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Real Talk Sessions: Real Post-Mothers Day Spittin'
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It's been a long time, I shouldn't have left you
Without some real talk to reflect to, reflect to, reflect to, reflect to
Reflect to, Reflect to, freaky-freaky

It's been a long time, I shouldn't have left you
Without some real talk to reflect to, reflect to, reflect to, reflect to
Reflect to, Reflect to, freaky-freaky

Happy Mothers Day To Some Mothers

Mothers Day was this past Sunday. Some of our mothers are gone. We had no one to call, just someone to think about. Shed some tears for. For those of us who did have someone to call, please understand this: Your mom might say she doesn't need a card, she doesn't need flowers, don't make a big deal about holidays, and you just might listen, but I'll tell you what.

It's bullshit.

She wants you to call. She wants you to send her a card, some flowers, something. Don't think about your mother the way you think about these wack ass hoes out here in the game. Your mother gave you life. Your mother has helped you become a man in more ways than you can imagine. Some of us have/had amazing mothers. They deserve to be acknowledged. I hope you acknowledged yours, any chance that you get, not just May 10th.

However, there are a lot of mothers out here who aren't shit. They're producing shitty females who won't contribute anything to the world other than a place for someone's balls to empty into and wack ass males who won't be leaders of anything or anybody. Some of them are even going out of their way to mind fuck their kids by doing shit that besmirches the family name, soils their personal and professional reputations, and embarrasses everyone associated with them.

Those mothers should have spared us and not had kids.

So Happy Mothers Day to some mothers. The good mothers. The good mothers who are also good women. The good mothers who married the fathers of their children, stood by them through thick and thin, supported them to your face even when they knew at times they were wrong, but knew a united front was the best thing for the household.

Those motherfuckin' mothers deserve our appreciation.

One day those women are going to die. Some of them already have, and we can't call them, we can't send them a card, we can't tell them we love them, and we'll never have that chance again, so while we do have the chance, we need to make it count.

Reality check, the population of good women is forever decreasing. If you find a woman who has any combination of the traits that your amazing mother had, but she actually wants to be your partner, your teammate, your woman, NOT your mother, then you have some thinking to do about how you're going to keep her in your life.

What are you going to offer her, and what do you expect her to give in return.

Otherwise it's a cold world out here, you will subject yourself to dealing with these sorry ass hoes who aren't good for shit, who will never get a Happy Mothers Day from me, because as far as I'm concerned, they shouldn't be anybody's mother..

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There are certain men in the game who I despise. Hate is too strong of a word, I don't hate anybody, I may despise people for what they stand for and for the toxicity they contribute to an already toxic world, but I don't hate anybody.

I'm not an old cat, but I'm not a young cat either, I graduated from college shortly before joining this site. You young dudes, like this one, I'm not even going to give you the respect of calling you guys "pets", to me you're "strays". Pets have some sort of use. You strays have nothing to offer to the world, and you're not even concerned with putting in the work and learning now so you can cruise later on, because you're over consumed with your thoughts of pussy. You're the definition of a pussy pedastalizer, nothing is more important to you than getting fucking pussy. You have no discipline. No work ethic. No self-control. No nothing. You're dying to get into the young snatch of some bitch who can't fuck and doesn't know how to suck a dick, and you can't even get that.

If you're in school, focus on getting the best fuckin' grades you can get.

Start figuring out how you're going to make money and financially support yourself after you're no longer a student. Figure out what value you can bring to the world that someone will be willing to pay you for. Don't lie to yourself, don't chase dreams that you can't make happen. I don't care how much you love basketball, if you're 5'6 with below-average athletic ability, don't waste your fuckin' time, become a coach or some shit.

When it comes to your physical appearance, get it in the gym TODAY. Even if you don't go HAM in the gym, if you've been working out a few days a week starting at the age of 20, by the time you hit 30, you'll have been in the gym consistently for a damn decade.

