Post: #1

This story has it all. I couldn't resist making a thread on this one.

You have:

* Beautiful ex-Playboy Playmate (Cassandra Lynn)

* Mentally unstable, drug-using, cheating bitch who uses beta as a provider then cuckolds him for years.

* She dumps her kids on him, abandons him, and then vanishes

* She ends up either dying of a drug overdose, or a pseudo-suicide, take your pick.

* Beta provider gets stuck taking care of some other guy's kids, which he rationalizes as "oh well, that's just how it goes."

* Media makes HER the victim, and how she had a tough life.

Here is the story:

http://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/this-li...id=UP97DHP

Basically, what happened was this:

Beta gets hooked up with ex-Playboy Playmate, who already had 2 kids with some broke loser who never supported them. The standard story.

He was working his ass off to try to form a company. He began dating her. She claimed to "love" him. But of course!

We here at RVF know exactly what was happening here: fading, soon-to-be-hitting-the-wall, unstable party girl is trolling for a beta provider now that her carousel days are drawing to a close.

He works his ass off to take care of her kids and her. Then one day he learns that she has just taken off on him. Abandoned.

Then he finds out that she died from drug use. And to make it even worse, she had been banging another guy for years, behind his back.

But what makes this story even more pathetic is how the media hack who wrote this article tries to spin it as a human-interest story. She's the victim.

They make her into this tragic, well-meaning figure. And at the end of the day, the beta is stuck with two kids, no wife, and the knowledge that he was used and discarded.

Life in the big city...

Yet another example of how ignorance of game can be a life-ending proposition.

And now for the gratuitous photos:

   

   

   

This little story just about sums up all of what we talk about here. This story is the cautionary-tale-to-end-all-manosphere-cautionary-tales.

Don't be seduced by looks. Beneath that beauty can lurk the soul of a monster. This guy was set up from Day 1.

Post: #2

Yeah but those tits.



Some guys just get stricken by a pair of tits, a nice pussy, a bubble butt, and any sense of self-awareness or self-preservation goes immediately out the window. I'll admit I've been there.

Post: #3

Some thought.

He should have run like hell when she told him at the outset she was molested.

No way she was only banging one other guy; I bet there were many.

She was clearly using him as her Beta Bux Chump and in his heart he knows it because he's noted in the article as wondering if she ever loved him.

Notice she did not have a child with him, but used him to provide for the children she had with some loser Alpha.

This guy's parents had military careers and were very religious, both lifestyles are very prone to traditionalist thinking and no doubt he was imbued with a White Knight mentality from childhood.

Sounds like she was pregnant when he met her and he took on the baby as soon as it shot out. Unreal.

Had she gotten pregnant by a lover, no doubt she would have told him it was his. Cuckold City.

This story plays out like some manosphere script for a nightmare.

Post: #4

Well at least she killed herself

Post: #5

Another Forum member just told me that she probably died of an overdose, rather than a suicide. This may be true, but I suspect that a lot of these OD deaths are just weak-kneed versions of suicides.

It's like drinking oneself to death...it often amounts to the same thing.

And of course we all know that every chick in the US has been "molested."

It just comes with the female hamster playbook.

Just think of this reality. Beta-warrior is working his ass off, making her kids lasagna and reading them bedtime stories, while she's out partying and having alpha-criminal badboys cum on her tits.

Ah, the horror...

Post: #6

WB yes, would not wife up.

Post: #7

In the afterlife

Post: #8

Like Ace said: "They always choose the serpent."

Post: #9

Victor Pride's article on how to pick the right wife comes to mind here.

Quote:In the animal kingdom when a Lion takes over a pride he kills the cubs of other Lions.

Raising someone else’s child is cuckoldry with your full knowledge and consent.

If you raise someone else’s child you will be taking care of another man’s seedling and there will always be another man in the picture.

Be selfish and keep your wife and children to yourself. They should be yours and only yours. Don’t settle for another man’s leavings and sloppy seconds.

Here is what women with children do: They have unprotected sex with a stud, get knocked up, and look for a sucker to raise the bastard.

or..

She has already been married, had children, and then divorced the father and left.

In each case the woman is unfit for marriage.

The fact that this woman had kids was a massive red flag. Now he's stuck paying his money for someone else's kids and even if she were alive there'd still be no consequences for her.

It's hard for me to feel sympathy for guys like this. Men should know full well by now how raw this sort of a deal is, and white knighting like this only makes things harder for the rest of us.

