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(06-01-2016 04:29 AM)262 Wrote:  ^^^
On the last three posts:

It's funny how certain forum members (some quite senior and repped) think they know what foreign girls are like, based mostly on dating them in the West.

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It's almost as if foreign girls magically transform the moment they get on a plane, amiright? Laugh

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RE: How Koreans view American girls
If I recreated this video from an American point of view dating a Korean girl.

I would pick her up from her parents house.
Where she would be bright and happy bouncing around like a little kid.

Take her out to a coffee shop, where she will through a child tantrum because she is spoiled and can't get exactly what she wants. During the date, she with either make childlike squeak noises or have no personality at all.

On the way to a bar she would stop and look at every shiny object on the street thinking oppa will buy it for her..But she ain't getting nothing.

She will drink nothing until I bait her to drink..which afterwards she will drink soju till she passes out.

In the event she doesn't drink.. It will be a boring night of her complaining about how hard everything is and how she has no time.
She will probably check her phone ten times more than an American girl.because phone culture is ten times worse in Korea.
She will also have a very childish kakao emoticon phone case.

If I get her back to my apartment..she will always magically be hungry and curious of everything in my apartment.
Once the clothes come off.. Unless she has a western carousel mindset..she will be horrible in bed and not know what to do whether she is a virgin or not.
She will then be extremely attached to me..sending walls of text about random things through out the day. There will be lots of enoticons.
She will try to treat our relationship as marriage and test how pushy she can become.

This is all just a stereotype btw.

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^What if the guy she was kissing in the bedroom was a "Jamal" instead of a "Jason"? Do you think that would even be possible given the stereotypes of their media? lol
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(06-01-2016 06:50 AM)Sourcecode Wrote:  If I recreated this video from an American point of view dating a Korean girl.

I would pick her up from her parents house.
Where she would be bright and happy bouncing around like a little kid.

Take her out to a coffee shop, where she will through a child tantrum because she is spoiled and can't get exactly what she wants. During the date, she with either make childlike squeak noises or have no personality at all.

On the way to a bar she would stop and look at every shiny object on the street thinking oppa will buy it for her..But she ain't getting nothing.

She will drink nothing until I bait her to drink..which afterwards she will drink soju till she passes out.

In the event she doesn't drink.. It will be a boring night of her complaining about how hard everything is and how she has no time.
She will probably check her phone ten times more than an American girl.because phone culture is ten times worse in Korea.
She will also have a very childish kakao emoticon phone case.

If I get her back to my apartment..she will always magically be hungry and curious of everything in my apartment.
Once the clothes come off.. Unless she has a western carousel mindset..she will be horrible in bed and not know what to do whether she is a virgin or not.
She will then be extremely attached to me..sending walls of text about random things through out the day. There will be lots of emoticons.
She will try to treat our relationship as marriage and test how pushy she can become.

This is all just a stereotype btw.

That actually sounds a lot like my current squeeze... with a few exceptional good habits for a non-Korean, asian girl. Menace can corroborate.

It's easy to stereotype an entire culture, but then again there are valid reasons some of those stereotypes exist. The grass isn't always greener eh?

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You guys almost make me glad that I'm not really into asian girls.

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^I never had any of these issues with any women I was involved with in Thailand.

The college grad I hooked up with a few times ended things with me when I moved up north. There wasn't enough time to see each other's bad traits.

The more experienced I get with women, the more I've come to believe that Culture + Social Scene > Race
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(06-01-2016 05:45 AM)Gmac Wrote:  
(06-01-2016 04:29 AM)262 Wrote:  ^^^
On the last three posts:

It's funny how certain forum members (some quite senior and repped) think they know what foreign girls are like, based mostly on dating them in the West.

It's almost as if foreign girls magically transform the moment they get on a plane, amiright? Laugh

Yeah, it's like when guys go abroad and still prefer to date strong independent women™ over feminine women. No quick changes there either! The reports of these girls being different must ONLY be from guys who've been there for a while!

Lolwtf

Snark aside, the point is, unless you've lived abroad, you don't really know what foreign girls are like. Water takes the shape of the container it fills - quickly.

