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I did on some research using the 2 search engines up top as I didn't want to start a new thread if it was already covered elsewhere, but it genuinely seems that there is nothing specific anywhere on the forum on this particular topic. Bit surprised by that.

For me there is no type of blowjob more intense than when a girl can deep throat really far down on my dick. The feeling is just incredible and unlike anything else. That extra push from her mouth far down my shaft (and sometimes holding her mouth there) makes a big difference to me. The most intense and memorable blowjobs in my life were from girls who could do this. I have never forgotten those girls. These are really the ones I would keep in an almost permanent harem, even if they went past age 35, but were still in shape. Like a platinum lifetime membership to sucking my cock.

I believe that ALL girls are capable (with training and practice) of suppressing their gag reflex and going much deeper on your dick than they ever have before, no matter how small her mouth is. Unless you have a porn star size dick, this should not be an issue.

I think it's vital to a good relationship to train your girl to please you the way you want and I make sure I do this with all my girls. Both sexually and non sexually – meaning the way they kiss me, blowjob techniques, swallowing cum, handjobs, making her get into my preferred sexual positions quickly and accurately…down to her cooking well, massaging me, hairstyle, general appearance, wearing dresses/skirts I like, cleaning my house, etc.) I use their eagerness to please me, learn new things and progress in getting better, in determining if she is LTR material. I am a stern (but patient) teacher. The lazy ones get next’ed and the hard workers get good benefits and a longer relationship with me. Leadership with punishment and reward at its finest.

However, I haven’t found a good way to teach girls proper deep throating skills. Even the eager and hardworking ones struggle with this. I have tried pushing the back of their heads very slowly (but firmly) further down my shaft as they blow me. I have put my fingers around various lower parts of my dick and told them they need to reach that point with their mouths…and if they reach it I lower it even more the next time. I have also tried different positions like her on her knees (or sitting) with the back of her head pushed against a wall where she can’t pull back and slowly pushing my dick further in….or her lying down on her back on a bed (or table) with her head hanging out upside down and pushing my dick in from above. Sometimes, if I know she’s ready for it, I start face fucking her fast and deep, but this isn’t exactly the same as her going down very deep on you and STAYING there for a while.

Results have been varied…obviously most cough, stop and gasp for air. Some gag hard and loud. Their eyes water and sometimes their makeup under their eyes starts to run…and her saliva runs out of the sides of her mouth down my dick. Extremely sexy to watch all those things happen by the way. Makes me even harder. I usually give them a moment to stop, breathe deep and then continue. One actually vomited a tiny bit when I tried to lightly push her head further down. We both went to the bathroom and washed up, and shortly after she wanted to keep trying. Quite impressed by that.

What I will say is this – NO girl yet has actually said to me: "I’m not going to/can’t/won’t do this. Stop pushing my head. This is impossible."

Even if they retch, gasp, tear up, they usually keep going, but just not as deep.

So far I have only managed to teach just 1 girl how to do this properly and she was a BJ virgin. Despite having at least 5 guys before me, I was the first guy she learned to suck off. I don’t know if this had something to do with her learning to deepthroat better than all the others girls, or the fact that I was very harsh and dominating with her cause she was always pissing me off, but so far I have not been able to replicate this with other girls. The only others with good deepthroating skills were women in their late 30s who already knew how to do this.

For those of you who have had have successfully taught a girl to do it properly:

1. Can you describe what methods you used, and how you got her to learn to do it properly ?
2. For those that had a girl that could already do this…did you ever find out how she learned ?
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Just ram your cock in there bro, what's the problem?

(11-15-2014 09:06 AM)Little Dark Wrote:  This thread is not going in the direction I was hoping for.
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Just show the Heather Brooke videos deepthroating
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(10-30-2015 06:31 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  For those of you who have had have successfully taught a girl to do it properly:

1. Can you describe what methods you used, and how you got her to learn to do it properly ?
2. For those that had a girl that could already do this…did you ever find out how she learned ?

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She has to relax the muscles in the back of the throat.






On a more serious note. You have to have her relax the muscles in the back of her throat. You can that by having her practice her blow job skills on you and having her practice all the time. Have her hold it back there a little bit longer each time. The muscles back there will start to naturally relax as a cock is in there a lot. The body's way to adapt to blow jobs.
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Have her take a class bro



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(10-31-2015 05:46 AM)realologist Wrote:  She has to relax the muscles in the back of the throat.






You can that by having her practice her blow job skills on you and having her practice all the time. Have her hold it back there a little bit longer each time. The muscles back there will start to naturally relax as a cock is in there a lot. The body's way to adapt to blow jobs.

