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I put white women on a pedestal because I have yet to sleep with one. As a 6, I should probably lower my standards. Only been on dates with White European women -- unable to close on any of them. I recently bought Roosh's 'Game' book hopefully it will help me get my first white woman bang.

I thought white american guys (in protecting white women) were the biggest cockblockers, until I lived in Italy. Italian men in Italy will try to cockblock you in real life and online. I went on a few dates with a blonde Italian girl in Rome and negative vibes and curses (in Italian) from Italian men were disturbing.

On Instagram, search the hashtag #Italiangirl and I followed around 500 Italian women (about 10 followed me back). Random Italian men started writing these weird comments on my pics on insta. I could sense the jealousy and insecurity.

How do y'all deal with white american men cockblocking you, when gaming white women? I know this is a problem not only for Indian guys but Asian, Hispanic and Black men as well.
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(11-05-2018 11:05 AM)I Love White Women Wrote:  I put white women on a pedestal because I have yet to sleep with one. As a 6, I should probably lower my standards. Only been on dates with White European women -- unable to close on any of them. I recently bought Roosh's 'Game' book hopefully it will help me get my first white woman bang.

I thought white american guys (in protecting white women) were the biggest cockblockers, until I lived in Italy. Italian men in Italy will try to cockblock you in real life and online. I went on a few dates with a blonde Italian girl in Rome and negative vibes and curses (in Italian) from Italian men were disturbing.

On Instagram, search the hashtag #Italiangirl and I followed around 500 Italian women (about 10 followed me back). Random Italian men started writing these weird comments on my pics on insta. I could sense the jealousy and insecurity.

How do y'all deal with white american men cockblocking you, when gaming white women? I know this is a problem not only for Indian guys but Asian, Hispanic and Black men as well.

Advice #1. If you're simply trying to get a notch / novel experience in the sense that you describe I would advise taking some trips outta NYC. Even mini escapes outside of the region might help. Your resume & background are dime a dozen in NYC. I haven't met you or know your personality, but based off what you have written it's probably tough to stir emotion or interest into the type of lady that you're trying to bring to bed. I'd even say take a trip to somewhere in Upstate NY or into Pennsylvania (past Philadelphia) & meet some simpler Americans that aren't inundated with noise, stimuli & omnipresent hypergamy. You might finally meet a woman that appreciates something exotic about you.
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(11-05-2018 01:41 PM)jordypip23 Wrote:  
(11-05-2018 11:05 AM)I Love White Women Wrote:  I put white women on a pedestal because I have yet to sleep with one. As a 6, I should probably lower my standards. Only been on dates with White European women -- unable to close on any of them. I recently bought Roosh's 'Game' book hopefully it will help me get my first white woman bang.

I thought white american guys (in protecting white women) were the biggest cockblockers, until I lived in Italy. Italian men in Italy will try to cockblock you in real life and online. I went on a few dates with a blonde Italian girl in Rome and negative vibes and curses (in Italian) from Italian men were disturbing.

On Instagram, search the hashtag #Italiangirl and I followed around 500 Italian women (about 10 followed me back). Random Italian men started writing these weird comments on my pics on insta. I could sense the jealousy and insecurity.

How do y'all deal with white american men cockblocking you, when gaming white women? I know this is a problem not only for Indian guys but Asian, Hispanic and Black men as well.

Advice #1. If you're simply trying to get a notch / novel experience in the sense that you describe I would advise taking some trips outta NYC. Even mini escapes outside of the region might help. Your resume & background are dime a dozen in NYC. I haven't met you or know your personality, but based off what you have written it's probably tough to stir emotion or interest into the type of lady that you're trying to bring to bed. I'd even say take a trip to somewhere in Upstate NY or into Pennsylvania (past Philadelphia) & meet some simpler Americans that aren't inundated with noise, stimuli & omnipresent hypergamy. You might finally meet a woman that appreciates something exotic about you.

