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Fixing your vibe that people are attracted to
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Fixing your vibe that people are attracted to
So I have continued day-gaming, but the amount of approaches is not enough since I do not live in an area that has an abundance of girls. So, I have decided to try out night-game. The problem is that I've been told that I have a weird vibe about me that isn't normal. I have been told that I have improved since then(a year ago), but I still cannot get to change that vibe about myself. I have tried to get people to pin point what about my vibe is weird, but no one of my close friends are able to tell me.

So, my question is, is there a road-map on how to achieve "the vibe". I just want to go down the right path on the correct vibe that attracts people, even if it takes time.

In addition, would anyone be willing to listen to conversation and be able to pinpoint what about the way I talk could be deferential when I talk with people, so I can fix it.
07-17-2017 12:07 AM
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RE: Fixing your vibe that people are attracted to
Confront childhood problems.
See a therapist. Vent. Get back in the game.
In my experience, and it was just little problems.
I saw a therapist. Quit smoking, put on tons of muscle. Found my life's work.

Day Game or Night Game. It's all game today baby.

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07-17-2017 12:08 AM
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RE: Fixing your vibe that people are attracted to
Its probably just some sort of awkwardness. The solution is quantity of social interactions. Mystery got his start by being an entertainer on a cruise ship where he was forced to talk to strangers. Get a job taking surveys, sales, something like that where you get experience interacting with other people, not nec. women.
07-17-2017 05:32 AM
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RE: Fixing your vibe that people are attracted to
Drive for Lyft/Uber. You'll make money, your conversational skills will increase dramatically and and it will fix your "vibe" problem really fast. If you have a shitty vibe it will reflect on your rating and and you'll be able to more easily pinpoint it because you'll be more self concious.
07-17-2017 10:57 AM
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RE: Fixing your vibe that people are attracted to
Get someone to video some of your interactions. Seeing yourself on video can tell you a lot.
07-17-2017 05:39 PM
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RE: Fixing your vibe that people are attracted to
Did you take any of the advice given in your other thread?

Did you attempt to diagnose your interactions that did not go well?
07-17-2017 05:50 PM
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RE: Fixing your vibe that people are attracted to
Hit the gym hard.
Get your diet on point.
NoFap permanently.
Take a free(donation funded) 10 day meditation retreat. This is the hardest thing you will ever do but totally worth it.

https://www.dhamma.org/en-US/index

There are locations worldwide.
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07-21-2017 05:55 PM
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RE: Fixing your vibe that people are attracted to
Being in sales turned me from someone who was thought of as awkward and stand offish to someone who dressed impeccably, provided his own 'Brand Ambassador' blog by the company and also the top sales man in the division last year.

My favorite achievement which was the cherry on top: The president specifically ordered company branded pocket squares with my name in the back. For those close to me, a rare collector's item. Wink

It took me many approaches, some lifting, lots of ballsy cold calling and an overall change in surroundings (e.g. different career - Switched from accounting to sales) to get here. Sometimes I think people believe in me WAY more than even I do. The forum held me accountable through a lot of this. It's been one of the most positive effects on my growth as a man.

You can achieve this too. Just be ready to take risks. There is no roadmap.

My advice: start a self improvement thread, set some achievable goals and we will be there to support you and provide feedback. Instead if you want to run around and look for easy answers, be ready to achieve nothing but the same failures.

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07-21-2017 06:27 PM
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RE: Fixing your vibe that people are attracted to
Get a part time job just for this. A job that requires people skills and has lots of females around. Fast fashion stores, juiceries, cool bars and restaurants etc
07-22-2017 06:06 PM
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RE: Fixing your vibe that people are attracted to
I like to think OP will come back, put work in and allow us to help him. However, I'm afraid he's like most newbies that come in, ask a question, find out that the answer requires too much courage and effort, and ignore it altogether. Disappoints me every time.

This OP also seems to have another thread where members gave him advice. Yet he appears to have skipped and wants short term quick solutions which don't exist.

Yet I always think - maybe I'm wrong this time.

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07-23-2017 06:53 PM
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