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RE: Bumble! tinder but the girls message first
I totally get what you're saying. I'm 90% of the time very quick on the trigger in getting them out (asking for a number after 3-4 messages), but occasionally if I think the girl has high SMV - this particular one was a hard 7, seemed educated, and 15 years younger - I stall and run some comfort for a while before seeming too eager.

But yeah, this is a time sink.

What the fuck are girls doing voluntarily on a dating app and voluntarily messaging guys first if they have zero interest in leaving the house to meet anybody? Is it always all about validation and seeing what their SMV can potentially hook?
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(12-10-2018 10:48 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  My experience with Bumble in Warsaw this week:

Cutie matches with me.

Girl: Hey
Me: What's up?

<24-48 hours of exhausting witty banter>

Me: What's your number? Do you have WhatsApp? I'd like to ask you out for a drink.
Girl: No I don't have WhatsApp.
Me: So, where do we go from here then?

<Radio silence>

Post the screenshots of the conversations and we can see analyze what you might be doing wrong, if anything.

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12-10-2018 12:26 PM
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RE: Bumble! tinder but the girls message first
(12-10-2018 12:26 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 10:48 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  My experience with Bumble in Warsaw this week:

Cutie matches with me.

Girl: Hey
Me: What's up?

<24-48 hours of exhausting witty banter>

Me: What's your number? Do you have WhatsApp? I'd like to ask you out for a drink.
Girl: No I don't have WhatsApp.
Me: So, where do we go from here then?

<Radio silence>

Post the screenshots of the conversations and we can see analyze what you might be doing wrong, if anything.

Thanks but I was just venting. I have ordinarily no problem getting girls out on dates (have had 8 dates in 6 days in Warsaw so far, all from Tinder). My text game is pretty decent. It's just the experience I seem to have with Bumble this week.

I don't think I'm doing anything wrong necessarily, but have just run into silly timewaters.
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RE: Bumble! tinder but the girls message first
(12-10-2018 02:06 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 12:26 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 10:48 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  My experience with Bumble in Warsaw this week:

Cutie matches with me.

Girl: Hey
Me: What's up?

<24-48 hours of exhausting witty banter>

Me: What's your number? Do you have WhatsApp? I'd like to ask you out for a drink.
Girl: No I don't have WhatsApp.
Me: So, where do we go from here then?

<Radio silence>

Post the screenshots of the conversations and we can see analyze what you might be doing wrong, if anything.

Thanks but I was just venting. I have ordinarily no problem getting girls out on dates (have had 8 dates in 6 days in Warsaw so far, all from Tinder). My text game is pretty decent. It's just the experience I seem to have with Bumble this week.

I don't think I'm doing anything wrong necessarily, but have just run into silly timewaters.


Dates Dates Angel

8 dates seems like a lot, you should have like 5 dates and 3 zero date bangs from that sample size statistically speaking

Seriously you should be sniffing out DTF girls and inviting them over directly WhipWhipWhip
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RE: Bumble! tinder but the girls message first
(12-10-2018 03:11 PM)yang2287 Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 02:06 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 12:26 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 10:48 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  My experience with Bumble in Warsaw this week:

Cutie matches with me.

Girl: Hey
Me: What's up?

<24-48 hours of exhausting witty banter>

Me: What's your number? Do you have WhatsApp? I'd like to ask you out for a drink.
Girl: No I don't have WhatsApp.
Me: So, where do we go from here then?

<Radio silence>

Post the screenshots of the conversations and we can see analyze what you might be doing wrong, if anything.

Thanks but I was just venting. I have ordinarily no problem getting girls out on dates (have had 8 dates in 6 days in Warsaw so far, all from Tinder). My text game is pretty decent. It's just the experience I seem to have with Bumble this week.

I don't think I'm doing anything wrong necessarily, but have just run into silly timewaters.


Dates Dates Angel

8 dates seems like a lot, you should have like 5 dates and 3 zero date bangs from that sample size statistically speaking

Seriously you should be sniffing out DTF girls and inviting them over directly WhipWhipWhip

Girls are unlikely to come to your place directly in Poland, compared to many Western countries.

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12-10-2018 04:09 PM
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RE: Bumble! tinder but the girls message first
(12-10-2018 04:09 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 03:11 PM)yang2287 Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 02:06 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 12:26 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 10:48 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  My experience with Bumble in Warsaw this week:

Cutie matches with me.

Girl: Hey
Me: What's up?

<24-48 hours of exhausting witty banter>

Me: What's your number? Do you have WhatsApp? I'd like to ask you out for a drink.
Girl: No I don't have WhatsApp.
Me: So, where do we go from here then?

<Radio silence>

Post the screenshots of the conversations and we can see analyze what you might be doing wrong, if anything.

Thanks but I was just venting. I have ordinarily no problem getting girls out on dates (have had 8 dates in 6 days in Warsaw so far, all from Tinder). My text game is pretty decent. It's just the experience I seem to have with Bumble this week.

I don't think I'm doing anything wrong necessarily, but have just run into silly timewaters.


Dates Dates Angel

8 dates seems like a lot, you should have like 5 dates and 3 zero date bangs from that sample size statistically speaking

Seriously you should be sniffing out DTF girls and inviting them over directly WhipWhipWhip

Girls are unlikely to come to your place directly in Poland, compared to many Western countries.


This is where I suck.

I'm terrible at sniffing out DTF girls. Those I try to go ZDB on balk at the idea. It never works. I have a ton of dates to nowhere. I'm averaging 2 lays per 10 dates.

My game needs to be improved in this dept.
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RE: Bumble! tinder but the girls message first
(12-10-2018 05:29 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 04:09 PM)corsega Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 03:11 PM)yang2287 Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 02:06 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  
(12-10-2018 12:26 PM)corsega Wrote:  Post the screenshots of the conversations and we can see analyze what you might be doing wrong, if anything.

Thanks but I was just venting. I have ordinarily no problem getting girls out on dates (have had 8 dates in 6 days in Warsaw so far, all from Tinder). My text game is pretty decent. It's just the experience I seem to have with Bumble this week.

I don't think I'm doing anything wrong necessarily, but have just run into silly timewaters.


Dates Dates Angel

8 dates seems like a lot, you should have like 5 dates and 3 zero date bangs from that sample size statistically speaking

Seriously you should be sniffing out DTF girls and inviting them over directly WhipWhipWhip

Girls are unlikely to come to your place directly in Poland, compared to many Western countries.


This is where I suck.

I'm terrible at sniffing out DTF girls. Those I try to go ZDB on balk at the idea. It never works. I have a ton of dates to nowhere. I'm averaging 2 lays per 10 dates.

My game needs to be improved in this dept.

Could be the image and vibe you are giving off via your profile. You need to be the "cad", not the "dad". Alpha, fuckboy, socially dominant, call it whatever you want.

Happy to review your profile via PM and give you advice if you want.

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12-11-2018 02:33 AM
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RE: Bumble! tinder but the girls message first
Bumble is now offering lifetime Boost premium membership for a one off payment of £80.

I wonder if this is actually a closing down sale because Hinge seems to have overtaken it.

If Bumble did close down, the irony would be that it was due to female nature that it tried to empower into taking the active, less narcissistic role in the dating game.
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