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RE: My Travel Journal
Go about it anyway you can think of, can just say hey you then kiss her or say why are you so shy then just kiss her.
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RE: My Travel Journal
Update:

Going sex on the regular:

Been a few weeks since I last updated this journey. I've been seeing the girl that I slept with regularly now like 2x a week which is fine by me. We've been fucking almost everytime she comes over and she has praised my bedroom breast sucking skills lol. When she comes over sometimes she brings me food or when we go out she pays for dinner sometimes which is good. She's very affectionate however I feel not satisfied yet for some reason. I'm yearning for a hotter chick who's a little more of a challenge. This brings me to the next chick:

The Singaporean milf:

I met her around 6 months back on a language exchange site. I was instantly attracted to her based on her photo. Easily a 7.5-8 and possibility one of the most attractive asian girls I've ever met and gone out with. Initially she was very guarded and closed off and I actually didn't think I would have gotten very far with her based on her actions but surprisingly, I managed to plow through and open her up later on, and flirted with her often which only made her even more attracted to me. I later found out that she has a young kid which kind of killed a bit of attraction for her though. Anyways she came back to saigon like a month back, and I went out with her a few times. Everytime we go out, she has a huge ass grin on her face when she see's me. She suggested cooking me dinner after the 2nd date which I took to mean that she wants to smash. Unfortunately she fucked off on some school charity trip to hanoi for a week which killed her momentum. I got her out one more and then invited her over the next time, unfortunately she flaked, claiming she went half way then had to leave because of a family emergency. No problem. I figured a needed to do more comfort. I invited her out one day when I needed to run some errands with her help but then she flaked again. Initially she said she was running late and needed to push the meeting half an hour late but then she stopped messaging and texting me afterwards after I gave her the address while she called grab. Text and calling her didn't want. Got some error message when I called her. Wasted an hour of my time. 2 hours later, I get several texts from her saying her phone got stolen. I was skeptical but didn't reply. This only drove her nuts and I got another large string of texts, saying she didn't stand me up, her phone got stolen, blah blah blah.

I finally got her over to my place on the next date, but she would not let me sit beside her wtf. Everytime I moved close, she would back away so this told me I fucked up on the comfort level. Her body language also was closed off. She had her legs crossed and arms crossed as well. I mean how the hell do you make a move on her like that? The sexual tension was there, as we both flirted with our eyes and had intense eye contact and she was also hitting me when I teased her. I even spanked her ass one time when I warned her I would spank her for being naughty and hitting me. Unfortunately, she just would not let me come close to her and said it made her feel uncomfortable that I was invading her personal space. After a while, she called her mom and a grab home. I was pissed, but looking back at my previous experience with LMR like this, I decided to play the safer route. Not sure if using cave man gave would have worked since her body language was closed off. I was fucking pissed off, like seriously? Come all the way to my place to watch a fucking movie on a small ass tv screen on my bed?

I arranged for her to come over again, but then she flaked! She tried to reschedule the date for later in the evening on the same day saying she couldn't make the original time we scheduled, but my main chick was coming over in the evening so I couldn't accommodate her. Didn't see her again, as she flew back to SG. She'll be back next month. I'm hoping I can close this girl. Back at my place, I was deciding whether to try cave man game and just grab her and stuff or go the safer router. I think where I fucked up the most was not being enough comfort with her. I should have started touching her a lot more on dates and even held hands with her first before getting her over to my place. The attraction is there, the sexual tension is there, but the comfort isn't, plus this chick is very closed off.

A string of pros, semi-pros, and single moms:

After not being able to close the milf, I felt bummed out for a few days. Things didn't get any better because all of my other leads from online were either hookers, semi-pros, scammers, or single-moms. The single moms were nasty too. This lead to me being in quite the dilemma. Sure, I can meet a lot of women, however the quality just was not there. I had also gotten rid of close to a dozen chicks as well with at least half of them wanting to come over to my place, but I could not see myself sleeping with any of them. I was not meeting the types of girls that I wanted to meet because I relied too heavily on online game. I need to change things up. I've been wanting to daygame for a few weeks now but just have not made it a priority. I'm still not even sure where I'd go to do daygame but I figure the malls would be my best bet. I just can't really game em at the mall my main chick works at nor the two that I use for my dates. This leaves me mainly with the malls in d7 or nguyen hue street in d1. It's been a long ass time since I've last daygamed so the anxiety is really high. I picture myself going up to some random chick trying the lost tourist card or asking for recommendations for a coffee shop but then I imagine myself unable to do it.

Like today, I was walking on the street near my relatives house when I saw a short petite semi-short haired cutie in a black dress. I was instantly attracted to her and I think we both made eye contact for a second, looking back it now, I think she even made a slight smirk or smile but I was too chicken to run up to her and talk and thus she got away.
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RE: My Travel Journal
A new start:

Tmr I have a scheduled coffee date with a 29yr chick. I think she wants to use me to come to canada and I know she's a hoe based on some of her photos. Her face isn't that good looking but her body is not bad. I'm gonna go see her and see how she is first before suggesting we come back to my place for the next date.


