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Co sign on all OP's info, have been twice in the last 3 months for long weekends and all info provided us spot on.

Wednesday is also a huge night in Jakarta, go to loewy first then dragonfly, Sunday to Tuesday and Thursday are basically dead, tinder it instead and check out Skye or cloud with the girl.

Dragonfly definitely my pick on Friday and Saturday, X2 and a few others also good.

I also went millies last time! Good fun but keep your wallet and your wits about you, if you go with indos all good.

Irish, just as amusing side note the first trip I met a fellow roosher and that DJ at blowfish was his tinder match, we popped in to day hello but buggered off to df as it was full of Chinese lol. Small world.
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(09-24-2014 07:43 AM)192 Wrote:  Co sign on all OP's info, have been twice in the last 3 months for long weekends and all info provided us spot on.

Wednesday is also a huge night in Jakarta, go to loewy first then dragonfly, Sunday to Tuesday and Thursday are basically dead, tinder it instead and check out Skye or cloud with the girl.

Dragonfly definitely my pick on Friday and Saturday, X2 and a few others also good.

I also went millies last time! Good fun but keep your wallet and your wits about you, if you go with indos all good.

Irish, just as amusing side note the first trip I met a fellow roosher and that DJ at blowfish was his tinder match, we popped in to day hello but buggered off to df as it was full of Chinese lol. Small world.

Cheers man, when were you at Blowfish? I'm guessing it was before when I was there with her which was only a month ago. On the off chance if it was Fri (22 Aug) dunno if you seen me at the table in front of the DJ? Literally the only white guy in the house.

Tho I too soon did bugger off to DF also as was meeting friends (and also felt a bit conspicuous being the token 'round-eye' after she got up to play her set...)

small world indeed. Let us know if/when you're back

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Just arrived in Jakarta, it's 1am and I thought I was going to crash, but I'll check out dragonfly instead. 192 has me pumped up!
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(09-24-2014 11:52 AM)BallsDeep Wrote:  Just arrived in Jakarta, it's 1am and I thought I was going to crash, but I'll check out dragonfly instead. 192 has me pumped up!

Wind your watch back man, its actually 12am there. You got a whole extra hour to chase ass

Happy hunting Ghost Rider...

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Ah this would have been early June I guess, yeah we literally said hello and left as she was playing, looked cute though.

May be back in November will definitely ping you if so.
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Quick Summary of my first 24 hours:

I arrived at my hotel at around 2am and initially planned on just crashing. I jumped on this thread and saw posts about Dragonfly Wednesdays being the best nights in the city, and that clubs close at 6am, and that motivated me to get up and going. I drank a couple glasses of Yamazaki Single Malt (which is really good by the way) that I'd picked up from narita duty free and was on my way. I jumped in the taxi outside my hotel, which wasn't a Bluebird, and paid dearly for it. The guy had never heard of Dragonfly, and after stopping no less than five times to ask for directions, I finally arrived at around 3:30am. Contrary to everything I'd read there was no cover (but it might've been because I arrived so late).

The venue was nice but at that point the place was too empty. I grabbed a whisky at the bar and headed to the bathroom when I saw two girls holding hands screaming. This is the first time I've been back in SEA in years (and first time ever in Jakarta) and I'd almost forgotten about the scream/freak out that girls do in this part of the world when they're interested. Anyway they led me to their table and the dudes there offered me drinks and were totally friendly. Afterward we went as a big group to McDonalds where again one of the dudes picked up the tab. The dudes had weird Asian haircuts and by US standards were pretty dorky, but were totally cool. They encouraged me to hook up with their friend, and when she wasn't around a few of them took down my whatsapp and invited me to a strip club next week. After McDonalds, the dudes offered to drive me back to my hotel. I figured my chick wasn't going to stay with them, but when I got out of the car she got out of the car too and up we went.

