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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
(06-30-2018 09:16 PM)Shimmy Wrote:  Ask WhiteKnightRises, guy is king of the beta koreans.

That kind of comes across as insulting. Don't be a douche.

In the west we are overrun by fucking hipsters and soy boys. Our women are fat fucking sluts that have crusaded their way into being able to legally destroy any man they want with no repercussions for dishonesty.

Korean women stay slim and attractive well into late life. They actually cook and clean. They might be materialistic (as are all women), but they lack the raw cunty bitchiness of western women.

I judge a countries men by how the women act. In the West we are so fucking beta that women lead us around by the nose... and we are all trillions in debt paying for their bullshit.

(07-01-2018 07:15 AM)whiteknightrises Wrote:  King of the beta Koreans chiming in
Why do girls like Justin Bieber?
Some girls like pretty boys and a lot of these girls are younger (younger girls tend to like pretty boys more)

I read a Psych study some time back that showed women with self esteem issues find effeminate looking men very attractive. It was a unique trait among women that rated their own appearance as low.

Young teen girls tend to struggle with self esteem. I think it's likely that as they age and gain self esteem they will be less interested in the more effeminate men. Perhaps they find highly masculine looking men to be intimidating?
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
I know the Shimmy guy, he knows I would fuck up his shit IRL ;p

But yea all the Western/white guys wanna talk shit (on the Internet only of course lol) about Korea/Asia

But I don't blame them. The only image people have of Korea at least is North Korea/gay shit like K-pop

As I've said, K-pop is just for export purposes. It's actually partly government-sponsored to get people (e.g. young people/your future) from other countries to like Korea and build Korea's influence that way since Korea can't be a big-time military power or anything like China or USA just due to the country's size. (Think about what USA did with MTV basically)

As for North Korea, it's hilarious watching people e.g. from America debate ad nauseum about North Korea this and that when no one in Korea gives a shit about North Korea lmao. Your leaders just want you to have something to occupy your little heads with to take your mind off the real issues. Nothing is going to happen (war, reunification, etc).

Korea is very different from what you guys see

But yea the West is disgusting in its current state. Beyond the point of salvation (hence why I don't live there or plan to live there)

(07-02-2018 11:22 AM)EndsExpect Wrote:  I read a Psych study...

Man I understand this is a "game" forum and people who find this stuff find it for a reason, but people here need to think less. Reading psych studies (written by losers) is all BS that will not get you laid

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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
(07-02-2018 04:45 AM)Lordleon Wrote:  But coming back to your question, I'd say it's more a "value" or "fame" attraction than a physical one maybe you've seen girls saying how hot is this kpop idol or how hot is this one... Idk, just think that girls don't know what they're attracted to. I met this girl who's into cute korean boys and wants to date them but she's kinky as fuck and likes to be dominated... so yeah.
They can say they want a flowerboy like in kpop to date but meanwhile they're fucking a macho. So don't pay attention to this.

Yeah but whenever girls I know saw the kpop videos for the first time and weren't a fangirl they'd often remark that the dancers were "cute" or "good looking." I wouldn't even ask ask, girls would just say that so supposedly girls find these guys to be physically attractive in some way. Of course they can still want a dominant guy. I knew a girl who liked the feminine k-pop aesthetic look but wanted a masculine personality. Girls are all over the place these days.
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(07-03-2018 12:24 AM)whiteknightrises Wrote:  I know the Shimmy guy, he knows I would fuck up his shit IRL ;p
But yea all the Western/white guys wanna talk shit (on the Internet only of course lol) about Korea/Asia
But I don't blame them. The only image people have of Korea at least is North Korea/gay shit like K-pop
As I've said, K-pop is just for export purposes. It's actually partly government-sponsored to get people (e.g. young people/your future) from other countries to like Korea and build Korea's influence that way since Korea can't be a big-time military power or anything like China or USA just due to the country's size. (Think about what USA did with MTV basically)
As for North Korea, it's hilarious watching people e.g. from America debate ad nauseum about North Korea this and that when no one in Korea gives a shit about North Korea lmao. Your leaders just want you to have something to occupy your little heads with to take your mind off the real issues. Nothing is going to happen (war, reunification, etc).
Korea is very different from what you guys see
But yea the West is disgusting in its current state. Beyond the point of salvation (hence why I don't live there or plan to live there)
(07-02-2018 11:22 AM)EndsExpect Wrote:  I read a Psych study...
Man I understand this is a "game" forum and people who find this stuff find it for a reason, but people here need to think less. Reading psych studies (written by losers) is all BS that will not get you laid

I've been to South Korea a couple times. Dated a Korean woman for a year or two. I've got a pretty good outsiders understanding of the culture.

Korea and this goes to China influenced Asian countries in general... they have an almost different kind of Alpha. It's hallmark is a quiet self confidence and a combination of competence and intellect. This used to be very common in America in my grandfathers generation.

