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RE: Alpha skinny guy
Now... now let's calm down guys. I recall a certain young grasshopper named Little Dark who we doubted and prematurely ejected. Maybe OP will reiterate that this thread is not about being a skinny Alpha but something more profound.
03-02-2015 03:02 PM
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RE: Alpha skinny guy
(03-02-2015 03:02 PM)Pontifex Maximus Wrote:  Now... now let's calm down guys. I recall a certain young grasshopper named Little Dark who we doubted and prematurely ejected. Maybe OP will reiterate that this thread is not about being a skinny Alpha but something more profound.

30 skinny alphas?

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RE: Alpha skinny guy
(03-02-2015 03:25 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  
(03-02-2015 03:02 PM)Pontifex Maximus Wrote:  Now... now let's calm down guys. I recall a certain young grasshopper named Little Dark who we doubted and prematurely ejected. Maybe OP will reiterate that this thread is not about being a skinny Alpha but something more profound.

30 skinny alphas?

30 skinny alphas and one cheeky bitch.

Take care of those titties for me.
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RE: Alpha skinny guy
Assuming by 'alpha' you mean 'socially dominant', yes I've seen tall skinny guys like this. Muscularity helps, but you see many muscular guys who are clearly insecure inside. Anyone can play the game of social influence, you just have to be assertive and savvy. In general, the dominant men I've seen are in that position because of their mouths (and non-verbal communication), not their muscles.
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RE: Alpha skinny guy
i've known alphas who were 5'3", others who were tall and skinny, and one of the best bar/street fighters I ever saw was 5'7" with an average build.

Stop worrying about what you can't control and get working on improving what you can.
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RE: Alpha skinny guy
(03-02-2015 02:10 PM)LINUX Wrote:  He's not a troll. Read his post. I gather that he is a 35 year old, skinny, IT computer guy with no friends and no luck with women and he feels alone.

I think he honestly wants some help and guidance from people more experienced than him on this forum. I admire people who ask for help.

Vorenus, If you can stand your ground alone in this world without worrying what anyone else thinks, not wanting to follow people, not wanting to lead, but doing your own thing under your own terms. Life has endless possibilities. If you will pm me your mailing address before I leave the country, I'll send you a video that will change your life. No PUA bullshit either. It's straight up about how to be a man.

Thanks, im not a troll , i just want to improve myself. thats it. I dont understand why there are some posts so agressive to what i have asked. Anyway my problem is that i lack empathy with people, i see them as too basic or too false , and honestly i know that its creating me problems. Bluntly im not a social person, im just too picky, have a very small set of friends 4-5 maybe. I'm a computer geek, but im not shy, the problem is that i really dont care being social. I know that is bad, but its really hard to pretend to be another person at least for myself...
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RE: Alpha skinny guy
(03-03-2015 08:52 AM)vorenus Wrote:  
(03-02-2015 02:10 PM)LINUX Wrote:  He's not a troll. Read his post. I gather that he is a 35 year old, skinny, IT computer guy with no friends and no luck with women and he feels alone.

I think he honestly wants some help and guidance from people more experienced than him on this forum. I admire people who ask for help.

Vorenus, If you can stand your ground alone in this world without worrying what anyone else thinks, not wanting to follow people, not wanting to lead, but doing your own thing under your own terms. Life has endless possibilities. If you will pm me your mailing address before I leave the country, I'll send you a video that will change your life. No PUA bullshit either. It's straight up about how to be a man.

Thanks, im not a troll , i just want to improve myself. thats it. I dont understand why there are some posts so agressive to what i have asked. Anyway my problem is that i lack empathy with people, i see them as too basic or too false , and honestly i know that its creating me problems. Bluntly im not a social person, im just too picky, have a very small set of friends 4-5 maybe. I'm a computer geek, but im not shy, the problem is that i really dont care being social. I know that is bad, but its really hard to pretend to be another person at least for myself...

Sound a lot like myself. And it isn't bad, it means you seek authentic experiences and individuals.

Do you have any interests, passions, or curiosities outside of computers?
This thread would be better served in the game forum.

Shalom Alechem!
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RE: Alpha skinny guy
(03-03-2015 09:12 AM)The Beast1 Wrote:  
(03-03-2015 08:52 AM)vorenus Wrote:  
(03-02-2015 02:10 PM)LINUX Wrote:  He's not a troll. Read his post. I gather that he is a 35 year old, skinny, IT computer guy with no friends and no luck with women and he feels alone.

I think he honestly wants some help and guidance from people more experienced than him on this forum. I admire people who ask for help.

Vorenus, If you can stand your ground alone in this world without worrying what anyone else thinks, not wanting to follow people, not wanting to lead, but doing your own thing under your own terms. Life has endless possibilities. If you will pm me your mailing address before I leave the country, I'll send you a video that will change your life. No PUA bullshit either. It's straight up about how to be a man.