Once in the room she giggled every time we made eye contact. I finally grabbed her head to calm her down and she started screaming I'M NERVOUS I'M NERVOUS. She sat on the bed and I poured a glass of scotch, took a sip, and handed it to her. She pushed the glass away and grabbed my shirt and pulled me in. 2 minutes later I was banging away. Afterward she left, giving some excuse about needing to go to university tomorrow. I offered to walk her to the lobby but she said I didn't have to. So I shut the door and passed out.

Today I woke up at around 6pm, and my phone had gone insane. I had well over 100 matches from Tinder auto-liker. 37 girls who messaged me on whatsapp from indonesian cupid. Shit is truly insane.

I may be basking a bit in the afterglow of my first 24 hours in a new city, but I'm really enjoying it here so far. After reading this thread and Brodiaga's about Jakarta, I bought a month at indonesian cupid and was pretty disappointed. But from the little time I spent in the club last night, the girls in the clubs are quite a bit hotter than what's on indonesiancupid and tinder. And my phone is beeping nonstop with girls trying to hang out. Here's an example:

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Going to hit up X2 in a bit.

Thanks to Irish, bigbait, 192 and Brodiaga for the knowledge and inspiration!
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Nice work!

Yeah sorry forgot to mention Wednesday will die out early around 3 am, I noticed you basically have a 3 hour good window in Jakarta as no one his clubbing before midnight and it quietens down around 3 or 4,obviously options either side.

If your going X2 there's a bar in the same mall called Union that's pretty cool for pre drinks, also loewy has biggest night on friday, tons of girls pre partying.

Have fun, I'm jealous!
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Nice post BD, I was hesitating to hit Jakarta for the 3rd time (enjoyed my two first times but wanted to change a bit), but seems like I will have no other choice !
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Sounds like you're killing it!
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After a great time at Dragonfly on Wednesday, I went back Thursday and hated it. There were pros there, and what bothered me even more were the faggoty farang-types there. It's how I remember the tourist areas of Bangkok--all Asian girls on white dudes, and the white dudes are just getting bitched around. These girls had them dancing like idiots, dudes were sloppily going for makeouts and getting their heads pushed away, flat out pathetic. One guy was getting dragged around the club by his tie, as if it were a dog leash. For whatever reason, seeing all this stuff bothered me and affected my state. But the club wasn't all that busy so I didn't end up losing much.

On Friday I set up four dates, but jetlag fucked everything up. I'd only slept two hours the night before so I kind of anticipated that I'd have to blow off the 1st or 2nd dates, and I arranged the times so that the ones I wanted to see the most were set to be later in the night. Inevitably I ended up sleeping through the first 3, and then woke up an hour after the scheduled meetup with the fourth. I gave her some bullshit excuse and ended up meeting her an hour after.

I never suffered through a Secret Internet Fattie date since I've never done the online thing in the US, but holy shit this bitch was huge. She had this canvas jacket on that made her look even bigger. Probably the largest person I've seen in Indonesia. Having said all this, I was disappointed by all the other potentials that I'd flaked on that day so I kept trying to convince myself it wasn't that bad. I kept telling myself that I'll only have a few Friday nights in Jakarta so I can't allow myself to go 0-4 on one of them. But shit kept getting worse. We met at the food court and then decided to go to Social House, which is about a fifteen minute walk through Grand Indonesia. Every 30 seconds we'd walk by some gorgeous girl who I felt was looking at me with disdain and disgust as she'd see me with this elephant barreling her feet. Here I am in an Italian suit walking with this hippo who was wearing a tarp you use to cover a swimming pool. So I then let her walk a bit in front of me to save myself some embarrassment. Looking at her from the back I tried to find some feature about her that I liked. Her face was good, but her body was just huge. I was hoping for a big ass to pound at least, but nothing. Then at one point as she was slumbering through the mall concourse, her pool tarp flew up and revealed her dress. Actually it revealed her thighs. Lumpy, disgusting, cellulite ridden thighs. Fuck that really started to gross me out. It reminded me of Fisto's post in the travel lounge a few days ago about fucking a fat chick who sprayed shit everywhere. I started to envision his descriptive post in my mind, and then immediately I'd look at this bitch and start to hurl. Finally we got to Social House, and this is the first time I saw her face well as there was light shining on it. I've never seen such chapped lips in my life. As if shards of glass were popping through it. Either that or Fisto had just finished mouth fucking her the last two hours. I was truly sickened, and excused myself to the bathroom and left. I went to a starbucks and spent an hour contemplating my misery. My waste of a Friday night, the idiocy of sleeping through my three prior dates, the audacity of that fat swine posting fake pics up and misleading me. And also me staying on the date for longer than thirty seconds. Because I wanted to get out as soon as I saw her, but I felt compelled to be a gentleman and not be rude. I'm still fairly new with online dating so I was pretty shocked. Clubs and bars are way more my thing. Next time I'm not putting up with it.

