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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
Feminism is a western creation. So is pop.

Asian countries have just been trying to get in on it.

Just like feminism it just ruins the culture it supposedly represents in the place of better music.

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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
Here's are some videos of some American girls rating and analyzing what makes certain K-pop and K-drama movie stars attractive. Generally the guys aren't masculine looking but are more like fashionable pretty boys. Basically it's better I think to exude some kind of image that makes women in any culture feel something than to be safe and bland. Even the pretty boy thing can be appealing to girls if done right.











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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
I think women just want a man that can look good and put effort in his appearanche. The hipster look for skinny guys is popular. Women are influenced by MTV and pop culture and the singers aren't exactly steroid freaks. Actors aren't steroid freaks unless they are action stars, and women don't really watch action movies. Women also want men that can look safe and not scary. They don't want big fat men that can squash them.
03-12-2019 01:50 PM
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
K-pop is the best thing that have happened to us Asian guys. It gave us a good style that fits us and that girls dig. Similar to how the American hip-hip style works for them. Girls that like American hip-hop usually also like black guys and girls who like K-pop or Asian stuff in general also like Asian guys. Simple as that. This year has been an explosion of hot white girls wanting to get Asian guys. I'm a handsome Asian guy that has adapted and got a pretty boy look and I'm extremely popular with these girls. Like a playground. Like stealing candy from a baby.
Btw this style is not gay, maybe some things like the hair colours and makeup. But other than that it's ok. Just put your masculine version of it. The reason girls like the K-pop style is because they look handsome, just that simple. No homo but those guys are quite good looking. Girls like good looking guys, and a good looking guy usually looks lightly feminine. Remember Jack from Titanic?
03-12-2019 05:11 PM
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
^ How is K pop style not gay?

Is this the popular group right now? They all look like faggots, hot white girls wanting them? Maybe because they are famous/rich or some geeky chick that is into asian culture, the average Sungwoo Starcraft looking like that isn't turning heads walking down the street.

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03-13-2019 01:42 AM
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
Um, most don't? K-Pop is still really niche in most parts of the world. East Asia is hardly the world. The average American, European, African or Latino could not name a single Korean band or celebrity, I'm not exaggerating.

Even in East Asia you're going to get further looking more masculine than feminine, but of course there is a market for people who have the pseudo girly look down - but for the most part girls find K-Pop guys hot because they're famous and handsome, if a nobody dresses like a lot of those k-pop guys they're not going to be drowning in pussy even in Asia.
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03-13-2019 04:59 AM
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
(03-12-2019 05:11 PM)Tall_asian_guy Wrote:  K-pop is the best thing that have happened to us Asian guys. It gave us a good style that fits us and that girls dig. Similar to how the American hip-hip style works for them. Girls that like American hip-hop usually also like black guys and girls who like K-pop or Asian stuff in general also like Asian guys. Simple as that. This year has been an explosion of hot white girls wanting to get Asian guys. I'm a handsome Asian guy that has adapted and got a pretty boy look and I'm extremely popular with these girls. Like a playground. Like stealing candy from a baby.
Btw this style is not gay, maybe some things like the hair colours and makeup. But other than that it's ok. Just put your masculine version of it. The reason girls like the K-pop style is because they look handsome, just that simple. No homo but those guys are quite good looking. Girls like good looking guys, and a good looking guy usually looks lightly feminine. Remember Jack from Titanic?
I'm happy for you Asian guys.

I do feel that media hasn't done any favours for Asian men.
03-13-2019 05:06 AM
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
(03-13-2019 01:42 AM)Sidney Crosby Wrote:  ^ How is K pop style not gay?

Is this the popular group right now? They all look like faggots, hot white girls wanting them? Maybe because they are famous/rich or some geeky chick that is into asian culture, the average Sungwoo Starcraft looking like that isn't turning heads walking down the street.

