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Alright so this is basically so embarrassing, I had to register a new account for the question. I frequent the forum otherwise.

Fast forward to this past weekend. I was really drunk and actually sleep with one of my friends (don't worry it was a girl). Sometime after this, as I don't recall many details, I ordered a Fleshlight (lol)! I have no recollection of this and lets just say when it arrived it was a surprise. For those not familiar with Fleshlight, its basically a fake vagina.

The first emotion was a wave of shame, as these things are almost indicative of a guy not getting laid. But I've gotten laid three times the past month, so maybe this shame is unwarranted? I mean, tons of girls have dildos, TONS, so why is there such a taboo for the "other" fake piece.

I used it and it was very real. I have to say that I think it might actually work as a tool to improve endurance. Its basically a tighter pussy than you'd ever encounter, so maybe it actually has some usage for improving your sex life?

It still weirds me out. I wouldn't be surprised if I threw it away in another compromised (drunken) state.

Any experience with these things (if you're bold enough to admit it!)?
08-31-2011 04:00 PM
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(08-31-2011 04:00 PM)Stroll Wrote:  Alright so this is basically so embarrassing, I had to register a new account for the question. I frequent the forum otherwise.

FYI, you can register another account, but your IP address will still give you away. Wave
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(08-31-2011 04:41 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  
(08-31-2011 04:00 PM)Stroll Wrote:  Alright so this is basically so embarrassing, I had to register a new account for the question. I frequent the forum otherwise.

FYI, you can register another account, but your IP address will still give you away. Wave
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(08-31-2011 04:41 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  
(08-31-2011 04:00 PM)Stroll Wrote:  Alright so this is basically so embarrassing, I had to register a new account for the question. I frequent the forum otherwise.

FYI, you can register another account, but your IP address will still give you away. Wave

My assumption was that Roosh wouldn't out me.
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(08-31-2011 04:54 PM)_DC_ Wrote:  
(08-31-2011 04:41 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  
(08-31-2011 04:00 PM)Stroll Wrote:  Alright so this is basically so embarrassing, I had to register a new account for the question. I frequent the forum otherwise.

FYI, you can register another account, but your IP address will still give you away. Wave

My assumption was that Roosh wouldn't out me.

[email protected] Well, a lot of the seasoned players in here still wank heavily so the fleshlight is the same thing, just a tool to achieve a goal.

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I don't know. Fleshlight seems a bit too beta.

If you are going to wack off, do it the old fashioned way. That way you don't get too used to wacking off and still have impetus to chase pussy.
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Probably a good solution if you have endurance issues.

But agree with Easy, I like to limit my wanking to stay focused on the chase.

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08-31-2011 07:27 PM
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(08-31-2011 04:45 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  
(08-31-2011 04:41 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  
(08-31-2011 04:00 PM)Stroll Wrote:  Alright so this is basically so embarrassing, I had to register a new account for the question. I frequent the forum otherwise.

FYI, you can register another account, but your IP address will still give you away. Wave
Kickboxer?

HA! that aint me.
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(08-31-2011 04:00 PM)Stroll Wrote:  Alright so this is basically so embarrassing, I had to register a new account for the question. I frequent the forum otherwise.

Grow some balls. I don't see anything embarrassing here.
You know, there are two types of guys - those who masturbate, and those who lie about it.

Quote:For those not familiar with Fleshlight, its basically a fake vagina.

You can get much better ones cheaper from Adam & Eve.

Quote:The first emotion was a wave of shame, as these things are almost indicative of a guy not getting laid. But I've gotten laid three times the past month, so maybe this shame is unwarranted? I mean, tons of girls have dildos, TONS, so why is there such a taboo for the "other" fake piece.

This taboo is in your head. Why do you even getting defensive because of it? It is a freaking tool for masturbation like lube. It doesn't matter if you jerk off with fleshlight or your hand.

Quote:I used it and it was very real. I have to say that I think it might actually work as a tool to improve endurance.

Warm it up with hot water, and it may feel much better than actual vagina.

Quote:Any experience with these things (if you're bold enough to admit it!)?

I've tried probably ten or so of them. Some thoughts:

- Most of them don't last long - they rip. Don't pay too much.
- Most of them are too short. If you're at least average (i.e. over 7") you'll find very few will fit comfortably. This is probably the only time I wished I was smaller.
- Don't bother with "anus" ones, they rip after the first usage.
- Don't bother with "realistically looking" ones, you're not going to look on it, you should be looking at some porn, preferably French or Italian.
- Don't bother with any mechanical stuff either.
- Use a lot of lube. Like three times more than you'd use during sex.
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(08-31-2011 05:04 PM)Easy E Wrote:  I don't know. Fleshlight seems a bit too beta.

If you are going to wack off, do it the old fashioned way. That way you don't get too used to wacking off and still have impetus to chase pussy.

I agree, I've been trying the "once a week" jerk for a month of so now. Yet to make it the whole week but going 3 or 4 days DEFINITELY has helped my game.
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(08-31-2011 07:43 PM)_DC_ Wrote:  "once a week" jerk

How do you guys do that? I've been doing it daily since I was 14. I might skip a day or two if I'm not feeling well, and when I have sex I also skip that day, but basically any other day I jerk off. Yeah, I've tried the thing when you don't do it for a few days and then go out "hungry" gaming - I haven't noticed an improvement in my game.

