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RE: Which one would you rather settle with?
(01-22-2016 01:38 PM)Captainstabbin Wrote:  
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(01-22-2016 01:04 PM)Pride male Wrote:  Rich 6>poor 9
Sweet 6>evil 9.
Funny 6>boring 9.
Tight 6>loose 9.
Young 6>old 9.

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Flip the script, what then ? Not going to go for the 9 ? Laugh

Rich 6 - Let's say she's intelligent to boot, her standards are going to be high and unsatisfied. An ugly spoiled rich girl? Pass

Sweet 6 - Sure she's nice and sweet, but you'll get sick of her, while passing boring 9's.

Funny 6 - Every girl think she's "funny" nowadays, pass.

Tight 6 - Sure that's nice, but even a loose 9 will give you a boner.

Old 9 - If they're old, they aren't 9's to begin with.

None of these scenarios implies you're locking a bitch down.

No man should have to settle.

I get both sides of this. Sure you can flip it both ways - and I chose the 9 - but I can't fault a guy for valuing a fun, young, chaste, sweet girl from a good family.

I see the other side as well, but at this point in my life, I'm not looking for those values in a girl I'm just going to fuck and not have an LTR with.

Especially since I'm not going to have an LTR from now on unless I think they're m̶a̶r̶r̶i̶a̶g̶e̶ mother material and I have a lot more of my shit together like dung beetles.

I'll fuck both and carry on with my life lol

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RE: Which one would you rather settle with?
It depends on my personal wealth.

If I make a low, to average income I'll take the smart 6. I'll assume that she'll be frugal and know how to stretch a dollar and be able to home school children.

If I am well off, with disposable income I'll take the dumb 9. I can keep her preoccupied with trinkets and not have to depend on her to cook or do the laundry. I can hire a housekeeper to do that and eat out while sending my kids to boarding school.

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RE: Which one would you rather settle with?
I would be delighted with the 6, because I would want my kids to be raised by a good independent woman. Also the 6 is smart so less likely to be a feminist or have feminist friends haha
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(01-22-2016 01:50 PM)masoud_akbari Wrote:  I would be delighted with the 6, because I would want my kids to be raised by a good independent woman. Also the 6 is smart so less likely to be a feminist or have feminist friends haha



Quote: masoud_akbari: This forum has changed my mindset, I have applied the principles ROOSH uses to get girls, to other areas of my life. Im not denying GAME, just choosing to not take part

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(01-22-2016 01:50 PM)masoud_akbari Wrote:  I would be delighted with the 6, because I would want my kids to be raised by a good independent woman. Also the 6 is smart so less likely to be a feminist or have feminist friends haha



Quote: masoud_akbari: This forum has changed my mindset, I have applied the principles ROOSH uses to get girls, to other areas of my life. Im not denying GAME, just choosing to not take part

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-52833.html

I thought you gave up on women and game.

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(01-22-2016 01:50 PM)masoud_akbari Wrote:  I would be delighted with the 6, because I would want my kids to be raised by a good independent woman. Also the 6 is smart so less likely to be a feminist or have feminist friends haha

A. There is no such thing as a "good" independent woman.

B. A smart 6 is compensating for her average looks and FAR more likely to be feminist.
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(01-22-2016 01:50 PM)masoud_akbari Wrote:  I would be delighted with the 6, because I would want my kids to be raised by a good independent woman. Also the 6 is smart so less likely to be a feminist or have feminist friends haha

A. There is no such thing as a "good" independent woman.

B. A smart 6 is compensating for her average looks and FAR more likely to be feminist.

I think he was being sarcastic or trolling.

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(01-22-2016 02:04 PM)kaotic Wrote:  
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(01-22-2016 01:50 PM)masoud_akbari Wrote:  I would be delighted with the 6, because I would want my kids to be raised by a good independent woman. Also the 6 is smart so less likely to be a feminist or have feminist friends haha

A. There is no such thing as a "good" independent woman.

B. A smart 6 is compensating for her average looks and FAR more likely to be feminist.

I think he was being sarcastic or trolling.