Today I see what passes for Millennial Alphas in the US. They do have flash and "Swagga", but most are dumb as a post and completely incompetent... unable to either care for or support children. Post-Modern Feminism has destroyed masculinity to the point where it now exists in the West as a facade.

I will also say this about Korean guys. They have standards and expect things of women. I thought long and hard about what men expect from women here in the west and the only thing I can see is beauty. In the west we don't care if she is a shit mom, or a poor housekeeper, or has a great career, or no career... the only expectation we have for women is that they look good. Fuck most guys don't even expect them to be faithful anymore.

As for Psych studies. Sometimes they are bullshit, sometimes not. Game should be both something grounded in science and something experienced though feelings. So, reading the studies should never be an issue as long as it's conclusions can be seen in the field.

Young girls do in fact like effeminate looking men. For some this lasts forever, and others it fades with age. There must be a scientific explanation for this occurrence.
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Quote:There must be a scientific explanation for this occurrence.

It's called peacocking on top of being rich and famous. The idea comes from a book called the game, maybe you have heard of it?

It's also called facial symmetry, good grooming, preselection, wearing clothes that cost most people's monthly salary, etc.

Fuck this shit is so basictard
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(07-03-2018 01:23 AM)CaptainChardonnay Wrote:  
Quote:There must be a scientific explanation for this occurrence.
It's called peacocking on top of being rich and famous. The idea comes from a book called the game, maybe you have heard of it?
It's also called facial symmetry, good grooming, preselection, wearing clothes that cost most people's monthly salary, etc.
Fuck this shit is so basictard

Don't be obtuse. Looking effeminate is not peacocking as described by Strauss.

It's well documented that younger women prefer less masculine faces. Why?
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I think the effeminate thing is a red herring. Look at the body structure of the men. Do they move with confidence? Do they have narrow waists and (relatively) broad shoulders? In other words, are they masculine men with an effeminate veneer put over them (haircuts, makeup, etc)? Women see through the veneer and ignore it for the alpha goods underneath. We men see the veneer and rarely think to look further. I found this out one day when I asked my wife how on earth she EVER thought those effeminate rock groups were attractive. She literally didn't see the effeminacy as anything important; she was seeing the fundamentals. Bone structure. Courage. Confidence. Etc.

I think the effeminate rock star thing is not even a red herring; I think the stage managers and promoters and media barons are doing it deliberately to push the transgender agenda; when men see the "effeminate" looking rock stars, they are more likely to imitate the look, etc, because men and women tune into and see different things, the men so distracted by the offensive effeminacy they don't see what the women see (unless someone points it out)
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(07-03-2018 02:00 AM)TheMost Wrote:  I think the effeminate thing is a red herring. Look at the body structure of the men. Do they move with confidence? Do they have narrow waists and (relatively) broad shoulders? In other words, are they masculine men with an effeminate veneer put over them (haircuts, makeup, etc)? Women see through the veneer and ignore it for the alpha goods underneath.

Good to know! Now I know I can slap on my favourite foundation and that vermillion Dior lipstick I got at a bargain price at a Sephora. Ah, I forgot to add about the silver-matte earrings, I can try them on, they will match with my pink jumper and a denim skirt, good for wearing when it's hot. After all, it doesn't matter, the alpha goods are underneath and I can hit the streets and approach girls with even more success Banana

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(07-03-2018 01:36 AM)EndsExpect Wrote:  
(07-03-2018 01:23 AM)CaptainChardonnay Wrote:  
Quote:There must be a scientific explanation for this occurrence.
It's called peacocking on top of being rich and famous. The idea comes from a book called the game, maybe you have heard of it?
It's also called facial symmetry, good grooming, preselection, wearing clothes that cost most people's monthly salary, etc.
Fuck this shit is so basictard

Don't be obtuse. Looking effeminate is not peacocking as described by Strauss.

It's well documented that younger women prefer less masculine faces. Why?

Because their peers look more feminine in comparison with older men. Also some younger girls are attracted to more mature masculine men but they're intimidated by them at the same time. Their peers seem safer and less threatening to them, and they don't feel they have to compete with more experienced women.
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They have to otherwise the race would die.

Lucky they're not into hairy chests!
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(06-30-2018 08:31 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:  Musicians have always had enough juice to break the rules in the modern world.

Correct - that is the main explanation - they dress, act like famous pop-stars. Fame is the ultimate power - even if you dress like an effeminate punk-rocker in the past.

Even when all the men dressed like crazy pooftas in the past - in addition even acting like that:

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- even then did it not mean that women were not able to see through the lipstick and recognize the Alpha men.

With k-pop it's truly just fame assimilation even if you are not famous, a form of peacocking that works on some girls. When everyone dresses like a k-pop star, then you would have the guy with a muscle shirt and jeans pop out.