P.S. Still 20/20 vision at 35.
09-01-2011 02:20 AM
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(08-31-2011 07:34 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  If you're at least average (i.e. over 7") you'll find very few will fit comfortably.

Average penis length isn't even close to 7".
09-01-2011 03:51 AM
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From the Wikipedia article:

Quote:A review published in the 2007 issue of BJU International showed the average erect penis length to be 14–16 cm (5.5–6.3 in) and girth to be 12–13 cm (4.7–5.1 in). The paper compared results of twelve studies conducted on different populations in several countries.[13]

They have a few other statistics, but the mean seems to be about 6", perhaps slightly less, with about 0.8" of variation for the most part.

Now cue every swingin' dick on these boards to suddenly post "HAHA, I'M 10 INCHES LULZ". Yes, yes. We're sure you are.

As for sex toys and/or masturbation, hey, nothin' wrong with that.
09-01-2011 07:49 AM
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(09-01-2011 03:51 AM)megaframe Wrote:  
(08-31-2011 07:34 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  If you're at least average (i.e. over 7") you'll find very few will fit comfortably.

Average penis length isn't even close to 7".

Maybe it is the average in Eastern Europe Idea

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It's only shameful if you bought it used off ebay.
09-01-2011 11:37 AM
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(09-01-2011 11:37 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  It's only shameful if you bought it used off ebay.

Laugh

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(09-01-2011 03:51 AM)megaframe Wrote:  Average penis length isn't even close to 7".

I feel sorry for you.
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(09-01-2011 02:20 AM)K-man Wrote:  
(08-31-2011 07:43 PM)_DC_ Wrote:  "once a week" jerk

How do you guys do that? I've been doing it daily since I was 14. I might skip a day or two if I'm not feeling well, and when I have sex I also skip that day, but basically any other day I jerk off. Yeah, I've tried the thing when you don't do it for a few days and then go out "hungry" gaming - I haven't noticed an improvement in my game.

P.S. Still 20/20 vision at 35.

This.

I read many times about the benefits of not jerking off, higher testosterone, more "hunger", and thereby more focus, but I found it actually almost hurts my game. Maybe I'm not to the point where what needs to be said just comes out naturally, but if I go more then three days without cranking one out and then go try to deal with a woman I want to bang my brain gets clusterfucked.

Only time I dont jerk it is if I know I"ve got steady pussy coming at me.


As for Fleshlights, I've had two in my lifetime, dont currently own one, and I agree with what others have said, there is no stigma in actuality. No girl you ever meet is gonna think "wow bet he owns a fleshlight" only you will. I remember the one I owned actually feeling better then half the girls I"ve slept with because it wasn't fucking around and trying to do things that It and ruining the stroke.

And for dick size, average is below 7", but dont "feel sorry" for guys, thats patronizing and unlike every other topic this forum covers, thats something no man can change. And for the guys closer to average size, just remember, a girl can get off by using just one finger, if your dick is bigger then that then you're fine

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(09-02-2011 03:33 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  And for dick size, average is below 7", but dont "feel sorry" for guys, thats patronizing and unlike every other topic this forum covers, thats something no man can change. And for the guys closer to average size, just remember, a girl can get off by using just one finger, if your dick is bigger then that then you're fine


True dat. There is no point having a big dyck if it's not being used to split a lizard. To use an analogy, some guys have fast cars but live in places with speed limit of 60 miles an hour and they have to drive on the same roads day in day out.

Besides, look at the guy from Brooklyn with the 13 inches. He can't get laid and his game is in the negatives numbers. He actually has worse than zero game, his game actually rejects piglets.

Besides, having a big dyck is such a strain on the lumbar region *reaches for back brace Wink*

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(09-02-2011 03:33 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  I read many times about the benefits of not jerking off, higher testosterone, more "hunger", and thereby more focus, but I found it actually almost hurts my game. Maybe I'm not to the point where what needs to be said just comes out naturally, but if I go more then three days without cranking one out and then go try to deal with a woman I want to bang my brain gets clusterfucked.

Same here. And logically I see very little value in restricting yourself just so you feel more inclined to chase some pussy you'd otherwise would not chase.
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(09-02-2011 05:00 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  
(09-02-2011 03:33 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  I read many times about the benefits of not jerking off, higher testosterone, more "hunger", and thereby more focus, but I found it actually almost hurts my game. Maybe I'm not to the point where what needs to be said just comes out naturally, but if I go more then three days without cranking one out and then go try to deal with a woman I want to bang my brain gets clusterfucked.

Same here. And logically I see very little value in restricting yourself just so you feel more inclined to chase some pussy you'd otherwise would not chase.

What happens when a man "grows" his dick?
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Explain.
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Lol at the average being "over 7 inches"

Im gonna assume you were talking about porn stars! ha
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[Image: 790px-Penis_percentile.svg.png]

If you're packing 7 inches that puts you in the top 10% of all men. Average is more like 5 3/4.
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(09-04-2011 06:07 AM)gringochileno Wrote:  If you're packing 7 inches that puts you in the top 10% of all men. Average is more like 5 3/4.

Why this scale ends at 9???
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