push the wrong buttons. And this is assuming we even go out for drinks.

You probably thought you were, but you weren't smooth at all.

Guys often make the mistake of trying to carry on a conversation like you did with someone you don't even know. You need to connect with her first before you can ask her out for drinks, and you can't connect with her with such short, snide responses. You also insulted her right off the bat with the persian comment, not the way to go. Unless you're really good looking you won't get away with that.

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It's been difficult to calibrate these things. The terse messages get far more responses.

In some of my other conversations, I'll carry on for maybe 10-20 additional messages before giving out my number. But then, I have some trouble setting up that first meeting because I didn't bring up a date venue.

Here, I wanted to test out your advice to see what happens. Clearly, swing and a miss here.

I'll have to keep at this.

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(04-15-2012 09:59 PM)ronjon548 Wrote:  How would you guys deal with this type of response? Also, what would you have done different?

Too cool to live in LA?
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Apr 12, 2012 – 10:18am
No. it's just not,really my town.

Apr 12, 2012 – 7:53pm
I thought it was every Persian's kind of town.

Apr 12, 2012 – 11:51pm
That sounds vaguely like a stereotype.

Apr 13, 2012 – 7:16am
Only vaguely?

Apr 13, 2012 – 4:34pm
That was complete sarcasm.

Apr 15, 2012 – 4:55pm
Uh oh! I'm dealing with a complete badass here.

Apr 15, 2012 – 5:24pm
Haha no I'm just a bit fiesty.

Apr 15, 2012 – 5:35pm
I'll need you to tone it down just a bit when we're getting drinks.

Apr 15, 2012 – 6:28pm
Why's that?

Apr 15, 2012 – 6:59pm
We can't be disrupting other patrons at the bar.

Apr 15, 2012 – 8:41pm
Well then don't push the wrong buttons. And this is assuming we even go out for drinks.

You probably thought you were, but you weren't smooth at all.

Guys often make the mistake of trying to carry on a conversation like you did with someone you don't even know. You need to connect with her first before you can ask her out for drinks, and you can't connect with her with such short, snide responses. You also insulted her right off the bat with the persian comment, not the way to go. Unless you're really good looking you won't get away with that.
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Wow Gmac, great breakdown!

That's happened to me a few times. I've noticed that if I go direct/ask them out too soon, I stop getting responses.

"you need to connect with her first before you can ask her out for drinks" - This

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I love when an OKC girl proposes a Friday night first date. This will end up somewhere between me being accosted by her after 2 drinks, or if necessary sleazing my way into her apartment.
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(04-16-2012 12:19 PM)Walnuts Wrote:  That's happened to me a few times. I've noticed that if I go direct/ask them out too soon, I stop getting responses.

Right. Initally, I had the opposite problem where I'm spending far too much time building a connection. How are you guys building enough rapport for the girl to be open to a meetup after only "several" messages?
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Laugh

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Damn Gmac, pussy just falls onto your dick. Wtf

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Damn, that girl is just assaulting you with the questions/lines. I just sent an email making a simple statement/observation. She replies with a paragraph/like 5 lines of text. Kind of scared me, I'll soldier on though.

I just read her profile again. Shes 24 (whatever shes pretty cute) and has a 6month old son, is in a committed/non-monogamous relationship (wonder who's kid it is) ABORT MISSION.

- I also changed my age (higher), added a new picture, and revamped my profile text. 4/5 girls I've messaged so far have replied more enthusiastically than normal. I wonder which variable did it for me.
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I also experimented with going pretty direct. Turned out ok.

Girl 1:
me: (I made an assumption based on her profile and said I liked it in a girl)
her: haha thanks! Smile whats up?
me: talking to cute girls when I should be studying.
her: napping, unsuccessfully.
me: I can be distracting at times, my bad. I find having someone to nap with makes it easier. I'd substitute with a pillow seeing as I'm not there.
her: napping is awesome, especially with other people. I got my second wind going out with a girlfriend soon (starbucks).
me: is that an invitation to nap? (ramble something about starbucks and how girls love it)
her: haha no, (replies with starbucks crap zomg sew gud i live off dat shyt)
me: Good, didn't want you getting any ideas too soon. I just met you after all.
her: you havent really met me yet. (more zomg i luv starbux)
me: then we'll have to some time, maybe I'll even drink starbucks (gets number)

Girl 2: i had messaged previously but forgot to reply. she creeps my page.
me: (tease her for creeping me)
her: nooo I just accidentally clicked on it Tongue Anyway...not much working on some school stuff and looking for something that will make writing essays a lot easier
me: (something about me being awesome at writing essays and also giving backrubs.)
her: I'd take you up on that offer if you knew spanish.
me: how about spanish guitar on the beach with some vino tinto.
her: (positive response)


What do you guys think? I can pick out some things I would do differently. Its not as direct as what they sometimes get from weird dudes(suck my dick/lets bang) , but it is stillpretty cocky and assumes shes there to have a guy like me swoop her up. Good gameplan or no?
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(04-16-2012 04:49 PM)Gmac Wrote:  That story ended up like this. In looking back at the old messages I saw she reactivated her account and lives a few states away. Good riddance.