I went back to the hotel to get some drinks in me and get myself in a better mood. I finally made it out to Skye but it was after 3 am. There was one group of hot girls there with some local dudes, and I managed to ingratiate myself with them. I got a cute chick's number, but that was it. They were a group of bankers who weren't the white dude chaser types, and I didn't see logistically how I could pull or escalate, though I probably should've made an effort at least.

Saturday I set up a date with the chick from my first night. She was pretty hot, and my plan was to meet her up for dinner, bang her out and then hit the clubs solo. Again I overslept my date due to jet lag. I'd set an alarm and kept hitting snooze, and after the fifth snooze I just yanked it out of the electric socket. I woke up at 2am. Got ready quickly and went to Immigrant, which is newly reopened and dope. It's also full of shitfaced farangs who are sporting polo shirts that are 3 sizes too big, but there's plenty of hot chicks in there. Cover was 20 bucks. I then downed three quick drinks at 15 bucks a pop. I had no choice, this jetlag has me fucked up. I hit up this smoking Russian blonde and spent an hour with her. If I lived here I would say things went great, as she was the hottest chick in the club and totally interested, but I knew I wasn't getting the one night stand with this one. She was also ordering vodka/tonics every 5 minutes and passed a couple over to me. But I kept seeing these farang fucks stumbling out of the club with their tucked in polos while holding some Indo chick and so I got the number of the Russian and went on the hunt. At this point it was well after 4 and there wasn't all that much left. I went to the other side of the club, away from the Russian chick and ordered a drink and started chatting up this Indian chick. I figured she was a dark Indonesian at first, but whatever, she had a sexy UK accent and a banging body and we hit it off. She had her hands all over me and I figured this would be the one I'd pull. And then like every other Indian chick on the planet she turned out to be a total cock tease. I kept pushing for a while, grabbing her tits, putting her hand on my cock, and then finally I grabbed her ass firmly and tried to pull her in and she pushed me away and wandered off. Whatever. At that point the place was dead and I went back to my hotel and was in bed at 6:30am.

It's now 11am as I write this, and I woke up at 8:30 am. I slept two fuckin hours, and spent the next two hours lying in bed while praying I could get some sleep and remedy this jetlag. Nothing, I'm wide awake. I've got a date in 2 hours, then 4 others have said they wanted to hang out today. My Line and Whatsapp are blowing up and I'm not responding. I have between 50 and 100 prospects messaging me everyday, but I don't want another fatty situation again. I've lost faith in internet chicks. It's impractical to track these prospects all on a small cell phone. I know there are some totally hot ones in there but I just don't remember who was who. Half of these girls have a picture of Micky Mouse on their whatsapp profile.

Doing the auto-tinder/mass messaging of dating sites has turned into a total mistake. Practically every girl in the city was a Match. And on indo cupid I mass messaged every chick the same message asking for their Line/Whatsapp. About 75% responded and I'd input all that in while I was in airport lounges on my way over here. But it's impossible to manage them all.

Alright, off to get food and then date #1.

More than anything I just want to get my sleep schedule fixed.
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BallsDeep, I don't know if it'll make you feel better, but I had the same problems in Jakarta during my first trip before I figured the place out. It took some trial and error. I also had dozens of numbers and girls messaging me on Whatsapp, but was too jet lagged and lost to take advantage of it and missed out on so many great opportunities.

You've read the datasheets, so you know where to find the information you need: which clubs to go to and when, online game, all the warnings about SIFs etc.

