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Soulless succubus sucks out stupid saps soul
There are many reasons why you should avoid getting involved with broken women but here is another example taken from Heartiste twitter.



TL;DR: Fuck you, my dad was awesome and deserves to have his story read.


My mother and father got divorced when I was five (she is a total freakshow, high testosterone woman/alcoholic) and sometime later he "scored" a stripper. He bragged about his prize for years. Yes he was a beta, or at least was high on the spectrum. Based on photos I've seen around when they met, I'd says she was a 6.5/7 with a better body than face.

This stripper with a heart of gold checked pretty much every box on TRP's do not LTR list:

A year older than him
She had a 5 year old child
Married and divorced four times previously
Side note: Her kid is a heck of a nice guy as an adult, but is rock stupid. He married a rock stupid woman, and they had four rock stupid kids. They have at least four totally rock stupid grandchildren, with another on the way. Almost all mentioned above live at the same residence. All are on some sort of public assistance/disability. Basically the plot to Idiocracy (if you haven't seen it, you should).

I'll not deal with the completely obvious listing of stripper's faults and incidents during their forty year marriage; instead I'll address some of the issues that even TRP might not think of - at least I've never seen a mention on here; Handling of Medical Issues:

2012: My father (age 65) reports to me early in the year that he has been getting weaker and tires easily. He did not heed my strong suggestion to get looked at. Unfortunately I live three hours away and was working two full time jobs, so I did not follow up.

2012: Late spring I get a call from stripper on a Monday night that my father was near death and was in the hospital. I ask when this happened, she said Friday night. This bitch waited for two fucking days to tell me my dad is in the ICU clinging to life - "because there was nothing to tell me".

It gets better. Turns out his sodium level was very low, a condition known as hyponatremia. I asked multiple urologists at the hospital I worked at - none had ever heard of a case of someone surviving with that low of a sodium level on intake. The closest cases always involved the homeless or the severely mentally ill.

Stripper explained that he had been falling down a lot over the last few months and that it was getting worse. So this is when she insisted he go to the hospital, right? Well no.

Then he started having great difficulty chewing and swallowing food, so she immediately insisted he go to the doctor; right? Uh, no. She started buying and feeding him baby food. Totally reasonable.

Around this time he could no longer handle doing anything; including paying bills (the handwriting in his checkbook showed a steady decline from Jan to May, in the end being totally illegible) and all chores. Soon, he never left his recliner in the living room, getting up only to go to the kitchen or bathroom. All the time falling increasingly more.

Time for a trip to the hospital; right? Nope.

That Friday night when he went to the hospital, the only reason was that he fell in an awkward position in the bathroom and she couldn't get him up. That is when she finally called an ambulance.

He was hours away from dying at that point, and it took many months in the hospital and a nursing home to get him functional again. Surprisingly he seemed to come back mentally nearly 100%.

Bear in mind that at all points that stripper is relating this story (and in all subsequent conversations during his recovery), there are continuous complaints from her about what an inconvenience this is. I am not making this up.

During her first call to tell me about this, she complained about having to drive the ten minutes to the hospital to visit him no less than six times. Each time she was speaking about her inconvenience while I was trying to extract usable information about my dad's condition, another level of hulk-rage built. But I held frame and did not go off on her.

So, over the course of his four month stay in various facilities, I had to manage his health care by phone and in person - while juggling two intense job situations. Basically one of the most stressful periods of my life.

After my dad got back home and was mostly mentally recovered (physical recovery took many more months), I read him the riot act about stripper and how she very nearly killed him with her rampant stupidity and apathy. I'll say that after this she did a better job of helping during the coming medical issues.

Fast forward to this last March 26th: She calls me during the day to tell me he's back in the hospital with an infection related to his bladder cancer (which turns out is what caused the hyponatremia in 2012).

He is very sick in the hospital, but she only visits a couple of times a day for 30 minutes or so. This despite being totally retired and having no pressing issues to deal with.

The subject of hospice is brought up by a doctor on Saturday. She is amenable to stopping treatment for the infection, and entering him into hospice. This was the proper decision. However she bails on the idea when the doctor tells us that he will be sent home so he can die there. There is no hospice facility near where they live.

She completely comes unraveled at the thought of having to have him at home; focusing on "all the things I will have to do." This continues even with the Doc assuring her that aides will come in and do nearly everything. But stripper flatly refuses.