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(11-05-2018 03:31 PM)LexisNexis Wrote:  
(11-05-2018 01:41 PM)jordypip23 Wrote:  
(11-05-2018 11:05 AM)I Love White Women Wrote:  I put white women on a pedestal because I have yet to sleep with one. As a 6, I should probably lower my standards. Only been on dates with White European women -- unable to close on any of them. I recently bought Roosh's 'Game' book hopefully it will help me get my first white woman bang.

I thought white american guys (in protecting white women) were the biggest cockblockers, until I lived in Italy. Italian men in Italy will try to cockblock you in real life and online. I went on a few dates with a blonde Italian girl in Rome and negative vibes and curses (in Italian) from Italian men were disturbing.

On Instagram, search the hashtag #Italiangirl and I followed around 500 Italian women (about 10 followed me back). Random Italian men started writing these weird comments on my pics on insta. I could sense the jealousy and insecurity.

How do y'all deal with white american men cockblocking you, when gaming white women? I know this is a problem not only for Indian guys but Asian, Hispanic and Black men as well.

Advice #1. If you're simply trying to get a notch / novel experience in the sense that you describe I would advise taking some trips outta NYC. Even mini escapes outside of the region might help. Your resume & background are dime a dozen in NYC. I haven't met you or know your personality, but based off what you have written it's probably tough to stir emotion or interest into the type of lady that you're trying to bring to bed. I'd even say take a trip to somewhere in Upstate NY or into Pennsylvania (past Philadelphia) & meet some simpler Americans that aren't inundated with noise, stimuli & omnipresent hypergamy. You might finally meet a woman that appreciates something exotic about you.

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Hahahah. I take the L for that one. At least I replied before the troll was banned.
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I wanted to pitch a new theory to this thread and get the thoughts you guys have about it. Even though I know it will sound controversial to some forum members, I am going to pitch it based on what I have noticed in my travels.

One of my friends I was talking to is Asian and he has a younger brother that is about to start college. Now my friend is not from the stereotypical helicopter parent Asian family, his parents want their kids to have "the college experience". In visiting some schools, my friend's younger brother tried to find out if any of the top tier fraternities were giving bids to Asian guys. The reasoning is that if top tier frats on campus have Asian guys in them, it says a lot about the social value of Asians at that school. It means that Asian guys at that school are not just getting a degree, they are

Now for a lot of big schools, it is Greek Life which gives you access to some of the top tier women who will often be in sororities. I think in some ways, to a degree, the real world works like this as well. You have to have some social value of some kind, not the nerdy kind by being a corporate worker but the "cool" kind of social value in order to get some of the top tier women regardless of race.

Almost every city is going to have that in crowd almost, the crew which has guys that a lot of the better looking women want.

Nightlife is one of the avenues for that in the real world, it isn't the only one but it is one of the main ones. I noticed looking back at some of the cities I visited like Charleston, where I thought I did great, that one of the higher end bars I went to had a brown guy as a bartender. I've gone back and forth with forum members on this but nightlife jobs at prime venues do net you opportunities with attractive women.

Even when I visited Minneapolis, I went out to a nice restaurant where a lot of the workers were hot, one of the bartenders was Indian. Go figure, I did well in the city.

Young attractive women love partying, drinking and having a great time so whoever has status in that scene gets some options. It doesn't just have to be nightlife either, I am just using it as an example.

Which leads me to the theory that in order to get an idea of how well brown guys do in a city, try to see how well brown guys are represented in the higher status, cool and more of the in crowds of that city.

I don't mean high status in a career way that would make your parents proud, I mean it in more of a socially successful way and running with crowds that draw in a lot of attractive women which can vary city by city, nightlife just seems to be one of the more prominent ones.

So if you're out in a city, go visit some of the top nightclubs and party places that a lot of the younger more lively crowd gathers at. Look around to see what race the people working some of the top notch jobs there are and if you see some brown guys getting gigs there, I think it is a good sign.

It doesn't have to be nightlife either since a lot of respected members in here have a beef with that, it can be any sort of avenue that draws in a lot of top tier women and cool people.

