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RE: Gf/Marriage & cheating on the side
The dark truth that I have experienced is that cheating undermines a girl's confidence and will make her stick. You can't go too hard on it, but it's sorta eerie how well it works to bind a girl to you.

I think it just boils down to drama and dread. If you can roll the double DDs on a girl, it's golden.
02-12-2019 11:31 AM
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RE: Gf/Marriage & cheating on the side
(02-12-2019 11:31 AM)Fortis Wrote:  I think it just boils down to drama and dread. If you can roll the double DDs on a girl, it's golden.
And if she has double Ds of her own to roll your way, that makes things even better.
ba-DUM!
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02-12-2019 11:40 AM
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RE: Gf/Marriage & cheating on the side
(02-12-2019 06:09 AM)the.king Wrote:  
(02-12-2019 02:03 AM)Montrose Wrote:  my personal experience is that cheating on a woman makes her more amorous and LESS LIKELY to cheat.

Game recognised. My own observations match this conclusion 100%.

I would add that what montrose says is true assuming you do it right:

1. Deny everything, even in the face of overwhelming evidence

2. Do not get caught in the act every other week (if you are married/LTR your woman can only tolerate so much)

3. You need to genuinely respect your woman, and make an effort (clean the hair from other women. Wash the wine glasses you used. Change the bed sheets. Use separate phones etc). Call me a psychopath but with great power comes great responsibility Tongue

4. Similar to point 1: Hold frame 24/7. Never apologise. Always tease your woman. Don't stress too much.

If you realistically are the best she can get, and you agree to make her your main woman, a little cheating here and there can and should be forgiven.

If you are discreet, and there is no overwhelming evidence against you (like all the stupid celebrities) then you will be fine.

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Women instinctively know (and every father should teach his daughter) that the joy of walking through an '''exciting''' man's front door every day, comes with the increased risk of catching some woman sneaking out the windows one day. Alternatively, there are millions of available & stable provider men, who would marry them and never cheat.

Very true. To play this game you really have to be respectful. I think the guys that are 100% faithful struggle with understanding how you can love some one and cheat on them. They are quick to throw out the old trope of "just leave". No motherfucker, the whole point is to have your cake and eat it too. I approach it with the attitude that im entitled to these women. I deserve side pussy. I'm a great husband and father, why not reward my efforts? Some men can't handle the guilt. There is not guilt for me. I view it as purely physical. Sure, some of the time I might grow a stronger connection with a chick, but my inconsistency and unavailability will eventually get the best of her and she'll move on.
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RE: Gf/Marriage & cheating on the side
I'd add don't humiliate your wife/gf. That means a) don't cheat with women in either of your social circles or allow yourself to be seen in public with another woman by her friends/family (if you want to be extra careful, only cheat when you're out of town) and b) wrap your dick with your side chick, yes it sucks, but it's the only way to be nearly 100% certain you won't knock her up or catch a disease you'll bring home.

I got my Magnum condoms, I got my wad of hundreds, I'm ready to plow!
02-12-2019 12:31 PM
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RE: Gf/Marriage & cheating on the side
(02-12-2019 12:31 PM)Dr Mantis Toboggan Wrote:  I'd add don't humiliate your wife/gf.

You read in the news about people like Jeff Bezos cheating, and how their women divorce them etc.

But what they don't tell you is that she is divorcing not because he cheated, but because he humiliated his family in public in such a pathetic manner.

Had he used a burner phone, never used names/pictures when texting etc (totally appropriate precautions for a man with worldwide fame) he could deny his way out of everything and keep his family going strong.
02-13-2019 03:56 AM
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How do you guys go about having multiple facebook accounts. 1) for your wife, friends an family. 2) for travelling and business trips?

I haven't set up a 2nd account yet but its something I'd like to do. Any tips for avoiding detection? Intention is to add girls in locations where I'll be and message them / invite them out for drinks etc.
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02-13-2019 06:30 PM
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RE: Gf/Marriage & cheating on the side
I have 5 or 6 FB accounts but I never use them. Girls use Instagram or Snapchat, not FB, and I find that they rarely ask for FB. Whatsapp is the best way to communicate.

In the rare cases I need to give my FB, I use my main account. My friends list is set on secret and I have blocked people from tagging me or writing on my feed without my approval, so nobody knows about anybody else.

Be very careful of Instagram. Having several Instagram accounts is dangerous because your secondary accounts will be suggested to all your friends on your primary account. Additionally, you can’t hide your followers on Instagram, therefore they can contact one another. Just recently, a guy I know got caught by his three gfs because they were all on instagram.
02-14-2019 12:49 AM
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RE: Gf/Marriage & cheating on the side
People can also comment on your Facebook posts.
02-14-2019 01:02 AM
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True, but you can limit comments to just your friends, and most don’t comment anyway. If someone starts trolling your FB posts you can just block them. It doesn’t justify having several FB accounts IMO.
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I can't be adding woman on my main facebook. Would be kind of hard to explain the relationship status / pictures with the family.

My thought would be just to use a modified name as the 2nd account and to set everything as private / keep the pictures limited and block any wall comments / seeing friends list etc. I'm not sure how effective this is and any pitfalls / risks in doing so. As to pictures perhaps instead of photos of you out and about take photos of your location with maybe only you hand and drink visible. Would allow for plausible deniability at the very least.
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02-14-2019 05:12 AM
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RE: Gf/Marriage & cheating on the side
I don’t put any personal info on my FB. And I don’t post personal pictures (why would you do that? I thought only women did). I only post politics, news, and memes, purely as red herrings, because girls commented that my FB was ´barren’. There is zero upside to posting anything personal on FB.