Later the Doc brings up the possibility of in-hospital hospice; stripper likes that option. He passes whatever criteria and is placed into in-hospital hospice.

Of course with this guaranteeing his death in the next few days; you'd probably assume that at this point stripper will be right by his side. You'd be incorrect.

She says she can't stand his moaning and only sees him for a total of about an hour over the next couple of days. I had to be back at work Monday morning.

I get a call from her around 11a on Monday that she's been told that he is in his last hours. I ask her if she's heading over and she says she's not - that she can't handle it. I go nuts inside because at best I couldn't be there in less than four hours, and the thought of him dying alone for no fucking reason at all is horrifying to me. On top of this I'm working on very little sleep and a lot of travelling over the preceding five days.

I call up the hospital and speak to the nurse. The information she gives me suggests that they overreacted a bit and it will actually be between 24-48 hours.

Based on that, I decide to go home to pack and to get a good night's sleep before travelling over again. This was a mistake.

He died Monday night just before midnight; fortunately my step-brother stayed with him all evening because he also could not stand the idea of him dying alone. For this act of kindness I will remain forever grateful.

The rest of the week was mostly her trying to find out what benefits she was entitled to and ransacking through my dad's possessions to find saleable items. He did have life insurance, but they had to wait until Friday to find out how much.

I stayed for a couple of days, at first to support her. But didn't seem to need it. From then on all I was concerned with was grabbing anything of my father's that held sentimental value to me or someone else in the family (pictures, letters, genealogy materials, trophies, etc).

Stripper's only concern during this process was to continually make sure that I was not taking anything that she could sell. This includes accusing my wife of trying to steal a container of used AA batteries. She hinted on a number of occasions that I should return several items that she could not locate - assuming that I had just taken them.

We go back home Thursday night; the "service" was scheduled for Saturday.

We drove back on Saturday morning for the service. This is when I find out that there is no funeral planned due to expense; there will only be a one hour viewing. I ask what the life insurance ended up being, and she simply replied that "it was less than I hoped, but I don't want to talk about it." I assumed from her answer that it was significantly more than what she was expecting, and that due to projection she assumed that "I would want some" or something. I let this pass because it isn't technically my business.

So, we go over to the funeral home. When I entered the room where my dad was laid out . . . You know what? Let me give you a short synopsis of my dad's life:

Retired from chrysler after 30+ years
Raced competitively for 17 years
Coached girl's basketball (AAU, etc) unpaid for twenty years
Coached pee-wee football for five years
Became a antique knife dealer - was widely known for his incredible depth of knowledge
Became an expert Texas Holdem player - winning many tournaments over the years
Sponsored two american indian girls
Was always helping others around him
At the peak of his activity (late 1990's) he'd be stopped by someone who knew him multiple times everywhere he went. From Chrysler, racing, coaching, knives, or any of the other activities he did over the years.

So, back to the story. We go over to the funeral home. When I entered the room where my dad was laid out, saw that he was laid out in a fucking cardboard box. I am not fucking with you. A cardboard box like this: http://imgur.com/3hQeeKt

Apparently the cost of the casket didn't seem reasonable to stripper, so she told them she didn't want one.

And only a few local family showed up. You know why? Because stripper refused to place an obituary or make any other general notifications at all except for part of the family. Why? Because she didn't want salesmen to call.

So basically, the thousands of people in the city whose lives my dad touched have no idea whatsoever that he died or was even sick.

There would have been hundreds of people there had they known. Hell, there might have been fifty to a hundred from any one of the activities my dad was involved with.

So, basically due to my dad's bad judgement in wifing a stripper; he was abandoned by her in his greatest time of need and ended up dying as anonymously as a bum in the gutter. This is on top of her almost certainly shortening his life significantly by not showing even a modicum of good sense when he almost died from the hyponatremia.

You might wonder how she shortened his life? Basically had he not been allowed to become so sick with hyponatremia to the point of almost dying - it would have been caught and handled before he got so sick that he required months of rehab.

Because he was so sick, his doctors decided that looking for the cause of the hyponatremia was not particularly important. Bare in mind that with hyponatremia in someone with my dad's situation, the cause is almost certainly either lung or bladder cancer.

But they didn't look for it. He only went to get checked a year and a half later after I threatened to cut contact with him if he didn't. He went to a urologist that I found - and they found cancer in his bladder. It had spread a bit and was not operable. Had he been checked right after his recovery from the hyponatremia it would have been trivial to treat it.