What I can say is if yoga classes are cool in a given city and there is not one Indian guy being an instructor in them, that's a really bad sign.
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(11-07-2018 12:37 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  I wanted to pitch a new theory to this thread and get the thoughts you guys have about it. Even though I know it will sound controversial to some forum members, I am going to pitch it based on what I have noticed in my travels.

One of my friends I was talking to is Asian and he has a younger brother that is about to start college. Now my friend is not from the stereotypical helicopter parent Asian family, his parents want their kids to have "the college experience". In visiting some schools, my friend's younger brother tried to find out if any of the top tier fraternities were giving bids to Asian guys. The reasoning is that if top tier frats on campus have Asian guys in them, it says a lot about the social value of Asians at that school. It means that Asian guys at that school are not just getting a degree, they are

Now for a lot of big schools, it is Greek Life which gives you access to some of the top tier women who will often be in sororities. I think in some ways, to a degree, the real world works like this as well. You have to have some social value of some kind, not the nerdy kind by being a corporate worker but the "cool" kind of social value in order to get some of the top tier women regardless of race.

Almost every city is going to have that in crowd almost, the crew which has guys that a lot of the better looking women want.

Nightlife is one of the avenues for that in the real world, it isn't the only one but it is one of the main ones. I noticed looking back at some of the cities I visited like Charleston, where I thought I did great, that one of the higher end bars I went to had a brown guy as a bartender. I've gone back and forth with forum members on this but nightlife jobs at prime venues do net you opportunities with attractive women.

Even when I visited Minneapolis, I went out to a nice restaurant where a lot of the workers were hot, one of the bartenders was Indian. Go figure, I did well in the city.

Young attractive women love partying, drinking and having a great time so whoever has status in that scene gets some options. It doesn't just have to be nightlife either, I am just using it as an example.

Which leads me to the theory that in order to get an idea of how well brown guys do in a city, try to see how well brown guys are represented in the higher status, cool and more of the in crowds of that city.

I don't mean high status in a career way that would make your parents proud, I mean it in more of a socially successful way and running with crowds that draw in a lot of attractive women which can vary city by city, nightlife just seems to be one of the more prominent ones.

So if you're out in a city, go visit some of the top nightclubs and party places that a lot of the younger more lively crowd gathers at. Look around to see what race the people working some of the top notch jobs there are and if you see some brown guys getting gigs there, I think it is a good sign.

It doesn't have to be nightlife either since a lot of respected members in here have a beef with that, it can be any sort of avenue that draws in a lot of top tier women and cool people.

What I can say is if yoga classes are cool in a given city and there is not one Indian guy being an instructor in them, that's a really bad sign.
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To be honest I think areas like that will be better for Indians. It can be harder for us to roll with WASP/surfer cliques since we probably didn't grow up around them (though there are exceptions). Places like LA are also very social circle oriented -- if you can't roll in those circles, you're automatically at a disadvantage with their women. The less socially stratified a place is the better it will be for you or me
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What is with this "can't get laid?, go somewhere else bruh" changing your location won't change you or make u better leave that to the white weebos in SEA/SA lol. A well put together brown guy who is fit,confident,looks good and has his shit together can do most places unless we are talking about places like SF/toronto.
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(11-09-2018 01:05 AM)Alpha555 Wrote:  A well put together brown guy who is fit,confident,looks good and has his shit together can do most places unless we are talking about places like SF/toronto.

Brown guy from San Francisco/Bay Area. SF is all about social circle game...cold approaches on the street or in a club/bar during day/night game is awful.

Most of my notches have come from knowing the same girls my entire life. From the same college/university, network of family/friends, etc.

In the last 5-10 years there has been a massive influx of people from around in the U.S. (and India/Asia), I don't really try to hook up with any of the transplant girls.

A FOB guy from India or an ABCD from outside of Cali will find SF and the Bay to be a shithole for game.
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How do you guys feel about working/dealiing with your subconscious emotional trauma/blockages and self hate since it is an issue for many brown newbies or even those who are in game for sometime which inadvertently affects other aspects of your life as well.
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(11-09-2018 12:04 PM)Alpha555 Wrote:  How do you guys feel about working/dealiing with your subconscious emotional trauma/blockages and self hate since it is an issue for many brown newbies or even those who are in game for sometime which inadvertently affects other aspects of your life as well.