Quote:A girl who has known only one container her whole life—a good container—can instantly change containers upon meeting me if my reputation happened to precede me, and give me the worst of who she is in instant time. I have seen this too many times to discount, and I didn’t have to be a scientist for six years to conclude that if men can not keep women in the right container at the right temperature by force, through application of law or shaming, and if men can’t manage the environment in their favor, but instead allow women to have unbridled freedom and choice, their women will fall so fast that they will notice the change not in years but in months.
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RE: How Koreans view American girls
^ Here's another way to think about it:

If a guy in, say, London, said he'd met plenty of American girls in London, and had never lived in the US, would we say he really knows American girls?

Or does he really just know the suburban girls who choose to go to London?

Aside from TV and the Internet, does he really know about the Southern belle/sorostitute? The Appalachian methhead? The "sassy" black girl? The Mormon girl? The guidette? (though as I understand a chavette is close, but not quite)

No.
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The video was playing up on stereotypes on how Asians generally view Asian Americans. I've experienced the exact same situation in Japan. However, we can always use it to our advantage. Girls see AAs as more liberal and more decisive as compared to their native counterparts. We all get the "oh can you teach me English?" thing and the willingness to "teach" AAs about their home country's culture seems to be stronger than just teaching a white/black foreigner. I love the stereotypes since it means we get rewarded and praised for doing whatever our Asian parents were already forcing us to do back home in America anyway lol. In Asia, I get complimented for greeting my elders before meals and for knowing how to "read the air" (not be a dickhead in social situation)

I've met other AAs who bitch about never being able to fit in completely because people never see them as "fully Asian" I have no idea what they're talking about. I see no problem with being able to fit in physically while still enjoy privileges both at work and at game.
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Quote:If a guy in, say, London, said he'd met plenty of American girls in London, and had never lived in the US, would we say he really knows American girls?

Absolutely.

Looks like we'll have to agree to disagree.

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(06-02-2016 07:36 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  I've met other AAs who bitch about never being able to fit in completely because people never see them as "fully Asian" I have no idea what they're talking about. I see no problem with being able to fit in physically while still enjoy privileges both at work and at game.

I'm not Asian, but when I lived in Thailand I didn't expect to completely fit in and I never really had any desire to.

I had a few cool, solid friends to spend time with and relate to (natives, semi-foreigners and foreigners similar to me), a few girls to chill with (who also became friends later on), a comfortable place to live, satisfactory transportation, suitable income, and all the food I could ever want.

The only thing I was missing was one hobby I was truly passionate about, and I tried damn hard to look for it. The Muay Thai gyms around me had sparse offerings and were hard to get to on a regular basis. I did have a fun time searching for them oddly enough. It was almost an adventure in itself. I suppose looking for things to see and do can also count.

I've decided that no matter where I go, as long as have these seven "pillars" on lock, I can be completely comfortable without having any desire to fit in.

I will create my own reality. Instead of a Chinatown or a Little Italy, I will create a "WalkingManTown".

Population: Me + anyone else I enjoy hanging out with.

The places I'm interested in spending extended time in the most, SEA and Japan, seem to almost require this.

When I finally visit my home country of Haiti, I know damn well I won't fit in. And why would I? don't speak the language very well, I'm not religious, some of the key cultural norms annoy me, and I never lived there.

But as long as all of my basic needs are met I don't have a problem with it.

(*Then I'll wait for them to accuse me of being a shut-in and not integrating enough lol)
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(06-02-2016 09:03 AM)Gmac Wrote:  
Quote:If a guy in, say, London, said he'd met plenty of American girls in London, and had never lived in the US, would we say he really knows American girls?

Absolutely.

Looks like we'll have to agree to disagree.

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There apparently was a part 1 to this where the same chick plays the ridiculously sweet but insanely clingy stereotype and then a parody of the tragic Korean Drama heroine.





I like how in the Drama parody part the dude is so tired of her shit lol.
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(06-02-2016 07:36 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  I've met other AAs who bitch about never being able to fit in completely because people never see them as "fully Asian" I have no idea what they're talking about. I see no problem with being able to fit in physically while still enjoy privileges both at work and at game.