Thanks, im not a troll , i just want to improve myself. thats it. I dont understand why there are some posts so agressive to what i have asked. Anyway my problem is that i lack empathy with people, i see them as too basic or too false , and honestly i know that its creating me problems. Bluntly im not a social person, im just too picky, have a very small set of friends 4-5 maybe. I'm a computer geek, but im not shy, the problem is that i really dont care being social. I know that is bad, but its really hard to pretend to be another person at least for myself...

Sound a lot like myself. And it isn't bad, it means you seek authentic experiences and .

Do you have any interests, passions, or curiosities outside of computers?
This thread would be better served in the game forum.

sure i like sports, music, science, history, movies, videogames, etc
Its just that too many "normal" social interactions, like clubbing or pub crawls deplete me energy wise. I'm not that fond of them...
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03-03-2015 09:32 AM
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RE: Alpha skinny guy
(03-03-2015 09:32 AM)vorenus Wrote:  
(03-03-2015 09:12 AM)The Beast1 Wrote:  
(03-03-2015 08:52 AM)vorenus Wrote:  
(03-02-2015 02:10 PM)LINUX Wrote:  He's not a troll. Read his post. I gather that he is a 35 year old, skinny, IT computer guy with no friends and no luck with women and he feels alone.

I think he honestly wants some help and guidance from people more experienced than him on this forum. I admire people who ask for help.

Vorenus, If you can stand your ground alone in this world without worrying what anyone else thinks, not wanting to follow people, not wanting to lead, but doing your own thing under your own terms. Life has endless possibilities. If you will pm me your mailing address before I leave the country, I'll send you a video that will change your life. No PUA bullshit either. It's straight up about how to be a man.

Thanks, im not a troll , i just want to improve myself. thats it. I dont understand why there are some posts so agressive to what i have asked. Anyway my problem is that i lack empathy with people, i see them as too basic or too false , and honestly i know that its creating me problems. Bluntly im not a social person, im just too picky, have a very small set of friends 4-5 maybe. I'm a computer geek, but im not shy, the problem is that i really dont care being social. I know that is bad, but its really hard to pretend to be another person at least for myself...

Sound a lot like myself. And it isn't bad, it means you seek authentic experiences and .

Do you have any interests, passions, or curiosities outside of computers?
This thread would be better served in the game forum.

sure i like sports, music, science, history, movies, videogames, etc
Its just that too many "normal" social interactions, like clubbing or pub crawls deplete me energy wise. I'm not that fond of them...

So do what I do and don't go clubbing or to pubs Smile Meeting people isn't exclusively limited to bar and nightlife venues (contrary to where most gents on this forum go). I don't have the patience for bars and clubs anymore.

Instead, why don't you find clubs or groups that have similar interests as yourself. For me, I joined a church and hit the gym regularly. I meet people between both venues.

On valentines day there was a children's museum "grown up" night. All with a DJ and cash bars. Lots of girls showed up hilariously.

I also really enjoy classical music and museums. In my town, I can go to a "young professionals" group that meets at a private lounge after the concert. There are also First Friday events at the Museum of Art where you can grab a drink, listen to live music, and look at art.

Mind you, all of these are one off commitments that at best last 2-3 hours tops. As an introvert you should have a well of energy that should last that long at the bare minimum. If the people you are interacting with drain you, find others and move on. Good friends shouldn't exhaust you.

The trick is breaking out of the routine you've set up. Meeting and talking to people should first and foremost be fun. Knock notions of "getting the bang" until your comfortable just holding casual conversations. Once you get this far, check out some of the forum literature from Roosh.

Shalom Alechem!
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RE: Alpha skinny guy
Don't take it personally OP.

It's just a basic topic of the 'sphere that has been covered broadly. Check out some of the soures I mentioned above. Sometimes guys make fun of something because it is funny to men well-versed in the Red Pill, but outside you simply don't know. Usually here it's only done in friendly jesting and some harmless trash-talk.
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Yes OP, it is possible. Now what?
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RE: Alpha skinny guy
Mystery is the obvious person

Brad P...You can find his stuff online. I just googled and only found one pic of him, but I've met him, and whatever you see, he's even more tall-skinny-dorky looking in real life. Think Mystery only bigger nose and dorkier looking...and the guy can clean up.

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I'll admit I get overly cautious and somewhat dickish on the first of the month given the troll infestation on that particular day. Dodgy

Maybe I need to ease up these days.

Welcome to the forum OP.

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(03-03-2015 06:22 PM)Cobra Wrote:  I'll admit I get overly cautious and somewhat dickish on the first of the month given the troll infestation on that particular day. Dodgy

Maybe I need to ease up these days.

Welcome to the forum OP.

When I first joined, I got mocked a bit. It took me some time to get into the jive of how things work here.

Nothing wrong with a little vetting. It brings out the real trolls.