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Training is the good way
1. Let her start sucking, look bored
2. Take your dick off her mouth
3. Go sit on the couch and tell that's not a problem if she don't know how to suck dick
4. Let her beg to
5. ???
6. Watch her choke on your dick and when she ask you if it's better just say
[Image: RkZqtCBhVh17y.gif]
7. Profit

Training is not for fun, remember: Proper Instruction Brings Proper Production

Tell them too much, they wouldn't understand; tell them what they know, they would yawn.
They have to move up by responding to challenges, not too easy not too hard, until they paused at what they always think is the end of the road for all time instead of a momentary break in an endless upward spiral
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RE: Teaching a Girl to Deepthroat
When I brush my tongue deep inside, I hold my thumb inside my fist so I don't vomit. It helps. Try it.

Now ask her to do that.
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Molly, cocaine, or alcohol (but not too much).

A combination of 2 out of the 3 works amazingly well.

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RE: Teaching a Girl to Deepthroat
Guys, I know this forum thrives on humor but we have to remember that a lot of lurkers and inexperienced guys land here by accident through search engines and take the advice here literally. Also, there are times where even I don't know if someone here is joking or being serious, despite reading this forum for almost 3 years. Men in dozens of countries, and across the entire planet, read the stuff here, so some clarifications are in order to avoid people making stupid or dangerous mistakes.


(10-31-2015 01:29 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  Have her take a class bro
I know you and realologist are trying to be funny with your 2 video links with the sausage and the vegetables, but I strongly warn any newbie, lurker or inexperienced man to get his girl to train to suck cock using a cucumber, sausage, banana, carrot or any other kind of food or object that can break in her mouth. Do not let her do this. If it breaks in her mouth and gets stuck in her throat and she chokes, you might have a medical emergency, might have to do Heimlich manoeuvre, and maybe call an ambulance. But the worst aspect is that she will forever associate training to suck cock with choking, asphyxiation and near death. That girl will never give blowjobs to anyone again. You do not want that in any attractive woman. It's like when you have food poisoning with a particular kind of food and then have an aversion to that particular food the rest of your life.

She should only train to deepthroat on your cock, or on dildos of various sizes, she holds herself in her hand.
Never let her use any other object to train, apart from these 2.

(11-02-2015 01:51 AM)Veloce Wrote:  Molly, cocaine, or alcohol (but not too much). A combination of 2 out of the 3 works amazingly well.
Apart from alcohol, I would never date a girl long term who took these kinds of drugs...and even if she did, I would never encourage anyone to get their girl to take these to be able to deepthroat. The girl needs to be able to deep throat in a 100% sober, non-intoxicated, non drug induced, state. If she needs to be drunk to be able to start practicing, I would allow it only once or twice.

(10-30-2015 08:08 PM)Oz. Wrote:  Just ram your cock in there bro, what's the problem?
If you fuck a mouth as hard as you fuck a pussy you are going to do some permanent damage. Yes, I do face fuck girls...but not to that extent.

(10-31-2015 05:46 AM)realologist Wrote:  You have to have her relax the muscles in the back of her throat. You can that by having her practice her blow job skills on you and having her practice all the time. Have her hold it back there a little bit longer each time. The muscles back there will start to naturally relax as a cock is in there a lot. The body's way to adapt to blow jobs.
Yes, I agree. No girl can learn this in a short amount of time. The girl I trained to do this took about 3 to 4 months before she could really go down deep. If you're going to teach her, then you must prepare yourself for a longer relationship with her.

(10-31-2015 04:00 PM)blck Wrote:  1. Let her start sucking, look bored
2. Take your dick off her mouth
3. Go sit on the couch and tell that's not a problem if she don't know how to suck dick
4. Let her beg to
5. ???
6. Watch her choke on your dick and when she ask you if it's better just say
[Image: RkZqtCBhVh17y.gif]
7. Profit
Training is not for fun, remember: Proper Instruction Brings Proper Production
This is also good advice, even though it isn't about technique, especially for a girl who is not motivated or lazy. She has to feel inadequate and that she is doing a bad job and wants to try harder.

(11-01-2015 08:14 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  When I brush my tongue deep inside, I hold my thumb inside my fist so I don't vomit. It helps. Try it. Now ask her to do that.
Interesting...will get her to try this one.

One thing about technique which I forgot in my original post, is that when she has your dick in her mouth and has pushed down to her limit, get her to push out her tongue underneath. That will create more room in her mouth and she then will be able to push down further and not gag too much. If you look at most porn stars deepthroating they usually use this technique.

(10-30-2015 08:30 PM)djk100 Wrote:  Just show the Heather Brooke videos deepthroating
I think this is one of the best replies...I had a look at her videos and this is actually good advice. She describes useful and practical techniques. The only issue here I see is that watching any kind of porn usually turns a girl off....unless you are already fingering her and she's wet and turned on. But, I will give this a try as well.

