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You got a lot to learn if you think chicks arent checking for you cause of your job, wallet and car.
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(01-06-2019 10:11 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  
(01-06-2019 09:09 AM)Moma Wrote:  
(01-06-2019 06:59 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  Negative or not,

the question remains:

Any UK brothers, especially Londoners, seen a negative effect on their game due to the Afro-driven crime spike?

I would talk about my own impressions over the last few months but I'll be called negative.

TDK

TDK, when has game been favourable for you in London?

Moma, fair point.

I've been living outside London since August but visit two weekends a week.

Where i'm at, I'm getting female attention and dates but to be honest I have a very important exam at the end of Feb that requires me to go ham. I'm very aware that without a good career, skills and income, society and women ( particularly non-black) wont even look in my direction. My approach is,"build it and they will come." You wont see me in the club chasing for tail. I chase excellence and money and see who makes it easy for me.

All i want to know is, has the UK game gotten harder- for the brothers - due to the crime spike in London.

This is a fair, reasonable, logical and pertinent question that has been prompted after a recent discussion I had with a Sri Lankan female. The bitch straight up said, " black guys are pathetic. They smash anything."

I haven't produced a truth bomb like Kirdiesel did with Germany because some brothers would kill themselves. Shout to that brother for breaking hearts, as he told the truth about another "black man's paradise." LOL.

TDK

This question has been poised by you on several posts. It is like you want the answer to be yes, like you are looking for some excuse.

I don't see the co-relation between crime and dating. Serial killers in prison still get married and love letters from loads of women wanting to know them.
So what do you have to complain about????

I will drop a truth bomb for you, London is game on easy mode. I see relationships there that I wouldn't see on this side of the pond.

London is a grind of a city, I would move back if it were not for the lifestyle and the standard of living. The social scene is very vibrant and there are loads of foreign women living there.

You seem to specialize in meeting foreign women, but you choose not to do anything with them. It is good that you have high morals, unfortunately most women don't have those same standards.

As for the Sri Lankan lady, well there may be some truth in what she said. A lot of brothas will screw anything, I am not one of them. So what she said wouldn't affect me, obviously you got hurt by what she said.

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(01-06-2019 10:11 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  
(01-06-2019 09:09 AM)Moma Wrote:  TDK, when has game been favourable for you in London?

Moma, fair point.

I've been living outside London since August but visit two weekends a week.

Where i'm at, I'm getting female attention and dates but to be honest I have a very important exam at the end of Feb that requires me to go ham. I'm very aware that without a good career, skills and income, society and women ( particularly non-black) wont even look in my direction. My approach is,"build it and they will come." You wont see me in the club chasing for tail. I chase excellence and money and see who makes it easy for me.

All i want to know is, has the UK game gotten harder- for the brothers - due to the crime spike in London.

This is a fair, reasonable, logical and pertinent question that has been prompted after a recent discussion I had with a Sri Lankan female. The bitch straight up said, " black guys are pathetic. They smash anything."

I haven't produced a truth bomb like Kirdiesel did with Germany because some brothers would kill themselves. Shout to that brother for breaking hearts, as he told the truth about another "black man's paradise." LOL.

TDK

In my opinion, black lizards are more critical of a black man's status than other groups. However, as Patrice O'Neal said, black lizards are tough initially but easier down the line whereas white lizards play it easy in the beginning and get tough once they're locked in. Also, remember that when it comes to relationships, you have to look at the levels that the lizards are on. Are you aiming for lizards on par to you, socially and intellectually? Just because they're non black, it doesn't mean that they automatically shoot to the highest tier afforded in society. Chavs exist in all shapes and of all hues.
You also quote Sri-Lankan and other Asian lizards a lot. I've not known Asian lizards to look particularly kindly on black men so I don't know why their words should hold so much weight in how they view black men. Even in my days, dating an Asian lizard wasn't a walk in the park. There was considerable resistance from their culture and that has been before the stabbings. It might be better to socialise a bit more in more diverse circles (and when I say diverse, I speak of different social tiers not just hues) before coming up with these conclusions.
Now, let's say they're true. Let's say all non black lizards think brothas ain't shyt. What is to be done now?

Your accounts are valid but I'm skeptical when people enter from the backend and state this and that is going on, I begin to wonder.

Regarding kirdiesel, I asked him who is getting all the 8s in Germany and he didn't even say the white Germans so then who is winning? These are things that one has to ask. We must remember that men also have hamster wheels; they are not exclusive to lizards.