So now my last memory of my dad is him laid out in a cardboard box. All because stripper placed no value whatsoever on the 40 years of support and love from him for both her and her son.
(This post was last modified: 04-09-2015 07:43 PM by pheonix500000.)
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RE: Soulless succubus sucks out stupid saps soul
Tangent here.

I do wonder if there should be a competition between a few of the posters for the best thread on a news article. We could pick an article and then have the competitors draft their submissions and then stick it on a poll thread. Funny subject titles and pics. Not exactly like the rap battle in "8 mile" but I could see it having some good laughs.

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Your story hit home for me man. I lost my mentor last year and he went out in a simlar way, and touched many people's lives as well. If we ever cross paths, we'll have a shot for your old man.
04-09-2015 09:30 PM
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This is a great thread and good work. From the heart with a lesson to it.
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Jesus dude. Hope your worst days are behind you.

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Just as a quick PSA, this narrative is not the OP's own story. As he notes (but it's easy to miss) he merely reposted this post from the Red Pill Reddit, which was linked to on Heartiste's Twitter feed.

As for the story itself, it's very well done, almost too much so. I can't decide if it's real, or the work of a very capable manosphere troll. I'm at 60/40 real at this point but it's a very tough call, LOL.

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Hey guys this is not my story thank god, as i said earlier i got this from heartiste. I just wanted to illustrate long term implications of broken broads.
04-09-2015 10:33 PM
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Unrelated to the stripper's toxic attitude but man...doesn't matter what the nurse or your old man's crazy wife tells you over the phone, when you've got a loved one who is sick or worse, in a dying stage, you do whatever you have to do to be at their sides and take care of them. Seems to me that the son, while perfectly aware that the bitch won't do a thing for his father, sits there waiting for the inevitable to happen. Same for the service, if you care that much (which you should), then make some arrangements yourself. Relying on weak people to take care of important stuff; yeah that's been a proven sucessfull recipe!

I lost one of my grandfathers a few weeks ago. Got a call one afternoon and was told that it was only a matter of days. I jumped in my car and 3 hours later, I was at the hospital at his sides with my mother. About 1 hour later, he passed away peacefully. Think I'm glad I didn't listen to anyone but me?
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(04-09-2015 10:48 PM)Jura Wrote:  Unrelated to the stripper's toxic attitude but man...doesn't matter what the nurse or your old man's crazy wife tells you over the phone, when you've got a loved one who is sick or worse, in a dying stage, you do whatever you have to do to be at their sides and take care of them. Seems to me that the son, while perfectly aware that the bitch won't do a thing for his father, sits there waiting for the inevitable to happen. Same for the service, if you care that much (which you should), then make some arrangements yourself. Relying on weak people to take care of important stuff; yeah that's been a proven sucessfull recipe!

I lost one of my grandfathers a few weeks ago. Got a call one afternoon and was told that it was only a matter of days. I jumped in my car and 3 hours later, I was at the hospital at his sides with my mother. About 1 hour later, he passed away peacefully. Think I'm glad I didn't listen to anyone but me?

I agree. He should have done more, but maybe he expected more. But how could he be so stupid to let her do everything?

Also - I would fucking send her a pack of lawyers, so that the stripper gets only part of dad's money. This I would even do even if I was a billionaire.

Besides - the story is a bit strange and inconsistent.

He met her when she had a 5 year old kid, who by the time of his death was already a grandfather - a 40 year old grandfather? So when did his father meet the stripper? When she was 31 and he 30? So essentially they were married for 30+ years?

Could the story be true? Sure - plenty of women hate their long-term husbands. At least the son should have sucked the succubus dry financially for all that "love" shown.

Strippers and long-term escorts are terrible women, because they see men in a transactional way and it likely never leaves their thinking. We are walking money-bags to them. Only the men who fuck them without giving them a penny have their respect to a degree. Hoes will be hoes and the hoes require a pimp attitude.



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Put aside the son's reaction and concentrate on the dad who married the stripper. This is the endgame of feminism.

Even as teens, we know there is a Madonna/Whore dichotomy. We fuck the bad girls at parties and get in relationships with the nice girls. That might sound harsh, but it's a reality.

