Post: #251

You must be insane to talk just to Instagram female users.
The only exception i saw was someone posting pictures of her hobbies - without showing her face ( and she actually didn't look bad)
If you happen to meet one who says that social networks are shit , you should seriously consider her.

Post: #252

For a long time, girls weren’t responding to my first text after meeting them at bars and clubs. I figured nightlife was a dead end for me. Problem is that I love, love going out regardless of women.

Instagram seems to be helping because I just get girls’ Instagram handles instead of numbers now during nights out. They have been more responsive, probably cuz they can see my face on my profile and also the cool life I have.

Post: #253

>>Society gives more of a fuck about what is going on in the life of

Society gives a huge fuck about Caitlyn Jenner. You want that life? Fame != Happiness.
#TrainWrecks

Post: #254

It’s often said that tinder has damaged the SMP for men but having followed this thread, I wonder if INSTAGRAM’S addition to women’s follower bait profiles is the cause.

Post: #255

(11-24-2018 03:15 AM)N°6 Wrote:  It’s often said that tinder has damaged the SMP for men but having followed this thread, I wonder if INSTAGRAM’S addition to women’s follower bait profiles is the cause.

It's both (along with a bunch of other factors). But if you're looking for apps to blame, Tinder/Bumble and Instagram are the two biggest targets.

Just gotta keep working on yourself and become the man they want to be with

Post: #256

(11-25-2018 12:18 AM)corsega Wrote:  

(11-24-2018 03:15 AM)N°6 Wrote:  It’s often said that tinder has damaged the SMP for men but having followed this thread, I wonder if INSTAGRAM’S addition to women’s follower bait profiles is the cause.

It's both (along with a bunch of other factors). But if you're looking for apps to blame, Tinder/Bumble and Instagram are the two biggest targets.

Just gotta keep working on yourself and become the man they want to be with

The #thotaudit which shows how much unearned but taxable income that women can extract from young men's thir$t, shows that for many, self improvement will be a very long journey.

Post: #257

im the same way i love going out too nightlife is so fun dancing etc. getting the IG can help but also the number to and the IG can just add a supplement tool to your belt to reaffirm the life your living.

Post: #258

I had a clean sweep on IG this weekend, went out with a tall sexy local that followed me this summer and slid into my DMs when she saw I was coming to SPB. We met up for a quick drink earlier in the week, then Friday she spent the night at my place. Saturday I needed a last minute date for a group date since my repeat bailed, hit up another one who followed me, but I had slid into her DMs. She left in July before we met up, but came out this night.. ended up being the 3rd guy of her life.

My opening message.. basically the same as all my real life openers "Hey, what's up?"

Post: #259

(11-27-2018 12:19 PM)DigitalNomad Wrote:  My opening message.. basically the same as all my real life openers "Hey, what's up?"

Your opening message? Didn't she open you?

How did you signal you were going to St. Petersburg? Through story or an image in your feed?

I used to post passport photo + printed boarding pass. Had a few girls hit me up that way. But that was before stories.

Post: #260

@corsega that’s The Friday girl; the Saturday I didn’t post. I’ll typically post my 2-3 month schedule on my story after every new city.. an apple notes screenshot with a check mark after the city I just finished or something like that.

Post: #261

Can anyone recommend an Instagram management app that would delete ghost followers?

Post: #262

should you only slide in dm's if you get a follow back? Feel like this is most logical step. It's almost like you're going to get a makeout before you fuck. Obviously exceptions but generally the way things go.

Post: #263

^ Yes. As far as I know, if you DM a girl when she doesn't follow you, it goes into a message requests folder which basically never gets checked. Wait for a follow back.

Post: #264

(12-01-2018 09:02 AM)N°6 Wrote:  Can anyone recommend an Instagram management app that would delete ghost followers?

If you find one, let me know. My engagement is down to embarrassingly small levels lately. Out of 12K followers, I got 186 likes on my latest post.

I'm thinking of culling back down to a couple thousand followers and then building up again of people that will actually engage with my content.

Post: #265

(12-06-2018 02:04 PM)jacknap Wrote:  should you only slide in dm's if you get a follow back? Feel like this is most logical step. It's almost like you're going to get a makeout before you fuck. Obviously exceptions but generally the way things go.

Depends on how many followers the girl has. If she has over 1-2k, she probably gets a ton of messages and might not see it. If she only has a few a few hundred followers she'll see it for sure.. IG sends a notification saying "blah blah would like to send you a message."

On a somewhat related note, Tinder removed the ability to visit a girl's IG from the app. I think that will help, as a lot of DMs girls received were guys creeping from Tinder.. see original post for proof.

Post: #266

Instagram adds voice messages.

https://techcrunch.com/2018/12/10/instag...messaging/

This is a good thing. Can easily build more comfort with girls over DM.