You guys who say the lizards are tough, what do you do besides work that enables you to socialise with lizards? Do you go to any acting classes, improv nights, bowling tournaments, wine and paint? Or is it just work and Tinder?

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(01-06-2019 12:05 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I will drop a truth bomb for you, London is game on easy mode. I see relationships there that I wouldn't see on this side of the pond.

London is a grind of a city, I would move back if it were not for the lifestyle and the standard of living. The social scene is very vibrant and there are loads of foreign women living there.


Spot on. Not one of my guys complain about lizards in London. One of them rents a room and uses the bus for transport but has a slew of them coming through. What's he doing right?

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(01-06-2019 12:19 PM)Moma Wrote:  
(01-06-2019 12:05 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I will drop a truth bomb for you, London is game on easy mode. I see relationships there that I wouldn't see on this side of the pond.

London is a grind of a city, I would move back if it were not for the lifestyle and the standard of living. The social scene is very vibrant and there are loads of foreign women living there.


Spot on. Not one of my guys complain about lizards in London. One of them rents a room and uses the bus for transport but has a slew of them coming through. What's he doing right?

Most men I know in London are living in rooms or in shared living arrangements. If they have their own place, it is usually government housing and they feel they are beating the system.

One man I know has four kids from four different women, rare I know. He complains about the white man and the system keeping him down. I wonder if the same white man made him bust inside those white women.

Like you rightly said, they aren't pushing rides. Heck some of them work for London Transport, so they get free bus passes.

So a young single black male doctor, should be running rings around these cats. There is no need to cockblock married indian dudes.

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(01-06-2019 12:07 PM)Moma Wrote:  
(01-06-2019 10:11 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  
(01-06-2019 09:09 AM)Moma Wrote:  TDK, when has game been favourable for you in London?

Moma, fair point.

I've been living outside London since August but visit two weekends a week.

Where i'm at, I'm getting female attention and dates but to be honest I have a very important exam at the end of Feb that requires me to go ham. I'm very aware that without a good career, skills and income, society and women ( particularly non-black) wont even look in my direction. My approach is,"build it and they will come." You wont see me in the club chasing for tail. I chase excellence and money and see who makes it easy for me.

All i want to know is, has the UK game gotten harder- for the brothers - due to the crime spike in London.

This is a fair, reasonable, logical and pertinent question that has been prompted after a recent discussion I had with a Sri Lankan female. The bitch straight up said, " black guys are pathetic. They smash anything."

I haven't produced a truth bomb like Kirdiesel did with Germany because some brothers would kill themselves. Shout to that brother for breaking hearts, as he told the truth about another "black man's paradise." LOL.

TDK

In my opinion, black lizards are more critical of a black man's status than other groups. However, as Patrice O'Neal said, black lizards are tough initially but easier down the line whereas white lizards play it easy in the beginning and get tough once they're locked in. Also, remember that when it comes to relationships, you have to look at the levels that the lizards are on. Are you aiming for lizards on par to you, socially and intellectually? Just because they're non black, it doesn't mean that they automatically shoot to the highest tier afforded in society. Chavs exist in all shapes and of all hues.
You also quote Sri-Lankan and other Asian lizards a lot. I've not known Asian lizards to look particularly kindly on black men so I don't know why their words should hold so much weight in how they view black men. Even in my days, dating an Asian lizard wasn't a walk in the park. There was considerable resistance from their culture and that has been before the stabbings. It might be better to socialise a bit more in more diverse circles (and when I say diverse, I speak of different social tiers not just hues) before coming up with these conclusions.
Now, let's say they're true. Let's say all non black lizards think brothas ain't shyt. What is to be done now?

Your accounts are valid but I'm skeptical when people enter from the backend and state this and that is going on, I begin to wonder.

Regarding kirdiesel, I asked him who is getting all the 8s in Germany and he didn't even say the white Germans so then who is winning? These are things that one has to ask. We must remember that men also have hamster wheels; they are not exclusive to lizards.

You guys who say the lizards are tough, what do you do besides work that enables you to socialise with lizards? Do you go to any acting classes, improv nights, bowling tournaments, wine and paint? Or is it just work and Tinder?

1st bolded part. I respectfully disagree. I maintain that a non-hood, non black chick will only be seen with an upper status black dude .

2nd Bolded part. To be honest, my social circle is heavily black male dominated. It just seems that brown chicks have the lowest filter and say the most blatant anti black male shit. To be honest with you, I pretty much avoid any interactions with white, middle class chicks - and have done for years- because they are extremely xenophobic/arrogant. And obviously, I need to transfer that mentality over to Asians, as well, which i have, at least for the men.