Also, Social House is a very upscale place where you're only supposed to take good looking girls. Not because you can't take a fatty there, just because it's a fundamentally wrong thing to do. It would be an insult to that place. Same goes for places like Skye and Potato Head Garage. So, good work running away from that whale and not bringing her to Social House.

I suggest you rest a little, perhaps re-read the datasheets about Jakarta and then have a great time. If you can find RVFers who are currently there, definitely meet with them and get some advice.


Let me add some specific advice:
- Keep the online game going. Ask girls for additional pictures. If mobile internet speed is a problem, go to a cell phone shop and ask girls to get you 3G. You can also game them if you're in the right mood.
- Tell online girls to meet close to your place, ideally at your place. Find a cafe, Starbucks or even a cheap food market near your place and meet them there, then bounce to your place to watch movies, listen to American music, hang out by the swimming pool or whatever excuse you can make to get them there. Buy some ice cream and invite girls to your place to eat it.
- If you meet near your place, buy some water or whatever at a convenience store while you're waiting, then tell the girl you need to bring it back and take her with you.
- If girls don't want to meet near/at your place, tell them you are new to JKT and don't want to get lost. It's a numbers game, so for every girl who doesn't want to meet on your terms there will be others who will.
- Try to get the most out of online game every day. If that doesn't work, there are always clubs as the last resort. At clubs, screen for girls who give you eye contact rather than spam approaching many of them.
- Escalate when at your place with a girl, but don't push too hard, also go easy on the booze. I missed out on some very good opportunities because of drinking too much.

Hope this helps.
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The new posts on this thread made me remember some more advice. Here goes!

1. If you don't have a portable charger for your phone it's good to get one. You can get a basic one for $15 a better one for $40. tinder uses a lot of battery and you need your whatsapp to capitalize on last minute booty calls from girls which should happen a lot.
2. Usually you should try to be late for dates so you're not waiting for the girl. Even if you are an hour late you are the best thing this girl has seen in months and she'll be happy to wait for your. I was only on time for dates on friday and sat when I wanted to make sure i could get the girl out of my place in time to get the club.
3. You can switch out the ice cream dates for frozen yogurt dates if you want. It's pretty popular in Jakarta and it can be healthier especially with fresh fruit toppings. The girls will usually still like it.
4. Keep heineken at your place, not bintang. Most girls hate bintang.
5. To get extra photos: A) ask to see how she looks right now, B) ask for instagram or facebook (you can just unfollow or unfriend them later). I prefer the right now photos because they don't add filters or do the angles and then they are saved right there in your messages so it's easier to remember. I was never denied facebook or instagram and it didn't matter that I didn't have anything on my facebook. If you get any pushback asking for a quick photo you can say that you just don't remember what the girl looks like and she will not be offended. That should solve almost any pushback.
6. For girls who are not willing to come to you tell them to text you when they are in your area. I often got messages from girls "hey i'm at near you at this mall now..." or "hey i'm at DF now..." or "i'm at my friends place right by you". Fuck, i still get those messages hahaha.
7. You can usually take a girl to the cheapest bar you can find unless she is super hot, rich and snobby girl with a driver. If the girl doesn't want to go where you suggested she'll tell you and you can just pick a more upscale place without any negative ramifications.
8. Feel free to double book your dates in case of flakes. They are used to being flaked on by foreigners.
9. To fix your jet lag take melatonin and use a sleep mask for sleeping and do some quick body weight exercises to stay awake during the day. Drink a lot of water during the day and drink a lot of alchohol to stay awake at night.
10. Screen hard! She must either be A) crazy hot or B) DTF and pretty hot.
11. Very few girls will tell you that she is DTF, but if she is willing come your place she is DTF.
12. Stay flexible. The craziest and funnest stuff often happened spur of the moment when i could have lost hope for the night.
13. Whenever you have some free time you can post a tinder moment of some bullshit saying where you are. Girls will message you.
14. Unmatch any girl on tinder you're not interested in to keep the noise down. Likewise block them on whatsapp.
15. Don't use regular texting unless you can help it. It is unreliable and more annoying.
16. Every guy I personally met in Jakarta had a tough time of it the first few days. You just have to persevere.
17. If you're alone and there's traffic (basically anytime between 8am and 9pm) take ojek. It is more expensive than the taxis but it's worth it.
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Here is another random tip.