Post: #10

(03-12-2015 09:47 PM)Veloce Wrote:  

GIF of the day right here!

Post: #11

I'm going to flip the table on this a bit. I have 2 friends who wanted to be with woman who had children. Both these guys are unable to have children and want to raise children / a family. In this case both of these guys don't have the option of fixing their sperm or any sort of medical treatment.

I really don't find my 2 friends being stupid. They are doing something they want to do, they aren't doing it due to a lack of available woman without kids, they chose these woman.

Would I do it, no. But for some guys based on what they want out of their lives it makes sense.

Post: #12

(03-12-2015 10:50 PM)lavidaloca Wrote:  I'm going to flip the table on this a bit. I have 2 friends who wanted to be with woman who had children. Both these guys are unable to have children and want to raise children / a family. In this case both of these guys don't have the option of fixing their sperm or any sort of medical treatment.

I really don't find my 2 friends being stupid. They are doing something they want to do, they aren't doing it due to a lack of available woman without kids, they chose these woman.

Would I do it, no. But for some guys based on what they want out of their lives it makes sense.

I didn't know it when I married a single mother, but I'm not able to have children, due to sperm problems. I wanted children, and after a few years, it was obvious I wasn't producing any kids. I considered myself lucky that I had adopted my wife's son, and thereby had a child.

I raised him starting from age 4. I did my best, but when he became a teenager, he became rebellious, and got into drugs. He's been in and out of jail for years, and is in jail right now.

My wife's mother had her and her sisters by one man, divorced him, and married another man who adopted and raised them, same as she did with me. (Her grandmother did the exact same thing as well). I later found that every descendent and most relatives of her biological father have had problems with spending time in jail. Basically my (adopted) son had this in his temperament, and it was going to come out no matter what I did.

My recommendation is that men who can't father children should think long and hard about taking on any other kids, and should carefully evaluate the genetic heritage his potential adopted children carry.

Having been there, I'd say it's better to remain childless and sock away money for advanced IVF techniques, rather than taking on another man's child as your own.

Post: #13

I was just about to start a new thread on this article. Notice that the article was written by a woman, and as a few have pointed out, completely frames the story as the woman being the victim and the man doing his duty to be supportive and understanding of her. To summarize:

* A damaged woman who has made a living based on her looks sees the wall approaching and finds (with her daughter's assistance!) a beta provider to provide for her
* While using the beta provider's money to live a comfortable lifestyle, she also abuses his money and trust to fuck a more alpha, bad boy (and does drugs with him)
* She doesn't hesitate to leave her kids from another man in her new husband's care while she flies across the country to fuck the other man

When the reporter says that people in DC weren't warm to her, what that really means is that people in her husband's social circle could tell she was damaged. The reporter (and the husband) reframes it to try to make it look like she's the victim of snobbish attitudes.

The whole point of the article is to push the narrative that women can do what they want, especially since most of them are victimized by society in some way or another, while men's duty is to be supportive and pick up the pieces.

Post: #14

If there's any hope out of this, he'll get some sympathy loving from some women. That is, if they aren't turned off by his circumstances and behavior.

Sadly...

Quote:In life, Gary could never stay mad at Cassandra for long. “She could always make me smile,” he says. “She was just so fun and silly.”

In death, too, his anger has given way to a softer sadness. It seems to him that when you lose a parent or a sibling or a child, “you’re allowed to grieve them forever,” he says...

...For Gary, who eventually learned that his wife’s affair had been going on for a while, much of what remains are questions. Including: “Did she really love me?”

“A year past all that, I just have come to the resolve that for the five years we were together, she did — to the degree that she could,” he says. “And nobody’s perfect. Neither am I.”

Someone gently get him some Heartiste/Roosh. This didn't seem to push him into self discovery, yet.

Post: #15

How could this guy have kept this wife in check? Using dread game, I guess, but it would be difficult because his wife had the upper hand in the relationship because of her looks and his lack of charisma. But, I suppose he should have:

1. Flirted with her other model girlfriends in front of her
2. Bossed her around in the house and made sure it was understood that he had high standards for her behavior and she had better follow them
3. That no way was she allowed to fly to California all the time to further her "career". She was expected to stay at home, raise the kids, and keep the house spic & span.
4. Constantly subtly communicating to her that, if she fucked up, he would dump her without hesitation and replace her with someone younger from his or her social circles or just by using his status and personality to find someone new

That probably would have kept her in line, but because she was so damaged from her earlier daddy issues and riding the carousel as a Playboy model, he would have to keep a strong frame constantly.