Of course it's rarely that easy.



Haha Jesus man, I read your story there, that's some crazy shit. Girls hold so much power it's disgusting at times, that one phone call would've fucked you over for no reason. The worst I had was a female friend who always wanted my dick, got my friend's dick once and then always bothered him, and with me oscillated between teasing me and then flipping shit. Keep in mind I was having these hookups on the DL and behind an LTR's back in public places in my home state.

She would get wasted and go off yelling and swinging. One time we were in our local bar and she got offended by something I said and when I tried to put my arm round her and be like chill, she yelled and walked out, she came back but it was awkward. Another time she went crazy outside my mother's house of all places with my friends, we were trying to get her keys cause she was took drunk and if you passed by if looked like 3 guys assaulting a girl (no hitting, but wrist grabs, deflections to avoid being punched). Another time she got drunk and tried to speed off in her car cuz one guy wouldn't dick her and we were on a friend's street at like 4am. 4 of us guys are trying to get her out of the car in middle of the street she kept lurching forward, yelling, spitting, finally one got in the car and talked her down while rest of kept lookout and one grabbed the keys and pushed the car back.

Another time she came to my place and I smoked her out and we drank, I escalated the wrong way and by the time I was ready to make a good move she said no so I had to back off quick but when I backed off she yelled for me to keep going, then if I did she said no no no. I put her to bed and then realized somehow she took her underwear off and left them under my desk. I woke up next morning and she was gone. I told a trusted friend exactly what went down in case some shit happened. Nothing did, I haven't seen her since but she insists I didn't do anything wrong and wants to hang out...I'm not so sure..chicks can be shady. Never did get to hit that , she's gone sober and calmed down a bit so maybe the day will come haha.
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(04-17-2012 02:19 PM)SonicOne Wrote:  I escalated the wrong way and by the time I was ready to make a good move she said no so I had to back off quick but when I backed off she yelled for me to keep going, then if I did she said no no no. I put her to bed and then realized somehow she took her underwear off and left them under my desk. I woke up next morning and she was gone. I told a trusted friend exactly what went down in case some shit happened. Nothing did, I haven't seen her since but she insists I didn't do anything wrong and wants to hang out...I'm not so sure..chicks can be shady. Never did get to hit that , she's gone sober and calmed down a bit so maybe the day will come haha.

Sounds like she wanted you to fuck her instead of acting like a pussy when she told you no. When a girl tells you no while your trying to escalate, you have to look at How she says no. If its just a few quiet nos, soldier on. She likes being dominated.
If she's crying and fighting you off, then obviously she really means it and you're a possible rapist.

But in your defense, she sounds like complete crazy cunt and it sounds like she was trying to set you up for a rape accusation. I say well played to you, don't stick your dick in crazy, it's more trouble than it's worth.

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LMR

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Hey, older dudes... (30+)

Any of you cats successful with getting girls in the 18-21 range out? I get a lot of replies from these girls but they either flake and let a conversation drop (to be expected) or, seem to get cold feet when the meet is finally pitched. Recent example from a girl who I had a good back-and-forth going (she's a bona-fide 9, age 18.):

"Haha, unfortunately I don't think that'd be a good idea. You seem pretty great and our conversation has been interesting. However, I'm 18 and I have some very protective people in my life that would have something similar to a stroke if I considered meeting a guy from the internet that is not in my respective "age range"."

I just played it off with:

"Oh, no problem. Just thought you'd be a cool person to know, but I understand your reservation.

Take care."

Thinking that I'm pretty much dead in the water unless I play it off as no big deal, which leaves a slight chance that it might re-pique her interest.

Thoughts appreciated.
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(04-16-2012 09:58 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  I also experimented with going pretty direct. Turned out ok.

Any sort of 'going direct' over the internet is usually a huge no-no , don't insinuate anything to do sex (unless of course they bring it up first or you already previously met them face-to-face). Ordinarily, any mention of sex/hooking-up, they just don't reply or stop talking.

However, here is the one and only time where it actually worked for me, where I just managed to pull a crazy genius opener out of left-field:

Here was my opener:

"I love crazy, sexy, fun girls (especially when they are in bed with me and my hands are all over their body and they are screaming with pleasure). I find that spending the night with them is the most fun way to learn their language.

If you want English language lessons one day, I am happy to meet you and do this for you Big Grin"

And the reply:

"hahahaha u really made me laugh with this email.
Thanks for the unique opportunity. But do you think I need English lessons? Tongue"

I then followed up, emphasizing the need for more than one lesson:

"Of course, many repeat lessons might be needed for real learning to take place Wink"
(This post was last modified: 04-19-2012 01:12 PM by zarzuelazen.)
04-19-2012 01:09 PM
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