Really? My mum is a good independent woman, a doctor, high will power and not a feminist (she understands that women have it far worse in countries like Iran and saudia arabia)

I agree that a good independent woman is hard to find, but I think there are some, albiet very very rare
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(01-22-2016 02:04 PM)kaotic Wrote:  
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(01-22-2016 01:50 PM)masoud_akbari Wrote:  I would be delighted with the 6, because I would want my kids to be raised by a good independent woman. Also the 6 is smart so less likely to be a feminist or have feminist friends haha

A. There is no such thing as a "good" independent woman.

B. A smart 6 is compensating for her average looks and FAR more likely to be feminist.

I think he was being sarcastic or trolling.

Hopefully, but I couldn't tell.
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I thought you gave up on women and game.

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I have , but this is a hypothetical question so why not answer? Doesnt mean its going to happen, I thought it was just a bit of fun
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Don't feed the troll. Troll

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(01-22-2016 08:59 AM)the Thing Wrote:  As the subject implies.

If by "settle" you mean "marry," then you're effectively asking, "Would you rather die by poison or a bullet to the head?"

Here's my answer. Don't get married. If you settle, then co-habitate and maybe put a co-habitation agreement in place if you want kids. Never go within 100 miles of a community property state.

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RE: Which one would you rather settle with?
I have a female friend who I would consider intelligent.

She's also basically the female version of the internet neckbeard. This is something she freely admits to.

While her looks aren't great, what really makes her unattractive from a romantic/amorous perspective is more her personality. She doesn't have a tingle of feminine charm with her. When I hang out with her I basically feel like I'm hanging out with another guy. She's in her mid 20s and not only is she mostly likely still a virgin I don't think she's ever had a boyfriend or even been on a date before. Her interests include finances (she actually was an investment banker for a while before she left to work to start a coffee distribution company with a partner), politics, theology/philosophy...so she doesn't exactly have a typical female brain.

That's not to say intelligence is a total boner killer. My oneitis was pretty intelligent but she also had a lot of charm and sweetness to go along with it too; she's also one of the few funny females I know. What this does show is that intelligence by itself isn't going to get anyone hot and bothered. I think this applies to guys too. I'm sure we all know a guy or we used to be the guy who would get frustrated that his success in school and general intelligence wasn't getting women interested and would hate on the "dumb" frat boys and DJs that were getting vee jay jay.
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(01-22-2016 01:22 PM)RoastBeefCurtains4Me Wrote:  
(01-22-2016 12:58 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I'm curious if we could do a poll on the age spectrum of everyone being polled and responding.

I wonder if there is a correlation with older age, you want someone whose an intellectual.

versus with younger age, you want a smokeshow.

I've seen the difference in women I knew before and after I took the red pill, when I stopped trying to talk to them like men. They are much happier when you relate to them as semi-childlike beings, even when they are older as well.

I've seen this in action. A few years ago I was on a road trip with my cousin, her boyfriend (now husband) and my cousin's parents. I was in the back of the car with my cousin and her boyfriend for hours at a time so we had a lot of long conversations. I had just met him for the first time but we had plenty to talk about from economics, politics, even stuff like how car engines worked. While he and me would have a conversation for hours on end my would cousin pretty much just sit there and stare out the window cause she had nothing to contribute. The times he did talk to her it would be stuff like "Baby, are you hungry, hmmm?" and some flirty type stuff. His way of speaking would too, it would change almost into the way a parent would talk to his child.

This isn't an isolated observation either. I've seen this many times with other couples where the guy will be an intelligent, well traveled man who can converse on and on about "high brow" subjects but then you would see him talk to his girlfriend and the conversation would devolve to stuff like to "How was your day baby?" , "Did you see the discount they had at the supermarket today?", basically small talk BS. Long before I even heard of the red pill I had already noticed this difference between man-man conversations and man-woman ones.
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RE: Which one would you rather settle with?
Barring any other variables; the dumb 9.

I would rather be with a girl long term who is pleasing to look at and has great genetics that gives me raging boners to shoot good healthy loads in to create beautiful babies. I want someone who is sweet, pretty, and loyal who would make a dependable long term partner that I feel good about having on my arm when I go out and bring around to friends and family.

I like simple pretty girls.
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(01-22-2016 01:22 PM)RoastBeefCurtains4Me Wrote:  They are much happier when you relate to them as semi-childlike beings, even when they are older as well.
You completely have to act like they're children. My ex girlfriend practically had a meltdown when I gave her too many choices.