Also my game plan is to go daygame later this week at one of those malls and possibly nguyen hue street to replenish my ranks. I was out at a mall yesterday with my main chick and I was a little dumbstruck. While eating at a tour restaurant in the mall, I spotted a really attractive chick who looked like an actress or model keep looking at me. I glanced over at her date, some average looking guy. Again, I'm thinking how the fuck did this guy meet this chick?

later I walk by a texas chicken and noticed another really attractive milf with her husband and kid looking at me as I walk by. I wait by the restroom for my girl and I look over at her husband. The guy's average looking and has a MAN PURSE!!! Can you believe this shit? How the fuck did he get with her? The question keeps on reiterating itself over and over again. I'm getting all the looks from these attractive women yet I never seem to be able to meet any of them in person. Why? Where do I have to go to meet them? The only place that I know of is during daygame...

I have a scarcity mindset despite being in a country with a shit tonne of women. I just need to meet more of them. I ain't meeting enough women so far. I think I'm gonna start putting in quotas that I need to meet say 10 women a week or something.
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The Career Woman

I had a date tonight with a 30 year old chick. I wasn't really feeling her prior to meeting with her as her photos just didn't do it for me but she did dress quite slutty in a few photos and had slut earrings so I thought maybe I can turn her into a FWB's type of chick. When she showed up, she looked a hell of a lot taller and bigger too, reminding me of western chicks. I kind of got turned off. Add to the fact that it looked like she had some pimples or something on her nose and dark skin that lowered my attraction for her even further. We spoke entirely in english which I actually didn't enjoy doing and the whole date basically consisted of her asking me questions, her telling me about her career and career aspirations which left me bored. Prior to the meetup, she had suggested that I come to her birthday party at some karaoke bar. I made up some excuse that I was busy as I did not want to meet her friends, and also in case she was trying to scam me by making me foot the bill or other crazy shit. I actually put in very little effort into this date and it was probably one of my quickest ones too lastly around 1.5 hrs when she said she had to leave. I breathed a sign of relief once she left as I was now free to daygame. Truth be told, I was quite distracted on our date, as I saw many attractive looking girls walking about while I was seated down having a drink with this girl. I wanted to get up and just go talk to the other more attractive younger looking chicks.

I got my wish once she left...

Getting back into Daygame:

After she left me all alone, and I saw a slew of attractive girls that I wanted to approach, I suddenly was filled with a surge of anxiety. Ah yes, my old friend the approach anxiety. Its been around 1.5 years since I last did any daygame approaches. My skill had become rusty and my anxiety were on record high levels. I walked around the mall, seeing plenty of beautiful girls yet my balls were left at home. I could not do it as I continued to walk around in circles, texting away on my phone to another forum member that I had met a few weeks back. He tried to cheer me on, but it was no use. I told myself that I wouldn't leave unless I spoke to at least 1 chick. I didn't think I was going to be able to live up to my quota for the evening. Then I spotted a mcdonalds with some new hamburger on display. My mind made an excuse for me to go eat and forget about daygame. After a bit of a mental struggle, I relented and went inside. I was eating my food, angry, confused, and talking with my main chick over text when suddenly I noticed a chick to my right, two seats away from me on the aisle. I had to talk to her, I told myself. I wanted to get the hell home, I was tired, and bored. My mind resisted. What will you say to her? How are you going to approach the girl? What happens if you get rejected. I dug deep inside of my mind and found an opener "where can find the best coffee shop around here." But my mind still wouldn't let me do it, as I struggled mentally and physically, looking around when finally I pushed through.

I turned towards her, inched over and said:

"excuse me, do you know where I can find a good coffee shop around here?"

My presence was loud, there was no fucking way I was going to let her ignore me.

She turned towards me. I noticed small slit eyes surrounded by glasses, bangs, and semi-long hair. She made a "umm" sound then acted confused.

I switched over to vietnamese but again was met with a confused look as she shrugged and brought her hands up. Fuck, she must have been korean, I thought to myself.

I asked her are you korean. She nodds and then turns back to her meal. I wasn't going to let the night end like this, so I whip out my phone and type in "do you know a good coffee shop around here" on google translate, translating the english to korean. I show her the phone, she just acts like she doesn't know anything so I eject. Fuck! I just got another rejection lol.

However bad the rejection was, a few minutes later, I felt a surge of energy flowing through me. I wanted to approach more targets now but the mall was closing. I threw my trash out and then started to look for targets but they were all in groups or with their bf's. Damn! I made my way upstairs to the main floor and scanned the area. Same deal. Lots of really attractive girls but not a single one of them was alone. The adrenaline that had kicked in was giving me a huge rush but I had no frigging targets to unleash it on. As people continued to leave, I decided to give up and called a grab to go home.