Guess how much better you'll look than your peers?

You'll look better than 99% of those dudes who decided to get wrapped up in relationships and allow their women to make them look fat and unattractive or just didn't bother to take care of themselves, and now they're using their money to try to learn tips from PUAs instead of focusing solely on their appearances, so at least, some of what comes out of their mouth, or doesn't, won't matter to a woman whatsoever because she's too busy salivating at the thought of being physically dominated by you.

Sexually attractive guys have women throwing pussy at them. Trust me, I know. Granted, it's not always pussy that you want, but at the end of the day, if nobody's throwing pussy at you, you might need to take a look at yourself. Women always want to fuck, they just might not want to fuck you.

Blast now, so you can cruise later. Blast now so you can fuck more 19 year-olds when you're in your late 20s than you did when you were 19.

Look, I'm not saying don't think about pussy, don't try to get pussy, I'm saying don't let pussy consume your life. This is the time of your life to be selfish, this is the time of your life to think about later. So you need to get it in now, so you can really get it in later.

You don't want find yourself at 30, scouring Danger and Play, and checking out some post Mike wrote about what you should do in your 20s; don't be that dude, that dude is completely behind the 8-ball, probably because he was consumed with chasing after something he couldn't even get when he was younger, and now he's trying to actually figure shit out.

When I was in my teens and early 20s, I was one of those dudes who got a lot of ass. Young guys who get a lot of ass are either cooler than 99% of their peers and/or look better than 99% of their peers. If you're not in one of those categories, you're Jordan trying out for Varsity as a Sophomore, you're simply not ready.

Keep it going, uh.

Fake Friends, Fake Loves

Some people put way too much fuckin' time, energy, trust, etc. into their friends. Let me tell you something. A lot of your friends are really just close acquaintances. They don't give two fucks about you. You might be the friend they can go have a beer with. Smoke something exotic with. Hit a club with, whatever. But they're not helping you make money. They're not helping you get in shape. They're not doing anything that is having that much of a positive impact on your life.

Your real friends can do that. Your real friends will do that.

Chances are your close acquaintances can't, hell, they're cool with you because you're in the same place in life as them, so you have common ground, but you need to be nomadic and move the fuck on.

I know people who talk about how many friends they have, and they've been unemployed forever. How can you have 200 "friends" in your phone, and not one of them can help you get a job?

What kind of shit is that?

Your friend is texting you from LIV with two bitches, while you're at the house deciding between Cheetos and Pringles, xhamster and xvideos.

Your friend just bought a new car, and you can't afford a metro card.

What kind of shit is that?

Fuck your "friends".

Look out for yourself, take care of yourself. First and foremost, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. Then when you can do that, be a real friend to someone else, help them be able to get from point A to point B in their life, even if it's some small shit like dragging them to the gym with you on leg day.

One day you're going to die, and chances are you might be able to count on one hand, who you're real friends were.

Chances are #1 and #2 are going to be good old Mom and Dad -- think about that for a second, and if you haven't spoken to them in a few days, call them when you're done reading this shit. Make sure they're okay, thank them for being good parents, remind them they've helped you become a decent fuckin' human being. You actually have something to offer to this world and to other people in it. That makes you better than most, we don't need to put a number to it, it's just something that quantifies as "most".

I also want you to think about the women you've had in your life. Most of them didn't give a shit about you, accept that. They did things with you, they fucked you, but they added nothing of value to your life, they came and went, maybe they came back after they got mistreated by the next dude(s) and they realized, damn that guy was the truth, I should have done everything possible to keep him in my life, and I fucked up, let me text him.

Too late bitch.

She had her chance, but you've moved out of her neighborhood, on to better things.

Take it to the bridge.

You're Kind Of Fuckin' Special, Deal With It

Lately I've been meeting a lot of people who don't even know how to communicate with anybody. Like I mean, they don't even know how to talk to people, and that's especially true in the case of women.

