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RE: My longterm girlfreind gave me the ok to have a harem.
Something doesn't feel right here.

- The language doesn't seem like a 17 year old's.
- Women don't generally, or maybe ever, want to share their man. Certainly not a hot young babe...sharing a 17 year old kid who's not Justin Beiber (no offense).
- 11 posts.
- Combination of over-confidence with a lot of self-insight ("fairly decent at game", etc)...at 17 years old

Maybe I'm just naive

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RE: My longterm girlfreind gave me the ok to have a harem.
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“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
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Hey buddy first off sounds like your doing very well for yourself for your age. Most 17 year olds are working at a fast food place or the mall and just farting around so for you to be working on personal development, have a business going and an entrepreneur mindset is awesome.

As for the situation you mention. Honestly at your age man the chances of you winding up with a girl your with now at 17 are slim to none. Don't get me wrong it happens but honestly people change so much between 17 and 21 let alone 17 and 25 or even 30 you guys will likely be two completely different people just a few years down the road from now.

I would treat it as playing the field and do your thing while keeping this good girl in your corner but honestly your so young dont get so wrapped up in building a life with a girl your with at 17. As cool as that is to have a chick who's down to let you do your thing to some extent being 100% single in your late teens and early 20's is the way to go. Be able to bounce around and do your thing, travel, whatever you want to do without being at all accountable to anyone no matter how cool they are.
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RE: My longterm girlfreind gave me the ok to have a harem.
Yup you were right. My girl retracted in her being "ok" with it. I put some moves on it and she is investing more into the relationship, i.e. Working out more, cooking more, ect.

We almost broke up, didnt because she's a good LTR. I might have onettis, but my eyes have opened more. I'm not so dependent on her.

As pertaining to the girl I met up with, she's interested, I'm not pursuing as of yet, more like she's pursuing me. I might spin dread game if need be with my main.

Next time, won't have the "talk", learned some more about finishing and know about the forum for older gent's wisdom.

Thanks for your wisdom

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(07-10-2016 12:47 PM)AfroSamurai Wrote:  
(07-10-2016 11:35 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  Passive income already at 17? What kind?

When my Grandfather passed away he left me with 47k. I bought a tiny home and placed it on my grandparents property which is in the city(Including plumbing, electrical, ect). The rent in my city is super high, 1.3k+ for a one bedroom apartment kind of far from the city center. I rent it out for 800$ a month. half goes to me, the other half goes to my retired grandmother.

Is the lease (most importantly) taxes, title, utilities, etc. all in your grandmas name?

I'd hate to see somebody trash the place, or stiff you on rent, only to find out everything is unenforceable.

Regarding your harem, ask yourself what you want out of it. For example, how big do you want it?

You sound like a kid that has the setting and achieving goals thing down. Make this another lesson in that.

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(07-10-2016 03:28 AM)AfroSamurai Wrote:  -Im 17


-I understand how to build wealth, I am fit and attractive.


-I have an income of 10k a year from passive income and will have no debt while going through college.I'm including this to provide reference to my "Passive value" to women and where Im at in life


-Ive been with this girl for 3 years and plan on wifeing her later on in my late 20s.


-She has been loyal and with me through hard years.


-I want women who are like her in my harem. I'm thinking Islamic women.(There are plenty where I live).


-The main thing she wants is emotional connection. Which I can provide exceedingly.


-As so far she has been honest with me with all her dealing with other men


-Yesterday this chica hit me up, we've scheduled plans to meet up. She knows I have a girlfriend and she also knows my value


-I bought a tiny home and placed it on my grandparents property. I rent it out (can a 17 y/o sign a contract in his state?)


-I put some moves on it and she (the 16 y/o gf) is investing more into the relationship, i.e. Working out more, cooking more, ect.


Quote:I put some moves on it and she (the 16 y/o gf) is investing more into the relationship, i.e. Working out more, cooking more, ect.



Quote:Im 17


I want to believe, it's always best to give the benefit of the doubt, but some of it is too much. I'm not ready to call troll, but if he isn't then he's one of the most extraordinary 17 y/o's in history and his 16 y/o girlfriend, who has rededicated herself to working out and cooking after apparently slacking from age 14 to 15, and was there for him during the "hard years", is a unicorn.

There has just been way too many trolls lately to not be suspicious. Some of it, especially what I bolded above, is quite extraordinary and odd.

Maybe OP can explain some of this further.

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RE: My longterm girlfreind gave me the ok to have a harem.
(07-19-2016 11:48 PM)GlobalMan Wrote:  
(07-10-2016 03:28 AM)AfroSamurai Wrote:  -Im 17


-I understand how to build wealth, I am fit and attractive.


-I have an income of 10k a year from passive income and will have no debt while going through college.I'm including this to provide reference to my "Passive value" to women and where Im at in life


-Ive been with this girl for 3 years and plan on wifeing her later on in my late 20s.


-She has been loyal and with me through hard years.


-I want women who are like her in my harem. I'm thinking Islamic women.(There are plenty where I live).


-The main thing she wants is emotional connection. Which I can provide exceedingly.


-As so far she has been honest with me with all her dealing with other men


-Yesterday this chica hit me up, we've scheduled plans to meet up. She knows I have a girlfriend and she also knows my value


-I bought a tiny home and placed it on my grandparents property. I rent it out (can a 17 y/o sign a contract in his state?)


-I put some moves on it and she (the 16 y/o gf) is investing more into the relationship, i.e. Working out more, cooking more, ect.


Quote:I put some moves on it and she (the 16 y/o gf) is investing more into the relationship, i.e. Working out more, cooking more, ect.



Quote:Im 17


I want to believe, it's always best to give the benefit of the doubt, but some of it is too ridiculous. I'm not ready to call troll, but if he isn't then he's one of the most extraordinary 17 y/o's in history and his 16 y/o girlfriend, who has rededicated herself to working out and cooking after apparently slacking from age 14 to 15, and was there for him during the "hard years", is a unicorn.

Going to have to go against you there, when I was 18 I had a 16 year old knowingly be the other women while I was in a long distance relationship with a girl overseas for about 6 months, also from a very traditional background (can cook well) and is so open sexually that she has helped me pick up women for threesomes. They are rare but this does happen and as I'm seeing this girl again now I'm following Afro's thread with a keen eye for pointers!
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(07-19-2016 11:58 PM)Bogart Wrote:  Going to have to go against you there, when I was 18 I had a 16 year old knowingly be the other women while I was in a long distance relationship with a girl overseas for about 6 months, also from a very traditional background (can cook well) and is so open sexually that she has helped me pick up women for threesomes. They are rare but this does happen and as I'm seeing this girl again now I'm following Afro's thread with a keen eye for pointers!

The fact that a girl is open like this is indeed not that odd, and that is why I did not include that in my points or reference that as being unbelievable.

Re-read what I emphasized, the parts I find strange are not about the girl willing to share.

Heavy sums it up above

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ill elaborate and respond when my new charger comes in and I can type on my computer.
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Talk to more girls at your junior college, get them on dates and escalate and bang them. Make it easy on yourselft with good logistics.

Keep them on the same nights so you don't get confused and end up texting the wrong girl "ok see you this evening at 8pm" when you meant it for a different girl. I mean keep girl 1 for Tuesdays, girl 2 for Wednesdays. and girl 3 for Sundays. That is my suggestion at least. August and September is a great time to meet new college girls, as they are more open to being approached, and gamed, and fucked.

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