I forgot how amazing the feeling was after I had done an approach regardless of it being a success or not. This week definitely I'm gonna go back to daygaming. I need to meet more available women to create a real abundance again.

Weekly Quota 10 girls: 1 out 10
Result: Rejected (language barrier)
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RE: My Travel Journal
Update:

I was originally intending on going down to crescent mall to daygame but got lazy and procrastinated. To make up for it, I decided to head down to the local supermarket after going outside to grab lunch. I told myself I needed to talk to least 1 girl, whether or not it resulted in anything did not matter. I scouted out the supermarket but noticed it was filled with ugly girls. The best looking girl was a 6, but even then, I had doubts about whether or not to even approach her. She was working as a promotion chick and sucked balls at it, as I hovered around her a few times hoping she would open me, to no avail. After my third pass into her aisle, I said fuck it and asked her to help me locate a brand of cookies. Her demeanor suggested there was zero interest from her and also in her job. She didn't bother to even put any effort into helping me so I called it quits. I grabbed my groceries and walked out the door, but just then I came across two chicks working outside promoting Heineken. Enter the Heineken girl.

The Heineken girl:

She was working at the both with her co-worker who was also not bad looking at all, although a bit darker then her. The girl opened me as I walked pass the booth and immediately I used that as an excuse to talk to them. I tried to engage both chicks however, the main one kept on engaging me more. She was cute, arguably the prettiest one working there today. Around a 6.5 with light complexion and above average height based on where she was standing. She was standing up a ledge so I couldn't really gauge how tall. At first we talked about the Heineken promotion and she was trying to get me to buy 2 cases of beer. I told her if I was going to drink that much, I'd end up in the hospital or become a drunk. There was a lot of back and forth but then I re-directed the conversation to focus on more personal things like her job, whether or not she was a student. She was definitely along with the other girl curious about me and asked me a lot of personal questions but I got cockblocked TWICE!!! because of people coming to the booth to partake in their promotion. This ultimately killed any momentum I had built up with the girls, and after the second time, it felt awkward for me to just stand there, therefore I grabbed my bags, looked at the girl once the last customer had left and said bye but not before grabbing her digits. I wasn't thinking probaby about how to do it smoothly because my mind was still fixated at how I got cockblocked and killed the conversation I was having with the girl. So I made some bs excuse asking how if she wanted to learn english and she said yes, then I handed her phone and asked her to enter her zalo in and quickly took off. I wanted to grab the other chicks digits too but because of the sudden interruption in conversation twice, it made it look weird to ask for her number as well.

Upon further inspection on zalo, I noticed photos of dudes which I suspect was a bf, although those photos were from 1-3 years ago. I'm waiting for her to accept my friend request on zalo.

Approach #2: 2 out of 10
Result: Number Close

I also approached and flirted with a pharmacist yesterday while buying medicine. It was my second time talking with the girl. This time I had a better look at her, and unfortunately she's way too small for me. But I could tell her buying temperature was way up based on her non-verbals.
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Daygame nightmare in Vietnam:

Today I headed out to Crescent mall all the while in D7. I had done my research and it said that Friday evenings was supposed to be busy, however when I got there I found this not to be the case. The mall was half empty, which is still salvageable, however all I saw while there were families and a few couples. Not a single chick alone except for some average looking white chick backpacker. I was pissed off, I had traveled for like 45 minutes to land myself in this shithole. My goal originally was to approach 8 girls, however after walking around for close to an hour, I didn't even think I would get 1 approach in. It was that bad. I tried to walk into stores to check out the employees but man there was not a single attractive looking girl. While in the food court, I spotted 1 hot chick eating with her mother and little sister at the pizza hut restaurant. There was no fucking way I would be able to pull that off so I just ordered myself a bowl of ramen at some jap place. Unbeknownst to me, the ramen noodles were loaded with spices and peppers. Holy shit, I kid you not, my mouth was on fire. Tears were popping outta my eyes and my tongue was burning. What the fuck did I just order? I asked myself. After barely being able to finish it, I left and headed to the washroom to freshen up.

When I returned, a fellow forum member had arrived. We were planning to daygame here but after scouting out any potential targets and seeing nothing, we left to go outside the Phu My Hung area. Again, nothing, just couples or family. I was still pissed at having wasted my time, money, and effort to come here all for nothing. I wanted some new leads and numbers that would lead to dates. Me and him continued walking down the area until we reached the bridge, that's when I spotted two chicks together. I gestured to my wingman, let's go approach those two girls. He didn't know how to approach them, neither did I, but I knew I had to get at least 1 approach in tonight to make the evening somewhat worth while. I slowly eased myself into their proximity, and was like 2-3 feet away from them. My wing is like "your going to approach them right?" I nodd then start raising my voice asking him "hey, where is the phuc long here?" trying to get the girls' attention. After like the 3rd time of me saying it, I noticed the two girls suddenly started talking in english from vietnamese, which to me meant they overheard our conversation and wanted me to approach. I opened them.

