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Anyone else here gone YEARS without any female affection?
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RE: Anyone else here gone YEARS without any female affection?
Damn. You guys have it fucking rough. Can't imagine even going a month without sex. I banged a girl the day before I turned 14, a couple of days after a sexy 15yo amazoness dumped me. Haven't stopped getting my dick wet since.

It does suck to be on the other end of the spectrum though, banging mediocre chicks occasionally when the harem gets blown up or the ltr ends just to get a nut.

Sometimes I feel like a drug addict that needs to get his fix, after three days without Nutting I become more irritated and focus too much on the nut.
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RE: Anyone else here gone YEARS without any female affection?
(03-24-2016 01:48 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  In my grandfathers time every man was guaranteed at least 1 virgin woman in his life and some sex and affection from her provided he got married to her. Back then, even if your if your wife eventually became a total cold bitch or got fat, you still had a family, a home and affection from your children. The men who didn’t get married became monks or priests…this is how old society dealt with the MGTOWS and few gays back in the day.

You're actually wrong, historically only around 20% of men reproduced, many died virgins. INCELS were traditionally used as cannon fodder.
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RE: Anyone else here gone YEARS without any female affection?
What?? Where did you get that statistic from? If they made it to reproductive age they got married.
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RE: Anyone else here gone YEARS without any female affection?
I scared myself today and looked back when it was when I got back from my travels abroad in Scandinavia and Asia which was when I had my last date or sex. 2013. 6 years ago. I knew it had been a long time but it didn't seem like that many years. I'm 40 now. It probably sounds silly to some people in this thread. It doesn't really even sound real when I think hard about it either.

After having success abroad you start to second and third guess yourself. "I had success with being social and dating wide ranges of girls there, so I guess THEY were the problem here, not me!". Being single so long you second guess yourself too with thoughts of "If it were that important to you in your life, wouldn't you have figured it out by now???" In many years past, I have done 3 different dating bootcamps with 2 different companies to try and work on myself. But I don't really even read or watch much or any dating advice or 'pickup' things anymore. I see through some of the things when presented as slick marketing speak in specific language they use meant to move products. If some people get helped in the meantime, that's a positive bonus. I try not to read too many manosphere type things because I can feel that they scratch that itch in the woman-hating part of my brain when I read some of them. Personal development and lifestyle growth I think is still healthy to expose myself to.

With so many different women living in a big city like I do, it has to be me that's the problem. I started going to a gym 4 months ago to a personal trainer 3x a week to get my fitness handled. Partially because of a health scare, partially so I can be more attractive as a man, partially so I have some female energy in my life as my trainer is a girl. I've stuck with it so it means I haven't given up hope yet. Last week I started looking applying for a different job back in my field of choice after doing something different that wasn't financially successful, or something that bred good energy in my life. The ratio in the field is pretty terrible but less terrible than what I do now.

I don't know what the point of this reply was. Maybe a cry for help. Maybe the first step in 'recovery'.

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RE: Anyone else here gone YEARS without any female affection?
Yep - but only temporarily. Whenever I undergo a big move, such as moving to a new continent, I generally leap straight into monk mode, and completely focus my energies into the cultural transition in front of me. That being said, when I'm fully adjusted and fluent in the local language, I'm rarely dry for longer than 3 months. As a buffer, I tend to hold down a "girlfriend," just to insure myself against the intermittent dry spells I face.

However, I really can't imagine going years without a single bang, that's essentially the definition of inceldom. However, if one is stuck in an area with low quality women - if there are any women at all - I can see how one could be strong-armed into this unfortunate predicament. A drought is generally symptomatic; means it's time to move yourself to an oasis.
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^ I'm a bit afraid to ask... but is there any update to your situation Rex since you started this thread?
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Yeah there’s a thread about it. I managed to ask a girl out and we dated for a couple of months.

The original post is kind of funny (and sad) because I can see that I didn’t quite want to explicitly explain that by “years” I actually meant: almost 20 years. It took me a while to work up the nerve to post that (in the other thread).

If only you knew how bad things really are.
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(Today 04:33 AM)rvlefty Wrote:  I scared myself today and looked back when it was when I got back from my travels abroad in Scandinavia and Asia which was when I had my last date or sex. 2013. 6 years ago. I knew it had been a long time but it didn't seem like that many years. I'm 40 now. It probably sounds silly to some people in this thread. It doesn't really even sound real when I think hard about it either.

After having success abroad you start to second and third guess yourself. "I had success with being social and dating wide ranges of girls there, so I guess THEY were the problem here, not me!". Being single so long you second guess yourself too with thoughts of "If it were that important to you in your life, wouldn't you have figured it out by now???" In many years past, I have done 3 different dating bootcamps with 2 different companies to try and work on myself. But I don't really even read or watch much or any dating advice or 'pickup' things anymore. I see through some of the things when presented as slick marketing speak in specific language they use meant to move products. If some people get helped in the meantime, that's a positive bonus. I try not to read too many manosphere type things because I can feel that they scratch that itch in the woman-hating part of my brain when I read some of them. Personal development and lifestyle growth I think is still healthy to expose myself to.

With so many different women living in a big city like I do, it has to be me that's the problem. I started going to a gym 4 months ago to a personal trainer 3x a week to get my fitness handled. Partially because of a health scare, partially so I can be more attractive as a man, partially so I have some female energy in my life as my trainer is a girl. I've stuck with it so it means I haven't given up hope yet. Last week I started looking applying for a different job back in my field of choice after doing something different that wasn't financially successful, or something that bred good energy in my life. The ratio in the field is pretty terrible but less terrible than what I do now.

I don't know what the point of this reply was. Maybe a cry for help. Maybe the first step in 'recovery'.

Go to a Salsa club. Chances are that there will be more women than men there. Just make sure to scout the salsa club first: from my experience, the hotties tend to go to a particular location in any given city.
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