You need to confront those immediately.

You need to understand WHY you have self hate and loathing.

You need to work through your emotional trauma/blockage, go seek professional help or start writing it down or hell even write about it on the forum so you get other mens opinions on it.

The sooner you break those chains the better.


If you don't have any self love or good inner game, your external game and relationships with girls and others will be shit.

It ALL starts from within man.


Doesn't matter what race you are, you need to accept your self, love your self, and better yourself.

It does however show that racial stigma is a problem for brown dudes, hell even some Hapa's also.

My personal advice? Create a self help progress thread for yourself on the forum, write out your thought process, your emotions, your views on the world.

You'll be surprised at the comments and feedback you get.

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(11-09-2018 12:22 PM)kaotic Wrote:  
(11-09-2018 12:04 PM)Alpha555 Wrote:  How do you guys feel about working/dealiing with your subconscious emotional trauma/blockages and self hate since it is an issue for many brown newbies or even those who are in game for sometime which inadvertently affects other aspects of your life as well.

You need to confront those immediately.

You need to understand WHY you have self hate and loathing.

You need to work through your emotional trauma/blockage, go seek professional help or start writing it down or hell even write about it on the forum so you get other mens opinions on it.

The sooner you break those chains the better.


If you don't have any self love or good inner game, your external game and relationships with girls and others will be shit.

It ALL starts from within man.


Doesn't matter what race you are, you need to accept your self, love your self, and better yourself.

It does however show that racial stigma is a problem for brown dudes, hell even some Hapa's also.

My personal advice? Create a self help progress thread for yourself on the forum, write out your thought process, your emotions, your views on the world.

You'll be surprised at the comments and feedback you get.

We're all men here trying to better ourselves, and we're all gonna make it.
Thank you for the thoughtful suggestion but wasn't talking about me brother but I thought it would be very helpful for the brown brothers who have some inferiority complex/defeated mentality which I have observed online and real life and create a mental prison for themselves.
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(11-09-2018 12:39 PM)Alpha555 Wrote:  Thank you for the thoughtful suggestion but wasn't talking about me brother but I thought it would be very helpful for the brown brothers who have some inferiority complex/defeated mentality which I have observed online and real life and create a mental prison for themselves.

My bad I should of been more clear, I was talking in general for any man whose reading this and is struggling with these issues.

Most men like to write and complain about it, few take action if any.

If guys who has issues finds this forum and doesn't take actions on good advice and posts - then I hate to say, that man is a lost cause.

This forum is so immense with actionable advice, even I glean new nuggets of wisdom, realize I was wrong in some of my opinion. I still learn new game strategies also and adapt to new wave of gaming and girls.

You can only lead a horse to water you know?

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So here is some advice for losing limiting beliefs and self-hatred as someone who had it at one point during his life but then lost it. Definitely not an overnight process though, it is going to take a lot of life experience and being out there to eventually get over it.

Avoid the unhappy and the unlucky. Pick your company more carefully and spend time around alpha supportive people.

For most brown guys, this means not hanging out with the majority of brown and Asian guys out there. Minorities love to drag each other down, generally speaking, and as Robert Greene once said you can die from another man's misery. The self-hate and limiting beliefs are prominent in recent immigrant groups to the US whose parents raised them with more of a scarcity and outsider mindset. You might not think of it initially but when you see a lot of your fellow brothers talking about how life is tough for them because they are brown, how the white kids have it easy and how "of course that guy is getting hot girls because he is white duh"; it wears on you. If men in your family did this, start avoiding them as well and seeking out other company.

You are the average of people you spend the most time around so if you are spending time around other guys that constantly whine about race, change your group. I would recommend solitude over spending time with low quality people. You can also look to hobbies like group sports, team sports and masculine places where you will come across more of that alpha demeanor.

I have very rarely known a brown guy who slayed by having mainly brown and Asian friends.