The Starbucks Girls

"excuse me, do you know if there is a phuc long here?"
They look confused and exchange glances between them. I quickly switch over to vietnamese and ask them the same question.
The one closer to me, answers and says there's a starbucks here. I tell her I don't drink starbucks and she asks me why. I quickly change up the conversation from phuc long into having a conversation about coffee. Now I've hooked the set and I start building rapport and transitioning the conversation to more personal things, like what they do for a living, where they live, what they like to drink, etc. They return the questions and also ask me personal questions. One of the girls, even brings in my wingman into the conversation and I introduce him. Banter is going well and I'm thinking should I try to move them and go for an instadate at a coffee shop or just grab their numbers. The one that is doing like 70% of the talking is shorter, darker, and not really my type, however her friend the more shy and less talkative one is more to my liking. I try to get her more engaged in the conversation but then we reach the end of the walking path. Before the girls leave, I throw out that we should remain in contact and grab their numbers. The girl that I have been conversing with mostly hands my phone over to her friend which was kind of surprising, urging her to put down her number. The girl does it, then we bid farewell and take off.

I felt fucking exhausted from that one approach because of all the approach anxiety that was building up inside of me leading to the approach. I was actually surprised I even pulled it off at all. I feel a little better but still not too happy because I only did 1 approach. The mall's closed now so everybody's gone. I see a girl at the front doors by an atm machine wearing a dress with roses. I tell my wing to approach her, but he says she's been looking at us a few times already. I stand there with my phone deciding whether to call a grab bike or throw a hail mary, but then she leaves.

Outside I spotted two lookers sitting down on the patio at phuc long's. I tell my wing to go approach but he has AA. Then I notice another chick several feet away from me on her phone in the corner. I gesture for my wing to approach her, but he says he doesn't know how to do it. I tell him to ask her for the time or directions and then he goes and approaches her, but returns back less then a minute saying there was a language barrier. We both managed to get 1 approach in each but I wasn't satisfied. Unfortunately my grab ride arrived and there were no more targets left.

Approach #3: 3 out of 10
Result: Number close
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More Daygame Frustrations:

I have gone out on two separate nights this weeks to d1 to daygame but have yet to do a single approach. There just isn't enough girls walking outside or at the mall alone. They are always either with a friend, a bf, or family members. I hardly see any girls walking alone. I think I saw maybe 2-3 girls outside alone, and out of that number maybe like 1 was cute enough to approach. Just imagine walking around for 2+ hours and not being able to see any single targets and then going home empty handed. It's really pissing me off to the point now that I am even considering just approaching group sets even if it means my chances are slim to none.

Also tried hitting the malls and it wasn't any better. In department stores, there are usually multiple employees working making it difficult to isolate your targets. Some of the smaller stores are hit and miss as you may find a chick working by herself but whether or not she's attractive is another story. Today I was at the Takashimaya center and spotted 2 cute chicks working at the nike store. Unfortunately as soon as I entered, I saw 2 dudes also working there and at least 1 other girl. The store was of average size so definitely could not isolate the girl. To make matters worse, I was being tailed and followed by one of the male employees who wanted to assist me. "Hey pal, you can assist me by getting your cute co-workers phone number for me." After walking through the whole mall once, I left and headed for the streets.

I'm gonna have to rethink my strategy for getting new leads. Online only yields girls that are 6 and under. The 7's and up are all hookers or golddiggers.
But I see plenty of 7's and 8's outside on the streets or malls. Just I can't get to them! Perhaps I need to camp out at a coffee shop or something but I already tried that shit in my area. Its all fucking 2 or more people and there's no communal tables neither.

FUCK! I'm really pissed off right now and ready to bang my head against the wall. What the fuck do I need to do to get access to these normal 7's and 8's that I see outside all the time?

I'm gonna either need to find a reliable wing or learn to approach 2 sets appropriately.

Receptionist at the gym:

One of the receptionist at my gym has started to show interest in me. When I went to sit down by the chairs in front of her desk to put my shoes back on when I was preparing to leave, she opened me and was very chatty and asking me a lot of questions. Unfortunately she's like a 5 and way too short and small for me. I actually have my eye on her co-worker which looks more like a respectable 6.5-7. Unfortunately I only saw this chick twice and according to this chick, I think the other girl only works between 6-9pm which is prime time hours, meaning I'm gonna have to wait around for hours to get to use the gym equipment, essentially meaning I won't be able to work out just to have the luxury of talking with this girl.
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