That's why i agree with some black you tubers. Black men pretty much have to self-segregate to avoid being drowned under the hate/negativity.

3rd bolded part. You're right. I'm actually going to attend a local black church this Thursday evening. I've suspended my life to get this exam out of the way. However, once that's done, Ill plough full steam ahead towards expanding social circle.

I appreciate your response by the way, Moma.

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(01-06-2019 01:21 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  
(01-06-2019 12:19 PM)Moma Wrote:  
(01-06-2019 12:05 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  I will drop a truth bomb for you, London is game on easy mode. I see relationships there that I wouldn't see on this side of the pond.

London is a grind of a city, I would move back if it were not for the lifestyle and the standard of living. The social scene is very vibrant and there are loads of foreign women living there.


Spot on. Not one of my guys complain about lizards in London. One of them rents a room and uses the bus for transport but has a slew of them coming through. What's he doing right?

Most men I know in London are living in rooms or in shared living arrangements. If they have their own place, it is usually government housing and they feel they are beating the system.

One man I know has four kids from four different women, rare I know. He complains about the white man and the system keeping him down. I wonder if the same white man made him bust inside those white women.

Like you rightly said, they aren't pushing rides. Heck some of them work for London Transport, so they get free bus passes.

So a young single black male doctor, should be running rings around these cats. There is no need to cockblock married indian dudes.

Lol. Bolded part is looooooool worthy.I agree.

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Some of you guys need to get out more and simply OBSERVE.

Every single day I see Black Men walking the streets with White Women.

Short Black guys with taller White girls

Ugly Black guys with attractive white girls

Dark skin Black guys with Blonde girls


Broke looking Black guys with rich looking White girls

You do NOT need to be high status as a Black Man to get attractive women.


Walk around and all of your preconceived beliefs about the world will be challenged.
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(01-06-2019 02:52 PM)Iso Wrote:  Some of you guys need to get out more and simply OBSERVE.

Every single day I see Black Men walking the streets with White Women.

Short Black guys with taller White girls

Ugly Black guys with attractive white girls

Dark skin Black guys with Blonde girls


Broke looking Black guys with rich looking White girls

You do NOT need to be high status as a Black Man to get attractive women.


Walk around and all of your preconceived beliefs about the world will be challenged.

I spent some time during the holidays in Atlanta and can confirm this as well. In Buckhead, I was surprised the number of brothas out with attractive women of all races. Atlanta of course is known for a lot of things, attractive black women being one of them. Visiting a friend (he's 40, in shape and has decent fashion sense) who has lived there since the recession of 2008, he shared since his career rebounded a couple years ago, so has his game. He has two plates in their mid 20s, both white, that are solid 7s on most scales, and know about each other to an extent. He's not high status by any stretch, but if you were, one would assume you could do very well in that city.
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(01-06-2019 02:52 PM)Iso Wrote:  Some of you guys need to get out more and simply OBSERVE.

Every single day I see Black Men walking the streets with White Women.

Short Black guys with taller White girls

Ugly Black guys with attractive white girls

Dark skin Black guys with Blonde girls


Broke looking Black guys with rich looking White girls

You do NOT need to be high status as a Black Man to get attractive women.


Walk around and all of your preconceived beliefs about the world will be challenged.

I agree with Iso. You dont necessarily need a lot of money or a high status job to get women. I think a lot of guys confuse High Value and High Status. These terms are not synonymous.

Ex High Status = Famous Doctor or Lawyer, powerful investment banker etc. These are men that financially secure. They are respected among their peers. They provide financial stability and respectability.

Ex High Value = Confident and dominant male. Dresses like a fashion model. He has passionate about what he does to make money as well as his recreational pursuits. He has a wide social circle full of other High Value men and women. Through his social circle he is kept informed and up to date on the coolest new restaurants hang out spots. When he travels he goes to, not so well known destinations and has rare and unique experiences.

You can be High Value without a lot of money and status. I am sure you guys have seen beautiful women with starving artists, or surfers, or broke travelers. Or with guys that did not have their shit together financially.

ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE.

Women are more attracted to behavioral qualities and traits than they are to money and status.