Tell your parents to fuck off.

I seriously mean it, most brown parents are not very supportive of creating alpha masculine kids. The more you submit to your parents, the more you will lose your freedom and your mindset. You will be in a job you hate living a life you are not passionate about and women will pick up on this. I recommend leaving behind your parents for the time being and knowing that they come from a different time than you. Of all the factors, I would say brown parents are the main ones that lead to a lot of less than developed guys who struggle a lot with game.

Go find work, trade or life purpose you are passionate about.

Now this is powerful and it carries a lot of meaning. Not everyone is cut out to be a doctor or engineer or even wants to be one for that matter. The guys I knew who were fulfilled went into professions where you do not find as many brown guys compared to other places. If you do that, you will be waking up more fulfilled each day and just that freedom of deciding your life on your terms becomes empowering compared to the rest of your brown brothers who are at the mercy of their parents.

Look good.

This means getting in good shape and dressing to fit in with the local crowd, don't overdress and don't dress like a slob. I have gained a few pounds in the past year but I have been hitting the gym hard in the past few weeks while going about counting calories. Looks matter and if you look good, you feel good and you feel better about yourself. These days, looks matter more than anything and if you can appreciate the look you see in the mirror, you will feel better about your life. Take your shirt off right now, if you like what you see in the mirror, then get out there and run some game!

I don't like what I have seen in the mirror lately so there is the setback.

Learn to see yourself as an individual and make friends who don't make a big deal about your race.

I have found that white guys and whites in general tend to point out race a lot less openly than minorities do. A lot of minorities in general have their own complex about race and feel the need to throw that on to others as well. If you find yourself with minority friends who are trying to get you to take part in their little sob story, run like hell and cut off contact. I am not saying you only make friends with whites but be weary of making friends with minorities who are all too hung up on race. Learn to see yourself as an individual and not as your race.

This life and game are hard as fuck so in the end, you either want it or you don't.

You either want the player life or you don't. Its hard as fuck, I am finding that out first hand as to how hard it can be to get hot girls and how much it can demoralize you when you fail. If you go through whining about race, you are going to make it ten times harder on yourself as well because you are defeating yourself. The game will do more than a good enough job of defeating you so don't make its job any easier. In the end, you either want it or you don't. If you want it that bad, you will get to a point where your own race is the thing you don't care about as much.
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(11-09-2018 01:05 AM)Alpha555 Wrote:  What is with this "can't get laid?, go somewhere else bruh" changing your location won't change you or make u better leave that to the white weebos in SEA/SA lol. A well put together brown guy who is fit,confident,looks good and has his shit together can do most places unless we are talking about places like SF/toronto.

It is about maximizing your return on investment. For some of us, the mentality, is why not go all in and be in a place where you can hit the highest ceiling?

If you are able to get the attention of 5 hot girls in one city and 15 in another, I'd say go for the one where you get the attention of 15 hot girls. It is all about being in a place where you can maximize your value and not all cities are created equal.
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(11-09-2018 03:58 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  Tell your parents to fuck off.

Uhhh...no.

What I love about non-Anglo culture (Indian, Asian, Latin, Middle Eastern, etc) is respect for family, culture and traditions.

a beer is enough, where are you from? Where do you currently live? Your post screams a South Indian/Guju/Bengali guy somewhere in the midwest and a majority of your friends are white. You definitely do not live in a international city like San Francisco, Miami or Chicago. If you live in Cali or Chicago -- all your friends must be white. 100% ABCD.
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(11-09-2018 04:56 PM)SFGuy Wrote:  If you live in Cali or Chicago -- all your friends must be white. 100% ABCD.

Disregarding telling parents to fuck of.

Explain to me what's wrong with being an Indian born in the west and assimilating into the host culture?

You can have traditions for both.

Let's ask another question, what's wrong with having white friends?

Actually let's ask a better question, what's wrong with having X friends? (X being the major race in the area you live).

ABCD is a ridiculous term, it basically means, "dude you're so white washed, it's shameful"

This is another form of brown dudes tearing down other brown dudes by shaming them.