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That leaves us Arabs and Indians as the only ones without positive stereotypes.

These damn refugees better start making some rap songs soon

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(07-03-2018 02:00 AM)TheMost Wrote:  I think the effeminate thing is a red herring. Look at the body structure of the men. Do they move with confidence? Do they have narrow waists and (relatively) broad shoulders? In other words, are they masculine men with an effeminate veneer put over them (haircuts, makeup, etc)? Women see through the veneer and ignore it for the alpha goods underneath. We men see the veneer and rarely think to look further. I found this out one day when I asked my wife how on earth she EVER thought those effeminate rock groups were attractive. She literally didn't see the effeminacy as anything important; she was seeing the fundamentals. Bone structure. Courage. Confidence. Etc.

I think the effeminate rock star thing is not even a red herring; I think the stage managers and promoters and media barons are doing it deliberately to push the transgender agenda; when men see the "effeminate" looking rock stars, they are more likely to imitate the look, etc, because men and women tune into and see different things, the men so distracted by the offensive effeminacy they don't see what the women see (unless someone points it out)

This is spot on (except I don't think there is any agenda being pushed - you can find effeminate guys being considered desirable as far back as Ancient Greece), guys who really got this type of look down tend to be very confident and carry themselves as such.

In some replies to this thread I sense a lot of insecurity and defensiveness - if not also a bit of jealousy (not least in the thread title itself). No these guys are not gay, no, not every girl who likes them has mental issues and no, admitting that they represent one of several legitimate facets of male attractiveness (which, again stretches back to the beginning of history) doesn't make you gay or inferior to them.

Just in the same way that some guys like girls with big asses while others prefer skinny Asian girls, women are also into different types of men, and their preferences are not necessarily mutually exclusive. It's really not that complicated.

To clarify I'm talking about the general vaguely boyish/feminine look that is popular in Asia, not the extreme end of the spectrum with full make up and bizarre clothes to match.
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
Cause the songs are catchy as hell bro. They are like the Marvel of Asian pop.

But seriously, I don't really follow it closely. Just listen to some songs when it comes up & check out those carbon-copy Grade A K-girl legs.

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Also, women are solipsistic; if the man has the alpha fundamentals, making the woman "look in the mirror" when looking at him will spin her hamster.

The rock group I had in mind when I asked the wife about what she saw in them, was the Doors, from back in the 1970's. I find them irritatingly effeminate in appearance, but their movements and bone structure are quite alpha.
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As a mildly feminine looking Asian guy I cannot wait for the K pop phenomenon to hit it big here.
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I was surprised to see that even some girls in Bulgaria liked these feminine asian guys... but guess what?

They were all friends of my sister, like 15 years old... so basically this is teenage stuff, that they will forget about them when they turn 17 or 18 years old.
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(07-03-2018 07:35 AM)atlant Wrote:  In some replies to this thread I sense a lot of insecurity and defensiveness - if not also a bit of jealousy (not least in the thread title itself). No these guys are not gay, no, not every girl who likes them has mental issues and no, admitting that they represent one of several legitimate facets of male attractiveness (which, again stretches back to the beginning of history) doesn't make you gay or inferior to them.

I too detect some hating. The funny thing is many guys who hate on the K-pop idols are the same ones who read the Game look up to Mystery even though he paints his fingernails, wears feather boas and makeup. But none of them called it feminine since he labels it "peacocking" and thus a good idea to mimic him.
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"Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?"
Well, just due to propaganda and conformism.
A girl see all their friends praising k-pop guys, and she starts too.

Anyway, this is good for Asian guy.
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Girls are driven by emotions and not by physical traits. The Beattles weren't good looking but made girls go crazy with their music. Even if a dude is ugly, if he can understand "emotional escalation and emotional dominance" then he can convince any girl to date him.
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Looks dont matter

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(07-26-2018 08:12 AM)whiteknightrises Wrote:  Looks dont matter

Just study "game"

Sorry, buddy. They do matter.
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(07-28-2018 03:47 PM)The Stronger Sex Wrote:  
(07-26-2018 08:12 AM)whiteknightrises Wrote:  Looks dont matter

Just study "game"

Sorry, buddy. They do matter.

Isn't the whole point of game/pickup is to help unattractive guys date women?
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You guys have it all wrong, Looks don't matter, game doesn't matter, what matters is the size of your schlong.
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
This is not new...
Asian guys not just Korean knew this look is popular with girls, check out Korean and Japanese popstars in 90s and even 80s.
But to pull it off you need to be otherwise handsome, not just cake in makeup.
Height matters too. This is a youthful look that many Asian guys want to achieve in their 20s, youthful, fresh, with money, stylish

But I don't see it as a feminine look.
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