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RE: Bumble! tinder but the girls message first
(10-25-2018 04:18 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(10-25-2018 02:44 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  
(10-24-2018 08:49 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(10-24-2018 08:27 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  she missbehaves: report her as spam
she ghosts: report her as spam
she flakes: report her as spam
she likes you and never messages you: report her as spam
She's breathing: report her as spam

Pretty ladies can get got. Make sure you let them know youre doing it too if you can

Will never have any effect on them, but glad it makes you feel better.

ITs not about effecting their standing with the app...Its about frame control and treating a misbehaving child the way they deserve. Time-out that chick
They've always turned responsive for me. Its classic rejecting a woman.
"Who does this man think he is that he doesn't have to suck up to me"
"I'm not spam let me prove it!!"

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edit: hell yes it makes me feel better. the same way I can walk away from an attractive girl that isn't into it. Women are arrogant as fuck--it delights me to check them on their shit and leave them wondering why I can do that and other men can't

holistic as fuck

You realize women don't actually get notified when you report them as spam, right?

Thats why I tell them

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10-25-2018 10:06 PM
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Glad to see you posting again Mufasa, where you been?
10-25-2018 11:37 PM
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Believe it or not I actually owe a bang to RVF user 'a beer is enough'.

I had deleted Hinge and he posted that you have to be patient with it so i reinstalled it. Sure enough I had some matches and messages. One of whom I banged last night.

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10-31-2018 12:28 PM
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I have not used Bumble but I suspect that it is heavily populated with insufferable feminist and body positive types, not to say that Tinder, OkCupid, and other are not. By the fact that women send the first message and that this is advertised as the main selling point of Bumble, it seems like the app is designed to target the "female empowerment" crowd and we all know what that is code for.

Generally speaking, women found on dating apps and websites, especially free ones that you don't pay a membership fee for, tend to be spoiled for choice as the gender ratio is almost always strongly skewed in their favor. Most girls use apps and sites primarily for attention anyway (similar to how they use Instagram). The sites that you pay membership fee for can often be better because most guys will not drop money on something like that and so the gender ratio can be friendlier.

I have had a lot of success with sites on the Cupid network (___cupid.com) but generally prefer meeting girls in person through daygame and social circle game. That is a personal preference though and, as always, your mileage may vary.

As far as dating sites and apps go, you can generally make a pretty accurate prediction of what your results are going to be like overall after swiping or scanning through and counting the number of septum rings and ear gauges you see within 5-10 minutes.
10-31-2018 01:24 PM
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I really wish there was more of a true reputation system on these dating sites. The closest I'm aware of is "responds frequently" on POF, but POF is almost all older single moms. But there should be a way to sort of downvote women for being time-wasters.
11-01-2018 04:53 PM
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In the past couple days I have had 8 matches on the app and I just have to say there is some sort of an on and off effect to it that might just have been discussed at some point in this thread. As we all mentioned, there is obviously the new account effect to where in the first 48 hours you get a ton of matches.

I have had this odd experience with the app where I leave it and then after a week I get nothing, check back a week later nothing and then at some point I check back and I have like 12 or so likes just sitting there. I wonder if it is because of the weather since it is getting colder meaning more women are inside than going out so they are likely to spend more time on the app.

(10-31-2018 12:28 PM)Rhyme or Reason Wrote:  Believe it or not I actually owe a bang to RVF user 'a beer is enough'.

I had deleted Hinge and he posted that you have to be patient with it so i reinstalled it. Sure enough I had some matches and messages. One of whom I banged last night.

Great work!
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11-15-2018 12:11 AM
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(11-15-2018 12:11 AM)a beer is enough Wrote:  I have had this odd experience with the app where I leave it and then after a week I get nothing, check back a week later nothing and then at some point I check back and I have like 12 or so likes just sitting there. I wonder if it is because of the weather since it is getting colder meaning more women are inside than going out so they are likely to spend more time on the app

I have the same thing happen. It's been happening for the last 4-5 months, very intermittently. I believe at least one other guy reported the same.

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11-15-2018 12:55 AM
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(11-15-2018 12:55 AM)corsega Wrote:  
(11-15-2018 12:11 AM)a beer is enough Wrote:  I have had this odd experience with the app where I leave it and then after a week I get nothing, check back a week later nothing and then at some point I check back and I have like 12 or so likes just sitting there. I wonder if it is because of the weather since it is getting colder meaning more women are inside than going out so they are likely to spend more time on the app

I have the same thing happen. It's been happening for the last 4-5 months, very intermittently. I believe at least one other guy reported the same.