This isn't what we should be be about, who cares if a guy has a ton of X race of friends.

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(11-09-2018 05:19 PM)kaotic Wrote:  
(11-09-2018 04:56 PM)SFGuy Wrote:  If you live in Cali or Chicago -- all your friends must be white. 100% ABCD.

Disregarding telling parents to fuck of.

Explain to me what's wrong with being an Indian born in the west and assimilating into the host culture?

You can have traditions for both.

Let's ask another question, what's wrong with having white friends?

Actually let's asking a better question, what's wrong with having X friends? (X being the major race in the area you live).

ABCD is a ridiculous term, it basically means, "dude you're so white washed, it's shameful"

This is another form of brown dudes tearing down other brown dudes by shaming them.

I was born and raised in the SF Bay area. I cannot relate to some of the weird shit you guys are posting. The white people worship is both strange and funny. In my personal experience, British Indians and FOBs from India are far more normal than some of you guys from other parts of the U.S.

There is a large Indian population in the bay area and race has never really been an issue with me. I've had friends from all racial backgrounds (Hispanic, White, Persian, Black, Asian, you name it).

ABCD is an outdated term...I think coconut (brown on the outside, white on the inside) is the more appropriate term to describe a beer is enough and his fellow 'I desperately need a white girl' clan.

I'm visiting Miami in a few weeks and will be trying to f*ck any hot girls regardless of race.

I will be posting any notches and game stuff in the Miami thread: https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-52548-page-14.html
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Can you go into detail of what you think is weird? I'm genuinely interested in knowing, maybe we'll see something we didn't see before.


Noones worshiping white people, after all you're the one who brought it up, and assumed he had to be white washed with only white friends, that's why I was curious and was asking.

If you're in X area that has a big Y race, then you'll more than likely more Y friends than any other race. It's simple demographics. That explains how you're intertwined with so many races in SF, whereas someone from the midwest or south won't be.

I live in Socal as you mentioned and have a ton of different races for friends and girls who I fuck.

YES, there are a ton of FOB's and Desi's who go after white girls, that's a known fact. Just like white dudes going after asian chicks.

Now it's not to say I haven't judged Beer a bit harsh at times, but I really don't think he's going solely after white chicks.

I think he's pointing out how very judgemental south asians can be of eachother when they aren't sticking to the quota and stereotypes. (I can't speak for his other points)

Being "white on the inside" is the product of a person whose adapted to Americana (western) culture and traditions.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with that, but doesn't mean you can't celebrate your roots either.


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First things first

Congratulations on re-establishing links to the motherland. If you are African American, that is commendable. Unlike those who have African born parents, you guys have had a far more sustained disconnect from our roots.

I salute you brother.

Tackling the accusation of feeling sorry for myself

I admit that I go through slumps. I feel down; I then brood and then combat the issue. The post a few weeks ago, although negative, had more than a grain of truth. I then thought about the reasons why; got the vitamin D tablets and bounced back more self-assured than ever. A few months back, I made a thread about my feelings of hate on seeing South Asian patients. After the event that happened to me last year, and the rabbit hole of Asian racism became apparent to me, I felt a natural emotion. I acknowledged them and sought to deal with them through use of the forum. I no longer harbour this hatred to South Asian patients.

Wallow?

Despite my parents not teaching me their mother tongues (dad died young and mum worked two jobs). Despite them not taking me to either of their homelands very often (we were very poor). Here I am, at 26, with three passports (one west Indian, one east African), three languages (one African ) and a well-paying job that has transferable skills.

I did this alone.

I got the passports, learnt the languages, got the money and sought out the family members. I worked to earn the money to go to both places more in the last four years than I did in the 20 years prior. I got on a plane. I sought out families-ALONE. Dad died. No biggie. Got on a plane. Knew the language and sought out family members. The same family members, which I’m helping fund their kids educations and business ideas.

Why don’t I leave the west tomorrow?

