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Sex Has Become An Obsession
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Sex Has Become An Obsession
Have men always been as obsessed with sex as they are today? Was it thrust into their faces practically every single moment? I doubt it. Men of the past had to put so much more energy into survival that sex was seen more as the dessert instead of the main dish like it is now. Otherwise, the sex-obsessed ancient man would surely die of starvation or predation. What you think of as a normal level of horniness and healthy sex attitude would be vulgar and downright ill to men of the past.
I go online and there is sex in places it shouldn’t be. My Twitter timeline is filled with attention-whoring women who showcase their cleavage and beauty, retweeted by thirsty men. The trending list on YouTube is filled with women using their sexuality to get views, and even children’s videos have sexual themes. Instagram, an app I barely use, insists on recommending busty women who showcase and jiggle their breasts. The only way you can turn off receiving endless sex messages from the internet is if you don’t go on the internet.
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Even when I succeed in not thinking about sex, I’m immediately corrupted as soon as I walk out my door. Women are too eager to show me the curvature of their bodies, their breasts, their ass, and with yoga pants, even the outline of their chubby labia. Women have become so deranged with showing us their sex that many are petitioning the government to go topless on public streets. It doesn’t matter how much willpower you have as a man, they will attempt to suck you in and put your mind into thinking about fucking them so they feel a sense of validation.
Sex is our generation’s daily obsession. If men don’t spent hours on porn sites or social networking trying to “like” or swipe their way into a woman’s pants, they hop on an airplane and travel thousands of miles away to bang until they’re sick of it. While most of the third world is looking for economic opportunity, the comfortable men of the first world look for sex opportunity, because it’s one of the top things that gives them meaning in life. It’s so easy to survive that so we can safely dedicate ourselves to rock star sex goals at the same time we experiment with a diet or supplement stack that maximizes our testosterone level to ensure superhuman fornication.
Frankly, I’m tired of it. I’ve dedicated more time than 99% of men into getting sex. It has given me a community of men online I can talk to, which is great, but my soul has nothing to show for it. I don’t want to care about sleeping with a girl I don’t have feelings for. I don’t want to go on another bang mission, or travel to more countries to find a perfect woman who exists only in my mind. Enough! I can’t bear to look at another vagina for the sole purpose of using it as a tool to get a ten-second orgasm that gives me no pleasure as soon as it’s done, even though I know deep down that the next girl I sleep with will certainly be someone I do not love.

If some facet of the culture has been normalized by the time you reach puberty, you will think it’s an integral part of humanity. This means that any man born since the sexual revolution of the 1970’s will grow up thinking about sex and pursuing it far more than his ancestors. The situation is worse for men born in the era of internet porn, who don’t know what it’s like not to have hardcore ass-to-mouth videos on demand.
Even if you decide to shake this sex obsession, those around you have not. Girls will insist on displaying vaginas close up to your face, asking if you would kindly take a sniff. Men will insist that you need to “just get laid,” as if that will solve all of your problems. There’s no way to stop it unless you remove yourself totally from society, an unreasonable task. It looks like we’re cursed to have sex a daily part of our existence, whether we like or not.
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02-12-2018 10:15 AM
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RE: Sex Has Become An Obsession
Totally agree !
Nuff said ...
02-12-2018 10:57 AM
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RE: Sex Has Become An Obsession
This reminds me of a member's post that I deemed a "Post of the Day"

Roosh, if I ever called into one of your Live chat shows I was going to ask you about what you thought about your journey over all these years. When I first found the forum, I had a good foundation of tradition and spirituality. Even though I was investigating what was going on in the world, other places, the mind of other men who were let's just say "less than enthused" with the state of women (in the West), I always had the suspicion I would return to the knowledge and wisdom I had that basically I see you learning, especially in the late stages having done what you've done and accomplished what you've accomplished. It's distilled into quips like "there's nothing new under the sun" or termed fairly scientifically or elegantly as "hedonic adaptation." These things are fairly obvious to those who have an understanding of history and great spiritual teachers. That doesn't mean we as humans don't have to find out for ourselves in a way to really make it hit home. I point that out because it's not a criticism but rather a point of reflection.