If you create a new FB, it should not be linked to you. So you should have a main picture where your face is not visible, and a bunch of useless memes as posts. Then there’s no risk.
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(02-14-2019 05:18 AM)Montrose Wrote:  I don’t put any personal info on my FB. And I don’t post personal pictures (why would you do that? I thought only women did). I only post politics, news, and memes, purely as red herrings, because girls commented that my FB was ´barren’. There is zero upside to posting anything personal on FB.

Regardless of what I post on my personal facebook you'd have to be a off your rockers to add your spare on an account which has your wife on the friends list. My wife comments on my shit. It's not as simple as someone risking their girlfriend when you have a kid.

Hence, why I only care about a 2nd facebook account. In the relevant country in which I will spend significant time instagram is hardly used.
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RE: Gf/Marriage & cheating on the side
Hell with that shit. Watch Fatal Attraction before you cheat on your wife. Crazy bitches be leaving you boiled bunnies in your kitchen and coming at you with knives. Life already gives a man enough problems.









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RE: Gf/Marriage & cheating on the side
If you cheating on your girlfriend or wife is more than a one time thing your going to end up getting caught...

If you have kids with her it will just really fuck up the family dynamic. Don't do it.

Just dow your wild oats before getting into a serious monogamous relationship. Or if you don't have kids then just have an open relationship and fuck around without the drama.
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Almost everyone I know that’s gotten caught has gotten caught as a result of social media. Girls are like detectives with that type of stuff. Best move is to just delete Instagram and Facebook or in the alternative just make yours super private.
03-12-2019 10:21 AM
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(03-12-2019 10:21 AM)Scooby6987 Wrote:  Almost everyone I know that’s gotten caught has gotten caught as a result of social media. Girls are like detectives with that type of stuff. Best move is to just delete Instagram and Facebook or in the alternative just make yours super private.

+1 to this. I've had a few very smart friends caught because of social media. Not one ever caught otherwise. Its amazing how stupid people can be about their online presence.

If you just keep it to business trips / lads holidays outside of your home city, and wrap up, then its almost impossible to be caught. Its not rocket science.
03-13-2019 07:25 AM
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If you are on social media , you can't be called a man.
My golden rule is to cheat only outside the borders of the country where you live with your wife and travel solo
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What about when you get caught? What is the game plan? My GF broke up because she found letfers from a woman which detailed our sexual encounters(2 years ago) when she and I started going out. She never caught me for the real cheating, but that letter gave her an incentive and now it is over
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(04-22-2019 10:20 AM)Tanapiko Wrote:  What about when you get caught? What is the game plan? My GF broke up because she found letfers from a woman which detailed our sexual encounters(2 years ago) when she and I started going out. She never caught me for the real cheating, but that letter gave her an incentive and now it is over

You gotta be willing to lose it all man and know you can bounce back and get another woman who's as good or better than your ex
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@quaker13
Good thing I have been approaching 1-3 women everyday , so far I have done 59 approaches (day game, 4 phone numbers, 1 lay , actual friend with benefits), I just can't wait to see how that new pussy helps me get over her, will transfer from day game to night game
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So this is for the red pill deniers! Did a little bit of research about my recent ex that left me 2 days ago. Guess what? Bitch was cheating, I knew she was just looking for something. Yet during all this time she played the humble, calm, caring, nice girl. Your girl is fucking around, you did not want to believe it? Believe it now!
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I have solid game and want to fuck other girls but I really don't want to cheat on my gf, she's a good chick and I'm trying to have some principles. The struggle has been real
04-23-2019 09:55 AM
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(04-23-2019 09:55 AM)BlastbeatCasanova Wrote:  I have solid game and want to fuck other girls but I really don't want to cheat on my gf, she's a good chick and I'm trying to have some principles. The struggle has been real

Then don't. It ain't for everybody.

How old are you?
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Maybe I'm too young and idealistic but I see no reason to get married or have a serious girlfriend if you are going to be cheating on the side.

I strongly disagree with the whole cheating making you "alpha" and more attractive to your gf/wife, it's the ability to attract other women that makes you attractive in her eyes, not you actually going and cheating on them. A lot of women don't forgive cheating under any circumstances and will resent you for it for years.

Cheating destroys relationships and families. What's the point of self improvement and commiting to a family if we are just going to throw it all away for some pussy?
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(04-23-2019 06:35 PM)Tinder Scientist Wrote:  Maybe I'm too young and idealistic but I see no reason to get married or have a serious girlfriend if you are going to be cheating on the side.

I strongly disagree with the whole cheating making you "alpha" and more attractive to your gf/wife, it's the ability to attract other women that makes you attractive in her eyes, not you actually going and cheating on them. A lot of women don't forgive cheating under any circumstances and will resent you for it for years.

Cheating destroys relationships and families. What's the point of self improvement and commiting to a family if we are just going to throw it all away for some pussy?

I'd never suggest to you that it's right, moral or proper. It's very selfish, but sometimes you have to operate within the unrealistic confines that modern society has placed on you. Men like me weren't meant to settle down, but we were meant to have offspring. I love being a Father much more than a husband. Further, I thoroughly enjoy women their sex and their companionship. I'm very good at getting high quality women with minimal investment in time or resources. It's tough to stop doing something you enjoy so much. Quite honestly, if i could snap my fingers and never have the urge to step out I'm still not sure I would.
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