Simple. I can do more good here than there- currently. Unlike many of the brothers in the UK, I realise the West is a whore. You use it to get what you need (money) and then leave once you’re done. Our parents came to Europe to earn, not to try and fuck white women. Never forget this.

Let me break this down. You have failed in the west if you are not earning good money. Case closed period.

So why did I make the effort to reconnect?

Simple.

Legacy.

Real Game/ real Talk

I have an older brother. He married a white woman and they had two kids. The bitch dumped him, kept the kids and married a white man. He was a player with great game. Now look at his black ass. His “woman” is banging one of her own kind, in his bed, with his kids calling him daddy. Last week, I was treating a 60-year-old black man. Never married, no kids and hadn’t been to his country of ethnic origin in 40 years. He had no father. I’m sure he ran through tonnes of white slags but for what? What did it end in? He is a genetic dead-end.

Let me break this down. You have lost in the game if you did not produce a black family. Case closed. Period.

Brothers. Unlike other ethnic groups, we do not need to worry about physicality. It is undeniable that the negro is the ultimate physical male. Currently the MMA and Boxing heavyweight champions are black. Brothers, when Africa gets the nutrition game on point, the true potential of the Negroid race will be shown to all. Certain countries with huge populations, cannot and can never, ever compete with the raw physicality of us- male or female.

We need to form a positive culture and train the mental. The bling, bling and materialism is a joke. It really is. Worse still. Its not our culture!!!! It’s a toxic, pseudo culture that we as a group are extremely susceptible to due to a lack of a strong, clearly, defined culture. This is why black men marriages fail the most out of any other demographic. Doesn't matter if the wife is white or black.

We need to focus on things that we can leave and TEACH our children. Cultures, language, trades. You know what brothers? Those three things don’t make anyone else wealthier but us! I’m no Hendrix but I’ve been learning the electric guitar for years, not so much for me, but for any children I may have. That should be our mentality, not imitating hip hop dress to gain entry into European night clubs and stank Euro pussy.

The 'Macho' black male

Listen. This whole tough black guy, no emotions, jock mentality is a façade. We have emotions. We feel, and we all have moments of vulnerability. Most of the time emotions, particularly in men, should act as an indicator that something is ‘off.’ But hey, its your life. If you want to go through life, ignoring your feelings and refusing to deal with them. That’s on you.

Conclusion

This next part is not directed at Black Caesar but to any brother this applies to.

I figured this out during college. For me at least, emotions are a driver for change. If you are so sedate, so domesticated, so enslaved that you don’t look at our history and our current state and don’t want to go full Magneto up in this bitch: you are the one with the issue.

Now, please, do not tell me I feel sorry for myself. I feel, yes, but don’t you dare tell me that I wallow in self-pity.




This is real talk by darkknight in black guy game thread.This applies to the brown guys in the west as well in some ways.
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(11-10-2018 01:17 AM)Alpha555 Wrote:  This is real talk by darkknight in black guy game thread.This applies to the brown guys in the west as well in some ways.

should've probably been the first line of this post instead of the last. I thought you had completely lost all your marbles until I trudged through to find this at the very end. Idea

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It is always some newbie taking shots at me for some reason and now for my preferences and kinds of women I get with. Sometimes I wonder if it is the same dude doing it on different accounts or what but this thread is attracting a whole lot of new accounts that get banned fast. But lets get to this type of character because I have known some just like this in real life and it ties back into the point I was making.

I am talking about this overly proud Indian that will give you a lecture on their history, family and culture then try to shame you for living your life the way you want. The type of Indian that will talk about how western women are all whores and how he is taking the high road by not chasing them. To make the matter even worse, the type of Indian who will attack you by calling you a sellout, uncle tom and a host of other names for chasing the women you want and living the life you live.

Its clear as day, these dudes want white girls just as bad if not more than any other kind of Indian guy out there. There is some psychological phenomenon going on here.

I don't know the exact name of it but when someone constantly berates something over and over again yet tries to attack others for going after it, a lot of it is due to a heavy desire for it. It happens when desire meets unattainability, kind of like a crabs in a bucket type of phenomenon.