If we went to a movie, I couldn't say, "What time do you want to go?", I'd have to say, "Do you want 7:00 or 9:30?" or even, "We're going at 7:00, be ready."
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Which one likes cooking good food and likes to keep a clean house?
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In the first episode of the Black Phillip Show, Patrice O'Neal invited a somewhat attractive woman with an I.Q. of 150 to be a kind of a cohost, explaining that even though she was a woman, she could think like a man and use her reason to analyze things. If you listen to the show, all she does, whenever she gets the chance to talk, is derail and sidetrack the points he is trying to make, going down little garden paths of her own creation that lead sometimes even to insults to her host.

Whether she is just an idiot or was actively trying to ruin things while playing innocent is unknown, because a woman will never admit to anything, but as the show wore on, Patrice changed his tune, and said the reason she was on the show was simply to show what women do, even smart ones. I believe the term he used, when reevaluating her was that she was just a "smart dumb bitch."

She only lasted a few episodes, and even then, it was only because the show engineer had show Patrice how to use the mute button for her microphone when she misbehaved.

The 9, obviously.

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I think the 9 thing is based on ego..a 9 is only a 9 as long as your boys rate her a 9. For me, there are certain things added up that makes the lizard a 9 for me. Example, the type of lizards I like most of the forum members do not and the type of the lizards the forum members like I do not.

I think in terms of attraction as well as practicality for long term. A 6 can become a 9 based on her presentation, personality and a 9 can become a 4 based on behaviour.

Just like el mechanico said..if the lizard can not cook and keep a clean home, why do I want her around? So that my mates can say..cwoaor, mate, you've got a hot bird but I got to be around her lazy non productive arse?

Nah, I'm going for the 6 with the high EQ. Also, her being intelligent doesn't mean she's going to be snarky like the North American lizards..that's pseudo intelligence displayed on this side of the pond. When you break it down, it's all hogwash really.

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if this 6 was increased to a 7, would anyone vote any different?

Because my friends use the anything above 6 (not me hahaha) and you have done well when talking in terms of banging women...
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RE: Which one would you rather settle with?
Mage, I must say I find this quote of yours very strange. I have never met an intellectual 9 in my life. I always presumed that it was simply because a very stunning girl really does not have a lot of need to develop herself intellectually, they basically get everything for free in life. I've dated 9's and I found it always repulsive to see how everything would just come their way because of massive hordes of betas everywhere. The 9's I know (including a few I've dated) would then just not educate themselves, don't do shit in their lives and basically live of off men. Few of them were mentally stable as well.

Nevertheless, I do believe in the smart 9, but I think they are much less frequent than the 9's that didn't develop themselves. Maybe there is a geographic factor as well, because the 9's I know came mostly from poor countries where in general it is also much harder to develop yourself. Maybe other members can chime in with their experiences.

And: voted for the hot 9, for intellectualism I go to buddies or to this forum, don't need girls for that.



(01-22-2016 11:27 AM)Mage Wrote:  I have never actually met a hard 9 as dumb as rocks.

Looks are markers for genetic fitness, intelligence included.

The false dichotomy between beauty and smarts in women is created by betas and other jealous women.

Therefore I find this question rather hard to answer properly because deep down I don't believe it's authenticity. I can't force myself back into a paradigm that would view this question as serious.

My answer would probably vary depending on what is meant with "settle"

But please OP do not try to clarify the conditions even more - this would ruin the purity of the question and also you would cheat yourself into driving people closer to the answer that you want them to give.

Also I already voted for 9 before I could think too much about this, that was my gut reaction.
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RE: Which one would you rather settle with?
If it's a dumb 9 vs. a smart 6, then i think the answer is pretty obvious. I, along with most men, don't really care how "smart" a woman is as long as she's not retarded. The better question is would you rather marry a 9 who is a cunt or a 6 who is a feminine sweetheart who can cook and who cleans. And for me the answer is the sweetheart 6 every day of the week.
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The most feminine, sweet, caring one that would be a good mother.

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I thought about it really hard and realized that 6 is a 9 upside down.

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