(10-30-2015 08:41 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  I can't give away my training secrets but I'll gladly send em your way fully trained
My dick says YES, but my brain says no. It's nice meeting a well-trained girl who I don't have to teach anything, however, I really don't want to know the exact person who trained her. mrgreen

So PapayaTapper, you are keeping all your secrets to yourself then ?
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(11-02-2015 06:36 AM)Mercenary Wrote:  
(10-30-2015 08:41 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  I can't give away my training secrets but I'll gladly send em your way fully trained
My dick says YES, but my brain says no. It's nice meeting a well-trained girl who I don't have to teach anything, however, I really don't want to know the exact person who trained her. mrgreen

So PapayaTapper, you are keeping all your secrets to yourself then ?

No... I'm actively sharing them with as many girls as absolutely possible.

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That has to be topic of the decade...there's not a man on this forum that didn't click on that thread. Truth in my experience is its hard to find a good blowjob, which is surprising considering the general slutty behaviour of western women. You'd think they would be well trained...my guess is its down to past poor teaching by too many thirsty betas.

I had a LTR years ago where she was particularly good at them, but it wasn't until I hit Bangkok and started banging the local girls that the percentage of decent BJs hit an acceptable mark.

I've always found Thai women are generally far more giving in bed, and are not found lying there like a sugar and carbohydrate laden whale expecting me to go down on her furry fish market. Funnily enough it was about the same rate I place in the money in NLH sit and go poker tournaments, which drew a nice parallel for me.
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The fact is that No women know how to give a good BJ, they keep doing shit like sucking with teeth or closing their mouth and rub your dick between the cheek and the teeth because no one never had the balls to told her that it was useless.
Like Mercenary says "it's not about the technique" but more about how hard she try.
You can only half be satisfied with a "superhead" type of bitch because she didn't learn that skill with you but it can be really satisfying to watch a girl you're training apologize when she choke and puke on your dick.
All this to say that it is not about how she deepthroat but more about how you'll make her love deepthroat on YOUR dick.
This make me come back once again to a comment made in the BDSM thread:
You need the mindset first and then everything else will follow"

Again my .02

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They have to move up by responding to challenges, not too easy not too hard, until they paused at what they always think is the end of the road for all time instead of a momentary break in an endless upward spiral
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My best blowjobs have come from Pentecostals, Jehova's, and 7th Day Adventist girls. Seems religious fundamentalists/sects is where you need to go if you really want to get sucked dry.
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If she's into you (presumably she is if she's sucking on your dick), you can get her to do anything, any way you want...per blck's Jay Z post.

You just have to be the boss (and she'll be really into you when you're the boss).

There's no trick.

(Disclaimer: Post assumes not a troll. I personally don't care about whether they "retch, gasp, tear up". When I tell/show her what to do, and she does it because she loves me and wants to pleasure me, whatever it is...well sir, I'm doing my job as a man, and I'm happy.)

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Plenty of girls can deepthroat, but some that can't will just puke too many times to make it worth pursuing. I love deepthroat but you can get a great bj without one.
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I just give girls cough drops before they give me a blow job. It nums there throat temporarily like a localized anesthetic and taste good as well. The girls I have given it so far give me much better blowjobs ever after letting it sit in their mouth before they start.

I have a mix of flavored cough drops ranging from Honey, Cherry, Strawberry, Blue Ice, Spearamint, etc... stored under my car seat inside an cool insulated bag with my condoms and lube. I also have them in my backpack for when I game girls on campus.

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Say, "if you do what this girl does at 5:20...I'll marry you."

I don't think I've ever seen a better deepthroat specialist.

I'm certainly yet to find one in real life, much to my dismay.

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I tell them its like chugging a beer. You gotta relax the throat muscles and just just let it flow down your throat without swallowing. Almost like you're a vegetable with your mouth hanging open & inhaling.

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(01-15-2017 11:43 AM)Teedub Wrote:  Say, "if you do what this girl does at 5:20...I'll marry you."

I don't think I've ever seen a better deepthroat specialist.

I'm certainly yet to find one in real life, much to my dismay.

What if she replies..."If you had a bigger dick like that I could"...?

I'm asking for a friend of mine...


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RE: Teaching a Girl to Deepthroat
Geez some of you kids talk some shit.

Anyway here goes:

Wrapping your left fist around your LEFT thumb and squeezing VERY tightly disables the human gag reflex.

Thank me later. No, thank me now, I'm not humble. THANK ME. Think of me when they are deep throating you.

Enjoy.

p.s. to the fagz, feel free to test it out on yourself.
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