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Abundance mentality failure - Possible to exhaust available girls in my city?
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Abundance mentality failure - Possible to exhaust available girls in my city?
I am traveling in SEA at the moment. Being a digital nomad. But I actually want to settle down, stay in one city.

Usually I don't go to the giant capital cities due to traffic and pollution issues. Staying in the second, third biggest cities or so.

Usually I manage to find an FWB with some occasionally side FB or occasionally ONS.

The FWB needs some care. I have the feeling I should meet her at least one or two times a week so I don't loose her. That, and work however makes it difficult to maintain a good relationship with another FWB or FB. There is simply not enough time. Issues to find appointments. One girl blocks the other girl. Almost paradisaical situation.

Therefore I have quite a high "burn rate". Meaning, side girls loose interest in me because I don't give them enough attention and not enough follow up meetings.

The longer I stay however the more I notice seeing the same people over and over in the mostly only one or two clubs where it's easy to pickup girls. Then I see girls I already hooked up with, that are no longer interested in me, or I am no longer interested in them (stay away from drama, crazy) or already know she has a bf or already know she's not interested in me. Also fewer and fewer matches in online gaming. In worst case, I loose my FWB and experience sexual scarcity.

Is the inflow of new girls really so low in second or third biggest cities or is this only an imagined problem?
05-18-2018 04:54 AM
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RE: Abundance mentality failure - Possible to exhaust available girls in my city?
Well every day a few more turn 18....

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05-18-2018 05:00 AM
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RE: Abundance mentality failure - Possible to exhaust available girls in my city?
There are usually thousands of girls in the dateable range but your losing out on a ton of them by only meeting girls at clubs or only using dating apps.
Branch out and try other methods of meeting girls.

Also slow the fuck down. You don't need to fuck everything all at once. Take your time with these girls.

PS. You can't complain about how there's no cookies left if you went an ate all of them a few hours ago.

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05-18-2018 05:30 AM
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RE: Abundance mentality failure - Possible to exhaust available girls in my city?
(05-18-2018 04:54 AM)blum Wrote:  I am traveling in SEA at the moment. Being a digital nomad. But I actually want to settle down, stay in one city.

Usually I don't go to the giant capital cities due to traffic and pollution issues. Staying in the second, third biggest cities or so.

Is the inflow of new girls really so low in second or third biggest cities or is this only an imagined problem?

May I ask which SEA city you are in specifically?

I agree that it is very possible for you to exhaust girls in the bang-able range. But it also varies depending on your city. If you're in a city with the population of Iceland (around 330 000 approx.) it is very possible to exhaust it over the course of a month so I've heard
05-18-2018 05:34 AM
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