Do not tell any girls what club you are going to unless you are already quite sure you want to spend the night with them. Girls will often change their plans to come to a club if they know you will be there. Tinder girls should be a backup plan on club night.
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Great tips, with Immigrant open does that mean every night is now good to go out in Jkt?
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Yesterday I had 4 dates lined up, at 1pm, 5pm, 9pm, and 10pm.

I went to my 1pm and she was far hotter than what I expected. Her whatsapp pic was again pretty ambiguous which is why I put her at 1pm. I'd figured that if she wasn't that good that I wouldn't lose anything at 1pm.

We met at Starbucks in Grand Indo. Starbucks had a ton of people so when she texted me that she was "inside with a brown purse," I hit up two other girls who were alone with brown purses before running into her. But I was pleasantly surprised when I met her. Pretty face, long hair, heels, nice dress, as if she were going to a club. We talked in Starbucks for about an hour and I realized things weren't going to escalate there so I asked her if there's a bar open. She laughed saying at 2pm there are no bars open, but suggested we go to the movie theater.

We walked up to the movie theater and as she was suggesting movies we could watch together, I was thinking that I didn't want to waste time as I just wanted to bang her out. Since I saw no avenue to drinking together I suggested that we reconvene tomorrow evening after work and she can show me the bars in my area (there's a strip of bars by my hotel but I've never seen it). She initially agreed, but as we were walking down the escalators she said that she still wanted to hang out because she lived 30km out of the city and there would be traffic. I told her I was going to 7-11 to buy some water (thanks Brodiaga!) but she could come if she wanted. So we went there, and as I was buying juices and vodka mixers she asked if I had a TV in my room so we could watch TV until traffic died down. It turned out I didn't even need the excuse of dropping the stuff off at my hotel since she suggested it anyway.

Once in, I poured us drinks from my shampoo bottle and she started massaging my feet. She clearly didn't like vodka as she was pretending to drink but her glass wasn't moving. I let her continue massaging my feet for a while just because I was tired and it felt good. While she was doing the massaging I was responding to a bunch of other whatsapp texts, and changed my 5pm to 6pm. After I was done I gave her a little kiss at which point she immediately jumped all over me and within a minute she was riding me.

After we finished I wanted her to leave but didn't have the heart or the ready excuse to tell her to go. So I just sat up in the bed while she continued to watch TV. She then offered to give me a full body massage which went on forever but was pretty damn good. This zonked me out and put me to sleep. I guess maybe a couple hours later she told me she had to go and I said bye as I was half asleep. When I woke up it was 11:30pm and I had 18 unanswered whatsapp messages, including messages from all the other dates I ended up flaking on.

I apologized to the ones I flaked on (2 of them being the second time I'd flaked), but they were all really cool about it. One said that she understood that I had jetlag, another said that it was fine because she just hung out looking at stores in Grand Indonesia, and another said it wasn't a big deal because it was a Sunday and she didn't have anything else to do. I felt quite guilty about this because these people are genuinely nice, and I find it even a bit peculiar that they are so selfless and accommodating even though they haven't met me yet.

Anyway, at around 3am I was wide awake again, so I went to a street food place and stuffed myself with 3 orders of nasi goreng, knowing that was a way to knock me back out, albeit it unhealthily. I was in bed by 4am and up at 8:30 am, which is the most night sleep I've had so far.