I saw the recent Live Chat and you seemed more coarse than usual regarding the topic of women. So, my question is, what are you thoughts on it? Where do you intend to find the meaning in it all?

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02-12-2018 11:02 AM
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RE: Sex Has Become An Obsession
Interesting take on this from James Hillman.

He argues that since Man has conquered nature with technology our life has become increasingly sterile and thus a lot of the smells and sensations of our love affair with nature have gone and as a consequence man's internal landscape of imagination and desire has become just as barren.

This coincides with sex, pornography, sexualisation of advertising and everything else suddenly mushrooming astronomically as the only available outlet for that side of people's psyches - which is currently being starved.

His talk:
"Pink Madness: Why does Aphrodite drive us crazy with pornography?"

If you listen from 7:30 min til 11:50 min in the video he asks the audience to consider what it might be like for a mythological goddess who has been told that she has no place in the modern world and who is therefore seeking any outlet/revenge.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bt8R9f4O-Lw
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02-12-2018 11:07 AM
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RE: Sex Has Become An Obsession
I've actually thought about this very topic for quite a bit, man. I am Catholic, and as most people probably know, the Catholic Church frowns upon masturbation and out-of-wedlock sex. I used to think these rules would be impossible to follow, but eventually I came to the conclusion that while it has never ben easy, it is 10x harder to follow these guidelines now than it has through most of human history. Even looking at photos from 60 years ago, I find it incredible to see how much more modest women dressed. The only way I've been able to avoid this is severely limiting my media intake. It would be impossible for me otherwise. According to C.S. Lewis, the problem with sex is that the drive is that the appetite for sex overextends it's biological purpose. Modern man has more food than he can eat, but will usually not eat more than 2-3x as much food as he needs. However, if it were not for birth control, your average Joe would be populating an entire town with new people. Since the biological nature of sex has been diminished, I feel as if it is now comparable to a Roman nobleman or binge eater barfing up the food he has eating at a vomitorium just to receive the pleasure from the act, but not actually completing it's biological and natural purpose.

Romans 8:18-21

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02-13-2018 01:52 AM
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RE: Sex Has Become An Obsession
Isn’t that the reason why some cultures require women to wear a veil?
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02-13-2018 03:56 AM
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RE: Sex Has Become An Obsession
Sex, in an ideal sense, shouldn't be as easy as it is to access today. (Porn, birth control, abortion, social media attention whoring, breakdown of the patriarchy, etc.) all have very negative effects on the ease-of-access of sex. We tend to devalue what is too easy to come across. We are due for a major correction as developed countries start amassing more and more shiftless men who aren't motivated by providing. I see it as a pathway to resetting the natural order where the strong (and those with self-control) will come to rule over the non-stop wankers.

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02-13-2018 07:35 AM
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RE: Sex Has Become An Obsession
Actually in a more stable society access to sex under the marital hub was very easy to come by.

The West had either early marriages where very young partners between the ages of 16-20 were rutting like crazy after getting married. When men needed to manifest some wealth before marriage, then there were 500% the amount of brothels than they are now.

So even if women were not giving the milk for free, it did not create a sexually repressed society - the majority of men by age 25 were married anyway and had an infinite amount of access to sex - to one woman.

What is happening now is that the top 20% gets much more access to easy free sex without marriage while the lower 80% of men get less than they got than in the 1950s. This obsession with sex is another factor however combined with the brainwashing by the Freudian psychology, by the quacks like Kinsey and by the globalist machine everywhere.
02-13-2018 11:24 AM
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For the first time ever last week I got to see what Instagram is really like. It has a totally different look on a smartphone than on the computer and MY DEAR GOD.

So many women who just attention whore with pictures of their half naked bodies in different landscapes. I followed a few girls for a day and could see what they were liking and following on there and it so easy to see what pictures that get most likes and attention and it's always those whore pictures.

It's fucking astounding how much monkey behaviour we still do as a species. Women want men to judge them for something else than their bodies, yet they actively help turn themselves into objects.
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02-13-2018 11:38 AM
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