Post: #267

I'm not on instagram, but I like voice messaging. I use it on whatsapp a lot. It shows confidence, most men aren't doing it, you get to use your voice, and it shows low investment (like you can't even be arsed to type a reply).

Post: #268

Is there any way how you can know the location of your followers to some degree of accuracy? For me this is biggest problem on IG, you have your bot follow thousands of girls all over the world and then when the moment comes and you visit a city where some of them are located, you can't know which ones? Your only hope then is going through your massive bot generated follower list or put on some moment indicating you arriving in the specific city and hoping some will reply, which they generally don't.

Facebook used to have this option, you went to the page of a city and it would display "my friends that live here" and "friends that have visited", would be ideal, but I think even somehow facebook deleted this option.

Post: #269

(12-11-2018 08:15 AM)rottenapple Wrote:  Is there any way how you can know the location of your followers to some degree of accuracy? For me this is biggest problem on IG, you have your bot follow thousands of girls all over the world and then when the moment comes and you visit a city where some of them are located, you can't know which ones? Your only hope then is going through your massive bot generated follower list or put on some moment indicating you arriving in the specific city and hoping some will reply, which they generally don't.

Facebook used to have this option, you went to the page of a city and it would display "my friends that live here" and "friends that have visited", would be ideal, but I think even somehow facebook deleted this option.

No way to do it that I can think of.

Post: #270

(12-11-2018 11:41 AM)corsega Wrote:  

(12-11-2018 08:15 AM)rottenapple Wrote:  Is there any way how you can know the location of your followers to some degree of accuracy? For me this is biggest problem on IG, you have your bot follow thousands of girls all over the world and then when the moment comes and you visit a city where some of them are located, you can't know which ones? Your only hope then is going through your massive bot generated follower list or put on some moment indicating you arriving in the specific city and hoping some will reply, which they generally don't.

Facebook used to have this option, you went to the page of a city and it would display "my friends that live here" and "friends that have visited", would be ideal, but I think even somehow facebook deleted this option.

No way to do it that I can think of.

It's been mentioned previously in here before, but you can create folders within your bookmarks for each city, then add a picture of them to the folder. Not perfect, but if you keep on it, it works pretty well.

Also good for cities you plan to go back to and adding the girls you met while you were there.

Post: #271

What do you guys write when you message girls cold on Instagram? Let's say you say "Hello" and they respond. What now? I usually just go direct with "Came across your profile and found you attractive. How about we meet up sometime?". I feel like it sucks though, and response isn't that great.

Post: #272

(12-13-2018 01:21 AM)Jozi Wrote:  What do you guys write when you message girls cold on Instagram? Let's say you say "Hello" and they respond. What now? I usually just go direct with "Came across your profile and found you attractive. How about we meet up sometime?". I feel like it sucks though, and response isn't that great.

Direct doesn't work on Instagram. You have to make the interactions even longer than Tinder.

Remember, you're messaging a total stranger. Treat it like a daygame interaction, but online.

Here's a girl I got out on a date from a cold DM (she followed me first): https://imgur.com/a/r6nhp4h

Post: #273

(12-13-2018 02:18 AM)corsega Wrote:  

(12-13-2018 01:21 AM)Jozi Wrote:  What do you guys write when you message girls cold on Instagram? Let's say you say "Hello" and they respond. What now? I usually just go direct with "Came across your profile and found you attractive. How about we meet up sometime?". I feel like it sucks though, and response isn't that great.

Direct doesn't work on Instagram. You have to make the interactions even longer than Tinder.

Remember, you're messaging a total stranger. Treat it like a daygame interaction, but online.

Here's a girl I got out on a date from a cold DM (she followed me first): https://imgur.com/a/r6nhp4h

Alright. I go direct during daygame however. Never liked indirect. Maybe I'll just stop using Instagram.

Post: #274

Instagram game is hard...very hard. I'll stick to my username and approach in real life.

Post: #275

(12-13-2018 02:39 AM)Jozi Wrote:  

(12-13-2018 02:18 AM)corsega Wrote:  

(12-13-2018 01:21 AM)Jozi Wrote:  What do you guys write when you message girls cold on Instagram? Let's say you say "Hello" and they respond. What now? I usually just go direct with "Came across your profile and found you attractive. How about we meet up sometime?". I feel like it sucks though, and response isn't that great.

Direct doesn't work on Instagram. You have to make the interactions even longer than Tinder.

Remember, you're messaging a total stranger. Treat it like a daygame interaction, but online.

Here's a girl I got out on a date from a cold DM (she followed me first): https://imgur.com/a/r6nhp4h

Alright. I go direct during daygame however. Never liked indirect. Maybe I'll just stop using Instagram.

During daygame, you ask the girl out in your second sentence?