I have 11 days left here, and have well over 50 prospects who are interested in meeting up. I guess it's a "quality problem," but I clearly won't be able to meet with even half of them before I leave. At home I juice regularly and take ACV, zinc, etc., but out here I have none of that and certainly wouldn't have the energy to bang out 3 chicks in a day as some of you guys do. I'm feeling a bit relieved now that it's Monday, and I'm not getting the bombardment of texts that I was getting over the weekend (many chicks could only go out on the weekend). I'm looking forward to spending the day hanging out in Grand Indo, perhaps even allowing myself to get bored for once. I'll probably chill in a restaurant for a while and setup an instagram, and follow bigbait's advice of having everyone give me their instagram. That should solve this overload of texting. Hopefully I can whittle it down to 10 hot chicks or so and block everyone else on whatsapp.

As far as dates go, I have an 8pm and 10pm for tonight (I'm guessing one gets flaked on), and a 8pm tomorrow with a chick I met at Immigrant. By Wednesday I hope to have my jetlag resolved and can spend the whole night at a combination of loewy/dragonfly/x2/immigrant.

Thanks again to bigbait and Brodiaga for your continued tips, they really are invaluable!
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(09-28-2014 10:16 PM)BallsDeep Wrote:  I apologized to the ones I flaked on (2 of them being the second time I'd flaked), but they were all really cool about it. One said that she understood that I had jetlag, another said that it was fine because she just hung out looking at stores in Grand Indonesia, and another said it wasn't a big deal because it was a Sunday and she didn't have anything else to do. I felt quite guilty about this because these people are genuinely nice, and I find it even a bit peculiar that they are so selfless and accommodating even though they haven't met me yet.
It is the nice thing to apologize. Don't take this the wrong way, but you are western and these sweet girls will not see your like in person one on one for months or years (no homo or exaggeration). They will lie their ass off like i would if I was in NYC if an 11 flaked on me and I said "lol no worries i'm jus chilling with my homeboys" as I clinked for the drink and said "buddy, you ain't now what i be missin".

(09-28-2014 10:16 PM)BallsDeep Wrote:  Anyway, at around 3am I was wide awake again, so I went to a street food place and stuffed myself with 3 orders of nasi goreng, knowing that was a way to knock me back out, albeit it unhealthily. I was in bed by 4am and up at 8:30 am, which is the most night sleep I've had so far.
Fuck yeah! Your brain needs that fat!

(09-28-2014 10:16 PM)BallsDeep Wrote:  I have 11 days left here, and have well over 50 prospects who are interested in meeting up. I guess it's a "quality problem," but I clearly won't be able to meet with even half of them before I leave. At home I juice regularly and take ACV, zinc, etc., but out here I have none of that and certainly wouldn't have the energy to bang out 3 chicks in a day as some of you guys do. I'm feeling a bit relieved now that it's Monday, and I'm not getting the bombardment of texts that I was getting over the weekend (many chicks could only go out on the weekend). I'm looking forward to spending the day hanging out in Grand Indo, perhaps even allowing myself to get bored for once. I'll probably chill in a restaurant for a while and setup an instagram, and follow bigbait's advice of having everyone give me their instagram. That should solve this overload of texting. Hopefully I can whittle it down to 10 hot chicks or so and block everyone else on whatsapp.

I hate to break to you but monday is easy bang nite. Ninety-nine out of 100 girls did not get the bule monster dick all weekend and they got enough sleep on sunday night and a part of them is hungry. They are confused from getting up early monday morning but they are ready for some big dick if you pick the logistics right: date as soon as they get out of work. a good recharge in the morning is to watch a movie on a big screen. I don't understand the brain chemistry, but it is a restart, if not a mental refresher, even when the movie is not great!