Welcome to the forum vorenus.
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(03-03-2015 06:35 PM)The Beast1 Wrote:  
(03-03-2015 06:22 PM)Cobra Wrote:  I'll admit I get overly cautious and somewhat dickish on the first of the month given the troll infestation on that particular day. Dodgy

Maybe I need to ease up these days.

Welcome to the forum OP.

When I first joined, I got mocked a bit. It took me some time to get into the jive of how things work here.

Nothing wrong with a little vetting. It brings out the real trolls.

Welcome to the forum vorenus.

Thanks guys!
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RE: Alpha skinny guy
Vorenus, since you're not a troll and want to learn I will add my two cents.

Getting to know the forum culture is important for getting something out of it. It rubs many people the wrong way when a new person shows up and asks questions that could have been easily answered by first reading instead of requesting. Not hating on you, just something that's good to know.

Can you be an 'alpha male' when you're skinny?

Being a man means knowing what you want and having both the knowledge and balls to pursue it. This includes girls and everything else in life. That's why this forum covers sexual relationships, business, traveling, physical fitness and intellectual development.

You can get girls when you're skinny, and it's easier when you're more physically imposing.
You can get girls when you're broke, and it's easier when you have some cash to play with.
You can get girls when you're unkempt, and it's easier when you dress well and have more than basic hygiene.

Many factors are at play and they're all pieces to your puzzle. The bigger the puzzle, they easier it gets to get girls and the quality of your romantic partners will increase accordingly. And while you can compensate for things you lack with other redeeming qualities (like girls can offset small tits with great fellatio or well-cooked steaks) you make it harder for yourself by neglecting those aspects.

But the basis of game, and where it all started, is having the right mindset (i.e. Inner Game) and the verbal and non-verbal communication it enables (i.e. Outer Game). Having game comes from having a confident attitude and developing your masculine identity. When that basis is present you can look at other aspects to integrate, as seen on this forum. Yes, classical game can move mountains but lifestyle is important.

Game was a reaction to the mainstream idea that men needed money, looks and status to appeal to women. Instead, some pussy pioneers discovered that you could outcompete rich, successful men by engaging women's emotions through story-telling, status-signaling and pushing the buttons of their wonderfully primitive instincts.

Can you be alpha when you're skinny? That question is answered by the numerous skinny guys with hot girls vying for their attention, and the vast amount of absolutely ripped guys that leave the bar each night with their dick in their hands. Rich guys, successful doctors, lawyers and bankers that have no idea how to flirt and sexualize, that view women as prizes they have to win over.

But once you have the right alpha mindset, maximizing your looks, physique, social connectivity and career (i.e. Passive Game) is the key to increasing your success with women and in life.

P.S. Welcome to the forum.
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RE: Alpha skinny guy
(03-04-2015 10:06 AM)sixsix Wrote:  Vorenus, since you're not a troll and want to learn I will add my two cents.

Getting to know the forum culture is important for getting something out of it. It rubs many people the wrong way when a new person shows up and asks questions that could have been easily answered by first reading instead of requesting. Not hating on you, just something that's good to know.

Can you be an 'alpha male' when you're skinny?

Being a man means knowing what you want and having both the knowledge and balls to pursue it. This includes girls and everything else in life. That's why this forum covers sexual relationships, business, traveling, physical fitness and intellectual development.

You can get girls when you're skinny, and it's easier when you're more physically imposing.
You can get girls when you're broke, and it's easier when you have some cash to play with.
You can get girls when you're unkempt, and it's easier when you dress well and have more than basic hygiene.

Many factors are at play and they're all pieces to your puzzle. The bigger the puzzle, they easier it gets to get girls and the quality of your romantic partners will increase accordingly. And while you can compensate for things you lack with other redeeming qualities (like girls can offset small tits with great fellatio or well-cooked steaks) you make it harder for yourself by neglecting those aspects.

But the basis of game, and where it all started, is having the right mindset (i.e. Inner Game) and the verbal and non-verbal communication it enables (i.e. Outer Game). Having game comes from having a confident attitude and developing your masculine identity. When that basis is present you can look at other aspects to integrate, as seen on this forum. Yes, classical game can move mountains but lifestyle is important.

Game was a reaction to the mainstream idea that men needed money, looks and status to appeal to women. Instead, some pussy pioneers discovered that you could outcompete rich, successful men by engaging women's emotions through story-telling, status-signaling and pushing the buttons of their wonderfully primitive instincts.

Can you be alpha when you're skinny? That question is answered by the numerous skinny guys with hot girls vying for their attention, and the vast amount of absolutely ripped guys that leave the bar each night with their dick in their hands. Rich guys, successful doctors, lawyers and bankers that have no idea how to flirt and sexualize, that view women as prizes they have to win over.

But once you have the right alpha mindset, maximizing your looks, physique, social connectivity and career (i.e. Passive Game) is the key to increasing your success with women and in life.

P.S. Welcome to the forum.

Amazing answer, thank you!
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