I could never figure out the algorithms behind a lot of these apps other than being a new user helps. I'd hate to put myself in a situation where I have to keep deleting accounts and starting a new one just so I can get some matches.
11-15-2018 10:33 PM
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I got banned from Bumble last week for asking a woman if she's a SIF. Fuck that app.
11-17-2018 02:59 PM
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Bumble is now available in the browser. You can use arrow keys to swipe. This is going to make it trivially easy to Game (PC users can now use Autohotkey to make a macro that will autoswipe).

Love it.

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What region are you in? Not available for me (USA).

I remember I was using Tinder web in South America and Europe months before it became available for USA users.
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11-17-2018 09:47 PM
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I live in the US but am in Canada for the weekend. Can anyone else confirm it's not working for them in the US?

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11-18-2018 02:15 PM
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I'm not seeing it either.
11-18-2018 08:40 PM
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Does Bumble tell you if you're banned? I haven't had a single match since a girl unmatched me after I flaked on our bang plans. I'm assuming she reported me or something.

This was a week ago. Not one single match or like since.

Does Bumble just straight up say you're banned or do they shadowban you and leave you to figure it out for yourself?
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When I get a match, what I'll usually do is chat on the app for a short amount of time, then toss out my # and say text me.

The way I see it, if they don't text, they never were serious to begin with. It's my first compliance test.

Naturally, about 50 percent of the leads die right then and there. But as I said if they aren't willing to make the transition off the app they were never serious to begin with.

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I get lots of matches and messages on Bumble but when I respond, they don't write back, but they also don't unmatch me. So now when I open the app I've got dozens of dead conversations just sitting there.

Anyone else have this issue? I guess I'm just getting lost in the shuffle or they like having lots of matches just sitting there to boost their egos.
11-29-2018 12:22 PM
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At this point, all dating apps are dead in my opinion. Girls simply don't take them seriously anymore.

The "dead conversation" phenomenon exists across every platform. Matches that never respond to a message, or on Bumble, conversations that never happen in the first place.

The heyday of apps like Tinder and Bumble is long over. They're just running on fumes now.
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I think you're right. I used to have a decent amount of success on.these apps, but it's gotten much, much harder over the last couple years.
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Almost every girl that responds to me has been an unattractive or busted girl that has been picked up by the autoswiper. Any reasonably attractive girl will either match and not open or just ghost whenever I open them. corsega's other posts in one of the Las Vegas threads has convinced me to go out in my city this weekend and try the night game again. Night game isn't my thing but it sure as hell offers more volume than any app or the few approaches I can do during the day time (mostly on weekends).
11-30-2018 06:15 AM
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(11-29-2018 12:36 PM)Scoundrel Wrote:  The "dead conversation" phenomenon exists across every platform.

Yep. I think women are expecting you to shock-and-awe them with text-game right out of the starting gate to cut through the noise.

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To just ease into obligatory introductions is enough to bore them into ghosting.
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(11-30-2018 03:50 PM)questor70 Wrote:  
(11-29-2018 12:36 PM)Scoundrel Wrote:  The "dead conversation" phenomenon exists across every platform.

Yep. I think women are expecting you to shock-and-awe them with text-game right out of the starting gate to cut through the noise.

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To just ease into obligatory introductions is enough to bore them into ghosting.


Whenever using any app or website, I have always felt that I was just a clown competing with other clowns to keep a girl's attention. In some places, my odds and results were better than in others but I always felt like I was just a clown. I think practicing daygame and just going outside without having my face in a screen is better for self esteem and general quality of life.
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^Online dating sites should always be a supplement to your overall game.

If you think you're a clown with online dating, you're doing it wrong.

Women need to think you're intriguing through your pictures and your description.

Keep your profile description short, sweet, and to the point.

It's all about the pictures, the profile is meaningless unless it's through Hinge or CMB. The answers on those pages need to jump out.

With the other profiles, the answers I provided merited more "likes" than my pictures.

Granted, I'll guess my pictures really sucked. Maybe would have gotten way more notches with better pictures.

Edit: COF was supposed to mean CMB (Coffee Meets Bagel or some shit).

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(11-29-2018 12:36 PM)Scoundrel Wrote:  At this point, all dating apps are dead in my opinion. Girls simply don't take them seriously anymore.

The "dead conversation" phenomenon exists across every platform. Matches that never respond to a message, or on Bumble, conversations that never happen in the first place.

The heyday of apps like Tinder and Bumble is long over. They're just running on fumes now.

Yeah. I did well on Tinder from 2013-15, though I noticed flaking had begun to be a problem in 2014. By 2016 it had become a waste of time. Unfortunately, getting a woman's number and texting with her produces almost as much flaking as matching on a dating app (in my experience). Day and nightgame instabangs are pretty much the only thing left.
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