(09-28-2014 10:16 PM)BallsDeep Wrote:  As far as dates go, I have an 8pm and 10pm for tonight (I'm guessing one gets flaked on), and a 8pm tomorrow with a chick I met at Immigrant. By Wednesday I hope to have my jetlag resolved and can spend the whole night at a combination of loewy/dragonfly/x2/immigrant.
Obviously I hope this goes the right way for you, however... keep in mind the only 3 things you care about on a date are 1) will she flake 2) is she hot enough 2) is she dtf
Your mindset throughout the day is:
1) if you receive a text always respond asap and escalate her interest (yes, you are more amazing then she thought before) 'holy shit your life is even more amazing than she thought"
2) if you meet her and she is not hot enough then eject asap, "holy shit, i just got this text and have to to this work on my laptop"
3) if you meet her and she is not dtf after 30-60 build connection and eject with plans to see later, "it was great to meet you, i will text you later to see you again" (this is enough to leave them on cloud nine)
4) if dtf, <excuse to take to your place>, try to take to your place, if atttempt to eject fails eject with 3, it attempt to lay fails ask her to leave so you can do work
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Enjoying the write ups BallsDeep. After a date just tell them "lets go watch a movie on my laptop" they will agree then once inside your hotel go for the kill, they know what's going on. If you need them out just say you meeting a friend in 30min and they will excuse themselves. Also set your alarm for hotel breakfast then nap after it if needed.
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(09-28-2014 11:11 PM)Kangaroo Wrote:  Enjoying the write ups BallsDeep. After a date just tell them "lets go watch a movie on my laptop" they will agree then once inside your hotel go for the kill, they know what's going on. If you need them out just say you meeting a friend in 30min and they will excuse themselves. Also set your alarm for hotel breakfast then nap after it if needed.

My experience is that the meeting a friend in 30 minutes thing is not taken 100% seriously in jtk. Local girls know traffic. Depending on the time, source and destination girls know there is no way you are meeting a girl in 30 or 120. Wrap your story to your logistics like a drumskin to a drum in jkt if you want multiple dates in jtkt. In the beginning I was loose and failed hahaha.
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Hey guys i've been reading this thread for a little while now, and I'm quite interested in Jakarta now!~
Around early Nov I was planning to go PhP, but Jakarta has really caught my attention so I might check it out for a week before I fly up to Php.
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I just have a few question about Jakarta:
Because Im quite young compared to the other members who have visited Jakarta, will this put me to a disadvantage or advantage, towards gaming?

Also would Tinder only be the app required to game the girls there because Im only staying for a short period of time?
Thanks guys! ~ I'm really enjoying your stories!
Hope to have mine soon!
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Great write up on your trip so far BallsDeep.

I had to laugh out loud when I read:

(09-28-2014 10:16 PM)BallsDeep Wrote:  Once in, I poured us drinks from my shampoo bottle and she started massaging my feet.

Taking a shampoo bottle out of your bag and casually pouring its contents into a glass would look absolutely hilarious! Nonetheless, it's a perfect idea for sneaking alcohol into a country!
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(09-29-2014 08:37 AM)Biologist Wrote:  Great write up on your trip so far BallsDeep.

I had to laugh out loud when I read:

(09-28-2014 10:16 PM)BallsDeep Wrote:  Once in, I poured us drinks from my shampoo bottle and she started massaging my feet.

I'll definitely keep the vodka in a shampoo bottle idea in mind!

Best let the chick know also before she takes a shower... mrgreen

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Guys,
Reading your awesome stories about JKT is killing me! Can't wait to join you guys there!

Balls Deep,
Smuggling booze in a shampoo bottle? That cracked me up!
That's truly ingenious! Have you had any interesting reactions from the girls after seeing you pour them a drink from a shampoo bottle? Banana
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Gonna be in Jakarta 24-26 Oct by the way with some of the football team, not sure if anyone is around then?

I will make sure to bring some triple distilled head & shoulders Wink

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You guys are cracking me up with the shampoo bottle references!

It was a bitch though, having to buy shampoo and dump it out, then superglue the lids so they wouldn't break open, and finally put crystal light in them so it would appear like shampoo in case it was inspected. And of course it was all for nothing as my bags didn't get checked at all. Here's the momento:

[Image: ifI3EzH.jpg]

Haha it's often times some of the silly little things that contribute to the best memories though!
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(09-29-2014 10:09 PM)Irish Wrote:  Gonna be in Jakarta 24-26 Oct by the way with some of the football team, not sure if anyone is around then?

I will make sure to bring some triple distilled head & shoulders Wink

Hey Irish, I won't be around but I have a platinum membership on indonesia cupid with around ten days left on it. PM me if you want it and I'll delete my pics and send you the login details.
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