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Of course a normal guy dressing like a K-pop guy doesn't fit in normal life. However if a handsome Asian guy has more normal clothes and style that is more masculine he will be quite popular amongst white girls that like K-pop, even among hot white girls.
03-13-2019 05:41 AM
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
(06-30-2018 07:37 PM)dontuan Wrote:  So the common assumption is that girls are attracted to masculine men and masculine qualities. But some recent experiences with eastern European girls who are love k-pop groups and the singers makes me wonder why these girls are into men with such feminine traits.

I mean these k-pop singers have soft skin, baby faces, no facial hair, very skinny, overtly metrosexual fashion and some even wear makeup. But it drives these girls wild and they dream and worship these guys like sex idols.

What's crazy is that the k-pop phenomenon is raising in popularity in many countries and more and more girls are into it. Also K-dramas are getting popular too where the dudes are super beta and even get emotional and cry. What's the explanation? Doesn't this contradict the assumption that women desire masculine traits and being attractive mean't being more masculine?

i dont know why but these korean men do know how to dress and present themself. Also I am totally exploiting this in Asia lol. I am going to korea next where most white girls / non asian girls there have yellow fever and some are stunning! easily 8s 9s.
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03-13-2019 06:39 AM
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
Totally agree! Teenage girls fall for cute guys. It has always been like that. But still, I think the gender norms are changing.
03-15-2019 03:59 AM
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
Ive been to most parts of Asia ( Korea included), and i dont ever see these k-pop looking queers pulling. Even in VN where I'm at now, theres loads of korean tourists/expats - but the women prefer locals or white guys. The game ive seen from Korean guys in nightclubs is pretty cringe too. Most seem to just do p4p.
03-15-2019 12:52 PM
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
(03-15-2019 12:52 PM)Trumpian Wrote:  Ive been to most parts of Asia ( Korea included), and i dont ever see these k-pop looking queers pulling. Even in VN where I'm at now, theres loads of korean tourists/expats - but the women prefer locals or white guys. The game ive seen from Korean guys in nightclubs is pretty cringe too. Most seem to just do p4p.

I lived in Korea for 3 years, Korean guys pull much higher quantity/quality than 90% foreigners fwiw. Don't know where you went but the clubs there are a playground for one nighters.

But the ones who go to VN/PH/TH are almost always there for P4P.
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
My experience with Korean guys is that they are definitely weird, but for sure not betas. They do look a bit feminine and have strange habbits but they also style themselves in a feminine-also masculine way, do have a good humour and know how to pull girls - at least Asian ones. They seem to be the most famous race amongst Asians, same applies to girls, especially Chinese who love this K-pop (which is the most ridicolous thing Ive ever seen or listened to if you ask me). They also have a second preference in culture, which is for instance in music extremely slow and boring ballads. You would hardly even consider this as music for under 50s, but yet they are serious with it.
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
@rungoodinc In Korea, yes. Locals do better than foreigners EVERYWHERE. In Korea, thats magnified by korean guys being notorious cock hlockers and slut shaming women who date foreigners.

I'm saying the k-pop fever around the rest of asia doesnt translate into bangs.

At the end of the day, women prefer men..who look like men.
03-16-2019 06:03 AM
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
Who cares really? If that's not your style, then find girls who like your style. Throwing shade at Asian guys for having a niche that they can capitalize on seems like some sour-grapes shit.
03-16-2019 06:08 AM
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RE: Why do girls like feminine k-pop guys?
(03-16-2019 06:03 AM)Trumpian Wrote:  @rungoodinc In Korea, yes. Locals do better than foreigners EVERYWHERE. In Korea, thats magnified by korean guys being notorious cock hlockers and slut shaming women who date foreigners.

I'm saying the k-pop fever around the rest of asia doesnt translate into bangs.

At the end of the day, women prefer men..who look like men.

I don't think that's accurate either. A lot of the Jap and Chinese girls are about that style, for whatever reason. But if you are in SEA I can see how your view of Koreans would be skewed as the Korean dudes who go there are mainly whore mongers.
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