Why is it a reality? Are men sexist bigots? Do they stereotype? Yes and yes. And they're that way for good reason: because of self-preservation. Men know instinctively the bad girl is a flawed long-term prospect. If she can't respect herself, she's not going to respect you. Or your kids.

You have just seen the results of what happens when you wife up the whore instead of the Madonna.

The problem today is that feminists shame men for seeing women in this binary way. They want women not to be judged. That's like buying a car without looking at the Consumer Report ratings.

The Madonna/whore concept is inborn in men, not some grand schemet by society designed to shame women. Ignore your feelings on this subject if you will; marry the stripper or the single mom, or the tatted-up "vixen." But you'll pay the price, as the dad in this story did.

That said, this guy had it easy, in some ways. I know women who have babies with men, then abandon both husband and kid for the next "boyfriend," then do the same thing to them. Then there are those who try and get houses and kids by filing ridiculous false restraining orders. This guy is lucky she at least stayed with him, in the same house, 'till the end.
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This is how you tell if a chick is worthy of an LTR, if you get a little cold and she ignores you, dump her ass.

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I think the reddit op was well...blue pill about death...for lack of a better term. He had some sort of fantasy about 'the way his dad was supposed to die and be treated' that maybe he inherited from watching too many movies? I don't know.

Death is unglamorous on the dying and puts people around them into 'freakout mode' similar to any other emergency like say a car accident. Some people freeze, some people retreat, some people are in denial and sometimes a few people step up and most of the process gets fucked up because no one has had to manage a dying person and their estate before.

I want to be put in a cardboard box, vs. in an expensive vessel to be buried in like some kind of Pharaoh going into the afterlife. I may spend weeks alone in a hospital while my kids and ex wives shuttle me around and then bury me in some obscure foreign cemetery like Casey Kasem, but it doesn't matter. It is a very short amount of time compared to the rest of my life and I would looking forward to the eternal rest and not dealing with whatever pain I'm in than getting angry about my family acting like 'average petty people'.

The Reddit Op's dad probably was old/wise enough from that many years of living with a stripper to know that she was stupid, selfish, bad under crisis, unreliable and didn't expect otherwise. I think the kid is projecting his own expectations onto his Dad.

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It looks like McMahon has set a new standard for thread titles that merits imitation. Good work guys, keep it coming.

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The problem men seem to have is that they look at how women act when there's social pressure on them when judging their character. In this case the ex-stripper had no more need to be nice to her dying husband or his family, so her behavior immediately flipped to be totally self-centered. Low IQ women like strippers tend to flip that switch prematurely since they lack the time preference to see the potential consequences, like antagonizing the son in this case. He may have intervened to try and screw with the life insurance settlement, or even have convinced the father to alter his will prior to his death. So the phoney-baloney caring attitude that women present to the world got turned off early and the author got to see how women really think, which apparently shocked him.
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(04-10-2015 03:39 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  It looks like McMahon has set a new standard for thread titles that merits imitation. Good work guys, keep it coming.

I would have to respectfully disagree about the need for imitation, QC. I think Steve McMahon himself realizes that the alliterative titles are entertaining for a while but are also something that can be easy to run into the ground and that can become rote and cloying -- and so, like an artistic type with good taste, he's been varying his titles more lately and moving away from using this kind of alliteration everywhere. The last thing we need is for everyone else to pick up what would be a mere gimmick in less artful hands, and have the entire forum littered with annoying alliterative titles.

Absent the artistic touch -- which is, by definition, rare -- plain and clear presentation with emphasis on communicating one's meaning as transparently as possibly is always best.

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(04-10-2015 04:57 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  
(04-10-2015 03:39 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  It looks like McMahon has set a new standard for thread titles that merits imitation. Good work guys, keep it coming.

I would have to respectfully disagree about the need for imitation, QC. I think Steve McMahon himself realizes that the alliterative titles are entertaining for a while but are also something that can be easy to run into the ground and that can become rote and cloying -- and so, like an artistic type with good taste, he's been varying his titles more lately and moving away from using this kind of alliteration everywhere. The last thing we need is for everyone else to pick up what would be a mere gimmick in less artful hands, and have the entire forum littered with annoying alliterative titles.

Absent the artistic touch -- which is, by definition, rare -- plain and clear presentation with emphasis on communicating one's meaning as transparently as possibly is always best.

My other thought regarding this is that I think alliterative titles should be respectfully limited to humorous anecdotes. This is a little more somber, quite a sad story in fact.

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