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Hey guys, not to derail the interesting discussions, but I plan on taking a weekend trip to Brooklyn NY next week to site see. Do any of you know places to meet women during the day and any evening/night venues to meet women. I will be in the Williamsburg area.
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Deleted these damn dating apps for the New Year. That shit was addictive, unproductive, and could be artificially dispiriting to ones own value. Giving bishes who couldn't hold a candle to me personally, professionally, and financially the ability to judge me like she's remotely commensurable with me. I know RudeBwoy has opined several times that dating apps are no friend to high-value black man and despite all the easy (low quality) ass it's brought, I wholeheartedly agree
That said, admittedly, I used it as a crutch, convinced myself that I was "too busy" to get out an socialize and it helped me meet chicks I wouldn't otherwise meet. I know it's been said before, but high value women just aren't using these apps and those are the chicks I'm after. Of course, I got a nice pipeline to hold me over while I rebuild, but I can't tell you how freeing it feels not having to check my "traps" all damn day.

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(01-06-2019 07:37 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  Deleted these damn dating apps for the New Year. That shit was addictive, unproductive, and could be artificially dispiriting to ones own value. Giving bishes who couldn't hold a candle to me personally, professionally, and financially the ability to judge me like she's remotely commensurable with me. I know RudeBwoy has opined several times that dating apps are no friend to high-value black man and despite all the easy (low quality) ass it's brought, I wholeheartedly agree
That said, admittedly, I used it as a crutch, convinced myself that I was "too busy" to get out an socialize and it helped me meet chicks I wouldn't otherwise meet. I know it's been said before, but high value women just aren't using these apps and those are the chicks I'm after. Of course, I got a nice pipeline to hold me over while I rebuild, but I can't tell you how freeing it feels not having to check my "traps" all damn day.

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How do you guys become non reactive? I tend to wear my emotions on my sleeve so I get pissed off pretty easily. Which is something I’m trying to work on.
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(01-06-2019 07:37 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  Deleted these damn dating apps for the New Year. That shit was addictive, unproductive, and could be artificially dispiriting to ones own value. Giving bishes who couldn't hold a candle to me personally, professionally, and financially the ability to judge me like she's remotely commensurable with me. I know RudeBwoy has opined several times that dating apps are no friend to high-value black man and despite all the easy (low quality) ass it's brought, I wholeheartedly agree
That said, admittedly, I used it as a crutch, convinced myself that I was "too busy" to get out an socialize and it helped me meet chicks I wouldn't otherwise meet. I know it's been said before, but high value women just aren't using these apps and those are the chicks I'm after. Of course, I got a nice pipeline to hold me over while I rebuild, but I can't tell you how freeing it feels not having to check my "traps" all damn day.

Yo I had that same revelation. man used to get off his ass and go out if he wanted to talk to a girl. Instead I'm here taking a shit and wondering why she didn't match with me? Something had to change

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DB, best decision for your game youll make this year.

Actually going out and talking to girls gets you way better returns on your time. Both quality and quantity. Dont @ me.

For the guy looking at NYC, though I never did Brooklyn much, Gold Bar is my favorite club in the city (go early and ask for Owen). For day time work any of the big parks in Brooklyn will get you enough to work with.


On another note, how do you all go about meeting movers and shakers in your scene? Im talking owners, managers, or well-connected night life individuals.
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(01-06-2019 06:11 PM)Sex Machine Wrote:  Hey guys, not to derail the interesting discussions, but I plan on taking a weekend trip to Brooklyn NY next week to site see. Do any of you know places to meet women during the day and any evening/night venues to meet women. I will be in the Williamsburg area.
Much appreciated

NYC is both big and small.

Pretty much all of lower Manhattan (below 14th) has walking traffic, Brooklyn less so. (people live in Williamsburg, but the work in Manhattan)

Your real problem with day game is going to be the weather.

As for venues - something is always hitting. Whatever music you like, I'd google for that.

Fire up your Tinder and get to swiping.

You may need a story if she asks you how long you're gonna stay. Some chicks just don't want to bang tourists.

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(01-07-2019 02:26 AM)ballsyamog Wrote:  How do you guys become non reactive? I tend to wear my emotions on my sleeve so I get pissed off pretty easily. Which is something I’m trying to work on.

1) Exposure. That's the only way. And even then the chick will react to your reaction. Remember her super power is detecting minute changes in body language.

After exposure, you need a better idea of what happens when you show emotion.

If she does some stuff, and you start to feel some type of way, and you know that's gonna trigger her to react - that's a weapon. Anytime you can predict how something's gonna go emotionally, you can use that to your advantage.

2) Value system - Guys only worry about showing emotion, because showing emotion is what might push an individual girl away. He basically values the chick's presence too much.

Your sanity and emotional well being is more important. The second you're willing to let a girl twist in the wind, - like I'm mad and I don't care if you leave - the less power she has over you.