Women spend so much time being bitches that they can't even comprehend what it means to be just decent human beings.

You've been fed this bullshit about how "nice" women are, but fuck outta here with that. Most women are bitches. Their niceness is about as real as the ass on a Miami stripper. If it exists at all, it's relative.

Truth be told, I'm nice to everyone I meet. Shit, I treat people like friends, some cases family, I talk to people like I know them, and you know what it gets me?

Not a fuckin' thing.

Most people don't appreciate being treated like a person, with decency, because they're so used to being at people's throats like a knitted, they can't even fathom what it means to just communicate with someone in a way that makes them feel good, a way that sends someone to the next part of their day with a smile.

You have to understand something. There's a lot of poison in this world. There's constantly a war on your daily mood, your self-esteem, your confidence, your mindset. People are trying to poison you with the shit that has them fucked up. That type of engagement is often going on with the opposite sex, but most guys are slaves to the pussy, so they'll put up with whatever it takes just to be able to say, "I got it".

The thing is you're way above that, I'm not spitting some superior shit, I'm spitting some you're so special that someone would be LUCKY to have YOU in their lives in whatever capacity you see fit. That can't be said about everybody. Some people need to be kept completely out of your world, some of those people you actually call friends, some of those people, you're trying to have sex with.

At the end of the day, it's not your fault if others don't recognize how special you are, and it's not your job to point it out to them.

The ones who see it, will be the ones who will treat you the same in kind, because they're special too, they have something they want to offer, and when we have things we want to offer, we really only want to share it with those who we deem worthy to receive it.

A lot of you guys don't know your value, so you find yourself repeatedly bumping your heads into the wall because you're trying to give what you have to offer to someone who can't see it to begin with, someone who doesn't really deserve it, and someone would only have it for a few moments before fucking it all up anyway.

I'm out.

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05-12-2015 02:17 AM
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This is the result of "Real Talk Blue Balls" for sure. Great content here as always, but I want to highlight the most important part of this piece:

Quote:Fake Friends, Fake Loves

Every once in a while you need to reflect on the people you associate with in your life and what they mean to you and the type of relationship you share. Realistically NO one has more than a handful of true close friends. Shit, most people only have one or two honestly. Keep in mind this is a two way street too. While reflecting on the value your associates add to your life, take some time to think about how you reciprocate.

Every dumb lying hoe that has come and gone in your life, every stupid decision or phase you went through; your close friends were the ones who where there before and after. Those are the dudes that are going to be there through thick and thin and deserve utmost love and respect from you.
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I only have three, maybe four or five guys, depending on how I really feel, that would take a bullet for me, and that I would take a bullet for. They have helped me get jobs, put me in contact with people, and been there for me in the toughest times. Even though they aren't all red pill, I respect and appreciate them to the utmost.
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I co-sign what you're saying to younger guys about focusing on providing value to the world.

How can we provide value to our acquaintences? I focus on listening, really listening to others. I find that when I try to do more, it takes time away from my own personal mission and I become inauthentic
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(05-12-2015 02:17 AM)jariel Wrote:  Thirsty Strays


If you're in school, focus on getting the best fuckin' grades you can get.

Start figuring out how you're going to make money and financially support yourself after you're no longer a student. Figure out what value you can bring to the world that someone will be willing to pay you for.

Blast now, so you can cruise later. Blast now so you can fuck more 19 year-olds when you're in your late 20s than you did when you were 19.

Look, I'm not saying don't think about pussy, don't try to get pussy, I'm saying don't let pussy consume your life. This is the time of your life to be selfish, this is the time of your life to think about later. So you need to get it in now, so you can really get it in later.

I hope you take visa, sheet.

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If some of my homeboys thought like this back in the day, they would've probably been fulljoying themselves on a sizeable bankroll somewhere in EE or Japan. Instead, they still fucking with them same village landwhales and basic bitches from 10 years ago. Ah well, 'das life.