One take away from this story is that, if her husband had been more strict with her and kept her in line, she would probably still be alive. Being permissive with women in your life can have deadly consequences.

Post: #16

At this point, I feel nothing for guys like him.

All the warning signs were there. Even when I used to be a complete beta I knew you didn't marry those kind of girls.

This is a feature, not a bug of human evolution.

Post: #17

Post: #18

(03-13-2015 12:28 AM)Carlos100 Wrote:  How could this guy have kept this wife in check? Using dread game, I guess, but it would be difficult because his wife had the upper hand in the relationship because of her looks and his lack of charisma. But, I suppose he should have:

1. Flirted with her other model girlfriends in front of her
2. Bossed her around in the house and made sure it was understood that he had high standards for her behavior and she had better follow them
3. That no way was she allowed to fly to California all the time to further her "career". She was expected to stay at home, raise the kids, and keep the house spic & span.
4. Constantly subtly communicating to her that, if she fucked up, he would dump her without hesitation and replace her with someone younger from his or her social circles or just by using his status and personality to find someone new

That probably would have kept her in line, but because she was so damaged from her earlier daddy issues and riding the carousel as a Playboy model, he would have to keep a strong frame constantly.

One take away from this story is that, if her husband had been more strict with her and kept her in line, she would probably still be alive. Being permissive with women in your life can have deadly consequences.

There is no game, no matter how dark triad, that would be enough to have kept that crazy sloot loyal. In this instance the correct application of game is seeing the red flags and treating her like the fuck and chuck she was.

Also, would bang...

Post: #19

My thoughts too Medic42...

I dated a girl who had serious issues (drug/sexual/alcohol abuse).
She was nice to be around and when we were together she showed tons of affection but when her mood changed there's nothing i could've said or done game wise to convince her otherwise (short of physically grabbing her).

Some girls are just broken, nothing you can do except fuck them or just ignore them and move on.

I feel bad for all these beta guys wifing up ex-models and adult films actresses or girl who made money off their looks.
When they hit the wall it will be worse than a regular girl hitting the wall.

Post: #20

Makes me think of that Jon Favreau movie called "Made" he is married to a who're like this one and at the end she just gives up her kid to him after he catches her cheating. Didn't give two shuts about her kid.

Post: #21

(03-12-2015 09:22 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  This story has it all. I couldn't resist making a thread on this one.


Here is the story:

http://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/this-li...id=UP97DHP


Beta gets hooked up with ex-Playboy Playmate, who already had 2 kids with some broke loser who never supported them.

I don't understand why we keep calling men who get away with not paying child support losers. It's such a blue pill tradition. And it's actually quite the opposite. These men are winners in both the reproductive and financial sense.

Post: #22

Guess some men really do think with their dicks.

Post: #23

Past life record is familiar and all-too-expected: five tattoos, described as a "little rowdy" by friends, kicked out of several schools, dyed hair dark brown about 10 days prior to death, had 7,800 thirsty orbiters on Twitter even with a husband around.

On the other hand, while I support the sentiment that you don't pick up another guy's kids -- at least he isn't throwing a 13 year old and a 7 year old kid out on the street, and they're being raised by a single father rather than a single mother. I'd guess the girl will probably follow in her mother's footsteps, but the boy he got young enough that he has always called him "Dad", so maybe -- maybe -- there's a chance he'll be brought up straight. Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating save-a-hoe's-kids, but I'll give him credit for at least doing the public service of not subjecting them to the horrors of the foster home system.

Post: #24

Even Hugh Hefner doesnt wife up these playmate hoes. What makes him think he could?

Post: #25

(03-13-2015 03:30 AM)Pride male Wrote:  Even Hugh Hefner doesnt wife up these playmate hoes. What makes him think he could?

Another casualty of the feminine imperative.

Hoes will be hoes:





Especially when the woman is hot enough men are prone to do the worst shit instead of doing the sensible thing - fucking a girl like that thoroughly and then releasing her into the wild sometime later. Men with no Game and the Blue Pill mindset are the prey - the women are the lions ripping them apart. Only the Red Pill Alphas are the few remaining lions who fuck their bitches or go their own way.