Patrice O'Neal said it best - Men fear what a woman might do, that's her power.

Take her power away.

WIA

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01-07-2019 01:43 PM
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@BC Thanks for the input.

I was under the impression that it’s better to show emotion. I have found that when I wear my emotions on my sleeve — or rather, when I show my emotions with my face, and in my voice — that girls react to that.

I tend to make more outlandish statements that aren’t really logical. Then girls pick up on that state and mirror me.

If I am having an argument with a chick, I will call her out on some absolute bullshit.

We are lounging at her crib, she is wearing her PJs, I’ll say something like “where did you get these dusty pajamas, did you steal them from a homeless shelter? you’re such a bad girl omg stealing from the homeless, that’s just wrong”. Her PJs are actually fine, I’m just finding something that I know will get her to react. When I comment on her clothing, I make a look of disgust, and I look at her in the eye, like yeah girl, I am talking to YOU.

That comment will get her defensive, riled up, etc...and then i’ll switch up real quick to a story about how i fed a homeless guy once, and then i get her to tell me about a memory of hers when she was a kid and she’ll tell me about a time she felt very grateful.

So I wear my emotions on my sleeve...but I do it for the express purpose of triggering a predictable response in the girl...leading her on an emotional journey.

I mostly do this because my regular speech is rather flat. I find that it’s better to have ups and downs, emotionally and conversationally. keeps her guessing.
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Good looking out Archie and Caesar,
I was not getting any matches on tinder about a two years ago so I quit. I was not making a huge effort on it though, haven't been back since. I will try out Black Caesar's venue suggestion and hit up a couple of spots in lower eastside. As for day game, I will check out the museums and art galleries and meet women while I do so, since they are indoors.
01-07-2019 03:22 PM
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Thinking about how to take instagram pictures to the next level.

Essentially with instagram you are marketing a product (yourself). On a deeper level you are selling an emotion.

I think most focus on the wrong layer. When you look at standard advice for what is a good picture you get;

Good lighting
Looks/style max
Professional photographer
Hot girls/group of guy friends
Big baller stuff

When you watch an advertisment for coca cola, the actual product (cola itself) might not even be seen. It makes me wonder why we only focus on our physical product.

Maybe we should be focused on the deeper layer that conveys things like;
Happiness, adventure, exclusivity, trust, desirability, larger than life/fantasy level, freedom, at peace, and so on.

Granted hot girls, good style, muscles, rock climbing, etc can all convey those things. But it doesnt feel like it gets to the heart of the matter.

I don't have any real answers yet. Thinking out loud.

The only thought I have so far is appearing in front of well known tourist landmarks to absorb;

- Trust - similar to the "as seen on MSNBC, GQ, Fox" companies use to build trust)

- Familiarity - if she knows the location she will feel like she knows you. Shared experience. Possible opener for her.

- Desire - she wants to go, maybe youll take her someday. Possible opener for her.

I also think about things like selfie to non selfie ratio (James Franco use to do 1:1 and said that worked for him.) If you should even have other people in your pictures. (I hate accounts where its all group photos)
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(01-07-2019 01:43 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  
(01-07-2019 02:26 AM)ballsyamog Wrote:  How do you guys become non reactive? I tend to wear my emotions on my sleeve so I get pissed off pretty easily. Which is something I’m trying to work on.

1) Exposure. That's the only way. And even then the chick will react to your reaction. Remember her super power is detecting minute changes in body language.

After exposure, you need a better idea of what happens when you show emotion.

If she does some stuff, and you start to feel some type of way, and you know that's gonna trigger her to react - that's a weapon. Anytime you can predict how something's gonna go emotionally, you can use that to your advantage.

2) Value system - Guys only worry about showing emotion, because showing emotion is what might push an individual girl away. He basically values the chick's presence too much.

Your sanity and emotional well being is more important. The second you're willing to let a girl twist in the wind, - like I'm mad and I don't care if you leave - the less power she has over you.

Patrice O'Neal said it best - Men fear what a woman might do, that's her power.

Take her power away.

WIA

WIA thanks for the insight. I hadnt really thought about it that way.
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(01-07-2019 02:26 AM)ballsyamog Wrote:  How do you guys become non reactive? I tend to wear my emotions on my sleeve so I get pissed off pretty easily. Which is something I’m trying to work on.

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I don't remember where I heard it but you treat women like a like 14 year old girl/kid sister/child. Part of my work is coaching kids and the behavior is so similar to that of grown women. Anything that comes out of an adult woman's mouth pretend she's a teenager and act accordingly.

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