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RE: The Official RVF No Contact Thread
Literally no idea why you keep posting that your ex contacts you and you continue reply, of all places in the no contact thread.

The simplest explanation I can come up with is that it makes you feel good and broadcasting this to other people also makes you feel good.

Stop replying.

You are holding yourself back.
02-11-2019 05:52 AM
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RE: The Official RVF No Contact Thread
(02-10-2019 06:31 PM)Scooby6987 Wrote:  Struggling and almost sent a text. Looked at my exes social media, saw her thotting it up and partying with her crew (see my previous posts above). I don’t know why it bothers me so much. She just looked so hot and I miss the bitch, even though she’s a dirty club slut.

Social media is a killer because you only see the good. I just have to get out of that scarcity mindset. Sorry if I sound like a bitch, but I’d rather post here than break no co tact.

Questor - block all social media and messaging apps.

Scooby - block all social media and messaging apps.
02-11-2019 10:16 AM
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RE: The Official RVF No Contact Thread
(09-28-2018 03:21 AM)Mrredsquare Wrote:  Hey fellas, looking for some advice from more experienced men on my current situation.

Just ended things with a girl i was seeing for around 6 month, i was honest from the start on how things would go and I wasn't looking for a relationship of any kind. She agreed and wanted to become fuck buddies and me teach her how to be a woman (which i did a good job of i think) she is mid 20's I'm early 40's.

But she started to fall in love and became jealous and clingy with constant texting like girls do. So i ended things a few nights ago in person on the best terms i could. I did it for her sake, I've blocked her on all types of communication because i know she'll just continue to reach out to me.

The tricky part is that we're in the same social circle and i can see she's crushed, heartbroken and been constantly crying. She messaged a mutual friend and wants to chat one last time about something (probably wanting closure).

I care for this girl and hate to see her upset. Is there anything i could say to make her feel better or is it just a waste of time and energy?

So i didn't take the advice given to me and went back and gave this girl another chance a couple of weeks after this post.

Iv'e had some advice off a highly repped member over PM but thought I'd post here to learn from the experience.

Anyway things we're going good, she asked me to be her "boyfriend" over the holiday period to which i agreed playfully.

Long story short, i cut all other women from my life (mistake?) and we hung out more than usual and feelings got involved. We never said the 3 magic words but we probably should have.

After new year a few reg flags popped up from her, causing drama and having a meltdown over it when caught lying. Throwing things back in my face after she helped me with a few personnel favours (to which she offered beforehand).

The final straw was a few weeks back she's been giving "guy friends lifts" late at night to which I'm obviously against.

I know she's an attention whore but I'm wondering if it was my failure to tell her the 3 magic words that led her to find another "boyfriend material guy"?

Apologies for the rant and any advice/criticism welcome.
02-11-2019 11:18 AM
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RE: The Official RVF No Contact Thread
This is the No Contact thread, not the oneitis thread.

You got back in touch and it didn't work. She's got multiple options and you're the one posting about her on the net.

"i was honest from the start on how things would go and I wasn't looking for a relationship of any kind."

Do you guys ever read what you post?
02-11-2019 06:29 PM
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RE: The Official RVF No Contact Thread
(02-11-2019 06:29 PM)Mig Picante Wrote:  This is the No Contact thread, not the oneitis thread.

You got back in touch and it didn't work. She's got multiple options and you're the one posting about her on the net.

"i was honest from the start on how things would go and I wasn't looking for a relationship of any kind."

Do you guys ever read what you post?

You're right man. I just wanted to post here to hold myself responsible with the no contact rule.
02-12-2019 11:41 AM
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(02-05-2019 04:37 PM)Scooby6987 Wrote:  I’m struggling with no contact and thought best to post to you guys rather than send any more texts.

Long story short, before A couple of months ago I caught my ex who was living with me (dated for two years, I paid the rent due to some circumstances I won’t get into) in some lies where she said she was asleep when she was really out at a friends in the middle of the night when I was out of town. She then pulled some seriously disrespectful shit and I ended up throwing her out of my house and breaking up with her.

I’m talking literally bagging up and throwing her stuff out. She started partying like crazy after the breakup, and is now in with a group of people who are club promoters, club girls, etc. and is in the scene now, so to speak. She’s one of those super hot chicks who can kinda get into any club for free, etc. and she’s taking full advantage. I’m in a big US city with a major nightlife scene.

Anyway, I went no contact for a couple weeks. But I gave in and saw her when she texted me she was by my house. I told her wanted to get back with her. Huge mistake, I know. She then Went on about how I deeply hurt her by kicking her out, said I should’ve tried to talk things out with her aince we’d been together for two years, all this shit, trying to flip it around on me.

Anyway, It all culminated with me sending her a horribly mean text, saying all her club friends are trash, the people she hangs out with are toxic, she’s living a fucked up life since the breakup, I really went in. She obviously hates me after that and after yelling at me we haven’t spoken since.

I know this girl is all wrong for me. But I’m finding it so hard not to text her and apologize, say I want another chance, all the typical things my logical brain knows I shouldn’t do.

I’ve been reading this thread for weeks and not following the advice, so I thought maybe if I post and get some of you guys to yell at me that I would smarten up and get over it. I’ve been hooking up with some good looking girls since, but finding it tough not to go back and hit this one up. Thanks for reading guys.

Successfully completed two weeks of no contact! I feel like an addict who wants to get a sobriety chip...
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