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Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
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Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
Now I'm pretty aware of the red pill and do well with about 90% of interactions but I need some input on this one. I've got about 6 plates and a oneitis. Tonight I'm hanging out with my oneitis and her gay friend. In the car ride there she's telling me another guy friend of theirs is coming to meet up. The gay friend misteakenly tells me they met this other guy together last time at the bar and they were "fighting" over him and didn't know if he was gay. My oneitis said at the end of the night when they were all leaving "she won". But maybe they meant that she could tell he wasn't gay because he asked for her number etc. I don't know exactly. I interpreted this as she took the guy home and fucked him. I kept my cool mostly. Obviously she could "tell" that I was thinking WTF. I asked a few questions because I was thinking "seriously bitch are you telling me this right now?!" She said I misunderstood the story and changed the subject. We're supposed to hang out Sunday night and I'm not sure weather to tell her that we're not exclusive but why the fuck are you talking about this in front of me? Or my "red pill" thought process says "don't bring it up because that would show that it gets under your skin." But it does. Not that maybe she hooked up but why the fuck do you feel like you can disrespect me by talking about that in front of me. I guess what I'm saying is that if I misunderstood the situation I'll keep her around but if I did not then why the fuck would I want to hang out with someone like that? Is that something I should bring up because I may have actually not understood correctly and it's bothering the fuck out of me.
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08-12-2017 03:04 AM
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RE: Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
WTF are you doing man. How many flashing red signs do you need? There is nothing to contemplate, climb up to the pedestal you put her on, reach into her purse and grab your balls out of there, and move on to girls that don't involve things like "fighting over other guy with gay friend".
08-12-2017 03:21 AM
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RE: Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
she friendzoned you.
Try to fuck her, if you can't them move on and go fuck your plates.
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08-12-2017 03:52 AM
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RE: Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
You've got 6 plates and you give a shit about this chick?

Hatefuck her one last time and the second you pull out tell her to get dressed and fuck off.
08-12-2017 04:07 AM
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RE: Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
Once you get over it and truthfully see who she really is. You are going to want to punch yourself in the face.
08-12-2017 08:19 AM
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RE: Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
#1) I can't tell whether or not you're fucking this girl. If you aren't, why are you even still thinking about this?

#2) She's competing with a gay guy for a man? Think this one all the way through.

#3) Her behavior shows that she doesn't give a shit about your impressions of her except to the extent she needs to manipulate you. You should not give less of a shit what some whore does on her off-duty time. If anything, you should treat her non-judgmentally so she'll be open with you if she gets into anything too stupid and you need to bail.

Bottom line, you've caught Oneitis, she hasn't. Take your red pill and cure it.
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08-12-2017 08:59 AM
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RE: Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
(08-12-2017 04:07 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  You've got 6 plates and you give a shit about this chick?

Hatefuck her one last time and the second you pull out tell her to get dressed and fuck off.

Ah yes...the ole hate fuck. .Nothing as liberating as fucking a chick you dislike as a person knowing its the last time. Its like a "get out of jail" card or "bad behavior free pass".

I wrote this somewhere before..Once a chick I was banging for a while would always make fun of her ex boyfriend. Apparently the guy was chumpy as fuck and so was sending flowers and writing her love letters after almost a year trying to win her back. It was pretty pathetic but what pissed me off was her open disdain and lack of sympathy for the guy. But she had world class perfect D tits, a nice ass and loved sucking my knob so I rode it out for a while.

The final straw was when I was at her house and she started to read the sad chodes latest love letter out loud to me and another cunty friend of hers that was there. They were both laughing and ridiculing the poor sad sack over a glass of Chardonnay. I said something along the lines of "This guys pouring his heart out to you and youre making fun of him...that's pretty pathetic and shitty" They both pretty much said that it was the guy who was pathetic, yada yada. True...but cruel heartless cunts nonetheless. (In retrospect it was one of many eye opening experiences into a woman's "attraction wiring" for me)

Anyway the incident really planted a seed of dislike for me in the girl which grew and not long after I decided I was just gong to bang her ( and fuck and suck those perfect titties) one last time. We were at her place and as it happened she was on her period which turned out to be fortuitous. I was banging her bloody gooey hooha hole and then pulled out and put it in her pooter to finish like a responsible young man. The moment I blew my load I pulled out and looked at my cum covered, blood encrusted with a light coating of slimey shit on my spam missile and a wave of fucking disgust and intense dislike for this girl hit me. Without really thinking about it I jumped up out of bed and grabbed the closest thing I could find to wipe my dick off which happened to be her bedroom curtains as she watched me. I was already grabbing my underwear off the floor by the time her first shrieking "WTF?" came out at the nasty stain I left on her linen drapes. I put on my clothes and left there without saying another word to her. I have to admit it was pretty satisfying and not the first or last time I ever did the dick wipe on a girl. (I gave myself bonus points for doing it on girls cat once. Dont recommend it though as I did have cat hair sticking to my shank and balls on the ride home).

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08-12-2017 10:00 AM
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RE: Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
Yes even though I have all the other girls I've got the oneitis for this one somehow and banging the other ones isn't even fun for me. I've been having sex with this one about once per week and rotate the other ones when I want to just get laid. Fucking hate the oneitis, I was able to avoid it for 4 years and this one somehow snuck past my wall. It think it's because her puss feels better than the rest of them physically. There also my oneitis connection too so it feels like a god damn drug. And I'm more attracted to her than the others, I was the first time I saw her. Even though technically two of my plates are more "beautiful" on a looks scale to the average man. Fuck.
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08-12-2017 01:21 PM
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RE: Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
Why the hell are you going out with her and her gay friend?

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08-12-2017 01:48 PM
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RE: Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
^ real question here
08-13-2017 03:29 AM
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RE: Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
Meh, I've written about this at length, but I've been gone for awhile, so...

This is the issue. You're her beta orbiter. If she was into you, she wouldn't be out with her gay friend picking up other men in bars. She'd be trying to think of ways to please you, not to lose you, and she would be fighting to earn your respect. She wouldn't be hooking up with other guys not because you told her she's not "allowed", but because she doesn't want to.

In other words, your frame is off. And no amount of "hanging in there" can fix that, either. No fancy dinners, great vacations, deep conversations, or really anything can. In her heart, she thinks there's more out there -- an alpha male who will make her gina tingle, fuck her brains out, and keep her begging for more. That's why she's continuing to hook up with other guys - because you're not doing it entirely for her.

Sorry.

The solution is simple, but you won't like it...

Move on. Go to the gym, read up on game, square away your finances, and forge a lifestyle you enjoy living. Leave her behind with her gay friend and bar pickups. Chasing after a oneitis is a waste of time and just distances you from the things that will make your life better.

Establish a stronger frame, and this will be an issue you'll never have to worry about again...
08-13-2017 07:06 AM
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RE: Do I confront oneitis about this situation?
(08-12-2017 10:00 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  (I gave myself bonus points for doing it on girls cat once. Dont recommend it though as I did have cat hair sticking to my shank and balls on the ride home).

Good times

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08-19-2017 11:18 AM
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