Now these guys will talk all high and mighty, take the moral high ground and speak about how proud they are of their ancestors. I would normally be all for it but when these dudes start to get aggressive, draw others into their cause and attack you for living the life you want; somethings up. These are the same types of dudes who will burn with envy and rage when they see Kaotic walk into a bar with a pretty looking blonde by his arm, throwing up the whole sellout and not being proud of your roots card.

Unlike the whiners who are transparent enough to let you know they cannot get western women, these guys likely can't either but they take a more devious moral high ground. I think part of it is the mentality of "if I can't have it no one can" so that is why these dudes burn on the inside and attempt to attack you for not being a part of their crew or taking part in their war.

Maybe I've been reading too much Robert Greene, great author by the way.

Anytime any of you find yourself in a situation where someone of your race is forcing you to own up to a certain stereotype or calling you a sellout for acting a certain way, run like hell. Point being some of the shit you've seen in this thread.
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Going off my last post, there is another point of game I wanted to address for Indian guys and most ethnic guys for that matter, handling hypocrisy because you will undoubtedly face it when it comes to game. This is more of post-game tactic as I like to say, as in once you are actually getting attention from women

I know I have gone in circles about this with other forum members but from my own experience and that of many others, there is a double standard in interracial dating. White guys can date and smash whatever sexy girl of whatever race they want in the US, it is socially acceptable. For the most part, it is not as socially acceptable for minorities to get with hot white girls, black guys might be exceptions in some cases but even they face their setbacks.

Expect not only for envious lower value white guys to give you shit but also for hypocritical ethnic women who will drop on both knees for some pink cock to give you shit for it as well. One of my close friends is a Latina and a week ago I met with her and a mutual friend of ours. We talked about celebs we found attractive, she said Tom Hardy, Charlie Hunam and Channing Tatum. I decided to say Hayden Panetierre, Teresa Palmer and Heather Graham.

It isn't that I really find those celebs attractive but I wanted to try to see how she would react. Immediately she looks to me and says "you really like those white girls, what gives? You're saying you'd never date an Indian woman? They're hot". I look right at her and say "you really like those white boys, you're telling me you'd never date a Latino?" in a mocking tone to indirectly call her out on her shit.

You will get shit for your preferences, especially if they involve white women. Its just one of those things thats an old timey prejudice and will take a while to go away. As optimistic as I am about race and dismissing racial handicaps, even I admit that there is a massive double standard in interracial dating that favors white guys.

That is where your frame comes in.

Younger ethnic women in the US, generally speaking, are the biggest hypocrites you will come across. They'll drop to both knees for a Hemsworth brother but then get mad at you for lusting after a hot white girl. You have to have the frame to overcome this double standard, whether the attack is coming from a hateful white guy, a hypocrite ethnic woman or in this situation one of your own brothers trying to box you in and stop you from fulfilling your potential in the game.

If you like Asian girls, go after them and let no one guilt trip you into believing you're just going for submissive women because you can't handle a "real woman".

If you like black girls, go after them and don't let other brown guys tell you about the negative stereotypes.

If you like Indian women or brown women in general, go after them and let no one tell you that you're only doing it because you cannot get girls of other races.

If you like Latinas, go after them aggressively and don't even let guys like me deter you from the idea that most Latinas are hardcore white worshipers.

If you like ethnic women in the west in general, go after them and do not let my posts on this thread saying they are hardcore white worshipers clog your mind, I have had my experiences and others have had theirs.

Last but not least, if you like white women, go after them and do not let a soul guilt trip you into believing your brainwashed or a sellout for wanting some of that pink nipple.

That's the other advice about growing in your beliefs as a man, unapologetically after the kinds of women you want.
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im latino and most hispanic/latino guys also put white women on a pedestal. whenever i run game, my main target are white women. not only indian guys, but all minority guys prefer white women

im from denver and ive seen both american and H-1B IT indian guys do well here with white women

if i see an indian guy (and his group of friends) at a strip club in denver, i automatically assume he has no game lol
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Beer, concise much??

Your posts are way too long bro.

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