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My mother always told me; " No one is on your side- not even your family. They (Everyone) will use you as hard as they can, then they will turn around and destroy you. Because being thankful is too much." It is no wonder why my mother is one of the most realistic persons I ever knew.

We have all been betrayed because we were too good to someone; however most of us have learned our lesson.

Another thing my mother always told me; " If someone asks for Fifty dollars and you have the money but you can only justify Twenty, give him that twenty. Give as if you will not be paid, even to your friends. "

Remember, RVF members, many people only want you around just for what they can get from you.


This is why I truly pity childless women; who will care for them. Their feminist friends are shown to have the loyalty of air, and their girlfriends will probably disappear when they see her so much as frown for 5 seconds.

Even though my mother and I may argue (Who doesn't) at the end of the day I know that she is always there.
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Mothers' Day

I had a glance at my Facebook feed on Mothers' Day. Apart from the usual excessive compliments towards mothers (vs relatively nothing on Fathers' Day), I see a lot of single women around Wall hitting age congratulating themselves for being non-mothers, because they believe it's not fair they're left out on the occasion.

I hear you on the part about friends. I've been thinking about that lately with some of my close friends, and realising that they are more like acquaintances these days.

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I've been thinking about what my mother told me as a child lately, and the more I think about it the more I realize she was actually quite redpill and trying to prepare me for the world and the way women are as best she could. She is a traditional Asian woman, so it's all couched in terms of marriage, being the natural and inevitable flow of life, but that's just the frame of reference. When I was bluepill I rejected all of it and took it as being ridiculous.

She insisted that I marry a girl four years younger than me at the very least. In my hopelessly beta days I scoffed at that and thought it would be better to marry a girl my own age. Game recognized, mom.

She very distinctly told me to stop playing video games and go out for a run as a kid. I didn't listen, got overweight, and now I'm on a course correction with serious nutrition and fitness goals.

She worked at a retail clothing store in her first years after immigrating to the U.S. and my closet was filled with nice button downs and khakis. I eschewed those in favor of hoodies and beat up sneakers in my high school years, but now am making a return to those clean timeless items.

She told me, in these exact words: "Money can get you the girl, but you have to be skilled to keep her after that." I don't take it to suggest that I bend over to my theoretical wife's every whim.

I believe she was suggesting I learn and understand game, because she knows how women operate.

I truly think that humans need to fail before they take seriously the good advice given to them by wiser and older individuals.
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This is without a doubt the best post I have read on the forum in awhile.

For you young guys you need to re-read the part about getting your shit right at a early age.

The part about friends being your friends as long as you are at their level is spot on. Lately I have been thinking the amount of friends that I have, I can barely make all the fingers on one hand. A lot of people aren't saying shit, perhaps this is why I spend so much time on here for inspiration.

As for Mothers, I gave mine flowers and a well written card. She loved it, I can honestly say I am fortunate to have mine around and how she has my back always.

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Damn.
As a young dude that was always academically focused and grew up in a sheltered environment, the temptation to try and make up for feeling like you missed out can be quite strong. Posts like these always help and re-affirm the need to adopt a long term view.

Its a tough balancing act for a young uni student to try and find the right mix between actively gaming and investing in your future.
05-20-2015 03:40 AM
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(05-20-2015 03:40 AM)African.horn Wrote:  Damn.
As a young dude that was always academically focused and grew up in a sheltered environment, the temptation to try and make up for feeling like you missed out can be quite strong. Posts like these always help and re-affirm the need to adopt a long term view.

Its a tough balancing act for a young uni student to try and find the right mix between actively gaming and investing in your future.

Yep, my position exactly. Being a uni student myself, its tough to NOT focus on game, especially as it is extremely convenient where I live. On the other hand, focusing on uni will help set-up a solid future career is much more beneficial long term, both for game and life.
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