Those people are whiny crybabies. Being AA in asia is a fantastic thing. It means I can go outside social norms on the down low and it gives ultimate social mobility. You're not limited or treated as a novelty when you don't want to be. You have freedom to do whatever you want which is only limited to your imagination, social contacts, and bankroll.

You can bang girls from lower social echelons and then flip the script and also fit in with middle and upper class women since you're an exotic international transplant too. Noone questions it since you can socially chameleon cloak yourself in any situation.

I'll just state the obvious here since it's brought up in this thread:

It's true that Asian-american girls or any asian girl who grew up in any western country are absolutely nothing like their sisters back in the motherland.

AA girls usually act exactly like white American women right down to the vocal fry and herd mentality items. Asian women usually adopt the dominant culture fast unless they live in an exclusive enclave or are the top 1% in looks where they get loads of attention from top alphas in asian communities.

If you want women who actually keep most of their ethnic roots you'd have dive deep into some immigrant enclaves and hang out mostly amongst asian (fob) social circles.
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(05-30-2016 10:54 AM)WalkingMan Wrote:  Damn that was pretty funny!

"Why does she sound sick?" lol

I was also seriously impressed at the amount of black male extras they were able to find.

I wouldn't be surprised if they just made a call to the local american expat community and took a bunch of ESL teachers as the extras/actors.
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(06-02-2016 08:27 PM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  AA girls usually act exactly like white American women right down to the vocal fry and herd mentality items.

Ugh, don't remind me of that.

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Not an expert on Asian culture; when I was young I lived in Japan but was too young to take in a whole lot of it.

From what I know though, especially in Japan, Asian culture in a lot of ways is more traditional and socially conservative when it comes to marriage and relations.

Despite stereotypes of Asia being a sexual-free-for-all due to the kinky anime porn available on the internet, I believe they are actually fairly traditional in their relationships, possibly even a little too much.

The popularity of perverse cartoon porn seems to be a side effect of sexual repression and workaholism that leaves little time for dating (e.x. similar to how Islamic Pakistan is actually the world's leading country for gay porn searches).
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Quote:Not an expert on Asian culture;

How many people do you think actually read that stuff?

The flesh is the flesh for much of Asia. My first japanese girl told me even if we get married I can go to whore houses if I wanted so long as she doesn't know about it. And that was far from an uncommon point of view. Talk about culture shock.
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(06-03-2016 03:33 PM)cascadecombo Wrote:  
Quote:Not an expert on Asian culture;

How many people do you think actually read that stuff?

The flesh is the flesh for much of Asia. My first japanese girl told me even if we get married I can go to whore houses if I wanted so long as she doesn't know about it. And that was far from an uncommon point of view. Talk about culture shock.

I got that from a Thai woman as well. She told me this a few days after we had a big fight caused when she peeked at my phone (I still felt like a douche by the way).

Another Thai chick was telling me how her dad would go off with other women every once in a while. Prostitutes, I think. She understood it and calmly accepted it.

I wonder how I would react if I hadn't read about relationships in Asia beforehand.
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Nothing in this video makes the slightest bit of sense to me. But that Korean actress... Spongebob
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As a Southeast Asian, it was apparently acceptable for my grandpa on my mom's side to bang other women while married, but he only did it when he was out of the home country, which he was often, given his job (at least as far as I know).
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(06-03-2016 03:33 PM)cascadecombo Wrote:  
Quote:Not an expert on Asian culture;

How many people do you think actually read that stuff?

The flesh is the flesh for much of Asia. My first japanese girl told me even if we get married I can go to whore houses if I wanted so long as she doesn't know about it. And that was far from an uncommon point of view. Talk about culture shock.
Asian cultures seem a little bit bipolar; I believe the community and the family unit tends to be considered highly important (similar to how it is in more conservative, religious cultures) and they view the West as too individualistic, though in areas like you mentioned they're apparently more sexually liberal.

I'm not an expert though on how they view female promiscuity compared to males hitting up whorehouses though.
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